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The article “Hibernation” teaches kids about how animals go to sleep for
the winter, and how plants do it too, by going dormant. Author Rebecca
Clapperton Law also shows us that people need to slow down and rest
in winter too. We may not literally sleep the winter away, but we should
take the opportunity to rest and repair our minds and bodies. Does this
mean we should lock our doors and cozy up next to the fire all winter?
No, not at all. Getting outside in the fresh cold air is something that can
heal you too (don’t forget to hydrate your skin though—check out our
beauty round-up on page 26) as you look inwards and reflect while on
a winter walk.
This issue is full of other great articles and advice too, ranging from an
emotional story about miscarriage, attachment parenting for older kids,
guidelines for screen time, and the Ayurvedic art of hair care, to strength
training for kids, PCOS and acne, and how climate anxiety is affecting our
children. Also in this issue is our Holiday Gift Guide on page 42, where our
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Kids’ health.
Community health.
Planetary health.
Raising Kids, Naturally is
hosted by Dr. Leslie
Solomonian, ND, author
of Naturopathic and
Integrative Pediatrics.
Available wherever you listen to podcasts: Made possible with the support of:
WELLNESS 30 | Kids Can Benefit from Strength HOME
Training—With the correct form
16 | Tonifying the Body—It’s more and mental attitude, kids can 46 | Black Walnut—A nuisance to
than paying attention to diet improve muscle tone and overall some but a blessing to others,
and nutrition. Mary Baskwell, health through resistance training. this giant can provide a highly
R.TCMP explains how it’s also By Dr. Leslie Solomonian, Shivangi nutritious free source of protein
a commitment to lifestyle Maheshwari, and Natalie Hennessy. for those that take the time to
adjustments to achieve balance understand this misunderstood
and well-being. 34 | How Older Children Can Benefit majesty. By Jessica Robertson.
from Attachment Parenting—
18 | Ayurvedic Art of Hair Care— Accomplished author Judy 48 | How You Can Improve Air Quality—
Dr. Sairupa Krishnamurti, ND, Arnall, certified brain and child Dr. Meghan Holpuch, ND, raises our
shows you how to use essential development specialist, explains awareness of the air quality in our
oils to enrich your locks, and how to support your children homes and outdoors. Monitoring will
outlines the dos and don’ts of into adulthood through a non- enable us to take a more proactive
proper hair care. punitive and open communication role in our family's health—now
parenting style. that’s a breath of fresh air.
20 | A Herb for Appetite & Digestion—
Gentiana Lutea has many
medicinal qualities and can be PARENTING KIDS
used for a bitters recipe or as a
bitters tea to help aid appetite and 38 | Climate Anxiety & Kids—Kids are 52 | Winter Sounds Cool—Jacob
digestion. Dr. Tiffany Wyse, ND— stressed out! Andrea Koehle Jones Rodenburg opens our ears
and registered herbalist—deep provides five tips to help support to the sounds of winter with
dives into the history and benefits and manage your child’s distress sound activities, such as a foot
of this incredible herb. in these uncertain times. thermometer and ice music. Have
you heard a bird pish?
40 | Screen Time Guidelines for Your
GORGEOUS Kids & Teens—Setting screen 54 | Hibernation—Rebecca Clapperton
time boundaries for your kids is Law, of Nature Kids BC, explains
22 | PCOS & Acne—Polycystic ovarian no easy task; and why should how both animals and plants take
syndrome can be a contributing you when allowing screen time a break in winter, and that even
factor in acne breakouts for women is convenient? Follow along as though people don’t hibernate, we
in their twenties and thirties. Dr. Erica Eckstrand, ND explains can benefit from slowing down
Caralyn Hale, registered holistic why, and how best to implement this season too.
nutritionist and acne expert, helps new guidelines for kids and their
us understand PCOS and how to screens.
clear up PCOS-related acne. FOOD
26 | Hydrate Your Skin—Winter wreaks HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE 56 | Estrogen, A Dirty Word?—Dr.
havoc on exposed skin. Extreme Stephanie Peltz, ND, explains the
dry cold is no friend, that’s for sure. 42 | Waste No Longer—Check out unique properties of estrogen, the
Care for your skin with this line-up these holiday gift ideas from importance of estrogen balance, and
of hydrating mists and lotions— companies that are paving the what nutritional factors influence
nourish, soften, and detoxify. way to saving our planet through hormone levels in our bodies.
sustainability and upcycling.
58 | Cruciferous Power— Dr. Heidi
FEATURES Lescanec, ND, provides fantastic
recipes designed to reduce
28 | Miscarriage—A story of loss, grief, PMS, and support fertility and
healing—and feeling good again, menopause transition through the
by Tahsa Medve. power of cruciferous veggies and
seed cycling.
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Birth is beyond
beautiful. It is
all-encompassing.
Beyond Beautiful Birth is
co-hosted by registered
midwife Natalie Tregaskiss,
and naturopathic doula Dr.
Dori Skye Engel.
»FROM MIX
Check the ingredients, and always try to choose organic food.
»FROM SCRATCH
Make your favourite muffin, cupcake, or brownie recipe—I love this one.
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Judy is a mother of five children, a certified brain Natalie is a PEI native in her 3rd year naturopathic
and child development specialist, and a master of medical student at CCNM. Passionate about women's
non-punitive parenting and education practices. health, conception and postnatal care, she hopes to
She is the founder of The Attachment Parenting bring women's health advocacy to her home province
Canada Association and the bestselling author after graduation. Natalie enjoys spending time with
of five print books including Discipline Without family, friends, and goldendoodle, Huey!
