Hello how are you doing? its nice to connect with you here at this time..

am Steve
and whats your name?
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where do you live ?
Ans: I live in Lexington,Ky
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I see...how long have you lived there and do you like it there?

Ans: I have been here for 5years now and i must say i like it here because the
people here are kind and friendly.
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so how long have you been on the dating site ,are you having luck there? and how
did you know about that site..
ANS: Well am new to all this internet stuff and
has only been on the site for 2days now and have not talked to any woman from
there...I knew of a man who got hooked up with a very nice woman on there and they
are happily married and lives in Italy,so he introduced me to the site and i said
let me join and see where it will take me to.
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5 is there any risk in the online dating?
Ans: I have not been on here that much so i don't know if there is a risk in this
online dating but am praying i meet some real good people.

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6. where are you originally from?
ANS: well am Originally from Scotland, and that is where i was born but i was
raised in Edinburgh and had most of my education back home.
,its a very nice place and maybe we can visit there some day...LOL
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7. what brought you to kentucky? why there?
ANS: i was having a friend who used
to live here in Lexington and he told me a lot about Kentucky so i just came
straight bought this house and moved here about 5years now..but that friend of mine
died of a heart cancer three months ago...i always cry when i remember him.

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I was living in Vila do Conde,Portugal,its a very nice place and maybe we can
visit there some day...LOL...and i was having a friend who used to live in
Lexington and he told me a lot about Kentucky so i just went straight there bought
the house and moved there about 1year now..but that friend of mine was in a car
wreck and died three months ago...i always cry when i remember him...i also find it
out that Canada is a nice place so i also bought this house here two months ago and
have not moved here yet.

MORE ABOUT MY SCHOOL BACKGROUND

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I went to Rahway High School in Portugal and then continued to the ISCTE-IUL
(ISCTE - Instituto University de Lisboa) Portugal....had my M.Sc. in Mining and
Minerals Engineering @ Birla Institute of Technology and Science, Pilani,
Rajasthan, India,I later came to California and i was into systems Engineering and
business management,Mathematics, Physics and Civil Engineering Anthropology..in
California State North ridge, UC Berkley.so after i graduated decided to stay in
the united state but didn't really know where exactly to stay so i called this
friend of mine whom i told you about and he said a lot about KY so i thought of
staying here in Ky and it s nice place here.
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8: what is your marital status now?

Ans: well i am a widowed father with a lovely son. I lost my wife to ovarian
cancer, and its been 6 years now.
I am so sorry for your loss. God only knows why these things happen...Losing
someone is very traumatic, but I promise it does get better with time
Thats okay,thank you,the loss has been tremendous but I am definitely a survivor.
Everyone has losses. You just have to keep going and honor your loved ones..it was
very hard when this happened to me but i thank the almighty God so much that he
made me a strong person and has made me who i am now...you know its not easy to be
a single parent.
we are still very young and need some one in our lifes to be with and also to spend
the rest of our lives with.
you know it was very hard for me when all this happened to me but i thank the
almighty God he was by my side and he made me a strong person and he also made me
who i am now.
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9: Do you have any kids?

Ans: Yes i haven an son who is 14years and will be 15soon...he
is brilliant and very smart girl and likes to read a lot..I think am going to help
him do double major law and psychology.
i started late in life because i was not able to give birth until 14years ago so i
guess that is a miracle for me.I hope you don't mind me still raising a little
child because i can always have time for you okay.

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10. are you close to your children?

Ans: both my daughters lives with me but my little daughter is the one living with
me all the time as i've already told you and we get along very well..
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11. Do you want to give birth to more kids ?

ANS: well that is undecided because i may like to discuss
with the woman in person ..you know what i mean,let me put that another way if i
meet someone with kids that's fine but i cant have any.
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12: do you still have the intentions of getting married again?

Ans: If I find the right person it's a possibility. There is nothing more
fantastic than having your best friend as a partner to lean on, love, admire, and
share everything with. I am in no rush, taking it slow and feeling my way around.
When the time is right I will know....i would want to get married again if i meet
the right woman because life is too short to be spending it all alone..sometimes
its gets too lonely.
You and I were brought together for a reason, now we need to find out what that
reason is. To be by each others side to see things through until our lives are
through. Together we can conquer almost anything if done together.
Have we each found someone that will give us the strength to endure good and bad
and "Never Give Up". I am sorry you are lonely, wish I was there to cheer you up.
Here is a BIG HUG. Your e-mails bring a smile to my face and cheer me up.
Well you are my ANGEL FISH that I picked and since all the rest in the pond are
guppies to me. I can give you a hand to hold, a warm winter night cuddle and can't
offer you the world but I can offer you my arms, my time, my support, my affection
and never ask for more in return than I give. I have small demands and adore you.

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13: does your children mind u dating?

