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I. Test Format
Question 1: (6pts)
State what you know about one cultural issue (give examples or make comparison
between Vietnamese culture and others to illustrate your answers)
Question 2: (4pts)
II. Questions
1. Ways the English/American and the Vietnamese make introductions.
Introductions are significant in almost every country in the world. Each
country has its own ways of making introductions. Americans and Vietnamese
have some similarities in the way they make introductions, but they also have
differences that need to be aware of.
First of all, both countries used titles when greeting. Titles are used when
there is a difference in status or age between two individuals. In America, they
often use formal titles and last names to call people who are older or of
different status. For example, Students meet their teacher and they have to call
their teacher “Mr”, or “Ms” with the teacher’s last name to show their
respect toward their teacher. In Vietnam, people also used titles when they
meet someone, but instead of calling the opposite person by their last name, we
often call each other by our given names. Secondly, Americans and Vietnamese
tend to have a small talk after greeting. In America, many Americans greet by
saying “How are you?”. This is usually a form of greeting rather than an
actual inquiry about your well-being. The common response is “I’m good,
thanks. How are you?”. Giving an answer that is deeply personal or less
positive can make the situation uncomfortable if you are not very familiar with
the person. In opening deeper conversations, Americans often ask people about
their occupations like “So, what do you do?”. By contrast, Vietnamese people
tend to ask questions that are personal like “ How old are you?”, “Are you
married?”. Because when people greet in Vietnam, they need to know if the
person they are talking to is older or younger than them in order to have a
proper way of addressing. According to the Vietnamese concept, asking people
about their age and status is a way to show that they want to get close. Finally,
A handshake is the most common greeting when meeting someone for the first
time or in a professional setting in America. Handshakes should be firm and
accompanied by direct eye contact throughout the greeting. On the other hand,
the Vietnamese are also accustomed to shaking hands. Some Vietnamese might
use two hands to shake by resting the left hand on top of the grasp with the
other person's hand. Bowing the head while shaking hands indicates respect.
Elders should be greeted especially respectfully.
In conclusion, there are some similarities in the way America and Vietnam
make introductions, but between two countries also have certain differences.
9. Wedding ceremony in Vietnam and in the United Kingdom / the United States
(similarities and differences).
SIMILARITIES
In every nation, a wedding is organized with many formal ritual observances.
Vietnamese and English both share some similarities in wedding ceremony.
Firstly, both countries have wedding traditions in early time. As early as the
sixteenth, up to the nineteenth century, marriages in Vietnam and England
were arranged by parents or guardians. The bride and bridegroom often were
not acquainted until their marriage. The parents often made the marriage
arrangements and betrothals while the bride and bridegroom were small
children at the age of three to seven. The children would continue to live with
their own parents and meet from time to time for meals or holiday
celebrations.These prearranged marriages came under fire in the late
seventeenth century when a judge held that betrothals and marriages prior the
age of seven “utterly void”. However, they would be valid if, after the age of
seven , the children called each husband and wife, embraced, kissed each
other, gave and recieved Gift of Token. Secondly, Vietnamese and English
culture have the same ceremony structure. Today, a lot of Vietnamese couples
have their wedding ceremony done in chuches which is very much similar to
American and Western style, including exchanging vows and wedding rings.
It’s symbol for their forever cohesion. In the ritual, the master of the
ceremony would give the wedding couple advices on starting a new family. The
groom and the bride’s parents would take turn to share their experience and
give blessing. The groom and the bride then exchange their wedding rings.
Finally, a meal will be serve to all the guest that have attended the wedding. A
banquet is scheduled in the evening at a hotel or a big restaurant. It is always
a delight feast that all relatives, friend, and neighbors are invite. A music band
is usually hired to play live songs. At the banquet, the groom, bride, and their
family are once again introduces to the guests and everyone will drink a toast.
Dinner will be served at the tables.During the reception, the groom, bride, and
their parents will stop by each table to say thank to their guests. A lot of
wedding nowadays are followed by a dancing party, which is opened by the
groom and the bride’s first dance. The party does not recess until very late at
night. The newly wedded couples then leaves for their honey moon.
In conclusion, wedding is a sacred ritual . In many cultures, it is also a way
to celebrate and announce to everybody that two individuals will stick together
for life.
DIFFERENCES
In every nation, a wedding is organized with many formal ritual observances.
Vietnamese and English both have engagement and wedding ceremony in
marriage arrangerment. However, engagement and wedding ceremony are
completely different in detail.
