number of people’ Also known as ‘greatest happiness principle’ or the principle of utility. • Hedonism. - First sector that attempt measured - It focuses on pleasure as the basic happiness, creating a tool with 7 component of good life. categories assessing the quantity - Belief is the pursuit of wellbeing is experienced of happiness. fundamentally pursuit of individual sensual pleasures and avoidance of • William James harm, pain and suffering. - Founder of American Psychology - Came the first significant • The Early Hebrews development in the search for well- - Happiness is found by living in being early in the 20th century. accord with the commands or rules set down by a Supreme Being. • Humanistic Psychology - If you follow the commands there is - Imperative paradigm to research rewards but if you don’t follow human thought, behavior, and commands there is punishment. experience, adding holistic dimensions to Psychology. • Greeks - Focus on mental health, specifically - Introduced that good life and the positive attributes such as happiness, proper path to happiness could be contentment, kindness, sharing and discerned through logic and rational generosity. analysis. - Views life as a process, with all - Socrates taught that true happiness humans beholding innate drive for could be achieved through self- growth and fulfillment of potentials. knowledge (true wisdom) - Plato taught that happiness or good MODULE 2- Understanding Emotions life involves looking beyond sensory experiences toward a deeper • Emotion (Peterson) – is a meaning to life. psychological state defined by - Aristotle introduced the virtue subjective feelings but also theory of happiness which holds characteristic patterns of cultivation and development of psychological arousal, thought, and certain values that can lead a person behaviors. towards the greatest well-being. • Emotion (Oatley) – a conscious - Epicureans asserts that happiness is mental state with recognizable quality best achieved by withdrawing from of feeling and directed towards some the world of politics to cultivate a object, recognizable expressions of quiet existence of simple pleasures. the face, tone of voice, and gestures. • Feelings- are generated from our • Utilitarianism thoughts and how we will interpret - Created by Jeremy Bentham and emotions and let them sink in. carried on by John Stuart Mill - Argued that the right of act or policy from govt. which will cause ‘the • Moods- free floating objectless, more • Ventral Tegmental Area- key long lasting and occupy the area of the dopamine, it is where background of consciousness. it came from. - Tends to be less intense than • Nucleus accumbens: emotions and do not necessarily triggers depend on a event. component of the brain that is • Components of Emotion very important player in the - Biological factors is when reward system of the brain. It is neurotransmitters and hormones are part of the limbic system, where released in our mind. the pleasure centre as it holds - Mental or Cognitive is how we the highest concentration of interpret or appraise and give dopamine neurotransmitters. meaning to an event affect how we • Neurotransmitters has feel. This how we think about a suggested that the brain make its certain situation own version of - Behavioral factor this how we act influences how we feel tetrahydrocannanibols or - Social and cultural factors this is THC which is active ingredient how we experience or influence in marijuana. The hormone emotions by social situations. oxytocin or the ‘love hormone’. - Affectivity is an extent to which an • Orbital frontal cortex: this is individual experiences the area of the brain where positive/negative moods. decisions are made. - Positive affect is positive emotions • Our brain is divided into two such as joy, confidence, contentment systems - the approach system and happiness - Negative affect is the extent to which (positive affect) and the someone experiences feelings such as avoidance system (negative sadness or fear. affect) - Affective Style is a broad range of • BAS- Behavioral Activation individual differences in which System, more sensitive and parameters of emotional reactivity responsive to incentives include threshold to respond, the rise resulting in extraverted and time to peak in the response, recovery impulsiveness. function and the duration of response. • BIS- Behavioral Inhibition • Reward system- responsible for System, more sensitive and inducing pleasure. responsive to threats, resulting • Pleasure system- recognizes in anxiety. what person is doing good, and gives him/her good • Dopamine- main key to neurotransmitter involve in • Positive Emotions pleasure centre. High dopamine 1. Live a satisfying and productive life low serotonin. 2. Fight terrible social and - Negative emotion will hinder to personal costs of pressing social achieve your goals and less to problems gain your determination to that. 3. Contribute to positive outcomes - Positive affect have faster in life progress toward future success
Theory of Positive Emotion • The Power of Positivity Ratio
1. Broaden and Build Theory of - It said that ppl who experience Positive Emotions positive emotions can also feel • Broadening Effect sadness and anxiety, just anyone • Minds tend to open up and able else. to think “outside of the box” - Positive attenuation- essential • Becoming more creative and in protecting against depressive enhanced verbal creativity tasks. symptoms. • Building Effect - Resilient individuals- unique - Build personal resources we dip ability to maintain and regulate into positive emotions - Intellectual resources (solving, - Optimal ratio of positive and being open to learning) negative 3:1 - Physical resources (health) - Dysphoric individuals and - Social resources (maintain non dysphoric individuals- relationship with others) Dysphoric individuals have a - Psychological resources (goal stronger tendency to identify orientation, optimism, resilience sadness and fear when mixed and sense of identity) with happiness than non- • Undoing effect- positive dysphoric individuals. emotions can quell or undo cardiovascular after-effects of Personality and Positive Emotions negativity. • Conscientiousness- high tends • Experience-Broaden-Build- to have high levels of grit while Transform low tends to be inattentive, idle, unsystematic and unreliable. Emotions, goals, and discrepancy • Neuroticism- high tends to Theory experience anxiety, low tends to - Discrepancy loop- trying to be more calm minimize the distance of our • Openness to experience- high behavior and goals tends to be artistic, low tends to - Reference value- our goal, large be uncreative or small, physical or mental. • Extraversion- high tends to be - In discrepancy we will adjust our more sociable, low tends to be behavior to achieve a certain introvert or shy goal • Agreeableness- high tends to be success better than traditional IQ compassionate, pleasant while (Goleman, 1996). low tends to be untrusting.