Ans: Between the two of us there are 4 children to shower with love and that
leaves plenty of time for you and me to form a closer bond. My daughter wants one
thing for me, Be careful, Be Safe and Be Happy and if YOU ARE THE ONE then she is
alright with it if I am happy. I've already asked my daughter. she know I am a
strong person and can handle a lot on my own but she don't want me to continue
being alone, 8 years it tough and I miss the company, affection, attention and they
see the pain but never force me, she know it will come in time when I am ready.
Apparently your children feel the same way.
my daughter does not mind me dating at all because she keeps telling me dad you
need to get yourself someone to make you happy again so that makes me think she
wants the best for me.
Nothing in this world can compare to H-A-P-P-I-N-E-S-S, so do you think maybe you
and I can find that again and stop crying and being depressed?
Actually, I am not crying or depressed. I look at life in a very positive way.
Even if I'm alone, there are a lot of good things out there.,,I have been more out
going lately and trying to just get out....Being depressed takes way too much
energy.
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14: how serious are you in getting into any relationship or do you just want
someone to spend some time with?
Ans: am serious and i want to love and to be loved again.i don't joke about this
or play any head games.
i am very serious, at the beginning i was just not sure about the distance but you
have changed my mind, maybe there is a light at the end of the tunnel. i want
someone there every day, someone to spend time with, doing things together, share
everything together and more.
I want a serious relationship, I don't joke or play games with anyone as i said
earlier, and you are the only one i am talking to. I really want to be a part of
your life, and your children's. I just want one woman, in my life, one I can love,
and cherish, and be with. Share my sorrows, and my happiness. My good times and
bad, would hope he would share the same with me.
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15: anyway what do you do for a living?

ANS: well i am a professional Architect,i draw building
plans,i design homes and sometimes build them when the people i designed the home
for wants me to build them..i have been into this for the past 26 years and i love
doing it because it keeps me busy all the time and also pays the bills..you know
what i mean..LOL..i am very artistic and i love antiques so i do collect them allot
i also love the flea market and yard sales.
There are couple of houses and estates i've designed and others i built in
Australia and will love to show them to you one day when we visit there .....when
it comes to this business i have to show all the elevations of the house i desinged
..which is the Front elevation,back,elevation ,side elevation,i show the roofing
plan and the type of roofing which will fit the house,I do the landscapping and the
finishing....But i don't get to build a lot and the most part of it is paper work.
Ans: Well i am an Independent Contractor { Geologist }, also i buy
Raw Gold and sell to Jewelry companies.
the money aspect is very good and is an interesting work..you know what i mean,i
have worked with some big big companies before and that was way back years ago....I
have my website under construction and have not really thought of a name to put on
the business but as soon as we get together we can plan this together and put our
name on it if things work out between us.
i am being honest with you and I am a very independent person and own myself..am
not seeing anyone at the moment so we can always keep in touch and through that it
will help us get to know more about each other if you still remain
interested.........All i want is someone to be my soul mate and to spend the rest
of my life with thats why i put my profile on the dating site because i do like
meeting people at the bars.

16: what is the most important things you are looking for in another partner?
Ans: Character and intelligence,honesty, someone who is fun-spirited and
playful.Beauty or "chemistry" is important to me in my partner. I am looking for
someone who seeks someone else to really explore life together with....every time i
look i think i find some one but they just screw me over and thats not what i want
but im looking for a relationship that will last and one that i can have fun with
someone who is honest, loyal, able to share happiness and sadness, similar life
goal...when all this things are there then everything else will fall into place. No
secrets, then will only surface later and hurt the relationship.
I'm not sure if I am considered intelligent but I am wise and savvy and don't
tolerate mean, ugly or vindictive from people. I may have a different sense of
humor it comes natural from the Italian in my blood. I have explored some things
but not enough to see a lot of what life has to offer out there, that would be
grand to do it together with you. A relationship is teamwork and one person can not
do it alone. I have been screwed a few nasty times but never let it make me bitter,
I chalk it up to experience, learn from it and ensure I never treat people the
wrong way I was treated or taken advantage of. I want to have fun with you, share
happiness, cry together, smile when we achieve the goals we set together, and most
important Love Each Other with our whole hearts.

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17. what are some of your interest?

Ans: my interests include reading, reading books of John Grisham, James Patterson,
Stuart Woods, Patricia Cornwell, Sue Grafton, Kinky Friedman, Tom Robbins, Mario
Puzo and many more...I love a good mystery), seeing concerts or symphonies, walking
a trail in the woods, writing, home improvement projects (they're all about done),
spending time with family and friends, movies, eating out or cooking, book stores,
working in my flower beds.

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18: what have past relationship thought you?

Ans: I've realized that people change and don't necessarily grow in the same
direction. Going down a different path is ok - it doesn't make one person wrong or
the other right. I've also learned that the important thing in a relationship is
honesty - and without that, you don't have much. I think people are resilient and
bounce back from most relationships.

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19: do you drink?

Ans: I am only a social drinker in that I enjoy a glass of wine with dinner or
conversation. I may have a beer once in a great while. And may have a mixed drink
rarely. ... i never get drunk, need to drive, clear head ..more enjoyable when
conversational company.
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20: Have you ever smoked in your lifetime?

Ans: Smoking is an awful thing to be addicted to in my opinion. I am allergic
to smoking so I try to stay away from it as much as possible.The allergy developed
later in my life, whiles my wife was pregnant to our first daughter. So no, I have
never smoked. Not that I didn't try it when I was in college. I did but never did
it for more than 2days or two.I'm glad I never liked it.
my eye water and stings when smoking is in the air badly.. sometimes i can't
breath.. in a closed room
i've been reading this book and it's fascinating..it's called..The Science of
getting rich..by...Wallace D Wattle..i read it 4 years ago from the library and I
loved it.. so i found a copy again...very hard to find..it's al about changing your
way of thinking, with gratitude, how you shuld live your life a certain way so
everything moves towards you ......live your life positively, to send out what you
want in your life and how it will come to you by the way you live your
life.......teaches you how to think in a way whatever you want in life you will
get.........i think it's a great book..thats how Robert Allen, Bob Procter and many
Great Speakers have lived and taught people how to have abundance in their lives by
thinking and doing things a certain way.
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21: What do you think about affairs?

