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Deckha 2011 Pain As Culture A Postcolonial Feminist Approach To S M and Women S Agency
Sexualities
14(2) 129–150
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women’s agency
Maneesha Deckha
University of Victoria, Canada
Abstract
The interaction of gender, culture, race and sexuality is a central dynamic to this article,
which seeks to move forward feminist debate on the benefits and harms of sadomas-
ochist practices for women by applying the critical race and postcolonial method
of world-travelling. The article seeks to make a novel contribution to the feminist
analysis of consensual violence and sadomasochism in law by filtering the issue through
a postcolonial feminist theoretical framework to productively circumvent the current
analytical impasse in this area of feminist ‘sex wars’.
Keywords
agency, culture, feminism, pain, pleasure, postcolonialism, sex, sexuality, sadomasochism
Introduction
One variation in the conversation western feminists have had regarding the ability
of sex to empower women is the debate surrounding the status of sexual sadomas-
ochism (S/M) as a feminist practice (Cossman, 2004). At the risk of oversimplifying
the nuances of the positions, especially the differences between responses to lesbian
S/M versus heterosexual S/M, it may be said that one side views S/M as a healthy
and – because it is transgressive of cultural norms – ideal expression of female
sexual agency. This ‘pro-sex’ side casts any critique of the practice, feminist or
otherwise, as reproducing hegemonic and oppressive norms of sexuality that are
harmful to women (Ardill and O’Sullivan, 2005; Chancer, 1982, 1992, 2000;
Hanna, 2001; Hawthorne, 2005/2006). While not discounting the importance of
sex and sexual expression for women’s autonomy relationally understood, other
feminists view S/M, in which the infliction of physical and/or psychological pain
Corresponding author:
Maneesha Deckha, Faculty of Law, University of Victoria, British Columbia, V8W 3H7, Canada
Email: mdeckha@uvic.ca
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eyes and covering my ears to block out the suffering that a character on a film, for
example, endures.3 For some, this initial, intuitive response should activate con-
templation of what principled basis may ground these strong, negative conclusions
given that in sadomasochism, the ‘sufferers’ have given their consent to the
violence.
This is especially true of feminists whose intuitions in postcolonial debates
about women’s agency, which typically are also about painful practices implicated
in power structures (herein lies the analogy) such as female genital mutilation/sur-
geries, has been to err on the side of affirming the complicated choices of women to
engage in painful practices.4 Their conclusions here have urged westerners to edu-
cate themselves before judging or otherwise representing a practice emerging from
a cultural milieu into which they have not been acculturated (Narayan, 1997a;
Sunder, 2000).5 Yet might a similar framework apply to S/M, a practice also
heavily associated with pain but commonly marked as ‘western’ and thus not a
postcolonial issue, and thus bypass the stalemate on this topic?
To be clear, then, my rationale for bringing postcolonial feminist insights to
bear on the S/M debate within feminism rests on the concepts of pain and dom-
ination that centrally anchor them both. While recent studies of meaning-making
among S/M practitioners argue that the element of the power exchange is the vital
ingredient in constructing an S/M encounter and not pain, it is still the case that
pain is a common feature that eroticizes the activity, is a technique of distributing
power, and yields pleasure for many participants (Cross and Matheson, 2006;
Weinberg, 2006).6 Ethical objections to S/M emanate from the pain and domina-
tion involved which is then conceptualized as (bad) violence rather than (good) sex.
Similarly, many of the debates that have prompted postcolonial feminist scholar-
ship have centred on painful practices in non-western cultures that appear enabled
by male domination of women. Female genital cutting, foot-binding, sati, and
dowry deaths are easily summoned examples. It does not seem to be a coincidence
that all these usual suspects on the list of ‘sexist third world cultural traditions’
(with veiling, perhaps, excluded), involve bodily pain and are perceived as mani-
festations of male domination and female subordination and victimization (Kapur,
2005). Given that many people who are uncomfortable with S/M feel this way
because of S/M’s resemblance to torture and the acuteness of physical pain therein,
it seems logical to extend insights learned about representation and perception
from postcolonial feminist studies to painful practices involving domination in
the West as well.
