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THE FOUNDATION OF SELF-ESTEEM

Joseph A. Bailey, 11, MD

Self-esteem is a simplistic term for varied and complex mental states pertaining to how one
views oneself. It takes but little research in the voluminous literature to see the vagueness and
inconsistencies in its various definitions. Even more problematic is the uncertainty concerning its
foundational components. The importance of having a solid definition and specific ideas about the
foundational components of self-esteem is that both pave the way to recognizing its causes; to pre-
dicting effects from those causes; and to organizing the trouble-shooting process for locating those
philosophical flaws or psychological scars which lead to low self-esteem.
The purpose of this paper is to offer a common ground for thinking about self-esteem at its
most basic level. In order to distinguish the "basic level" from the rest of the components of self-
esteem, let us liken it to a skyscraper building. Here, the focus is on the building's "underground
foundation" and the base upon which that foundation rests. The base is a definition that allows for
the assessment of the foundation. The underground foundation itself consists of the mental build-
ing blocks called self-meaning, self-identity, self-image, and self-concepts. To help illustrate their
interactions, a few of the "masks" and "faces" of self-esteem will be mentioned. What is not being
addressed is the "above ground structure"-those theories and manifestations dealt with by most
mental health specialists. (J Natl Med Assoc. 2003;95:388-393.)

TERMINOLOGY INADEQUACIES ground" definition of self-esteem


Branden,1 who somewhat claims to have By returning to the 15th century when
brought self-esteem to the public's attention in the "esteem" came into the English language, we find
late 1950s, defines it as the estimate one individual that "esteem" was intertwined with everything
passes on him/herself by way of a value judgment. involved in the evaluation ("tofind the value of")
Ayn Rand2 said it is reliance on one's power to of some object, and later somebody. For purposes
think. Sigelman3 refers to self-esteem as "your of selling and buying in the European marketplace,
overall evaluation of your worth as a person, high an object required a 'fair" estimated monetary
or low, based on all the positive and negative self- appraisal in order to approximate that object's
perceptions that make up your self-concept." exact value. Certain objects necessitated a "high"
Since these and other literature definitions do not evaluation based upon the fact that they had more
seem to match, let us try to locate a "common worth than value. Back then, an example of a
"high" evaluation was a royal heirloom. Its worth
was greater than its value because it had been
© 2003. From the National Medical Association, Washington, passed down from one generation to the next with-
DC. For reprints, contact Joseph A. Bailey, MD, at in that royal family. A more recent example is
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the "unbreakable" record of Babe Ruth. This who do not assess their qualities, quantities,
"specialness" of a relatively inexpensive baseball experiences, behaviors, and work products prop-
caused it to sell for millions of dollars. erly? Since people seldom recognize nor appre-
To make acceptable the 'fair" and "high" ciate all of their traits of worth and value, is this
appraisals of objects, Renaissance expert evalua- what makes up low self-esteem? Everyday con-
tors considered three things. First, was what they versations tell us that instead of being realistic,
called "regard"-the recognition of the value most people's assessments of whatever worth
and/or worth of the object. Second was and value they do recognize is either positively
"respect"-a word built around the idea of honor. or negatively distorted or fantasized.
At that time, honor signified a fixed price for the Obviously, self-esteem is not a term adequate
purpose of ranking the object on the proper rung of to cover all combinations of how people view
the ladder of importance. Third was an "apprecia- themselves. Neither is the "high/low" vertical
tion" of the combined value and worth of the line dimension used to describe self-esteem
object as, for example, the enjoyment of its per- expansive enough to cover all of the numerous
fection and beauty. These same three factors were
exceptional situations. One exception is "the
eventually applied to human beings.
To "regard" was to recognize that the person baddest dudes on the streets "-those with no
had achievements of value and/or worth; to fear of dying; with no fear of any man; and with
"respect" was to rank that person on the ladder of no hesitation to killing someone for "no rea-
importance, based on the person's recognized son. "4 Do they have a high or low self-esteem?
achievements; and to "appreciate" was to pleas- Or is it simply strong, complete, focused, force-
antly 'feel" the effects of the ranked achieve- ful, and destructive?
ments-pleasantness that could range anywhere If their well-developed mindset processes
from mere approval to profound gratitude or could be kept intact, but flipped over to the con-
thankfulness. The combination of regard, respect, structive side, would this be "lateral," "hori-
and appreciation was called "esteem" and they zontal," or "diagonal" self-esteem? Although
became its three fundamental components. When a presently stuck with the self-esteem" hand"
person assessed him/herself by these three fac- dealt us by our medical ancestors, we can still
tors-in qualities, in quantities, and in character use its three foundational components of regard,
related behaviors and work products-the result respect, and appreciation. However, those three
was one's self-esteem. components must be looked at in ways different
Subsequently, the adjectives of "good," from how they are viewed in the literature.
"high," and "low" were added to categorize
how one viewed oneself. "High" self-esteem DEFINING SELF-ESTEEM
came to imply that one "means a great deal" to A "self-esteemless" robot (a mechanical
oneself (i.e. having self-confidence); "low" self- device powered by computers to do repetitive
esteem, the self-consciousness which makes one and boring work) cannot have self-esteem
feels like a "small" and inferior person who because it has no "self" and, therefore, cannot
does not mean much to him/herself. There are pass value judgments on who it is, what it does,
currently no universally accepted definitions for or how it appears. By contrast, when a "self" is
"good," "high," or "low"; nor are there specifics placed inside a human body and then makes
about what they describe; nor where one ends judgments about itself (independently and/or
and where its opposite begins. Does "high" influenced by outsiders), self-esteem will come
equate to "good" and "realistic" or to a range of into being. In its most complete state, self-
things above "low"? Even if we leave off the esteem is the summary judgment of everything a
adjectives, are other terms needed for people person can assess about him/herself. Those judg-

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ments concern: (1) who one is (i.e. one's philos- represent one's self-meaning and both provide
ophy of life and character); (2) what one does (i. groundedness, stability, and worth-type security in
e. one's tangible and/or intangible work products one's life. Recognition of these three effects of the
regarding people, nature, objects, or oneself); (3) two bonds allows them to be ranked, honored,
what one has (i.e. one's inherent, developed, or appreciated, and therefore, esteemed. This is an
acquired qualities and quantities); (4) the differ- example of a worth-based self-esteem. If one
ent levels in how one appears (i.e. one's physical chooses a material archetype, the result is a value-
body, personality, and reputation); and (5) to based self-esteem. In contrast to the latter, the for-
whom or what one is attached (e.g. God, a con- mer provides security in and satisfaction with life.
cept, a "special" person or group, money, pos- A worth-based self-esteem can also outweigh all
sessions, or power). Despite being assessed by of the combined trials and tribulations created by
different methods, each of these five categories problems related to things of value.
and each of the subcategories, levels, or dimen- Out of one's solid God-centered self-meaning
sions contained in these five have "positives" springs a solid sense of self-worth, a solid multidi-
and "negatives" related to worth and/or value. If mensional self-identity structure, and one's top
all of the "positives" outweigh the "negatives" system of values. The latter are those used in mak-
and thereby establish a level of self-confidence, ing life-shaping decisions; in interpreting one's
one's view of oneself is that of having a "good" actions and reactions inside each of one's life-
or "high" self-esteem; if the reverse, a "low" shaping experiences; and in molding one's
self-esteem. thoughts about oneself (i.e. self-concepts).
The core of one's self-identity is one's charac-
THE BUILDING BLOCKS OF ter. Its interior "frame" is one's work products aris-
SELF-ESTEEM ing from one's character. For example, it was the
One judges who one is based upon how close- nature of my character that led me to become a
ly one's actions conform to one's chosen archetype physician. A large dimension of my self-identity
standard. The selection of this archetype is found- has arisen from all the work I put into being the
ed on one's belief that it is an ideal guide for best orthopedic surgeon I could be. The exterior of
maneuvering through the maze of life. By its very self-identity is one's personality that is custom
nature, one's chosen archetype provides answers designed to fit in with the outside world. It results
to a person's most basic questions- "Who Am I? " from the interaction of one's character and the
"What is my purpose and position in life?" "How monitored feedback from one's interpreted experi-
shall I live?" "What do I want to become?" and ences with other people. Self-identity's fourth
"What happens to me when I die?" Afrocentric- dimension extends into an intimate association
oriented people have God as their ultimate arche- with somebody or something else.
type and a firm belief of being made in the image For example, many people with low self-
of God.5' 6, 7 Since everybody's "being" is made esteem engage in "self-selling" as the price for
from God's image, everybody is spiritually relat- "borrowing" their group's identity. Then they
ed. In order to live up to God's standard, every- hang on to the shadow of that group's presumed
body ought to have as their purpose in life the higher self-esteem so as to feel superior to that
striving to be humanistic and empathetic in order group's scapegoats. One's self-image is how one
to create, enhance, or maintain harmony and unity assesses what one has in quantities (e.g. body
on Earth.8 9 image) and material things. The finishing touches
To have one's "being-image" of God connected put on one's "above ground" self-esteem structure
with God and to have fellowship within the com- is one's reputation among people that matter. For
munity are the two bonds of greatest inner signifi- example, the "baddest dcides" have the most
cance for Afrocentric people. Those two bonds esteemed reputation of anybody on the streets.4