Ans: affairs are all about accepting and understanding one another and desease
from hurting the feelings of one another.its always good making yourselves happy
and smiling......keep your mate in hear best shoe just as it would make her feel
better rather than hurtng her feelings.and i would prefer the same from her.

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22: Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years?
Ans: believing in the most high God,trust,honest,communication. as long as they
talk to each other, the relationship endures. Even when there are differences,
talking can solve problems.you know what i mean.
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23: Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could
share with you.
Ans: cc Better communication and understanding, genuine passionate love than
romantic love, way of opening up business, better ways of spending money, learning
what to say, how to say, when to say things without hurting any ones feeling,
career, goals, and detail oriented and lastly a peaceful and perfect family where
wife understands things, do her responsibilities, make her husband look good by
pinpointing failures and correcting them because that's what good wife's do...there
is much a family needs and I feel I am a caring enough person to be there for the
woman i'm with

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24: how will your perfect day be like?

Ans: Wake up with my dear wife next to me, roll over and give her a kiss, get up
have a wonderful shower, go to work, day go by fast, come home have the house
already clean, wife comes home say she loves me, we eat relax together and fall a
sleep in each others arms.

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25: If you had three wishes, what would they be?

Ans: have world peace,To be five years old again with my parents teaching me to
ride a bike without training wheels...hearing their laughter and feeling their
support.and also establish a good family a good woman,
I'm going to be greedy and ask for one more........to die in my sleep in the arms
of my wife.
i never wish for much, as long as everyone is happy i'm happy

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26: what are your greatest achievement

Ans: stopping more living for others and learning how to live for myself,my
partner and our kids and the entire family..what do you think? am not trying to be
slefish but i have been helping others all the time and sometimes it gets me into a
lot of problems..

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27: what do you do for fun?

Ans: well i like to go out with family and friends,read ,swim,sail,go fishing and
camp..i know its been a long time since i fish,,it was when i was young,i used to
go deep sea with my dad ,walk on the beach, go dancing, i also love cooking.LISTEN
TO MUSIC ROCK AND ROLL COUNTRY.its been one of my favorite.... LOL,I do like to
bowl and bowl on a league. I'm an avid reader.....always have a book going. I've
been fishing but it has been some time. Guess i haven't forget how to bait a hook.
LOL...I haven't been bowling since I was alot younger, never was good at it, but I
always enjoyed it. I used to go fishing with my dad, he used to make me clean all
his fish, I didn't like that much, but the fishing was fun.
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28: what are some of your interest?

Ans: my interests also include reading, reading books of John Grisham, James
Patterson, Stuart Woods, Patricia Cornwell, Sue Grafton, Kinky Friedman, Tom
Robbins, Mario Puzo and many more...I love a good mystery), seeing concerts or
symphonies, walking a trail in the woods, writing, home improvement projects
(they're all about done), spending time with family and friends, movies, eating out
or cooking, book stores, working in my flower beds....It was a ton of fun. When I
go to a book store it is hard to get me out....lol

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what is your favorite foods?
Ans: I truly love fillet..steak and potatoes,barbecue ribs or catfish,Chicken
sandwich,lamb Bridie,mixed bean with bacon onion carrots potatoes cabbage and
garlic,Mexican, Chinese and American,Asian foods and trying all types of different
foods.I love to shop for a woman and enjoy shopping New York in, Los Angele's when
am around there and especially in foreign countries where you can find many
interesting things and bargains.

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29: what is your idea of a great date?

Ans: It could be anything from taking a walk in the woods, having a picnic,
talking, and sharing funny stories to taking a country drive, seeing a good movie
(either at home or the theater), cooking dinner together, canoeing or kayaking on a
peaceful lake, going to an art exhibit or the symphony, working outside....really,
I'm game for about anything, feeling it has to do with who I'm with, not what I'm
doing. If it's the right person, taking the garbage out together can be really fun!
meeting for coffee, seeing a movie or just taking a walk.Having a dinner together..
Having time to spend talking and getting to know each other would be a good place
to start. I would be open to other ideas but I would like the first date to be
casual and relaxed providing an opportunity to share with each other about who we
are and who we have been.
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30: Are you a jealous type?
ANS: Well no am not a jealous type of person and i think if
a person is jealous theres no trust..so i always like to be on the trust side,hope
you know what i mean.
I am not a jealous person. If what my mate is doing bothers me, I talk it out in
private. As a younger man, yes, there was some jealousy but I have outgrown
it.about jealousy... I trust my mate, but if a man comes onto my woman, I will
intervene...so that the man knows who he belongs to. That is the jealousy I mean.
I don't make a scene or get upset with my mate for it, unless she is obviously
flirting in front of me. do you know what I mean.

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31: Do you control people?