Natalie Hennessey
Judy Arnall Distress, Parenting With Patience, and Unschooling
To University. professionalparenting.ca.
Erica graduated from the Canadian College of Na- Andrea is a children's book author, journalist,
turopathic Medicine in May 2021. Originally from Van- and environmentalist, and the founder of Canada's
couver Island, BC, she graduated from the University CheriTree Foundation. She is an award-winning
of Texas with a BSc (Hons). She is passionate about in- documentary producer and has worked for CBC
tegrative oncology with a special interest in pediatrics. News, CBC Newsworld International, cbc4kids, and
Greenpeace as a communications strategist during
Erica Eckstrand, ND Andrea Koehle Jones
the campaign to 'Save The Great Bear Rainforest.'
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Heidi is a naturopathic doctor and talented cook Jessica is the owner of Wild Craft Permaculture,
who brings her diverse culinary experience and where she helps people turn their properties into
knowledge of food as medicine to the kitchen with thriving perennial food ecosystems, fostering
zest. She has catered for backcountry lodges, retreat greater self-reliance and resilience within families
centres, the movie industry, and at Hollyhock on Cortes. and communities. She also leads foraging walks and
She practices in Vancouver's Kitsilano and Yaletown. workshops that engage the senses and reconnect
Dr. Heidi Lescanec, ND Jessica Robertson
people with the earth.
Shivangi is in her second year at the Canadian Jacob is the Executive Director of Camp Kawartha,
College of Naturopathic Medicine. She has a Bachelor an award-winning residential outdoor education
of Science in Psychology, where her main focus centre, summer camp, and innovative environmental
was researching and understanding infant and child centre. He has spent over 25 years working in the
development. Shivangi is passionate about creating a outdoor education and camping fields and is a
safe and healthy atmosphere for children to thrive and qualified teacher with a master’s in education. Jacob
Shivangi Maheshwari, BSc Jacob Rodenburg
live a sustainable and holistic lifestyle. is also co-author of The Big Book of Nature Activities.
Tasha is a mama and sustainable lifestyle blogger Leslie is an associate professor at the Canadian
located in Victoria, B.C. She inspires sustainable and College of Naturopathic Medicine, author of Naturo-
conscious living one step at a time, focusing on eco- pathic and Integrative Pediatrics, and holds a master’s
tips, wellness, and gardening. She’s a writer, speaker, in public health with a specialization in community
and digital creator about all things eco-living and development. She maintains a private practice in To-
well-being. Sign up to be a part of her community ronto with a focus on pediatric wellness, including
Dr. Leslie
Tasha Medve
today: thepurposefulyou.com. Solomonian, ND with street-involved youth.
Stephanie is a licensed naturopathic doctor prac- Tiffany is a licensed Naturopathic Doctor and
ticing in both BC and Ontario whose expertise is in Medical Herbalist with a strong family and pedi-
female and pediatric health, including fertility and atric focus. By working closely together with her
pregnancy. Her low-invasive, natural health tool- patients, Tiffany tailors comprehensive and person-
kit includes nutrition, lifestyle, herbs, vitamins, and alized treatment plans to assist in restoring the body
more. She loves hiking with her son, practicing yoga, to a natural state of health, where it can respond with
Dr. Tiffany Wyse
Dr. Stephanie Peltz, ND and experimenting in the kitchen. drpeltz.com. ND, RH vitality and resilience. tiffanywyse@gmail.com.
A
Do:
yurveda is an ancient philosophy of healing originating » Massage scalp daily with 1–2 drops of lavender or rosemary
in India/South Asia. The Sanskrit term Ayurveda is defined essential oil for about 10 minutes to promote circulation
in English as the science of life, and this deeply robust system » Perform warm hair oil massage once per week before washing
of knowledge provides guidance on how to live in balanced hair (see below)
alignment with the earth, the seasons, and the elements. We, as a » Protect your hair from the sun by wearing a hat or staying in the
society, need this guidance now more than ever. shade
Ayurveda teaches that true health begins from within.1 When we Don’t:
emphasize a holistic framework for beauty and wellness, we can » Wash hair more than 1–2 times per week as this can strip the
influence the longevity and nourishment of all tissues of our body scalp and hair of natural oils
such as our skin, nails, and hair. » Use overly hot water to wash hair
» Wear tight hair ties, clips, and barrettes (especially to sleep) as
Healthy hair is desirable from a beauty perspective; in Ayurveda, this may cause hair loss
strong hair is a signifier of inner health. It teaches that healthy » Use heat treatments daily (curling iron, blow drying, etc.)—this
hair is a by-product of having healthy bone tissue—as with can cause damage over time
your nails and teeth—and healthy digestion.1 It’s important to
note that climate, seasonal changes, stress, age, hormones, and
general health status can also impact your hair. Through Ayurvedic LOVE YOUR CROWN—HAIR OILING
practices, you can have healthy, shiny, strong, and nourished hair. Warm oil application to the scalp and hair is an ancient Ayurvedic
ritual that continues to be used in many South Asian homes for hair
radiance to this day. The Sanskrit word Snehana is used for describing
HAIR DOs AND DON’Ts the oiling of the body. Beautifully, the root word of Snehana is Sneha,
Ayurveda suggests some simple maintenance rituals to keep your which means love; the application of warm oil to the body can
hair at its best. If you are dealing with excessive hair loss, dandruff, promote self-love, beauty, and calm. In order to perform a hair oil
or breakage, these foundational principles may help you: massage, select an oil based on preference and season. Commonly,
cold-pressed sesame seed oil is used and is generally good for all
Gentiana Lutea
dr. tiffany wyse, nd, rh
Gentiana lutea has long been taken as a strengthening tonic in Europe Active constituents: Iridoins (Bitter principles)
and China, having uses in cases of general debility, weakness following including gentiopicrin, amarogentin, swertiamanrin;
illness, lethargy from poor absorption, and weak digestion.9 Pyridine alkaloids such as gentianine and gentialutine;
Xanthones like genistein, gentisin, isogentisin and
Indications: Weak digestion, poor fat digestion, poor protein diges- others; pectin; tannin; mucilage; sugars such as
tion, intestinal cramps, excessive gas, lack of appetite, anorexia, heart- gentianose and gentiobiose; traces of volatile oil2
burn (due to decreased stomach acid), nausea, nausea from pregnancy
(combine with ginger), tonification of digestive system, digestive as- Herbal Actions: Digestive Bitter, digestive stomachic,
similation of nutrients (combine with citrus peel), weakness due to digestive sialagogue, digestive cholagogue
chronic illness (viral, bacterial), physical and mental weariness, persons
who doubt themselves (constitutional characteristic from M. Wood),10 System tropism: Digestive system: stomach, intestines
inability to connect with gut-level instincts.11
Plant description: Gentiana lutea is a large perennial
Recipe: Bitters
herb native to central and southern Europe. It grows
to about one metre and is 30 cm wide. The gentian
flowers are pale yellow and star-shaped and they
bloom in clusters of three to ten; it can take the plant
adapted from Christopher Hobbs Ph.D., L. Ac., A.H.G.
three years to flower. Gentiana lutea leaves are small,
about 25 cm long, shiny, and tightly clasped on upright
INGREDIENTS stems. They occur at each joint of the stem and have
five prominent veins marking their underside. The fruit
» Gentian 1 Tbsp is a two-valved capsule with an oblong shape.3 The
» Organic dried orange or tangerine peel 4 Tbsp root is a thick taproot: It’s the underground parts of
» Cardamom 1 Tbsp Gentiana lutea that are dug up in the autumn and then
» Organic ginger root 1 Tbsp sliced and slowly dried. It’s during the drying process
that the odour, colour, and taste of the Gentiana lutea
herb develop4
INSTRUCTIONS:
Contraindications & Safety: Use with caution in gastric
For bitters recipe
irritability or inflammation
1. Powder the above herbs in a blender.
2. Add powdered herbal mix to either vodka or wine.
Preparations & Applications
3. Macerate (let soak) for 2 weeks, shaking the jar every day.
Dosage: Tincture (1:5): Child 1–3 ml 3 x daily (TID),
4. Press, strain, or squeeze the liquid out using a nut milk bag (sieve)
adult 2–5 ml 20–30 minutes before meals.
and collect it in a large bowl or vessel.
Tea (Decoction): Take 1/3–1 c/day for children, and
5. Store the bitters liquid in a glass container.
1–3 c/day for adults or as needed before meals.•
For a Bitters Tea
1. Simmer the above herbs in 1 L of filtered water.
2. Strain the herbs from the tea and keep refrigerated. For references visit ecoparent.ca/EXTRAS/WIN22
3. The cool, bitter tea will keep for 2–3 days in the fridge.
Polycystic Ovarian
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How to Clear Hormonal Acne
and Reverse PCOS
Insulin Resistance
Tea Time
tance, and truly the foundation for hormone health. Blood sugar runs
the show when it comes to hormone and skin health; when blood
sugar levels are balanced, mood is stabilized, sugar cravings are kept at
bay, hormones can be balanced, and inflammation will decrease. This
can be achieved by balancing all three macros in each meal—protein,
My favourite tea to reduce inflammation and fat, and carbs.
support glowing skin is green tea. Rich in an-
tioxidants and bioflavonoids, green tea is great Prioritizing daily movement is another key way to address insulin
in protecting against toxins and overactive im- resistance and balance blood sugar. The great news is, it also reduces
mune responses as well. future breakouts and heals current ones. If you wake up one morning
with an inflamed spot, instead of picking and over-analyzing, I invite
you to consider these steps to heal that breakout fast!
3. Light up your lymph with body dry brushing and facial gua sha
massage. These feel amazing, and heal and reduce breakouts.
Tea Time
place to start is by reducing inflammation and addressing insulin resis-
tance. Think of it as turning off a hose from the tap compared to trying
to deal with gushing water at the end of the hose. Once inflammation
and insulin resistance are under control, there are specific ways to ad-
My favourite tea to reduce androgens is spear- dress excess androgens. For women with PCOS and acne, this means
mint. Just two cups per day can decrease andro- focusing on promoting ovulation to support regular healthy cycles.
gen levels in people with PCOS. Finding simple Ovulation is how women produce progesterone, and progesterone is
and sustainable lifestyle rituals when reversing the superpower hormone for clear and glowing skin. Progesterone re-
PCOS-related breakouts is key for long-term re- duces androgens by inhibiting the enzyme 5-alpha reductase. This
sults. Spearmint tea is great for reducing andro- means less opportunity for testosterone to be converted into acne-
gen-related breakouts—especially ones along causing androgen DHT. The result is less sebum production and fewer
the jawline—and congestion (pore blockage) on breakouts. By supporting ovulation and all phases of the menstrual
the lower cheeks. cycle, women with PCOS can begin to find a natural balance in their
hormones to help reduce acne breakouts.
work for you and your lifestyle—that’s the secret to clear skin. Celebrate
when your mood improves with more balanced blood sugar habits,
get excited when you ovulate, and be proud of yourself for showing
up every day with love and gratitude for your amazing beautiful body.•
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Beyond Beautiful Birth Raising Kids, Naturally Healthy Green Homes Feeding Families
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HYDRATE YOUR SKIN
Nourish, Soften, and Detoxify
My kids, Sarah and Toby, loved the afternoon hike with the family. Stepping into the
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warm foyer off the backyard deck—It’s definitely winter, I think to myself brushing the
snow from my coat. It’s getting so cold; I nearly cancelled our outing today. Taking off
my winter gear, I gaze into the mirror and see a strange face staring back at me . . .
