1ST FORMAT

Hello your name,

Thank you for taking out your precious time to send me an email, it really did feel
good to hear from you . I am glad that we have connected. That is how I feel too. I
feel I need to move on no matter what had happened in the past. I am new to this
online dating thing and it sometimes makes me feel nervous I feel it is because I
have been in my shells in the past years of my life after the death of my wife.
Lately I realized that I must move on with my life as I have grieved enough that
was why i joined

I have two children from my late wife and they mean the world to me and they live
with their granny as in Italy as there would be no one to give them that much
needed motherly love. I look forward to having them live with me some time in the
future when I have a one big and happy family. My relocation was as a result of my
inablity to continue taking the pains of my late wife�s death. Everywhere I go I
see things that reminds me of her. So I decided that the best thing for me to do
was to start life all over again and give love a chance.

I am an engineer by training and an energy consultant by calling, my job involves

the management of projects in the oil and gas industry. I am involved in the
design, construction and commissioning of oil and gas facilities. I am also
involved in the some consultancy works for sellers and prospective
buyers of crude oil, it�s basically a negotiators' job. I enjoy my job because it
gives me some kind of fulfilment that I manage as essential commodity. My job
sometimes also takes me round the globe as the demand for energy cuts across
borders, I am also self employed. I used to enjoy my frequent trips when I just
lost my wife but lately I have come to realize that there is more to life than just
work as I have toiled hard all my life and look forward to spending the rest of my
life with the love of my life.

Call me on 413. 961. 6034 will add you to my IM so we can also IM each other when
we have some time.I like to meet a woman who loves, caring and affectionate. I like
the sunrise and its set, I like it when it chilly, warm a few. Well, I prefer going
to New Zealand because of the great adventure and pleasure in there, the land of
THE LORD OF THE RINGS. I love listening to slow rock, R and Bs, Jazz, Gospel and
sometimes pop. I can�t wait to know you more, tell me your likes and dislikes. Tell
me about your kids, can we talk on the phone and what is the best time to call?.
Waiting earnestly to hear from you. I really do not know what else to tell you as I
am new to this but would be willing to answer any questions that would make us
better acquitted. I would stop here as I need to get to work but it did feel good
reading your email and sending you another. Can�t wait to hear from you....
2ND FORMAT
How are you thanks for that lovely email you sent me, my day was so full of
stress that i just have to sleep off on the couch anyways about the hat picture
they where taken here some months ago,Do you like them ?

You can as well call me when you like but i will also love if you can give me your
phone number too.
Can't wait to hear from you .
3RD FORMAT
Thanks for your email. I am developing a habit of checking my emails always to
check if you wrote. With you I would want us to have total freedom and openness,
there will be no point for us to play around. We'd better open up and just say it
as it is.

Long lasting honest and genuine relationship is also what i am looking for. And I
know it takes one day at a time, but we can gradually climb on the ladder of love.
I will not rush you into anything but I want you to put this at the back of your
mind that I do not have games to play and I am looking for something that will last
a lifetime for sure. I do have my children to protect and my heart to guard too.

about my children's ambition

John who is 10 has a desire to be a pilot but at the same time he loves football
(soccer) I am helping him in whatever he wants to be in his life. Gold 15 will be a
nurse just like her late mum. she is heading that direction already and am very
excited about it because she will at least be able to help save lives and in plant
something positive in the lives of people. Whatever they desire in life, it's our
duty as parents to help them through it all.

My ultimate goal is to have a all round happiness. And what that means is to be
fulfilled in every area of my life and to see my kids grow up to be important
people in the society. Giving positively to the world we live in. I hate mind
games, I do not strive on drama I keep it real and that's how it should remain. I
think I am really liking you. I went to college in the uk .

MY DAY
My typical day activities actually. I wake, say a little prayer and read the word.
Go out and work out for a little bit. Grab coffee (don't really do breakfast) go
out for my meetings or stay at home and do more researches and make business
contacts. Get back in the evening. Take a shower, grab something to bite. Take a
shower chill and watch TV. Play my piano talk to my kids and sometimes go back to
the gym.

I am glad to that we are gradually connecting.

I will be your hero someday: