The Loyalist

Enneagram Type 6
The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Table of Contents

Table of Contents
Enneagram Type 6: “The Loyalist” Personality Type Analysis 3

Enneagram Personality Type 6 Overview 3

Enneagram Type 6 Core Values 4

What Motivates Enneagram Type 6? 4

How to Recognize Enneagram Type 6 5

Enneagram Type 6 Compatibility 5

Enneagram Type 6 Worst Matches 6

Enneagram Type 6 Wings 7

Enneagram Type 6 Strengths & Weaknesses 8

Enneagram Type 6 Fears & Desires 9

How Does an Enneagram Type 6 Act Under Stress? 9

Enneagram Type 6 as Parents 10

How Does an Enneagram Type 6 Behave in Romantic Relationships? 10

Enneagram Type 6 as Friends 11

Enneagram Type 6 at Work 11

Enneagram Type 6 Career Matches 12

Development Levels Enneagram Type 6 13

Enneagram Type 6 Growth Tips 14

Enneagram Type 6 Famous People 14

Key Takeaways 15

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Personality Type 6 Overview

Enneagram Type 6: 

“The Loyalist”
Personality Type Analysis
The representatives of the Enneagram 6 personality type are the kind of people who
make the world a little bit safer, more predictable, and more sensible. Thanks to
them, we have procedures, rules, and systems for everything.
However, if you think they are simple and easy to understand, you’ll be surprised by
the complexity of their minds and the contradictions they are capable of. This
type is rather peculiar, which is why you must delve into their core traits, fears,
desires, strengths, and weaknesses to fully understand their nature.

Enneagram Personality Type 6 Overview

Enneagram 6 typically grows up with a sense of insecurity and a lack of emotional
support. Therefore, anxiety becomes their second nature.

Since they never learned to rely on anyone other than themselves, Sixes constantly
worry about everything that could go wrong. Therefore, it is no wonder that they
have a backup plan for any situation.

They learn to cope with feelings of insecurity and fear of the future by developing an
extreme level of responsibility, reliability, and control. They believe it is essential to
be ready for any situation, which is why they do their best to predict every
possible scenario in detail.

While this makes them genius troubleshooters, it takes the spontaneity and joy
from their lives. Yet, it is not just their fears that make them so efficient and
organized. They also have excellent people skills, leadership qualities, and a capacity
for deep empathy. Honest, warm, and caring, they are amazing friends who will
stand by you through thick and thin.

It is particularly interesting that there are two completely opposite ways in which
Enneagram 6 manifests their fears. Some Sixes let their fear and anxiety take over
their lives, while others choose to ignore their fears and engage in risky endeavors
just to prove their fearlessness.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Personality Type 6 Overview

This tendency is also reflected in their attitude toward authority figures. They either
exhibit defiant behavior or excessively submissive behavior.

All in all, Sixes are complex personalities whose contradictions often confuse
themselves too.

Enneagram Type 6 Core Values

Our core values influence every aspect of our lives - they reflect how we react to
anything that happens to us. Therefore, we can say that Type Six’s core values are:

Certainty. Sixes are afraid of all the turbulences that naturally come in life.
Hence, “better safe than sorry” is a proverb that accurately portrays their life
motto
Stability. They invest lots of energy into creating a stable, predictive
environment for themselves
Sincerity. For them, honesty is essential to feel safe in relationships and in life
Community. Sixes have a strong need to belong, feel that they contribute to the
community in a meaningful way, and be a part of the group
Justness. Being loyal to noble principles of fairness and justice is how Sixes
ensure predictability in their lives. They like to believe that if you do good, the
good comes back to you.

What Motivates Enneagram Type 6?

Enneagram Type Six is typically inspired by the stable, meaningful connections they
build with others. Nothing else provides them with such a sense of security as
relationships built on respect and trust.

Another source of motivation for them is work. They like the routine and stability
that comes with it and often diligently go through the tasks others find tedious.
That’s because they like the feeling of control and certainty that often comes with
steady employment.

Finally, helping others practically and not just emotionally is also something that
makes Sixes feel good about themselves. They honestly don’t mind helping anyone
as long as the help they provide is really purposeful!

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 How to Recognize Enneagram Type 6

How to Recognize Enneagram Type 6

Sixes are sociable but tend to be reserved and withdrawn
in a group. They will not purposefully draw attention to
themselves, nor will they do anything that would make
them stand out. This is also true for the way they dress.
Most of the time, they will wear clothes that are
comfortable and stylish but not too formal or too casual.

Though not particularly fond of small talk, Sixes will participate in it for the sake of
the ritual. They speak in a calm manner, with a lot of respect for the other person,
and they concentrate on sharing useful and practical advice. At times, they may
even give off the impression that they are pessimistic because they are so focused
on anticipating problems in everything.

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Enneagram Type 6 Compatibility

Enneagram 6 typically has trust issues and is, therefore, rather careful when
choosing a partner. When it comes to dating, they typically stick to their own, often
rigid dating rules and often make a wish list of characteristics that a potential
partner should have. That's simply how they shield themselves from emotional
suffering.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 Compatibility

Speaking of Enneagram 6 compatibility, the Enneagram types that are most

compatible with Sixes are those who can provide commitment and stability. These
would be Ones and Nines.

Type 6 With Type 1

Both Sixes and Ones are committed, serious, loyal, and steady, which is why they
share many values. For that reason, they hold a lot of respect for each other and
support each other with deep understanding.

While Ones usually take the lead—as they are more idealistic and goal-oriented—
Sixes bring emotional warmth and open communication into this relationship.
These types feel they can depend on each other, which gives them both room to
relax and enjoy life more.

Type 6 With Type 9

Though Sixes and Nines seem very different, they actually have a lot in common, as
both long for security and a peaceful life. The accepting, kind, and loving nature of
Nines relieves much of the Sixes’ chronic anxiety and helps them become more
optimistic toward life.

Nines also enjoy being there for Sixes, while the pragmatism and communication
skills of Sixes helps Nines stay in touch with reality. These two boost each other’s
confidence and often build harmonious long-lasting relationships.

Enneagram Type 6 Worst Matches

Sixes tend to be complacent and get along easily with others because they have a
strong need to belong. Still, that does not mean everyone will be a good partner to
them. Generally, it is considered that the Sixes’ worst matches are with Types 7 and
2.

Type 6 With Type 2

Sixes and Twos share many values, so they easily understand each other. However,
the biggest challenge for their relationship doesn’t stem from their differences
anyway - it comes from the fact that they are so similar. They both need someone
to provide direction and protection to them since they are usually not able to
provide these to each other.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 Worst Matches

Type 6 With Type 7

Sixes are amused by the Seven’s playfulness but also terrified of the mere idea of
having to depend on these lovely, social butterflies. They long for stability and
consistency in a relationship above everything else, and that’s the last thing anyone
can get in a relationship with Type Seven.

Enneagram Type 6 Wings

The types that are immediately adjacent to your core type on the Enneagram
diagram are referred to as wings. The Enneagram wings complement your
personality by giving it a touch of another type's traits.

Therefore, it is possible for Enneagram 6 to have either a Type Five or a Type Seven
wing, which means that a Type Six person may exhibit some characteristics that are
more typical of Types Five or Seven.

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Under the influence of the Seven wing, Sixes become more open-minded, friendly,
and optimistic. Though they will still feel the need to test people before becoming
really close to them, they will generally allow themselves to enjoy life more and have
fun.

Enneagram 6 wing 7 people value their relationships with other people the most.
They are charming, honest, warm, and communicative, but they are still pragmatic,
hardworking, and reliable like the regular Sixes usually are.

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The combination of the Sixes’ pragmatic spirit and the Fives’ immense intellect often
results in thought leaders inspired to fight for the principles of good. These people
are deeply committed to protecting their communities and preserving their
traditions.

Enneagram 6 wing 5 often has a soft spot for the underdog and is deeply motivated
to fight for the disadvantaged. Meticulous and hardworking, they are often
respected experts and activists who make practical contributions to improving the
living conditions of people around them.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 Strengths & Weaknesses

Enneagram Type 6 Strengths &

Weaknesses
Sixes have a lot of wonderful qualities that make up who
they are, the majority of which they are probably not even
aware of. That’s because they are generally more
concerned with their weaknesses. However, as they age and
mature, they start to value themselves more.
Enneagram Type 6 Strengths
The serious and honest Enneagram 6 has many exceptional qualities that
distinguish them from the other Enneagram types, such as:

Strong sense of self-discipline. Sixes are excellent planners who stick to their
plans no matter what. Routine makes them feel safe
Accountability at all times. Making responsible choices comes naturally to this
type, as they are usually aware of all the details of any given situation and their
role in it
Deep respect and care for others. Though they may not seem so emphatic at
first sight, Sixes intuitively anticipate the needs of others and are very protective
of the people they care about
Excellent organizational skills. Being thoughtful, precise, and focused, they
effortlessly make long-term plans and strategies that are practical above all
Exceptional analytical skills. Because they are careful and considerate, Sixes
take every detail into account no matter what they do. Their analyses are
immaculate and precise.