Smiling and Positive Emotions Module 3- Happiness and
• Duchene Smile- genuine Subjective Well-Being Across happiness/positive emotion Nations • When you smile it do can track if your faking it or not Part 1 • Happiness refers to the Emotional Intelligence attainment of subjective well- • EI- ability to monitor one’s own being. and others’ feelings and - It is described according to emotions. Hedonic concepts (pleasure seeking) Four Stages of EI • Subjective Wellbeing 1. Perceiving Emotion- ability to encompasses how people recognize emotions either evaluate their own lives in terms yourself or others of affective and cognitive 2. Using Emotions- refers to the components. ability to use emotions to • SWB = satisfaction with facilitate your mood. life+high positive affect+ low 3. Understanding Emotions- negative affect. ability to understand what kind • Life satisfaction encompasses of emotion and causes why you the cognitive component if are experiencing this happiness which is how 4. Managing emotion- ability to individuals rate the way their life manage, self-regulate turned out to be. • Higher levels of SWB tend to • Daniel Goleman defined El as demonstrate higher levels of 'the ability to adaptively creativity, optimism, and perceive, understand, systematic but lower levels of regulate, and harness SWB may experience negative emotions in the self and effects on behaviors or traits. others' (Goleman, 1996; Schutte • Gallup World Poll- most widely et al., 2002) known global wellbeing poll, • El mixed models view El as a which boasts data from over 98 combination of perceived percent of the world’s emotional skills and personality. population El matters because of its ability • Five Essential Elements for to predict academic, overall wellbeing occupational and relationship 1. Career Wellbeing- this human rights, democracy, represents where you literacy and longer life. spend most of your time - Countries with higher income during the day tend to have more 2. Social wellbeing- competitiveness, more represents the materialism, and less time for relationship and socializing and leisure. experiences of love - Income is collerated with 3. Financial wellbeing- happiness in men, not in how you manage your women and low personal financial situation income is related to 4. Physical wellbeing- depression for husbands not ability to have good health in wife. and energy - Low income is related to 5. Community Wellbeing- depression for single but not represents your role and married women. participation within the community you live in. ➢ Relationships and SWB • People who interact on a daily • Foresight Report- indicates basis with happy people, in that there are five ways to small, large, direct or indirect wellbeing. networks are happiers. 1. Connect- socialize, build • Social relationships are connections with people greatest predictors and around us. facilitators of SWB. 2. Be Active- find an activity that will fits you. ➢ Marriage and SWB 3. Take notice • After the initial one year 4. Keep Learning – enhance ‘honeymoon phase’ indivuals your level of wellbeing return to ther previous levels of 5. Give SWB. Caveat couples who • Happiest Country in Earth is cohabit tends to less satisfaction Norway that couples who are married. • Unhappiest Country in Earth is • Relationships between children Central African Republic and marital satisfaction are curvlinear, high levels at the • What makes us happy? marriage ceremony, dropping ➢ Income and SWB – Income low at the birth of first child, may incfluence wellbeing continued drop because of because wealthier nations childhood and adolescence and appear to have equality, then returning to higher levels after the children became independent. Theories of Wellbeing 4. Work/Employement and • Dynamic Equilibrium Theory SWB - This theory states that - The 58% of women who were personality determines baseline not in employment would like to levels of emotional responses hold jobs that involved paid events may affect us in the short work and 41% would like to be term however over time we able to both hold an paid job and eventually revert to our genetic care for their families set point. - When perceiving a job as a way - According to Sonja to progress forward and they Lyubomirsky the determining are focused on the extrinsic factors of happiness is in reward that can come with disproportion: 10% caused by progressing in their career is environment 40% caused by called career orientation. things that you do and 50% - Calling orientation is when a caused by genetics worker is immersed healthily - Epigenetics is the area of in what they do they do the job biological research that looks at not for the money or the fame the casual interaction between but because they believe it is genes and the environment. worthy in its own right. • Adaptation Theory - You might stand to have a ➢ Health and SWB natural happiness or set point - People who experience higher which following good and or bad levels of positive emotions are news/events we tend to revert protected from various illnesses back to after approximately 3 including heart disease. months - When someone has a violent levels - Hedonic adaptation theory is of positive emotions and optimism linked to ‘zero-sum theory’ their health can be positively which posits that happy periods influenced research shows quite in our life are inevitably followed simply that happier people live by negative periods which longer. cancel each other out. - Natural happiness is what we ➢ Religion and SWB feel when we get what we want - People who report themselves however synthetic happiness as being spiritual or religious is what