ANS: No way i don't control any body not even my

kids,everybody needs his or her own time to decide on what to do and what not to
do..and i take people as they are...I have a kind heart and I am sensitive to
everyone's feelings...no one should ever think or even try to change anyone..... I
think you can always learn from others because everyone's experiences are all
different.
I don't believe in trying to make people do what you want them to do.
I am a take-charge person so in that sense, there may be some control. As far as
the general sense of the word "control", no I do not "control" people.
I personally like a woman to be somewhat of a take-charge person. But she also has
to have the ability to ask for help and/or accept help when it is offered. She has
to admit when she is wrong, make mistakes or doesn't know an answer. I really
can't stand arrogance.
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32: You write such beautiful words but can u say it in person i cant write as good
as u but im the type i can only show how i feel.
ANS: Well i can show that in person but am the shy
type of person and it will take some time before i can show that in person when i
meet ya..you know what i mean....well thinking/ writing/typing are my thoughts and
of course I am the same guy verbally face to face.....it takes everyone a little
bit to warm up to anyone new
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33: How do u feel about grandkids i hope thats not a problem

ANS: well i like kids and like to be around them... i

can make a good grandfather and i dont care whose they are their just a lot of
enjoyment in them.
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34: Do you have family back home?
Ans: yes i have uncles and aunts back home but am not close to them because my dad
was a very independent man and didn't want me to be around the family..
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35: do you have any siblings or immediate family anywhere close?
ANS: No am the only child my parents could have and
am proud of myself,my parents really loved me before i lost them and i know i made
them proud and i believe they are always with me in heaven .
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36: What is your best memory, and why?

Ans: The birth of my daughter and son, Why not the first? well I lost 1 baby right
from birth time and I was convinced something would go wrong again so didn't just
enjoy the moment, my two kids births I just relished.
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37:what are you goals in life?

Ans: To love and be loved,have fun and enjoyment in life,Sense of belonging ,Warm
relationships with others,Self-respect,Self-fulfillment,Being well respected,A
sense of accomplishment and Security.
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38: what is your perception of an ideal relationship?
Ans: Of course communication, honesty, and trust are important, but so is being
morally and intellectually compatible. Also, having fun together is so important.
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39: so other than your appearance what is the first thing people notice about you?
because they might think they would be nice. so i think people first notice my
appearance..
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40: what are you passionate about?

Ans: In this crazy world I'm just passionate about life and living it to its
fullest. Thankful for all that we have. Some people aren't so lucky.
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41: describe one thing about you that only your best friends know.
Ans: my best friends could described me as Honest,Faithfulness person who always
like to give to those with less fortunate and give good advices.
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42: what made you laugh today?
Ans: You actually made me happy today and also I went to the shop this morning and
met a friend of mine and we talked about how we hate our biology teacher and he
made a really funny joke about her. I laughed so hard.....lol
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43: Have you ever been violent? If so, why?

Ans: yes i have.that was when a business client of mine messed up with my
funds ,he refuesed paying me an amount of $150,000 and the case is still at the
court trying to get my money back from him.
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44: Have you ever had any financial problems (bad credit or filed bankruptcy)?
Ans: No never .am always fiancially fit.

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45: What are your guilty pleasures?
Ans: I find guilt to be a totally useless emotion and one we would do well to rid
ourselves of.That said, I do spend hours and hours and hours reading non fiction
books.
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46: do you have vital things in your life? what will they be?
Ans: love!-it wins hands down in my life........and to thank god for my
kids ,friends and customers, the world is sure a gloomy place without them.
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47: what are the things you are most thankful for?
Ans : Jesus dieing for my sins, the love of my darling partner and my wonderful
family.
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48: What is your religious beliefs and religion? How were you brought up?
Ans: am a very good christian who belief and trust in almighy God.even though i do
not get the chance being in the church,i always pray during meal and after meal and
also before i sleep and after i getting up in bed.
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49: How much of their spare time should your partner spend with you?
Ans:

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50: What does growing old mean to you?

Ans: wel i would love remaing as i am ,but God hasnt create us this way.no matter
what we shall grow old and we need to accept our state of growing old ...

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51.Describe your dream holiday!
i love the beach,camping and sightseeing.so think it should be the best dream of
Holiday venues
that i think would like being with my lovely partner..

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52 what do your parents mean to you?
My parents are the world to me, especially my mom as well.because i did not enjoy
any fatherly love..i was mostly taken care of when i was very young even though
they passed away ,but still i could remember some of the care provided to me by my
mom and i missed her so much.

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53: What do your friends mean to you?

friends mean a lot to me too..thats if only you aint that kind of selfish ones.i
dont make friends who are greed and lazy.friends i have are very hard
working and i think make me laugh as well..when in sadness,i goes to them so they
could create jokes for me to laugh and share ideas with them,.

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54: What do others admire about you?
My personality. That I am a very caring and giving person. how many people that
really like me and have nothing bad to say about me. No one really dislikes me.
Honesty, loyalty, my perverted ness at times, hard worker, fair to others and the
ability to sympathize and be empathetic.am a kind who offers help when ever one is
indeed .

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55: How do you define success?
Ans: What makes you feel happy and fullfilled in life. How your family turns out.
Knowing that you had a hand in it and they are well.
The achievement of something desired, planned, or attempted: attributed their
success in business to hard work.
I think i have been successful in everything i do .my work.making friends .progress
in business and .having my only son with me now,my daughter also studies outside
the country ,but not in marriage or relationship because i lossed my ex wife and
hasnt been lucky since..i know the Lord shall answer my prayers soon...
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56: What makes you proud?

Ans: My family, honesty,friends,I can take care of myself, and #1 my Love for my
almighty God
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57: What are you afraid of?