Lest it be argued that postcolonial and domestic paradigms do not mix, I draw
the reader to another point of connection between non-western painful practices
and S/M: the marginalized cultural identities of its practitioners. While not claim-
ing symmetry in cultural and social locations of racialized non-western people and
western S/M practitioners – nor a monolithic identity for either – (Narayan, 1998;
Sunder, 2000; Weinberg, 2006)7 both groups may be said to occupy a non-domi-
nant cultural position within the respective cultural milieus in which their debates
operate (Moser and Kleinplatz, 2005). The core issue in postcolonial feminist
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that they are slaves to and victims of completely and irrevocably misogynistic
cultures. This representation of a ‘truncated’ worldview for ‘third world women’
is then cast in direct opposition to an image of white western women as autono-
mous, liberated beings (Mohanty, 2003). It is a critique that implicates white west-
ern feminism in discourses of Othering, the process which, in the colonial context,
casts racialized peoples as irreducibly different, exotic, inferior, and auxiliary to the
white western self and non-western women as the ‘hegemonic victim subject’
(Kapur, 2005).9
Further, postcolonial feminists have accused mainstream western feminists of
constructing and confirming imagined notions of racial and cultural difference by
sensationalizing practices that are unfamiliar in the everyday repertoire of experi-
ences of most white westerners (Narayan, 1997b). The intense preoccupation
of western feminists with certain divergent yet ‘different’ (read: non-western) prac-
tices – female genital mutilation/surgeries/cutting, sati, veiling, foot-binding, bride-
burning, honour killings – produces a discourse that props up notions of western
superiority and third world inferiority (Mohanty, 2003). The preoccupation has
lumped ‘third world women’ into a timeless and ahistorical group that intimates a
singular similarity: they are all victims of cultures far more misogynistic than
‘western culture’ (Mohanty, 2003). The point of departure of imperial feminism
is one that invokes culture to explain oppressive conditions circumscribing the lives
of third world women, rather than global social and economic hierarchies in which
western women (and men) are complicit (Howe, 1994; Narayan, 1997b). Thus, the
discourse has been able to propose the metaphor of sisterhood as the best signifier
of the assumed sameness of women’s experiences (Mohanty, 2003). Paradoxically,
mainstream feminist discourse failed to view western women’s oppression as a
story, at least in part, about culture. To the contrary, the implicit faith in the
superior gender relations in the West led some to the conclusion that enculturation
to ‘western’ human rights norms and a liberal agenda is the solution to the oppres-
sion women face in third world countries (Kapur, 2005; Mohanty, 2003).10
Postcolonial feminists have impugned this feminist epistemology as a type of
knowledge production firmly invested in global circuits of power (Kapur, 2005;
Mohanty, 2003). This discourse, they argued, reproduced the imperialistic episte-
mic violence of reductive representation and concomitant maltreatment of cultural
and racial Others. It also perpetuated the ideology of western subjects
spreading Enlightenment teachings to the darker reaches of the world (Spivak,
2003). By the mid 1990s, a counterdiscourse had emerged explaining and even
defending these contested practices on feminist grounds and/or revealing the
hypocrisy of a feminism that went searching for tales of horrific treatment
when such practices existed closer to home. Since female genital mutilation was
the cause ce´le`bre in mainstream western feminist discourse regarding third
world women, writing soon emerged about its connections to plastic surgery
(Obiora, 1997), about the routine nature of genital surgeries and alteration in
children here11 and the disparity of western feminist attention between the issues
(Case, 2002).
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S/M is so trendy, it is almost passé. Black leather is the look in bars and clubs among
the urban chic and tragically hip. Stories about S/M appear in mainstream magazines
like Psychology Today, Jane, and the New Yorker. Noted authors such as Anne Rich
write sadomasochistic erotica for the mass market. Personal ads in newspapers and on
websites provide a private forum to find a partner. Those in search of ‘how-to’ man-
uals can bypass dirty bookstores for Barnes & Noble. Sex shops that sell whips and
chains and Velcro restraints are moving from red light districts to upscale shopping
areas. Websites advertising torture tools are a click away. Clubs and conferences for
the curious and the committed are commonplace. Anyone can become a card-carrying
member of the Black Rose or the Disciplinary Wives Club. Images of Beautiful people
experiencing pleasure through pain appear in ads for Skyy Vodka, Bass Ale, Candies
Shoes, and high-priced fashion. It is the subject of popular songs, Hollywood movies,
and prime-time TV.15
Recognizing the increasing and desired presence of the images and associations
of S/M is an important first step. We can also go further to explore the exchange of
power and relations of domination and subordination in our own erotic and not-
so-erotic relations. As Reina Lewis and Karen Adler note, power is an element of
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many human relationships including sexual ones that conform to normalized het-
erosexual cultural sexual scripts such that it may be ‘impossible to be in relation-
ships and never make compromises that you do not regret or resent’ (Lewis and
Adler, 1994: 439).16
social norms is that which causes serious or permanent physical injury and involves
the reproduction of oppressive power dynamics linked to domination and subor-
dination. To the extent that S/M behaviour falls within these parameters, it is
properly outlawed and ostracized unlike the parallels just mentioned.
But how clear is the line drawn on this basis? How many of the aforementioned
activities might blur it? We can think of further examples still where the activities
women engage in that are completely normalized arguably involve serious and
lasting suffering and untoward power imbalances that oppress them. Recalling
Chancer’s work (Chancer, 1998), consider working as a legal secretary in a huge
corporate law firm or getting married – positions that are not just prone to incite
ordinary relations of domination and subordination, but those with strong sexu-
alized markers, in other words, the suitability of the position of ‘secretary’ or wife
depends on ‘sexual attraction’ to the boss or husband (Batlan, 2010; J Williams,
2000). Are these practices painful and subjugating ones that cause long-term suf-
fering? If so, should we as feminists prevent women from performing them or
rather work to improve the conditions of reception for their performance?
For example, should we object to a woman working as a legal secretary in a cor-
porate law firm since this is a pink ghetto type of position in which she is not being
compensated properly for her labour (J Williams, 2000)? Under the rationale of
empowerment should we limit her choice to take up exploitative work? Should we
prevent women from exercising too strenuously, in order perhaps to meet some
unattainable image of beauty (Bordo, 1993; Wolf, 1990), and thus avoiding the
pain that exercise and participating in sports can entail? Should we discourage
women from getting married since we ‘know’ that there is a high likelihood
they will harm themselves by taking on a double burden occasioned by primary
caregiving responsibilities and further exposing themselves to the risk of domestic
violence (Okin, 1997; J Williams, 2000)?
The answer, of course, is that we do not, even as feminists, legislate against these
types of choices. This is so even though one could reasonably infer that the levels
of pain and domination involved and harm done to some bodies over years of
working, training, and marriage approximate that experienced in S/M. Why the
discrepancy? Several reasons figure in the explanation. One, certain routinized or
performed hierarchical and dominating acts are part of the liberal cultural fabric
while others, such as S/M of a particular level, are viewed as excessive and violative
of it (Downing, 2004). In contrast to sex that carries mainstream cues for violence,
the job of secretary is seen as a respectable job and the response, then, from fem-
inists has been not to prevent women from taking it up but to give them better
working conditions in which to do their job. Except for certain branches20
(Tong, 1989), feminism has not also seriously called for an end to marriage possibly
because feminists are aware of both the pleasures and pain it involves and the
overwhelming desire of so many women, including those who are feminists, to par-
ticipate in this highly normative institution. The criticism to these parallels
may be that being a secretary and being a spouse are not reduced to sex
and sexual gratification exclusively while engaging in S/M often is. Relying on
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this distinction, however, should prompt the worry that society and feminists
are adopting an anti-sex attitude that does not appear to help women
(Franke, 2001).