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The importance they place on their reputation in Afrocentric blacks, the self-esteem nourishing
the ghetto is not particularly affected by people aspects of the black church, and the daily dis-
outside the ghetto. plays of fellowship bonding between "brothers
and sisters" of the community are ongoing sup-
SOME "MASKS" AND "FACES" OF ports for "high" or "good" self-esteem among
the decent ghetto blacks? The Afrocentric
SELF-ESTEEM expression: "I am because we are, and we are,
To survive, "decent blacks of the ghetto" must
therefore, I am," seems to layout a pattern prin-
wear many masks. But far too often, a mask
ciple suggesting a "yes" answer.
becomes converted into a problematic self-esteem
"face." In other words, destructive "pretending" Yet, short of an inferiority complex, decent
graduates into an unhealthy view of oneself. ghetto blacks show several varieties of self-
Anderson4 characterizes decent ghetto blacks as esteem problems. Apart from an unbalanced life-
the "working poor" who value hard work, self- oriented "all value-based" or "all worth-based"
reliance, and other mainstream values of the self-esteem, examples include functional low-
African and Euro-American systems. They stay self-esteem, low self-esteem from erosive cumu-
out of trouble, go to church, and emphasize lative traumas, situational low self-esteem, and
schooling-all in contrast to their street-oriented low self-esteem from "big bang" specific trau-
ghetto neighbors. mas. Instances of the latter may occur in con-
"Decent" youth face constant conflicts with flicts involving the "code of the streets" where
"street" youth and both groups experience prob- "manhood" and "respect" take center stage. In
lems from the larger society's prejudices and dis- the ever-present ghetto "war zone," decent
criminations. These problems significantly con- youth are constantly on the defensive to maintain
tribute to poverty, poor environmental conditions, respect, while street youth are constantly on the
and under or unemployment-factors alone which attack to grab what little respect is available. The
fashion lacks, losses, and obstructions to black sudden loss of respect spells immediate and
youths' progress-factors alone which increase essentially permanent disgrace. The effect of this
daily struggles, troubles, and distress-factors "big bang"-specific trauma causes an across-the-
alone which generate emotional disturbances and board shattering of many "props" within the self-
often hopelessness for a better life. esteem complex.
The assumption made by many white author- Situational low self-esteem may occur when
ities who tested these ghetto youth in the past decent youth are given achievement or similar
was that blacks bear a "disfigured and low self- "what you learned in school" tests designed
esteem. "10 In assessing those same tests and the and/or administered by whites.10 Deliberately
conditions under which the tests were given, cer- creating low scores in order to "belong" is one of
tain other authorities have struck down that the many reasons for scoring low. However, once
assumption because of the lack of a "level play- back home, their normal state of self-esteem
ing field. "10, 1,12 More recent and more objec- often resumes. But much too often the results of
tive studies have indicated that "black's self- these test can have terrible and long-lasting con-
evaluations are equal or higher than those of sequences. One is that the low scores can start a
whites and their rate of suicide is about one-half chain reaction leading to a self-fulfilling prophe-
that of whites, "13 and that "black children do not cy whereby the person internalizes the false
usually hate themselves, idolize whites, and belief of inferiority. In other words, "if people
maintain low self-esteem. "12 If the latter studies define situations as real, they are real in their
are true, then how can it be explained? Could it consequences. "14 Thus, being constantly told
be that the God-based self-meaning of that one is a "small person" will cause that per-