Windburn, harsh and cold, dry air—winter wreaks havoc on your skin, especially
on your face. Before you expose your tender skin to the elements, start using daily
treatments that will hydrate your skin and save you from drought-face.
WILDLING
Cold-pressed toning mist that de-puffs and detoxifies
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improves circulation. Empress Sweet Fern Hydrasoothe
Face Mist is certified organic, cruelty-, and essential oil-
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Pure Hydrating Face Serum helps to nourish and soften
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uses only natural ingredients with no harmful chemicals
in its water gel; it’s cruelty-free, vegan, and also carbon
neutral (the planet loves you!). sukinnaturals.ca
CARINA ORGANICS
Wash your face every day with this synthetic- and scent-
free natural face wash. Carina Organics Daily Face Wash
is formulated with certified organic plant, vegetable, and
fruit extracts to remove unwanted oils and makeup while
restoring the natural pH of your skin. Created free of
SLS, parabens, cortisone or steroids, it’s hypoallergenic,
cruelty-free, vegan, 100 percent biodegradable, and soy,
gluten-, and dye-free. A wonderful way to start your day.
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CLEMENCE ORGANICS
Formulated by Naturopath Bridget Carmady, this face
serum promotes skin repair and renewal using organic
and all-natural ingredients including rosehip, calendula,
and jojoba oils. Clemence Organics Repair Face Serum
is ideal for skin that may be showing signs of aging, sun
damage, scarring or pigmentation; it is also antiseptic, as-
tringent and anti-inflammatory. It moisturizes, increases
skin elasticity, and is made without parabens, sodium
lauryl sulphate, petrochemicals, PEGs, artificial fragrances,
or nanoparticles. Clemence Organics is also carbon neu-
tral, which is awesome for the planet. Using it each day
will leave your skin feeling nourished and rejuvenat-
ed—all without compromise. clemenceorganics.com•
tasha medve
My Journey meat, so I cooked a lot of tofu, lentils, beans, eggs, and dairy. My
naturopath made some custom loose-leaf herbal teas for me as
well. Once my body began feeling better, I sought acupuncture and
I was 13 weeks and six days along when I miscarried; I had spotting started exercising harder.
for two days and knew something was wrong. I reached out to my
midwife and was fortunate to book an ultrasound within 24 hours. I focused a lot on myself for the next month, which I think is
The ultrasound started and continued without conversation, and important. If you’re going through a similar experience, give yourself
when the technician said she would be right back, we knew that grace and lean into your support system. I was surrounded by so
wasn’t a good sign. The doctor came in to tell us that he had bad much love that I felt both grateful and overwhelmed at the same
news—that the baby did not have a heartbeat. “This baby was never time. I couldn’t imagine being alone without a partner, family, or
destined to be here; the baby hasn’t grown since your seven-and- close friends during this time. That’s why I wanted to share my
a-half week ultrasound and it didn’t completely form, which means story—I don’t want anyone to feel alone. I also don’t want anyone to
there was a chromosomal abnormality”, he said. Tears streamed feel that they have to disclose what’s happened to them; I just knew
down my face—no one can prepare you for that moment. I was told that this was part of my path through grieving and healing.
that my body may let go naturally or that I would go in for a dilation
and curettage (D and C), a surgical procedure used to remove any During this time, I would randomly cry; the hormones were still
remaining tissue from the uterus after a miscarriage. there. I saw someone pregnant and it triggered memories. My son
would ask “do you still have a baby in your tummy?” and my heart
We drove home—shocked, sad, disappointed, and confused. What would sink—I feared I would never be able to have another baby.
just happened? What is my body going to do next? I had spent more What will my life look like in three years? What if I run into someone I
than three months thinking I was pregnant and now I just. . . wasn’t. forgot to tell? These are all normal thoughts and feelings, and they’re
We pulled into the driveway 35 minutes later, gave each other a kiss, part of the process; give yourself permission to take the time you
and all of a sudden my body let go; the seat was full of blood and I need. Allow yourself to know that maybe you’re okay today, but you
rushed to the shower. I miscarried for a total of two hours. The body may need help in the future. Allow those feelings to resurface, and
is incredible (it’s easier to say that now)—I had to release 14 weeks of understand that nothing is wrong with you.
blood build up, tissue, and a placenta.
Healing was. And today, I’m honoured and proud to be there for anyone who
needs support.
Months later, I still have questions. I still don’t know why my body held Whether you’ve just gone through a miscarriage, you experienced
on for seven weeks when I wasn’t pregnant anymore. Some friends one 25 years ago, or you know someone who is currently grieving,
told me that my body was such a good host and fought hard—there’s please know that this is common and that you’re not alone. Please
beauty in that. Once I heard the news from the doctor, it was like my listen to your body—only you know what you truly feel. Just remem-
body saying, “Okay, now you know; I am going to let go.” I feel so lucky ber that we can show up for each other by being compassionate,
that my body let go naturally. It would have been a different feeling checking our assumptions, and showing vulnerability when we’re
and experience if I hadn’t had that ultrasound. It didn’t make grieving up for it.
any easier though; loss is loss and everyone has their journey.