A second reason why ‘corporate’ S/M is better tolerated than the sexual varia-
tion may link to a tendency to experience a stronger resistant reaction to visceral, as
opposed to psychological, pain. Despite the likelihood that many of the choices
women make will cause them psychological or emotional harm at some point in the
future, a sustained denunciation of these choices has not survived within feminism.
Yet, it would undermine the attempts in feminist and other critical scholarship
to attend to emotion, affect, and psychological suffering if we were to treat
women’s choices portending such suffering with any less concern than those raising
the risk of physical suffering (Gatens, 1992). Most feminists who write against a
Cartesian mind/body split (Nussbaum, 2001) care about both forms of suffering
and would certainly advocate state sanction against those actors that forced
women to submit to either.
It would also contribute to the oppressive hyperregulation of sexuality to accord
greater scepticism of women’s sexual choices than to their non-sexual ones. Unless
a good reason for distinguishing between physical and psychological suffering in
this way is adduced, it may be inconsistent and thus premature to condemn any
type of S/M, even those activities causing permanent and irreversible injuries.
This is not to say no such reason exists or that an ethical platform must conform
to an all-or-nothing paradigm where all problems are targeted or none at all.
But the analysis presented does underscore the difficulty of dismissing S/M as a
‘good thing’ for women merely because it causes physical pain. This would appear
especially so when S/M practitioners say that they enjoy this physical pain whereas
most women would not presumably say, for example, that they enjoy a double
burden of domestic and paid sector work or a bikini wax.
One point of possible distinction between physical and emotional harm could be
that the legacy of emotional harm is reversible while the legacy of physical harm is
not. Although challenging, it might be possible to undo the effects of a sadist boss
that one has worked under for 20 years whereas it is not possible to, for example,
regain a body part that is amputated (Johnston, 2002; Johnston and Elliot, 2002).21
If we were to draw the line here, we might conclude that this distinction is appro-
priate since it protects the future choices people might make. A person might care
less about an irreversible injury now, but change her mind later. A person who
wants her or his limb amputated now could possibly change her or his mind a year
from now. By criminalizing this level of irreversible damage, the criminal law
can be a disciplinary yet progressive force by preventing a person from acting
now in order to protect their wishes and agency at a later date. And since most
practitioners are not medically trained, we should abjure activities that result in
serious pain because we do not know whether or not they will result in reversible
damage.
Yet, this distinction would only catch a small portion of S/M practice – that
which results in serious, irreversible physical injury. What about the rest?
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Here, feminists concerned about S/M may have final resort to the dignity argu-
ment raised in the jurisprudence that it is not sex that is impugned, but dignity-
diminishing practices (R v. Brown, 1993; R v. Elliot, 1995). Does it not impede
the realization of a culture of human dignity to permit or even tolerate sadistic
behaviour? As Susan Hawthorne (2005/2006: 40) eloquently affirms:
The long-term implications of acts of violence for the health of the social matrix are
also significant. When a society allows or enables violence against a group of its
members, there is an impact on social health. Such violence generates fear and dis-
trust. It fosters social disconnection. It condones violence. It calls for scapegoats and
creates what we are now seeing in the Western world, a new kind of fascism: post-
modern fascism, slippery as an eel, multifaceted, dispersed, and often difficult to pin-
point. In a social sense, it is like the experience of pain in the body. It is hard to talk
about, although many of us feel the distress and discomfort.
with the desire to prohibit it, at least in certain forms? While S/M images in main-
stream cultural representations have increased as Hanna details, it is important
to acknowledge the presence of mainstream consumerist appropriation and the
mixed impact these images have in affirming S/M practice and the normalcy of
its practitioners (Wilkinson, 2009). As Eleanor Wilkinson has noted in her work
on representations of S/M, the flipside of the glamorized advertisements for
middle-class or high-brow brands aiming to harness S/M’s kinky and naughty
associations to attract attention to their products is a media focus on the ‘seedy’
venues of ‘real-life’ S/M practitioners (Wilkinson, 2009). Perhaps what is disquiet-
ing about S/M is not so much the idealized image of it when it is associated with
coveted, stylized, consumer and luxury goods or Hollywood’s favourite stars,
but the sordid associations it takes on when attached to the lifestyles of a sex-
ual underclass. If this is the case then it is a factor to worry about in a world-
travelling paradigm. If it is anxiety over the presence of a particular group seen
as ‘different’ from the mainstream, a marking perhaps enabled by oppressive
class and racial knowledges, such that the practice is objectionable depending on
who its practitioners are, then an important insight is gleaned for feminists.