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son to design his/her life so as to grow to be that one's self-meaning and self-identity; one's men-
small person. Another terrible consequence is tal toughness; and one's age.
the placement of blacks in caged, "special edu- Children are more likely to experience a "big
cation" classes whereby they are removed from bang" from relatively minor attacks. Examples
a progression toward a chance for success. Les include having one of their self-image features
Brown, the internationally famous motivational laughed at or being called a "bad" self-concept
speaker, was put into one of those classes. When name. Mature persons may simply put such
he decided not to allow anyone to define who he attacks on hold and review what is good about
was, he flew out of his cage. them. In this way, they maintain a homeostatic,
Low self-esteem stemming from cumulative healthy self-esteem.
traumas in a bad environment is the result of Functional low self-esteem is a reflection of
foundational erosions. These effects may be neu- imitating patterns that characterize the low self-
tralized once the youth leaves the ghetto and esteem. Certain African American slaves found it
gains some measure of success. By remaining in to their advantage to apply the "acting dumb and
the ghetto, however, erosion may cause perma- playing crazy" mask of low self-esteem in their
nent damage as, for example, in killing the ini- presentations to slave owners. Stepin Fetchit
tiative for achievement. From feeling over- (1902-1985) was known for his film portrayal of
whelmingly controlled and burdened, the result- stereotyped blacks acting as if they had low self-
ant low achievers make no attempt to discover, esteem. He is one of several black movie actors
develop, and/or find a niche for their talents. To who helped keep alive this model for many black
better understand the effects of self-esteem ero- youth to imitate.
sions, let us use the analogy of the 15 to 200 Another way of adopting a level of function-
pairs of legs on a centipede. If an arbitrary num- ing below one's capacities is to imitate bad
ber of legs, say 30%, are removed, the centipede habits within the ghetto environment. A common
can still walk, but probably with a lessening of example is the misuse of money, as in getting
reserve, speed, and endurance. Removing, say into needless debt. This became quite evident
75%, makes for difficulty in walking and even when I was teaching a bimonthly Los Angeles
greater losses of reserve, speed, and endurance. Conservation Corp class to inner city youth sev-
By removing a critical number, say 90%, the eral years ago. After a discussion on money man-
centipede can no longer walk. agement, Willie came to me and said that he had
Similarly, if the highest degree of self-esteem never thought about not being in debt! As a
is represented by 100 "legs" in the self-mean- result, he was in a great deal of debt. Then, he
ing/identity/concept/image complex, losses of incidentally mentioned that this made him feel
say 30% of self-image and self-concept "legs" bad about himself. At the next session, he proud-
may not wipe out "good" or "high" self-esteem. ly stated that after applying my suggestions he
However, the person will likely be hypersensi- was able to not only stop getting into more debt,
tive to slights, quite vulnerable to attacks on self- but had managed to reduce his debt by $50. The
esteem, and more inclined to assume or resume report several weeks later was that he was debt
bad habits. Losing still more legs will eventually free. Four years after that, he tracked me down to
create problematic psychological and then psy- say how great he was feeling from having saved
chiatric conditions. How many losses one person $20,000. From that he used $9000 to attend
can handle will depend upon the number of forestry school.
"legs" one has already developed; the signifi- Another student told me that when I started
cance one places on the loss of "key legs"; the giving the sessions he was strongly considering
loss of a certain number of legs; the strength of joining a gang. But after hearing my comments,

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he decided to pursue pharmacy. Still another stu- esteem is the summary judgment of the collected
dent called me nine years later to say that he had separate assessments of one's self-meaning, self-
read the notes of my lectures almost every week identity, self-image, and self-concepts.
and applied them in his art career. He was proud
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assessments of one's own worth and value con-
tained in each item located inside the foundation.
The "above ground" structure, built on top of
the foundation, is designed to monitor one's inter-
actions with the outside world. This ongoing regu-
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