Healing from pregnancy loss is a long journey, and we never know
After a bit of time, my body entered healing mode. Post-miscarriage what others are going through. It’s time we come together and
recovery is different for everyone. A week or so after, blood work normalize this conversation.•
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training
But Are They Ready Mentally?
dr. leslie solomonian, nd,
shivangi maheshwari, and natalie hennessey
BENEFITS OF RT
Resistance training has both short and long-term effects. In the
short term, RT improves overall fitness and sports performance. RT
also enhances lean body mass, which results in more efficient use
of oxygen and fuel by all tissues of the body, improving metabolism.
Stronger muscles and improved motor skills reduce the risk of sports
(and play) related injuries. The International Olympic Committee
(IOC) and the National Strength and Conditioning Association (NSCA)
also support engagement in resistance training for this reason.
Resistance training also benefits mental health and concentration,
and can enhance academic performance. The confidence and fitness
gained from RT in childhood and adolescence promote health as kids
move into adulthood, thereby preventing common diseases such as
diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and osteoporosis.1,3,4,6,7
© Can Stock Photo Inc. / [NomadSoul1]
Sample child knows how to train without injury. Programs can be found
in fitness facilities, sports training centres, and some schools. A
Older Children
CAN BENEFIT FROM
Attachment Parenting
3 Main Concepts to Offer Support
breastfeeding a toddler, “wearing” a baby in a carrier, or co-sleeping Children pass through intense attachment needs at different stages
with a preschooler, one can assume that the family is practicing of their lives. These are often most pronounced at the outset of new
the attachment parenting philosophy behaviours. But what are experiences: beginning school, moving to middle school or high
attachment parenting behaviours with an older child past the school, entering university, moving out, committing to a life partner,
preschool years? Attachment parenting continues well into the or having a baby. Children want to nest and feel safe in their state of
school-age, teen, and independent adulting years. regularity before moving on to a new environment. They physically
and emotionally cling to parents and family to fulfill their dependence
needs. When they feel emotionally secure and their needs are met,
MEET ETHAN they are ready to move on to the next stage of independence.
they have stresses in their lives, but Ethan deals with his stress by
going for walks, working out, having a good cry, or chatting with The sooner a
child’s dependency
a friend or family member to help ease his anger, frustration, and needs are met,
worries. He knows all feelings are okay to be expressed verbally in the the sooner the PRE_TEEN
child becoms
family, although there are definite stated boundaries regarding what independent.
SCHOOL-AGE
YOUNG ADULTHOOD
MEET JACOB
Jacob is 16 years old. He’s burned out by school and only attends
because his parents insist that he must follow the family tradition of
graduating from university. Jacob grudgingly does his homework, ADULTHOOD
tries to skip out on chores, and prefers to hang out with his friends
over any family gathering. He dreads the rare times when his
family eats together and prefers grabbing take-out to eat in front
of his computer. He feels his parents nag him too much, and he
procrastinates on everything they ask him to do. Jacob deals with his
stresses the way his friends do: they drink, get high, and party most Attachment-attuned parents recognize the need behind “clinginess”
weekends, which provides welcome relief from Jacob’s unhappy life and indulge it by empowering the child to decide when it’s time to
and lack of clarity on what he wants to do. He doesn’t care much let go. During the time the child needs additional support, they may
for his parents and figures the feeling is mutual. Resentments build want extra hugs and cuddling, and pre-teens may still want to co-
as Jacob has been raised in an authoritarian, punitive family that sleep for comfort. Teens may choose to spend extra time at home
has high expectations but provides little nurturing. Jacob harbours around the family and shun peers for a while. They may wish to do
a lot of anger towards his parents, and as soon as he moves out, he more family things like reminiscing over photo albums, watching old
will cut off most contact with them. Jacob has not been attachment childhood movies, or going on bike rides and talking. By doing this,
parented. they fill up on emotional security and become confident to tackle
the new impending change.
Three main concepts form the biggest differences between attach-
ment parenting and “conventional parenting” in the school-aged The primary way to meet attachment needs is to encourage a child
years. The first concept is Meeting Attachment Needs, the second to do whatever they need to feel secure. Forcing independence only
is Non-Punitive Discipline, and the third is Cultivating Communica- makes the child clingier and more dependent. The child must be
tion, which is often the result of the previous two practices. empowered to move through these stages on their own schedule.
Attachment parenting focuses on gentle, kind, and nurturing teach- and using a non-punitive parenting style takes the fear out of the
ing. It’s not punishment; it’s helping the child learn the difference be- parent-child relationship. Children need to feel safe and know that
tween appropriate and inappropriate behaviours. They need many expressing any feelings through words is always okay in the family,
co-regulating verbal reminders and repetitions to connect those while expressing feelings through actions such as hitting is not.
neurons until they develop the memory and self-control to self- There are limits on behaviours, but not on feelings.
discipline. This kind of teaching sets the family climate of open com-
munication, trust, respect, and caring; there can never be punish- Children often feel scared, angry, upset, hurt, or jealous. An attach-
ment in loving relationships. ment parent will acknowledge the feeling without judgment, com-
fort the child with soft words, hugs and holding, and spend time
Parents often ask, “But how do I make my child listen?” Problem- helping the child sort out their intense feelings. Then the child can
solving to meet everyone’s needs and wants is the key, and there choose to solve their problems independently or accept guidance.
are many good books on how to implement it within families. The child who feels safe exploring their uncomfortable feelings (even
Learning about child and brain development is important too. when they're about the parent) is a reflection of healthy parenting.