we make when we don't tend to report slightly higher get what we want. levels of well-being in addition • Discrepancy Theory to higher scores on hope and - This model those at that optimism. subjective will be in is primarily a function of comparison picture when going through process. daily life both the good and the - With social comparison we can bad. compare our situation - I is interpretation refers to our attractiveness and wealth to tendency to put together a story others either in an upward or when all the facts are not yet downward spiral presented. - Social comparison is only - There are a six being detrimental if you use it to destructive thinking patterns negatively evaluate yourself that we tend to default to and or downward with others. interpret interpreting events: - Freedom of choice has now - Awfulizing exaggerating a been replaced with the tyranny negative event or a person of freedom where more choice beyond what is objectively true. isn't necessarily a good thing. - Distress intolerance - Linked to discrepancy theory perception that individuals is the paradox of choice it is adopt that tells them that they cited that as nation become will not be able to recover or richer and consumers become withstand potentially traumatic more demanding our world is events packed with choice alternatives - Learned helplessness this one and violations to most people adopt a mental mentality everything for sale. that they have no control over - Satisficers are individuals who their negative situation and give are able to choose items that upz meet their minimum criteria and - Perfectionsim individuals who go for what's good enough while use this type to fixate on the maximizers on our individuals minute details and only accept who fixate on searching for all excellence the possible options and look for - Negative self-fulfilling the best possible choice. expectancies phenomenon of • Goal Theories eliciting negative responses - This theory explains that when from others via a person's we are committed to a set of previous communication with goals it provides us a sense of others personal agency and a sense of - Rejection goggles this is when structure and meaning to daily people identify and fixate on life in achieving our goal. rejection even when it may not - We tend to use the aim approach exist in the situation. where - M is memory Relates to the - A is Attention refers to our large body of research showing ability to look at the entire that they're calling and favoring past positive events and absorption engagement experiences leads to enhanced and flow. well-being. 3. Meaningful life is when one uses one’s strength in Part 2: Eudaimonic Well-being the service of something • Eudaimonia is fullfilling or greater than oneself. realizing one’s daimon or true • Flow is the indent experiential nature. involvement in moment to • Eudaimonic wellbeing moment activity which can be proposes that true happiness is either physical or mental. found in the expression of virtue • Flow has direct ties with and doing what is worth doing. consciousness and psychic • Realization of human potential energy where it is positive that is an ultimate goal (Aristotle). when people feel psychic Pursue happiness through entropy they will experience prudence (John Locke) and self- depression and stress. discipline (Epicurus). • Psychological Wellbeing • Conditions to facilitate flow - According to Ryff and Keyes experiences (2006) and Ryff and Singer the - Structured activity with clear concept of PWB consists of 6 goals and immediate feedback. components; self acceptance, - Balance of challenges versus personal growth, purpose in life, skills. positive relations with others , - Complete concentration environmental mastery , and (merging of action and autonomy. awareness). - SWB and PWB are two - Sense of control correlated but distinct factors - The transformation of time and that they show a different - Activity for the sake of activity. pattern of relationships to demographic and personality • What are the activities that we variables. can do to experience flow? • What is Authetic Happiness? - Activities that tend to inhibit - According to Seligman (2002 ) flow and (induce apathy and there are three routes to boredom) include housework happiness; watching TV and being idle. 1. Pleasant life is when we experience high levels of • Importance of Meaning and positive emotions and Purpose in Life (Third Route gratification. of Happiness) 2. Good life is when we - Victor Frankl’s concept of will experience constant to meaning proposed 3 benefits of living a meaningful life - Pursuing happiness may not be including: creative, the aim of life however exponentia, and attitudinal existential psychologists think value. that we're pursuing meaning - MacGregor and Little (1988) and authenticity one will concluded that the concept of eventually achieve happiness. well-being should be regarded • Death and Positive Psychology as consisting of two elements - Death is the most feared which are happiness and concept in human existence yet meaning. it is a potential ave. for growth • Self-determination Theory and development. - Three basic psychological needs - By embracing that we can live which must be made to attain more authentically thereby psychological wellbeing. enhancing the likelihood of self - Autonomy The tendency to self actualization. regulate ones behavior in - Three things stink attitudes accordance with personal toward death volition it is also the tendency to 1. Neutral Death risk coercion pressure and Acceptance, When one control. accepts that death is a - Competence the tendency to be part of life and attempts to interested and open to seek live life to the fullest. learning mastery opportunities. 