Ans: being hurt in a relationship thats when trust and honest doesnt work between
us.
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58: How important is money to you?
Ans: Well, it is a necessary evil so to speak. I don't like not having any but it
doesn't control my life. I am careful with my money and don't go crazy buying
every latest fad, but I like to use it wisely and get things that I really need or
want when I can afford it....I want to be comfortable and enjoy nice things, but do
it reasonably, I like saving money

Money is good and it is important to me �as well..But it doesnt mean alot to me

even though its important.i have alot and also an independence man of my own.i have
been in my business and it brings lots and lots of income into my pocket....what am
looking for now is a very loving and caring woman..who would provide me with much
love and care as well as my children.
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59: What negative characteristics do you have?
Ans: Lets see...I tend to like to do things my own way. Someone may want to show
me a certain way to do something, but I will insist on doing it my way...usually
because my way has worked for me before....Another thing is that if I don't know
the answer to a question, I may make up an answer
i am a kind of person who is very straight,asks what i need and demand prompt
answer and not everybody likes it that way.i believe very strongly in love and when
i have interest in you.i wont hesitate telling you to be mine.so bear this with
me,i might have the same feeling for you and i would need a positive
answer.....lol.i hope am not sounding too controlling.. that sounds right and that
is not always good,Sometimes, I am impatient,Sometimes I can be too quiet...and not
express myself when I should.
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60: do you like animals?

Ans: I have a shorky..which is part yorky and part shitzu...what a little devil he
is...his name is bingo but I love him so much....thats not all I have another one
and his name is is lucky, i also have two cats and their names are bootz and ellie
,I also have a large Husky mixed with Black retriever long haired female...very
gentle, very easy going,she's Wolf....if you are allegic to animals,you don't have
to worry at all because i have a fenced for them at the back yard.

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61: what makes you smile or laugh?
Ans: the one that makes me laugh is a KIA commercial, it shows two rats in a car
cruising in a car and with the music up loud jamming to it. That was funny as hell!
Lots of things, being in friends,and they say funny things which make me laugh and
socialize with new ones as well..also when a gift is provided to me by my
partner.it makes me laugh alot.

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62: what valuable lesson have you learnt in your life?

Ans: There are lots of things I have learned in my life, and I keep learning.
That is what I believe we are here on earth to do.. keep learning but the most one
I have learned is that no matter how much you think you are in control of a
situation, there will always be something that will prove to you that you are not.
And that when bad things happen in life, it doesn't mean the end of things...it is
just a turn in the road that you didn't see coming and a new direction will lead
you to better things
to love is better than not to have loved,to forgive is better than rot in the
bitterness it will otherwise distry you,to believe in someone even when everyone
else has given up hope,
That I can learn from other people's mistakes. It saves me time and hopefully I
don't make their mistake.and Life IS trouble, only Death is not. To be alive is to
roll up your sleeves & LOOK for trouble!"
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63: what is your favorite foods?
Ans: My fave main dish would be chicken Kiev and twice baked potatoes. You can
probably find these recipes in a gourmet internet site. The chicken Kiev is time
consuming but easy to make and the twice baked potatoes are just easy to make. Good
luck. Oh, also look up homemade pirogies. Did you know the original way to make
pirogies is with a fruit filling?
I truly love fillet..steak and potatoes,barbecue ribs or catfish,Chicken
sandwich,lamb Bridie,mixed bean with bacon onion carrots potatoes cabbage and
garlic,Mexican, Chinese and American,Asian foods and trying all types of different
foods.I love to shop for a woman and enjoy shopping New York in, Los Angele's when
am around there and especially in foreign countries where you can find many
interesting things and bargains.
i love mexican an spagetti meatloaf any type of potato any kind of beans except lol
cabbage smoke sausage an like it with bell peppers an onions dont care to much
about fish maybe eat it once in six months if i get a craven for it love broccoli
an cheese i am a cheese lover like steaks lasagana mac an cheese love chicken
cooked anyway

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64 you know am 57 years old and what do you think about my age,will it be a problem
to you?
Ans: I wouldn't mind if you were 10 years younger or 10 years older...it is the
connection to the person that matters...not age. It is what is in the heart and
how you feel about each other that makes a relationship. Age is just a number.
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65: describe your spirituality?

Ans : I believe in Jesus Christ. I'm of Assemblies of God. I'm more of a
moderate. I do have traditional views on things, but I'm not gonna TELL people what
to do. But I'll try to guide them as best I can. I believe the father, son, and the
holy spirit are/is my father, and my friend. I think if I try to live a good
Christian life, that others will see that and WANT to follow me. I don't like being
told what to do, and I don't really like telling others what to do, but I will tell
them what I think(or know), what they should do, and I do believe that I'm guided
by God most of the time. He is my Savior, and I do believe that God will give u
what u want as u need it, and that he won't give u problems u can't handle. If he
does, I just tell him I'm about to give up on life, and something usually comes to
me...sent by him...a friend calls, I see something soothing on tv, I read the
Bible, and the scripture totally relates. etc. Footprints is
awesome!gonna TELL people what to do. But I'll try to guide them as best I can. I
believe the father, son, and the holy spirit are/is my father, and my friend. I
think if I try to live a good Christian life, that others will see that and want to
follow me. I don't like being told what to do, and I don't really like telling
others what to do, but I will tell them what I think(or know), what they should do,
and I do believe that I'm guided by God most of the time. He is my Savior, and I do
believe that God will give u what u want as u need it, and that he won't give u
problems u can't handle. If he does, I just tell him I'm about to give up on life,
and something usually comes to me...sent by him...a friend calls, I see something
soothing on tv, I read the Bible, and the scripture TOTALLY relates. etc.
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66: Do you have any prejudices?
Ans: No I don't think I am. I try to judge ppl on how they treat me and my loved
ones, not on their beliefs, color, native origins etc. I don't lump everyone into
one category because maybe one person is "bad". I have always tried to teach my
children to judge ppl by their character, not their race etc. Unfortunately, my
husband is very prejudiced and this has rubbed off on my younger son, and I am
constantly reminding him not to act that way. It is an ongoing struggle.
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67: what makes you angry..
Ans: well arrogance and disaobidient people makes me angry,i ignore people who
make me angry..i prefer to walk away if they are being intentional....i used to
have a bad temper when i was young but my martial arts training and reading
affirmation books and mixing with positive people helped a lot.
I get angry when people don't listen to what I have to say, or cut me off before I
complete my thought. I also don't like to be belittled or told I am stupid or my
views are wrong. If my opinion is asked for then my opinion should be respected. I
get angry at cruelty...to people or animals. I get angry about lots of injustices,
so I'll lump them all together.
I'm sure there are other things, too, but those come to mind right now..I think the
martial arts are a great help in finding a way to confront anger.

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68: so when you are angry what do you do?
Ans: i just walk away.. i go very quiet.... prefer to go some where neutral than
say and do things i would regret after.,we need that space and time to cool down..
i found if you say something hurtful things get worse....when i'm happy i enjoy
laughing over nice jokes, family stories, happy memories.
I get louder....I will yell at the person I am angry at. Especially if they will
not listen to me or are being extremely contrary. I usually have my say and then
leave. Most of the time, though, I hold in my anger and try to talk it out with the
person at a later time, when we are both calmer. This usually works as long as the
other person will listen.
I really don't like to argue, but I know arguments will happen. But I like to use
my brain and not my emotions to resolve the argument. Sounds like you are the same

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69: what was your parent's like..when you grew up?
Ans: i was 17years when i lost my dad and lost my mom to a carcinoma cancer two
years after my dad's death,so i had to struggle when i was 19years till now so i
have been through a lot of trial and sorrows but am glad God has made me who i am
now.

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70: what was your husband's name and how did you meet him?
Ans: Elba Ramos was my wife's name,she was from Pueto Rico and i met her Spain on
a vacation when i was 25 and we were married for 12years,we had our first daughter
the same year ..so i lost her when our daughter was 12 and my son was just six
years old..i always cry when i talk about my late wife ..
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71: if you ever find someone else before i meet you will you tell me about it and
don't lead me on.
Ans: well i don;t think that will ever happen because when am getting to know
someone or learning about someone i don't talk to any one about being friends with
them again..just the person am talking to.
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72: so how will be your reaction when you see your partner with another woman?
Ans: i would feel sorry for the new partner..because i know her well...infact will
ignore her,i do not waste my time with past feelings. i move on and feel good that
it has not wrecked my life...i want to start a new life with an open book.

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73: what makes you tick inside?

Ans: Just the thought that I am here and how good it is to wake up to a whole new
day every morning! The excitement as to what the new day will bring! This is what
makes me tick!
A quiet evening on the porch, book on my lap, ice tea in my hands, and watching the
birds and scenery change as the sun goes down, nothing can compare to those colors
and with company it�s much better!

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74: what makes you warm and fizzy?
Ans: When my partner and i is snuggling on the couch with a blanket, watching a
movie with a cup of hot chocolat and it must be raining outside. then i feel warm
and fuzzy..it could be the final touches!!!
Lying in bed, nuzzling with my partner, listening to each other breath and knowing
I wouldn�t want to be anyplace else. Or sharing a hot shower (tub is too small)
and just holding each other-not everything is
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75: what do you do with your free time when you are alone?
Ans: Well when am all alone on my free time i don't want to have memories about
the past things so i prefer reading nice books..like Your life follows your word
written by Darlene Bishop of Solid Rock Church or watch a nice movie.
I try to stay busy in my flower beds, maybe go shopping or take in a move. Don�t
like doing movies alone feels weird and I look at couples and feel alone. Miss
sharing my popcorn with somebody and usually do movies at home. In the last two
years I have read more than 50 different books, the library knows me by first name
now, and I bought a Kindle E-Book that has about 167 books loaded that I still need
to read.