First of all, the engagement in Vietnam and England have some
dissimilarities. In Vietnam, The groom’s family and relatives go to bride’s
house. They bring about three or twelve trays (It depends on the finance of the
groom’s family) that contain betel leaves and areca nuts , wines, cigarettes,
etc. People who hold the trays all wear traditional dress ao dai , normally red
ao dai because red is a symbol of happiness . The groom’s parents ask for
permisson for their son to get marriage . In England, before wedding , bride
and groom organize a party as an engagement party. Families, relatives,
friends of bride and groom join together, they are witnesses of the coming
marriage. The couple then give reasons of the party to guest. They exchange
rings and cut the cake. In the engagement , two families discussed the date of
marriage very carefully. Vietnamese consider that suitable time and date of
wedding affect much their future. Secondly, the way the Vietnamese and the
English prepare for the ceremony is also a huge difference. Preparation takes
such a long time, normally wedding is arranged at home. Houses of the bride
and groom are well decorated with ribbons, flowers, etc. The atmosphere is
full of music and happiness. Some days before the wedding, the couple go to
try wedding attire on. Nowadays, Vietnamese brides often choose white dress
instead of traditional dress Ao Dai. After that invitation cards will be given to
each guest with betel leaves, areca nuts and cakes. Just before the wedding
ceremony, the groom’s family decorate vehicles with flowers as their
responbility is to go and pick up the bride from her home. The couple need to
make up and dress well, they all want to become the most attractive people in
their wedding. On the other hand, the english has one good rule of ceremony
site decor is to let nature speak to itself. They prefer celebrating in places such
as a bluff above the crashing surf with the sunset behind, a house of worship, a
church or a synagogue. Bridal gowns are less ornate that the traditional
Western style dress. Anything fancy would require a special trip to a major city
and be very expensive. Brides rarely kept their gowns for their daughters.
Finally, the Vietnamese and the English have different things to do after the
wedding ceremony. After wedding, Vietnamese young couple often don’t have
honeymoon. The day after in the morning the new husband and wife visit the
bride’s family. They bring buiscuits, sweets, chickens, sticky rice, etc because
bride’s family will use these food to cook meal for all family eat together.
Newly wed couple (now husband and wife) pray their ancestor. If the groom’s
house is far from the bride’s house. young couple can visit their parents – in –
law in some days later. Newly wedded English couples then leave for their
honeymoon. Unlike that, Vietnamese couple spend honeymoon at home and of
course they are free at work that day.
In conclusion, Vietnam and England culture share some similarties, but it is
also has a variety of differences.
10. Cultural features of personal relationships in Vietnam and in other English-
speaking countries such as the United Kingdom, the United States…
(similarities and differences).
SIMILARITIES
Personal relationships refer to close connections between people, formed by
emotional bonds and interactions. These bonds often grow from and are
strengthened by mutual experiences. The features of personal relationships in
Vietnam and in England share some similarities.
First of all, the relationship Among acquaintances is the basic relationship in
one’s cultural. They collaborate for the society development. People in both
countries build up connections and relationships to gain knowledge,
experience about various aspects of society to achieve certain goals. This leads
to more innovation, efficient processes, increased success, and improved
communication contributing considerably to their nations.
Secondly, the use of terms are compulsory to show specific attitudes and
express common emotions. This also presents the social status among
individuals to select appropriate behavior. In other words, by employing a
certain addressing terms, speakers want to express his or her feeling or
respect, solidarity and intimacy to the addresser.
Thirdly, both countries have the same feature in male – female
relationship.Men and women socialize and collaborate freely to contribute to
society and develop men a variety of relationships. Single people of opposite
sexes can be close friends without doubt and prejudices and furthermore, they
can share their personal issues with each other which won`t be interrupted by
romantic feelings. Besides, to couples, they may date with or without the
intention of getting married as they see it as a way to experience and chance to
know more about themselves. The bottom line is nowadays the relationship
between a man and a woman is easier and more open-minded for making
friends or being a lover. With the development of modern devices, people have
a more flexible way to communicate with others, and that helps the
relationships of the different genders become more varied and easier. Let's
overlook that, we could realize that children even know how to love someone at
the child. This helps to preserve the parents’s privacy and allows the child to
get used to living and working independently, the first step toward personal
development. Every child is encouraged to cut the apron strings to experience
and learn about the world by themselves. Secondly, the relationship between
men and women is also different. In England, married men and women
sometimes consider each other best friends as spouses. They also socialize with
members of the opposite sex. This does not mean there is no limitation between
these relationships. In Vietnam, problems in marriage relationship happens
when a wife often has to obey the husband’s family rules and quarrels or
arguments seem to be rude or disrespectful. Moreover, the wife finds it hard to
have an opposite sex friend when she gets married due to the fact that the
husband can easily envy and make a fuss about it, leading to domestic violence
or even divorces. Finally, the relationship between teachers and students is
also contradictory in the way of teaching. While in Viet Nam, students regard
teachers as their parents, so they barely rely on and follow their instructions,
leading to the lack of independent learning and limited practical
knowledge.Learners in English culture only consider teachers to be their
instructors, they just need them whenever they get in trouble. The rest of the
lesson they will learn by themselves and find their own ways to receive the
knowledge effectively.
In conclusion, Vietnam and the UK still have similar characteristics in their
personal relationships, but two countries have huge differences in both culture
and geography.