Children naturally learn self-control as executive function capacities
develop from ages 6 to 25, and they get much better at listening Reflecting feelings back to children is helpful. An example: “I’m hear-
and remembering when parents make requests. When collaborative ing that you are feeling resentful towards your brother because he
problem-solving is used as the main discipline tool in families, never invites you along . . . That must feel hurtful to you.” Acknowl-
children care about their parents and their needs as they grow older. edging feelings is the best way to support another person and is es-
pecially helpful for children with depression or anxiety. Again, there
Parents should drop the time-outs, spanking, consequences, with- are many resources online to learn how to acknowledge (or actively
drawal of phones and technology, shaming, and grounding, and tell listen to) another person. Having regular family meetings to clear
their children that they never want to punish them again. They can up “living together” issues is also important. Parents should express
treat the child as the adult they are becoming and express the desire guidelines for fair complaining: no put-downs, no name-calling, and
to work together as a team to solve problems. Parent and child are no insults. Children can share how they feel and how the other per-
on the same side! Many parents say, “But the world is full of con- son’s behaviour affects them and then look for solutions together.
sequences; that’s how children learn.” True, the world can issue Sometimes, these messy feelings and conversations are not fun and
consequences. But only parents have the time and vested interest to can be painful, but they absolutely must happen. Resentments build
teach their children to problem-solve in all their relationships, and fester when issues are not discussed and feelings are not ex-
instead of punishing the other person. It’s a skill they will carry pressed or listened to. Somebody has to start the conversation.
into their future healthy relationships.
Attachment parenting older children is very rewarding, even though
it takes time and effort to meet attachment needs, use collabora-
tive problem-solving, and cultivate communication channels. The
3. CULTIVATING COMMUNICATION payoffs are enormous. Adult children become lifelong close friends.
Watching your children attachment parent your grandchildren with
Truly open communication can only exist in relationships that are the same values of caring, kindness, and respect is the legacy you
free from punishment. Kids will not open up to those they fear, want to leave behind for a more peaceful world.•
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andrea koehle jones
“This is not surprising because climate change 4. Create change by encouraging your kids to channel their emotions
into poetry, music, dance, journalling, painting, and other creative
is the biggest threat humanity is facing.”
projects. Highlight their gifts and post their projects around the house
— Mala Rao, PhD to show them that you value their work.
Guidelines
For Your Kids & Teens
ADHD behaviour has been linked to this issue as well.6,8 Research has
shown that screen exposure before the age of three reduces attention
span into the teenage years, and continued excessive screen time
has been linked to poor grades in school.8 Children may also be at
increased risk of cortisol (i.e., stress hormone) dysregulation, which
has been linked to mood disorders such as anxiety and depression.6
Cortisol dysregulation has been connected to reduced emotional
resilience, which means a diminished ability to face challenges as
easily as those who have healthy cortisol regulation pathways.
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Majesty
GET CRACKING! If you have a black walnut on your property and have never seen it
as a blessing, try harvesting something from it this year—whether nut
Cracking open a black walnut is considerably more difficult than an in the fall, sap in the spring, or green nuts in June. You'll never look at
English Walnut (the ones we typically buy at the store). There are this majestic tree the same way again.•
special nutcrackers available for this purpose, but you can also use
Air Quality
can improve
Here’s how you can assess the air quality where you live or travel, sensors, but programs are in place to assess and monitor for false
and take care of the air you breathe for yourself and your family. outlying data. AirNow, which is run by the US EPA, provides a 24-
hour average AQI using a filtration and particulate weight system by
gathering data every sixty minutes. AirNow does not have reports in
ASSESSING AIR QUALITY many rural areas due to the cost of the expensive equipment, which
requires an expert to maintain.
An air quality index reading (AQI) is currently the best indicator
to assess air quality. The higher the AQI, the worse it is. A few for- There are different sensors for indoor or outdoor use to monitor your
purchase resources to access an AQI worldwide are Purple Air air quality (in a shop, kitchen, or even in a construction zone). You
(PurpleAir.com), IQAir (IQAir.com), and in North America, AirNow have the option to register your device so that you can contribute to
(AirNow.gov) is free to search. All systems assess quality by measuring global data collection if you wish.
the amount of particulate matter in the air; however, not all sensors
detect all chemicals and pollutants so be aware of this limitation. Every person’s health is unique—while the AQI scale you use
Purple Air and IQAir are real-time programs that use data from laser may state mild, moderate, or severe quality, it’s best to assess the
sensor users; Purple Air reports data in ten-minute averages while symptoms you or your family members are experiencing at certain
IQAir reports every sixty minutes. False reports are common with AQI levels, to determine what is safe or not safe for you.
Some of the more concerning contributors to poor air quality are ni- 4. Use fireplaces only when necessary. Indoor fires create carbon
trogen oxides, sulphur oxides, particulate matter, carbon monoxide, monoxide, ash, and smoke that go right into your home–more so if
ozone, and lead—but for those that live near industrial plants, wild- it’s an open fire. Clean and maintain your flue regularly. Be sure the
fires, chemical spraying, or high-density regions, there are many wood you are burning is straight from the source and not chemical-
other chemicals and pollutants at play. laden processed wood.
Wildfires 5. Use a HEPA filter air purifier in common spaces and bedrooms.
They are not cheap, but for those that suffer from a condition pos-
sibly caused by poor air quality, air purifiers can drastically reduce
Wildfire smoke is particularly dangerous due to the high amount of symptoms and disease progression. Brands such as Austin Air, IQAir,
particulate matter and carbon monoxide it creates. Smoke can cause or AirOasis use high-quality HEPA filtration systems.
severe respiratory conditions and can lead to long-term lung damage
and heart conditions.1 6. Use proper ventilation when you are cooking with a gas stove or
oven. While cooking with a gas stove has its benefits, it does produce
Chemicals a high amount of methane and nitrogen dioxide, both of which are
toxic.