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76: what would you do if a total stranger came and spoke to me..just asking
Ans: well i may not do anything because i don't know what he or she was discussing
with you but after he or she is gone then i will ask you what you discussed with
the person..
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77: when you're with the kids, do you show your anger when you get angry.
Ans: no i don't let them know when am angry or upset....my kids knows I usually
talk to them quietly if anything upsets me and they know that... if i'm angry I
usually leave the house and go for a long drive......every now and then , I tend to
tell my kids off if they leave dirty dishes around the house, i'm always telling
them to keep their rooms clean or wash their own dishes, they know i like the house
clean, tidy and to help.
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78: do you need a man touch in your home? sorry did i touch a sensitive
subject.?
Ans: I am not a very good home designer....my furniture consists of pieces given
to me or bought one at a time, so nothing matches and it is rather hodge podge...So
I welcome the creative eye of someone else. I lack this ability and would like to
have someone help me in that department.....lol
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79: I might have asked you this before, but do you like to cook?
Ans: I love to cook when I feel like cooking. I like to bake too. But I don't like
having to cook all the time. AND I don't enjoy doing the dishes, or cleaning up
afterwards, so you can have that job...lol.
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80: Are you a neat person by nature of do you prefer the comfortable messy look for
your home?....
Ans: I am a neat person but not fanatic, my mum used to tell me off if the house
was messy....mum always had our home clean, tidy ,nice and homely...and i do the
same, even our lawns, make sure i get them done regularly..my mum was, hardworking,
brought us up well and very protective....she was beautiful when young,.LOL
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81: Do you like to leave your shoes lying around?..he he
Ans: i can leave them lying around when am back from work and feels too tired and
will just jump in the bed to take a little nap but when i wakes up i have to put
them on the shoe rack
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82: Do you like to feel the warmth of the summer air or prefer to have the A/C on
for low humidity and coolness?
Ans: It depends...I really don't like to sweat after I have showered/washed my
hair etc, so then I prefer to stay in AC....but if I've been swimming, working in
the yard, that kind of thing, then sitting outside is nice, as long as the humidity
is low enough to breathe.
in summer i love the doors and windows open..over here I have every thing open for
fresh air, like back in the islands, but if too hot, i don't mind A/C but i get
dehydrated but I don't mind it.....in winter I love a fireplace or gas heater or a
heat pump depends as long as the home is warm and dry..
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83: What is one place you have never been that you would love to visit?
Ans: I would love to visit England/Scotland/Ireland and the Scandinavian
countries. But I would also be interested in Greece and Italy because of the ruins
and history.
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84: Where were you raised small town? What about school what was your favorite
subject? Were you an average student or the class president? Did you go to college
and where? I want to know all about your past, it tells me how you got to where you
are now and what molded your past besides the parents raising you.

Ans: I have already told you am Originally from Queensland, Brisbane,Australia

and that is where i was born and my parents moved to Vila do Conde in Portugal and
that is where i was raised....Vila do Conde is a small town but its a beautiful
place and i bet you will like it there....i was an average student ....And when it
comes to education I went to Rahway High School in Portugal and then continued to
the ISCTE-IUL (ISCTE - Instituto University de Lisboa) Portugal....had my M.Sc. in
Mining and Minerals Engineering @ Birla Institute of Technology and Science,
Pilani, Rajasthan, India.I later came to California and i was into systems
Engineering and business management,Mathematics, Physics and Civil Engineering
Anthropology..in California State North ridge, UC Berkley.so after i graduated
decided to stay in the united state but don't really know where exactly to
stay ...i was having a friend who used to live here in Lexington and he told me a
lot
about
Kentucky so i just came straight bought this house and moved here about 3 years
now..but that friend of mine was in a car wreck and died two years ago...i always
cry when i remember him.
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85: well I was a good student in school. I was usually in the top 5 in my class.
I loved English, Math, Art, Music, and Science.
Ans: well I was a good student in school. I was usually in the top 5 in my
class. I loved English, Math, Art, Music, and Science...Science for me is limited
to Science Fiction as an adult. I was never in any click of boys I had a few close
friends and we spent time together but once we all graduated we lost touch as we
moved away... life has a funny way of changing things that were never expected.
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86: How do you handle embarrassing moments?
Ans: oh, it doesn't worry me, i just carry on, apologize and clean it up ..not
embarrasing to me, i make joke out of it and laugh....There is no embarassing
moments when you show human emotions and I don't think a woman should ever be told
she isn't suppose to cry-why? She's human and has to handle the same pain as a man,
she is a sign of love not a whimp.
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87: Do you show your feelings easily?
Ans: don't make me cry..i'm very sensitive when it comes to emotion ,i don't get
anger easily and also i laugh easily...i'm a softee when it comes to love..i hurt
easily because i put my whole life on the line for a woman.
i show my feelings fairly easily. But I can control them too, if I need to. When
I first meet someone I am more guarded, but after I get to know them and feel
relaxed, I let my emotions show rather easily, and will joke around more and be
silly more. It does take me some time to feel free to do that. I guess I am
rather cautious in that regard.
I would never intentionally make a person cry. I don't like to play with peoples
emotions. I try to respect others and their personalities and hope they will do
the same.
I have a hard time with small talk. I always become tongue tied when meeting
someone new, I do better if I can just listen for a while before talking. I am a
good listener.
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88: from speaking to me,do you think am a perfect person in everything?
Ans: I have my faults, so please don't put me on a pedestal. I am stubborn at
times and can be set in my ways. I can be impatient with some things and very
patient with others. I have a hard time dealing with bad or slow drivers and that
will frustrate me.
i have ups and downs , temperaments, sensitivities, likes and dislikes, so what,,
thats how we were made..humans..
i think i've found a good woman, I feel you are the type of woman I'd like to be
with, no one is perfect but everything about you i really admire and respect you
for being who you are....no one is perfect, we all have traits thats why you are
you.
but you know there has to be some sort of chemistry happening for two people to get
along well. That is something we will have to see about eventually.
it all about 'give and take' it's how we approach everything in the right way, live
the right way, think the right way for ourselves and others in our lives.
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89: What is your favorite type of food?