2. Approach acceptance - Relatedness The tendency to when one accepts that feel connection and caring with there is a an afterlife that group members. will be pleasurable • Existential Psychology and 3. Escape acceptance which Positive Psychology precedes death as the - Existential psychology focuses preferable option to a on human existence and the miserable life. human drama of survival and • Management Theory flourishing. - This theory suggests that there - both existential and positive is an innate biological need to psychology focus on the same survive and deals with the fundamental questions– what is management of the evolutionary a good life and what makes life cognitive realization of worth living? inevitable death. - Happiness is a process not an - The mortality salience end result on going and there's hypothesis suggests that when sort of foregoing self-interest people are reminded of the and serving something higher inevitably of death their than the self. worldview defense strengthens and they seek to conform to the the person is more likely to accepted beliefs and behaviors act. of their culture. • Attribution style also known as - A dramatic and life threatening explanatory style is the second it event paired with lifelong refers to the way in which one reminder of a person close explained the causes and encounter with death creates A influences of previous positive mortality salient environment. and negative events in order to create expectancy about the Module 4: Optimism and Hope future • Optimism is a Velcro • The pessimists explain construct which means that negative events by inferring there are other contracts that internal stable or global causes are related to it including while optimists adopt unstable happiness health and external and specific achievement. explanation for bad events. • Optimism was thought of • Attributional style recognizes naivety or a superficial denial optimism as a learned skill and of suffering. not a stable personality trait. • Dispositional optimism is a • The key to lend optimism is said stable personality trait correct to be through reframing relating to generalized outcome cognitive reframing also known expectancy. as cognitive restructuring is the • Self-regulatory model which process by which situations or states that all human activity is thoughts are challenged and based on gold and that in order then change to reach our goals we need to • Learning optimism as ABC‘s regulate our actions and - Adversity is the straight non behavior. judgmental facts of situations • Expectancy is the most crucial involves asking questions that element as it has a direct link start with who, what, when, and with expectancy value theories where. of motivation which posit that - Belief is your immediate all behavior is a result of a patterned belief. Next is to person desires to obtain their identify your negative thoughts values or goals. identify your negative thoughts. • Confidence is the second - Consequence- Are your feelings component which is highly and behaviors related to this influential on optimism it is belief. noted that if confidence is high • The benefits of optimism are the goal can be achieved and improved health but evaluation and performance and career of self esteem perceived success self esteem as a function • Unrealistic optimism or to shelter people from wishful thinking as other may deeply rooted anxiety call it is all about the person who inherited in the human illustrated he not clear picture of condition. his situation. • Hope theory is defined as the • Optimism and locus of control determination to achieve goals this is the belief that you can take plus the belief that many an active role in controlling pathways can be generated. things like exam results work Hope as a positive motivational performance and your state that is based on an environment in general. Hetch interactively derived sense of claims that those with an successful (a) agency go directed external locus of control tend to energy and (b) pathways feel helpless about changing planning to meet goals. their relationships lives and so • Agency is the belief that one can forth begin and sustain movement • Defensive pessimism is the along the envision pathway to ability to take off and plan for the work a given goal pathways worst case scenario of a thinking reflects an individual's situation hence defensive perceived ability to formulate pessimists like to be prepared plausible goal routes. and cover all angles. It is a • Hope theory can be cognitive strategy to set low subdivided into four expectations for upcoming categories performance despite having 1. Goals- That are valuable performed well in previous and uncertain are similar situation. described as the anchors • Three selves in optimism of hope theory as they 1. Self-confidence provide direction and an 2. Self-Efficacy endpoint for hopeful 3. Self Esteem thinking. • Two Models of Self-Esteem 2. Pathway thoughts- 1. The social meter model Refer to the routes we of self esteem generally take to achieve our correlates strongly with desired goals and the whether one belief that individuals perceive one is included or ability to produce this excluded by other people. route. 2. The terror 3. Barriers- Block the management model or attainment of our goals and in the event of a barrier we can either give up or we can use our pathway thoughts to create new routes. 4. Agency Thoughts- refers to the motivation to have undertake the routes towards our goals.
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