Some of the most concerning chemicals are benzene, chlorofluo- 7. Studies indicate poor air quality induces oxidative stress. Some
rocarbons, xylene, styrene, acrylonitrile, and other volatile organic antioxidants that may support your body include folate, Vitamin B6
compounds (VOCs). Many of these chemicals are found in common and B12, fish oil, NAC, glutathione, and Vitamin C.4
household products such as cleaners, perfumes, and in most spray
products. There are also many VOCs in newer furniture, carpet, and
area rugs. Other pollutants include phthalates, PVC and BPA in plastics IMPROVING LOCAL & WORLDWIDE
and building materials, and first- or second-hand cigarette smoke.2 AIR QUALITY
Nitrous oxide is a leading contributor to our declining air quality. It’s » Don’t have fires outside or set off fireworks if there’s a fire ban
released with the use of pesticides and herbicides on lawns and agri- » Update and change the batteries in your smoke detectors often
culture crops. Many of these chemicals also contain organophos- » Use non-fuel-based recreational equipment
phates, which have been linked to neurocognitive conditions. » Reduce your carbon footprint with less online ordering, vehicle
use, and airplane travel
The burning of fossil fuels from cars, trucks, airplanes, boats, and » Reduce the use and purchase of plastics—yes, even plastic toys for
machinery contribute to alarmingly high levels of carbon dioxide, your kids
nitrous oxide, and methane—all of which are damaging air quality » Reduce the use of household chemicals for cleaning. Read those
and contributing to smog in high-density areas. labels, please!
» Be conscious of the impacts of spraying your property for insects
If you live in the mountains or a rural community and think you’re and weeds
safe, think again; many of these pollutants are detected in the air » Purchase chemical-free area rugs, carpets, mattresses, and
thousands of miles from their source. furniture for your home
» Eat organic when you can
7 WAYS TO IMPROVE AIR QUALITY It's essential for us to advocate for healthy air, not just for older gen-
erations but for our children too. If action does not start with us, our
1. Increase vegetation such as plants, grass, and trees around and in children will eventually be living in a world where being outside in
your home. Any species native to your region planted around your nature may provide more risk than benefit—which is a very frighten-
home are beneficial. Indoor plants such as Peace Lily, Devil’s Ivy, ing thought.
Weeping Fig, and Snake plant are all great low-maintenance additions
that clean our air.
We are living in an era where conscious decision making is a require-
2. Windows are best left open during rain and at night. They should ment when it comes to when and where we engage in outdoor
be closed during high winds, the heat of the day, during high AQI activities. While we continue to take action for higher air quality
readings, and on dry weather days to prevent high particulate entry. standards, we need to be equipped with tools to improve the air
If applicable, open and close upper-level windows instead of ground- quality where we live, and make intentional responses when it be-
level windows to prevent VOCs from accumulating indoors. comes questionable.•
conscientious
parents
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Winter Sounds Cool —Crunch, Whoosh, Tinkle, and Pish
jacob rodenburg
Tree Songs: If you are in a forested area where you hear the sound of a
chickadee (with their distinctive “chick-a-dee dee dee dee” call),
Here is a wonderful word for you during your next game of Scrabble: then stand next to a tree that has lots of branches. Chickadees
psithurism, meaning the whispering of wind as it blows through feel safer when there is plenty of cover. Stay very still and begin
trees and rustles leaves. Did you know that you can get close to “pishing”. At first, pish fairly loudly every few seconds. Continue
identifying the type of evergreen tree by listening to the quality of this for at least a couple of minutes and then lower the volume
sound the wind makes as it moves through its branches? Perhaps when birds start to arrive. It’s believed that birds respond to pishing
you have this ability? A spruce tree sounds just a bit different from a because it sounds similar to the alert calls of chickadees, which are
hemlock, a pine, or a cedar tree. used when there is a potential threat in the area, such as an owl.
Other chickadees, along with birds of other species, are attracted
A good way to start is with a white pine tree. You can tell it’s a white by these sounds because they are curious about the nature of the
pine by its long soft needles (always in bunches of five). One way potential threat.
to remember is that there are five letters in “white” and five bundled
needles on a white pine tree. Sit beneath its branches and focus on
the sweeping sound of the wind as it caresses the boughs of the pine.
To hear better, cup your hands behind your ear and push forward. Winter is an amazing time of year. So strap on your boots, cozy into
Do you hear the whooshing sound so characteristic of white pines? your coat, scarf, and toque, get outside and listen to the cool sounds
Practice tuning into tree songs—each tree has its own unique sound. of winter this season!•
Listen also for the creaking of the branches of oaks, maples and ash.
Animals
Why do our animal friends hibernate?
Finding food and staying warm can be a challenge in our part of the conti-
nent’s winter season. Hibernation is a sleep-like state that animals enter to
help them get through the cold months. To prepare for their long rest, ani-
mals that hibernate eat lots during the fall to put on body weight. They can
then live off their fat stores so they don’t have to eat for months. Before they
enter hibernation, they find a cozy and safe den where they will spend the
winter. Next, they settle down; their body temperature and heart rate drop
significantly and they go into a deep sleep.
Many different species employ this strategy to get through the cold winter
months when food is scarce. Rodents such as chipmunks and ground
squirrels hibernate, as do bats. Amphibians, including frogs and salamanders,
settle down at the bottoms of ponds and streams where they can survive
almost freezing temperatures. The biggest and most famous animal that
sleeps through the winter is the bear.
Plants
How do our plant friends become dormant?
Plants get their energy from the sun; as you go farther North in the winter,
sunlight becomes very scarce, with only a few hours of strong light every
day. This means plants can’t generate as much energy as they need to grow,
so they enter a state of dormancy to preserve their resources in the winter.
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What it means for people
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WORD?
dr. stephanie peltz, nd
PHYTOESTROGENS XENOESTROGENS
Tori Hudson, ND, author and educator says, “Phytoestrogens are non- These are human-made chemicals that mimic estrogen and dis-
steroidal hormone-like constituents found in over 300 medicinal rupt the endocrine system. In contrast to phytoestrogens, these are
and edible plants.” Top examples include soybeans, lignans (like in significantly stronger than our body’s natural estrogen. They are
flaxseed—these are actually converted into phytoestrogens in the found in plastics, pesticides, cleaning products, and more. They in-
intestines), black cohosh, and many more. These are weaker terfere with hormonal action and metabolism, and contact is best
plant ‘estrogens’ that stimulate estrogen receptors and perform minimized or avoided if possible.
ESTROGEN DOMINANCE
You may have heard the term estrogen dominance: It refers to a While estrogen is a heated topic, remember it’s both a powerful force
state of unopposed/excess estrogen versus progesterone. Symp- for good, as well as a potential source of harm. Let’s not fear estrogen,
toms include heavy periods, tender breasts, bad premenstrual but continually educate ourselves on how we can maintain an ideal
syndrome (PMS), water retention, headaches, weight gain, mood balance of estrogen in our bodies and allow it to work its magic.•
Vegetables » 1½ c water
tata. The flavours are reminiscent of the Spanish tortilla » 1 c finely chopped onion » ¼ c plain unsweetened oat or other
made with eggs and potatoes and often served at room » 2 c finely chopped cauliflower plant milk
temperature as a tapa. Many years ago, consuming these » 1 c tightly packed finely chopped » 1 Tbsp avocado oil
protein-rich yellow triangles known as “tortilla” provided kale » ¾ tsp salt
me with essential mid-morning fuel on the 30-day walk » ¼ tsp salt » ½ tsp each ground cumin and curry
on the Camino de Santiago pilgrimage across Spain. powder
Recently, I was inspired to create a vegan version for a Batter » ½ c chopped fresh cilantro
friend and I have to say this one using chickpea flour (like » 1½ c chickpea flour (garbanzo bean
Italian and French “socca”) knocks my socks off—even flour)
without hiking a mile. As a replacement for the eggs,
chickpea flour works remarkably well to provide the cus- INSTRUCTIONS
tard base. Chickpeas are naturally very high in fibre (great
for satiation and steady blood sugar levels), and particu- 1 Preheat the oven to 375°F.
larly rich in resistant starch. That's a type of starch that
remains undigested until it reaches the large intestine 2 Vegetables: Sauté onions in a bit of oil for a few minutes and then add the
where it then acts as a food source for healthy bacteria. cauliflower, garlic, and salt and stir fry for about 5 minutes. Add the greens
Good gut health is an important foundation for hormone and cook for about 1 minute, or until they’re just wilted, and then transfer the
health. Rather than simple potatoes (carbs), I use cauli- veggie mix into a large bowl.
flower here, which provides a similarly satisfying taste and
texture, but more nutritional power. The cauliflower and 3 Batter: If you have a blender, combine the flour, water, plant milk, salt, spices,
kale featured here are both esteemed members of the and oil and blend until smooth. Alternatively, you can whisk the ingredients
family of vegetables famed for their sulphur-containing together in a large bowl until smooth.
compounds called glucosinolates, which play important
roles in disease prevention by triggering antioxidant and 4 Add the cauliflower/veggie mixture to the batter.
anti-inflammatory processes. These cruciferous com-
pounds support reproductive health and activate can- 5 Add the fresh and dried herbs—mix well.
cer-fighting enzymes in the body (particularly those that
prevent breast, ovarian, colorectal, and prostate cancer). 6 Pour the frittata mixture into a greased pie pan or cast-iron dish and bake for 45
They also support phase two of liver detoxification, which to 50 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the centre comes out fairly clean.
is helpful for cancer prevention and women’s health in
all stages of our hormone journey—reducing PMS, and The top will crack and get golden. You can sprinkle with chopped cilantro or thinly
supporting fertility and menopause transition. sliced tomatoes. Serve hot or at room temperature and enjoy!
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The second half of the cycle, the luteal phase (days 15– 3 Grind seeds and coconut in a food processor or blender.
30), includes seeds focused on supporting progesterone
such as sunflower seeds, sesame seeds (or tahini, which 4 Blend in dates, cardamom, vanilla, and salt just until the mixture is uniform.
is sesame butter), or hemp hearts (an excellent source of
plant-based protein). 5 Shape into 3 cm-wide balls using a teaspoon or small scooper and roll each
one in coconut flakes.
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» ½ c hemp seeds (and 2 Tbsp 1 Soak dates in water overnight or at least 10 minutes.
reserved for rolling)
» ½ c sunflower seeds 2 Drain dates and set aside.
» 2 Tbsp maca powder
» 4 Tbsp cocoa powder 3 Grind seeds in a blender or food processor.
» ½ c tahini or almond butter
» ¾ c dates (about 16 dates), 4 Add the 2 powders and nut/seed butter.
soaked
» ½ tsp pure vanilla extract 5 Blend in dates and vanilla until mixture is uniform.
» ¼ tsp salt
6 Shape into 3 cm-wide balls using a teaspoon or small scooper
and roll in hemp seeds.
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