We need to be attentive to the possibility that it is not so much the general practice
that brings it under ethical scrutiny, but the stereotypes of the ‘deviants’ who
practise S/M.
Indeed, the third step in world-travelling is to recognize the power differential
that informs the perception of another’s cultural practice and that the hegemonic
interpretation of that practice may be illegitimate. A first mini-step toward this end
would be to situate S/M within a social order mediated by power, wherein the
marginalization of sexual minorities are elevated as important concerns in need of
redress. In this context, S/M activities are transgressive practices (Holmberg, 1998)
whose meanings, since their discursive inception, have been formulated by psychi-
atrists ‘[d]rawing on a discourse of the natural’ [by which] they have pathologized
these practices as perversions, deviations, and paraphilias’ (Langdridge and Butt,
2005: 65–66). These representations, in turn, are fortified by the media and con-
servative groups (Wilkinson, 2009; Wright, 2006).
There must be recognition of the discrimination faced by practitioners and their
abject sexual citizenship status within the parameters of liberalism (Langdridge,
2006; Wilkinson, 2009). This includes the propensity of: the police and children’s
aid authorities to intervene unnecessarily in the lives of practitioners of stigmatized
sexual practices (Ridinger, 2006) – especially those marked as queer – (Pa, 2001);
employers to refuse to hire and promote if S/M practitioners are ‘out’ or ‘outed’
(Wright, 2006); and the medical and psychoanalytical communities to continue to
pathologize them (Cross and Matheson, 2006; Taylor and Ussher, 2001).25 It is
crucial to note that the medical pathologization continues with relative ease despite
a growing body of sociological literature that identifies ‘SM practitioners as emo-
tionally and psychologically well balanced, generally comfortable with their sexual
orientation, and socially well adjusted’ (Weinberg, 2006: 37).26 This selective or
disproportionate legal scrutiny against marginalized sexual subcultures is not an
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anomaly, but part of a systemic purging of subcultural practices seen to imperil the
prevailing views of sexual and reproductive normalcy (Stychin, 1994). This is a
concern that anyone whose initial response is to feel negatively toward people
who engage in S/M will have to seriously consider. This is one step in seeing oneself
as the Other sees you.
A second mini-step toward hegemonic positioning is to admit the legitimacy of
perceiving S/M as many of its practitioners do – as sex consented to and actively
and mutually desired (Pa. 2001; Taylor and Ussher, 2001; Thompson, 1991). S/M is
something that many people actively seek out and enjoy. It holds value for some
women and it is too dismissive to regard this value as an expression of false con-
sciousness. The ability of individuals to make choices with less than ideal alterna-
tives or educated minds and emotions themselves cannot negate those choices
outright (Narayan, 2002, 2003). If it did, how many of us could pass this stringent
test of having our choices about what to eat, how to dress, what to buy, and with
whom to interact, for example, respected? It is necessary to transcend ‘simple
depictions of women as either agents of free choice or as passive victims’
(C Williams, 2002). More fundamentally, though, we must take the time to find
out why one person’s suffering can be another person’s pleasure. And this means
listening to the views that differ from the ones we may hold, especially where they
are subjugated.
We can acquire guidance on more precisely what this would entail if we turn,
for a moment, to the issue of veiling by Muslim women. This is another polarizing
issue for feminists, but one where the exigencies of world-travelling are more famil-
iar to western feminists due to postcolonial feminist analyses of veiling represen-
tations.27 As a result of these critiques, we are more aware of the history of the veil
as a symbol to westerners of women’s inferiority and a justification of imperialism,
which is ‘a heritage Western feminists should not forget’ (J Williams, 2000). We are
increasingly sensitive to the varied reasons women wear the veil, including every-
thing from economic security, gender socialization, religious pressure, to class sol-
idarity (Bilge, 2010; Lazreg, 2010; Narayan, 2003). Similar lessons are to be learned
in the S/M and sex wars context with respect to the constitution of perversity, the
oppressive regulation of sexuality, and the literature documenting the varied affec-
tive responses humans have to pain and the experience of sexuality (Pa, 2001). Pain
is not a universal, precultural phenomenon necessarily experienced as aversive. In
her influential treatise, The Body in Pain (Scarry, 1985), Elaine Scarry argues that
the experience of pain is unshareable because it cannot be communicated through
language and that it is a basic human biological fact. These two factors lead her to
characterize the pain as a universal, precultural entity. This universalist account of
pain has been recently subjected to critique by scholars who argue that pain is a
cultural concept, the experience of which varies widely across time, peoples and
space (Kaufman-Osborn, 2001). Being aware and sufficiently alive to such multi-
plicity would also assist a respectful feminist world-travelling approach.
And as we continue to world-travel, we encounter the varied subjective experi-
ences that practitioners attach to their S/M meetings. A recent study of white,
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middle-class, sexually diverse yet almost exclusively British women and men
found ‘eight common interpretive repertoires. . . in which participants made sense
of their SM’: dissidence, pleasure, escapism, transcendence, learned behaviour,
intra-psychic, pathological and inexplicable.28 Within these subjectivities, the per-
formance element of S/M and the adoption of roles in a script may be seen as an
avenue for political dissent, particularly gender role subversion. The sensation of
pain may be seen as sensual and an avenue for escape of the mundane and monot-
onous approaching the spiritual (Schullenberger, 2005; Taylor and Ussher, 2001).
If we continue to expand the number of perspectives alternative to our own, we
would encounter another reading of and rationale for the violence in S/M:
the desubjectification effect of painful practices that have the effect of reducing
the person, and the body to flesh. A possible productive meaning of this reduction
is to permit the individual to escape, even if only temporarily, from daily circuits of
power in which they are entangled and thus to effect a ‘transformation of subjec-
tivity’ (Hoople, 1996). It would be reasonable to expect these categories of experi-
ence and productive effects to increase and complexify with further diversification
of the participants. Within even the reported ‘interpretive repertoires’ discussed
here there are arguments of female empowerment through resistance to, and post-
modern destabilization of, hegemonic heterosexual scripts, and the pursuit, even as
a masochist, of sexual agency and control (Holmberg, 1998; Hoople, 1996; Pa,
2001; Plante, 2006; Taylor and Ussher, 2001).29
Integrating such subjective articulations of S/M practitioners into an assessment
of S/M need not privilege experience as ‘truth’ or prediscursive and thus evacuate
postmodern teachings about the discursive construction of identities, desires,
and subject positions. Experiential accounts of S/M practitioners can still be inter-
preted and critiqued by feminists as stories that seek to conform to ideas of nor-
malcy and entrench essentialized definitions of sexuality (Plante, 2006) or as
evidence of psychological maladjustment or inappropriate behaviour (Stear,
2009). But integrating these articulations is a critical component of any project
that seeks to understand and represent the Other.
Conclusion
S/M is a particular cultural practice and feminists should regard it as postcolonial
feminists do other practices in different subcultural contexts. The insights provided
by postcolonial feminist critiques of mainstream western feminism caution against
a simple response to S/M by feminists unfamiliar with the practice and who accord-
ingly may view its appeal as incomprehensible. An application of postcolonial
feminist analytical tools can uncover the cultural hegemony that results when
those who prefer to engage in normalized sexual relations criticize the sexual
Other. Particularly, the use of the world-travelling approach allows those who
may initially recoil at the idea of sexuality paired with pain and domination to
rethink latent and potentially misinformed assumptions about S/M subcultures.
This can occur by first reflecting introspectively on our own cultural habits and
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Acknowledgements
The author would like to thank Layli Antinuk for her excellent research assistance and the
anonymous reviewers for their helpful suggestions.