Ans: I like all kinds of food. I don't eat a lot of meat, however. I love
vegies,Almond milk but will eat a good filet mignon.....lol. So I am not a
vegetarian, but I'm not too crazy about most beef, chicken or pork. But like I
said, there are exceptions to that.
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90: Do you like to drive fast?
Ans: I like to drive fast... I try to obey the speed limit, but sometimes I just
like to go faster, especially on the interstate...I used to own several fast cars
and really enjoyed driving a lot. Since I've gotten older, I am wiser and I try to
be more careful,But my family is always teasing me about my fast driving...So now
you know another of my faults...lol..I learned my driving from my father who loved
race cars and used to work on his car all the time...He loved fast cars and even
though he was not a racer, enjoyed the sport.
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91: do you have any flowers or what kind of flowers are you growing?
Ans: Hydrengia (snow balls), Olendar trees, a lot of Bottle Brush Trees, boxwood
shrubs, elephant ears, caladiums, wild roses and crepe myrtle trees, so I am either
trimming or pulling something when I get in the yard. It's a battle between me and
them each time and I usually win...Once or twice a month is enough for me, then I
just keep it watered in this heat.
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92: what kind of wines do you like?
Ans: Never drink wine, it puts me to sleep ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ and I know that
sounds strange but I love sweet drinks, Ice Tea mostly but I sometimes do the Femal
drinks, Pina Colada or Strawberry Daquiries. I have often said if they could
bottle the jenes that I have there would never be another alcoholic in the world.
It really does nothing for me. I am a Plain Jane, Beer makes me sick and soda does
not agree with my stomach, even Milk is so rich I don't do it anymore. Guess I am
getting old and my body is changing
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93: do you ever enjoy going to the winery and doing some wine sampling?
Ans: yes i love it, went to one earlier this yr with my daughter, stomping the
grapes, sampling different wines, watching a croatian culture group..it was
interesting.
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94: do you drink coffee and how many cups do you take in a day if i may ask?
Ans: yes not much, love different flavoured tea, horlicks, light chinese tea ,i
drink coffee in the morning..i think two cups before i start my day.
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95: where you a whild child as a teenager?
Ans: i was wild and smart as intelligent...I was always hanging out with my group
of boyfriends but back in 1973 things were not as wild as the youth of today.
Compared to that I was very quiet and I did experiment with my freedom a lot. I
was a pretty good kid in high school, but got a little wild in college. I used to
do the typical teenager stuff but never got arrested or anything like that. I
think I drank too much while in my early 20s and stayed up all night, that kind of
thing,i have told you one of my past......i think we all did things in our past
which we look back as an experience of letting off steam.
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96: Do you like pizza?
Ans: yes sometimes..love seafood and hawaiian with pineapple like sweet and
sour...i eat pizza on occasion, but I eat vegetarian style thin crust...I don't
care for pepperoni on my pizza or sausage mostly eat it plain or spinach. Fish,
Chicken, Pasta, Mexican, Greek and Chinese are my favorites
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97: do you like thick crust or thin?
Ans: I like thin thxs..the thick gets too doughy...thin is my favorite.

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98: do you like any winter sports?
Ans: I love to snow ski. And I have ice skated several times before and even
took lessons, but was never very good. Of course I like sledding and sleighrides.
And I have cross country skiis too. But I'm not very good at that either.... i
love winter sports.
My ice skating days came to an end when I fell on the ice and hit my head so hard I
had a slight concusion, scared my folks and me so bad that I never put them on
again, but sledding and sleighrides would probably be neat and fun to do-together
of course.
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99: what are your favorite desserts?
Ans: Mango & Tapioca Pearls Dessert,Pavlova all in Australia,Tapioca pudding and
Italian Cannollis (Cone shells filled with a mixture I love) with a mixture I
love). I am not obsessed with chocolate but once in a while I can eat some candy
but choclate cake is too sweet. Cheescake is another one I love and frozen yogurt
or custard (Like Dairy Queen)

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100: If you could go anywhere in the world -- on a vacation -- what is your idea of
a perfect vacation?
Ans: well i have been wanting to visit Hawaii so i think there will be a nice
place for me to go for a vacation..

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101: How important do you think sex is to a relationship?
Ans: I think sex is important in a relationship, but I don't think it should be
the only thing. Sex is a very intimate sharing and expression of love and caring
between two people. I enjoy sex and love the tenderness and warmth that I feel
when I am with that special someone.
yes...just thinking
I want sex to be fun with my partner
I want her to desire me and for me to desire her
want her to always respect me and I her
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ME DEN LILLY TALK THIS

102: Oh--- Do you have brothers and sisters?

Ans: i only have one younger sister who is 5 years younger than me but she is
disabled and lives back home so i do go there to visit her often..she is divorced
and i have someone who takes good care of her for me...you know she was not able to
have any child.
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103: Do you find it difficult to keep promises?
Ans: No - not at all-- I take promises very seriously...If I say I will do
smoething -- that is what I do--It isvery simple.... I stick by my promise --
always.
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104: Do you have any allergies? and what are you allergic to?
Ans: I am allergic to just about every kind of pollen and dust that is in the
air...That is the first thing.....Now I am also allergic to some foods...cucumbers,
bananas, strawberries, all kinds of melons, squash, zuchini..all the good things.I
just have to avoid eating them...The ollen I deal with -- and just take medicine -
especially in the Spring..The foods - I just avoid eating....I have seasonal
allergies too...but nothing really bad. I will sneeze and cough sometimes and I
use Flonase for it. But I found living here in KY has made them worse...lol
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105: Have you ever been to Charleston, SC
Ans: Charleston is wonderful-- the city is very old.