Notes
1. Some scholars have suggested that the ‘pro-sex’ and ‘anti-S/M’ positions are not as
far apart as commonly perceived. Points of similarities between the two positions include
the tendency to analyse sex and sexuality apart from historical and material conditions
and thus to invoke a liberal and individualistic paradigm to theorize freedom. In this
respect, ‘both pro-sex and radical feminists reproduce the ideology of personal emanci-
pation within contemporary capitalist society by making the liberation of sex a funda-
mental feminist goal’ (Glick, 2000). While such continuities between the two positions
exist, it is important to recognize that the cultural stories told about S/M’s relationship to
hegemonic values persist to sustain a question/debate/issue in contemporary feminisms
about the feminist status of S/M. It is this question I seek to explore here without,
following Glick’s concern, validating liberal understandings of sex, the individual, free-
dom, or subjectivity. For an account of the problematics of liberal theories of the indi-
vidual and justice, see Kapur, 2005.
2. Following Gary W. Taylor and Jane M. Ussher (2001), I do not wish to posit an essence
to the practice, but merely highlight a usual defining feature both in medicalized accounts
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and the subjective experiences of those who actually practise S/M. See, for example,
Christine L. Williams (2002).
3. My ability to relay what moved me personally to write about this topic is facilitated
by my perspective aligning with hegemonic cultural expectations about responses
to pain and sexuality. I am aware that had my personal desires been inclined toward
S/M that it would be considerably more difficult to include this narrative in a pub-
lic space as I would need to ‘out’ myself as an S/M practitioner. For an account of
another scholar’s experience of writing from the other side of the spectrum see Hoople
(2006).
4. The contested terminology is a synecdoche for the larger debate as to whether cultural
practices are harmful or just neutral. For an explanation of why ‘surgeries’ rather than
‘mutilation’ is a better term for female circumcision, see Gunning (1991).
5. I am aware of the critiques of positing the existence of monolithic, discrete cultures and
do not wish to pursue those here. See Narayan (1997a).
6. Through questionnaires administered to self-identified S/M practitioners, Cross and
Matheson test and discard the psychoanalytic, medical, radical feminist and escapist
theories for the motivations of S/M practitioners. Instead, they prefer their informants’
‘S/M-centered perspective’ that stressed an understanding of S/M ‘as an eroticized,
consensual exchange of power’ (Cross and Matheson, 2006: 137).
7. It is obvious that non-western peoples are not a monolithic group. It is less obvious from
mainstream discourse that individual cultures are internally heterogeneous, contested,
and fluid; this anti-essentialist framing has been a vital point articulated by cultural
studies and postcolonial studies, including feminist theorizing within these areas.
See, for example, Narayan (1998). It is similarly important to note the dangers of
assuming a monolithic S/M culture when, in fact, ‘[t]here are many different sadomas-
ochistic worlds’. See Weinberg (2006).
8. For a discussion of the current association/collapse of culture with/into race, see
Razack, 1998.
9. For a detailed discussion of Othering, see Said’s Orientalism (1978).
10. For an example of such a perspective, please see Okin, 1999.
11. For a literary illustration of this point, please see Eugenides, 2002.
12. Isabelle Gunning describes an example of this process when she writes: The traveling
that women and men of color must do from their various sub-communities or ‘worlds’
to the dominant culture or ‘world’ is a more conscious kind of traveling. For the woman
of color to survive she may have to acquire very consciously a different language and
set of norms to become a fluent speaker. Or she may have to be clearer than her
white counterpart on how far a ‘shared history’ can take one. A white age-group
peer and I may reminisce pleasantly on those great songs of the 50’s and 60’s – we
share the history. But for me the 50’s and 60’s are always about the major phase
of the struggle for African-American equality that occurred in my lifetime. (Gunning,
1991: 203)
13. For a discussion of social Darwinism see McClintock, 1995.
14. Gunning calls these three steps a three-pronged approach to ‘world-travelling’. She lists
them in a slightly different order than I have presented them here. Her list is: (A) Seeing
Oneself in Historical Context. (B) Seeing Oneself as the ‘Other’ Sees You; and (C) Seeing
the ‘Other’ in Her Own Context (Gunning, 1991: 205–207).
15. See also Spaise, 2005.
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16. In Lewis and Adler (1994), the authors argue against glorifying lesbian SM as always
already a subversive act, but their point about the prevalence of power in human rela-
tionships, I would argue, still holds.
17. Who can forget the applauding of Kerri Strug when she continued with her final vault in
what must have been a considerable amount of pain to try to secure the gold medal for
the USA in women’s team gymnastics at the 1996 Atlanta Olympics? See, Ken Campbell
‘Playing in pain part of the game for some; Schilling and 10 other remarkable athletes
fractures and food poisoning all overcome’ Toronto Star (Campbell, 2004), Garth
Woolsey ‘Memories of 96, from spit to splendor’ Toronto Star (Woolsey 1996) and
Philip Hersh ‘It’s weird to be Kerri’ The Ottawa Citizen (Hersh, 1996).
18. By this I mean that the actions of pregnancy and childbirth are normalized in most
societies. I am mindful of the disparity between mothers in global and domestic
responses to motherhood and the ensuing offspring based on class, race, and other
biases. (See e.g. Fried, 1990; Roberts, 1991.)
19. This is not to say that all faculty–student relations are negative, disrespectful experi-
ences, as Christine Williams (2002) herself notes. For a feminist defence of such rela-
tionships, even those that end poorly, as containing positive features for student
development (see hooks, 2003).
20. Lesbian separatism based on a critique of heterosexual engagement as inextricably
entangled in masculinist paradigms is an example. See Tong (1989).
21. This would be a distinction that is not just relevant to theorizing about S/M. For dis-
cussion of the ethics of the specific sexual preference for healthy limb amputation of
oneself or for having sex with amputees see Johnston and Elliott (2002) and Johnston
(2002).
22. Holmberg also notes ‘in late modern North America, Christian S/M in everyday life is
not stigmatized, even when perpetrated upon minors, but S/M between consensually
affirmed adults is considered a perverse transgression of the taboos of bondage, pain,
humiliation, and dominance’ (Holmberg, 1998: 96).
23. Some academics have even commented on the spiritual significance of S/M to secular
practitioners wherein practising S/M becomes a stand-in for the traditional religions
that the secular humanist has rejected. See Shullenberger, 2005. Others have claimed
it as a performative process for ‘psychic healing of sexual trauma’. See Freeman, 2008:
38 discussing the work of Hart, 1998.
24. In responding to queer theorists and feminists who highlight for positive effect the
performative aspects of S/M, Hawthorne importantly raises disturbing examples of
appropriation of experience from marginalized individuals who have actually been tor-
tured or otherwise gone through the suffering that S/M practitioners role-play.
(Hawthorne, 2005/2006: 42–43).
25. As Taylor and Ussher (2001) note, S/M is still listed as a psychiatric disorder in the
Diagnostical and Statistical Manual (DSM-IV) and the International Classification of
Diseases. For a critique of the scientific evidence on which the DSM editors included
this classification, see Moser and Kleinplatz (2005).
26. It is important to note that the majority of the literature discussing the perspectives of
S/M practitioners comes from male experiences (see Rye and Meaney, 2007: 41).
27. This literature is now too expansive to list all of its important citations here. For an
excellent overview of the issue by one of the leading postcolonial feminist theorists
writing in the area, please see Lila Abu-Lughod, 2002.
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28. The authors interviewed 24 participants between the ages of 22 and 65 who ‘were
required to define their sexualities or sexual practices as ‘SM’, to engage in consensual
SM practices on a regular basis and to have done so for at least six months’ (Taylor and
Ussher, 2001: 296).
29. Many authors support the interpretation that posits the masochist as the one in control
and at the centre of attention of a well-planned S/M session since it is she that
directs and delimits what may be done to her (Holmberg, 1998: 96; Hoople, 1996; Pa,
2001: 60–61; Plante, 2006; Taylor and Ussher, 2001: 299).
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