Enneagram Type 6 Weaknesses

Sixes are very anxious types, so it’s no wonder their core weaknesses include:

Self-doubt and insecurity. The Loyalists struggle to recognize and value their
qualities, which largely depend on the approval of others for self-worth
Chronic worrying. Sixes have a lot of trouble controlling their anxious thoughts.
The slightest obstacle in their path pushes them to imagine all the worst-case
scenarios
Difficulty making big life decisions. Their tendency to come up with a
multitude of possible bad outcomes often blocks their decision-making ability
Tendency to swing between excessive risk and excessive caution. Their
extreme sensitivity to risk and danger may either make them too daring or
paralyze them with dread and terror
Difficulty leaving harmful relationships. Sixes are very protective of others
and prone to self-sacrifice for the greater good. This attitude may keep them in a
bad relationship longer than necessary.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 Fears & Desires

Enneagram Type 6 Fears & Desires

Sixes have designed their entire life strategy around the goal of reducing all the
worries and concerns they have. Their aspirations are typically quite humble due to
the fact that they haven’t experienced a lot of security in their lives.

Enneagram Type 6 Fears

It would not be an exaggeration to say that Sixes have irrational fears of… well,
everything. Yet, all their fears boil down to these three core ones:

Being left alone without support and protection. Overwhelmed with possible
terrifying outcomes they worry about, they fear they don’t have the strength to
face them alone
Experiencing betrayal. Their early experiences taught them others couldn’t be
trusted, so they are overly conscious of the risk of betrayal
Being subjected to unfair, cruel authority. This fear is also a projection of their
earliest experiences with their parents or other authorities that imposed
demands on them without considering how they felt.

Enneagram Type 6 Desires

Deep down, all that a Loyalist longs for is:

Feeling they can trust and depend on others. Sixes crave being able to rely on
someone other than themselves
Building trustworthy, meaningful relationships. They long for someone who
will see through their fears and provide them with the stability they need
Having control over their choices. Control is everything to Sixes - that’s the only
way they can cope with the general uncertainty of life.

How Does an Enneagram Type 6 Act Under Stress?

Chronically anxious and prone to excessive worry, Sixes are highly susceptible to
stress. They are often workaholics and tend to experience burnout.

When pushed over their stress limits, Sixes become obsessed with their past
mistakes and failures. They get stuck in their heads, constantly replaying scenarios
about what they should have done better.

When stress comes from their relationships, they are prone to paranoid reactions
thanks to their trust issues. Even people who love and know them well may get
offended by how easily a Six becomes suspicious about other people’s intentions.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 How Does an Enneagram Type 6 Act Under Stress?

Sixes also find it extremely stressful when they lose control over any aspect of their
lives. In addition to the typical symptoms of stress, such as withdrawal, paranoid
thoughts, over-analyzing, and similar behaviors, they may also exhibit
psychosomatic symptoms.

Muscular tensions and problems with the gut and throat are typically most affected
when Sixes’ capacity to deal with stress is exhausted.

Enneagram Type 6 as Parents

As parents, Type Six will be very devoted, attentive, and fully committed. They take
parenthood seriously and are usually interested to learn parenting skills and provide
their children with the best care they are capable of.

While deeply loving and dedicated, Sixes may, at times, behave in an overprotective
manner toward their infants. Their natural tendency to anticipate problems
flourishes while their children are very young, so they are those parents who child
proof their homes even before the child makes their first step or sound.

When it comes to life lessons, Sixes must learn that they should allow themselves to
relax and be playful in order to show their children that life is about joy first and
foremost.

How Does an Enneagram Type 6 Behave

in Romantic Relationships?
Sixes are family types. They often have a precise plan for
what kind of partner they will marry and how many kids
they will have very early in life.

Though they don’t give their trust easily and are paralyzed at the mere thought of
betrayal, when they feel safe, they are warm, loyal, and very protective.

For a Loyalist, relationships are their greatest priority in life. They may seem like
careerists who only care about work, but intimate relationships are what matters
most to them. Since their early childhood was often saturated with unpredictability
and unreliable adults, they look for a partner with whom they can build a safe
haven - one that they never had as children.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 as Friends

Enneagram Type 6 as Friends

Loyalists build steady, reliable friendships with others and care about them as much
as they care about their romantic relationships. Because they value their friendships
so much, they will become extremely upset over even the smallest
disagreement with an otherwise close friend.

They are capable of overanalyzing every conversation just to make sure their bond
with others is not spoiled. However, when they feel they can trust others, they will be
very amusing with a pretty specific, offbeat sense of humor.

Finally, when things get tough, Sixes never flee. They will always be willing to lend
a helping hand, and they are the first ones to support you in your most trying
times, regardless of what happens between you and them.

Enneagram Type 6 at Work

Sixes are precious assets to any kind of company because they are generally loyal,
dependable, and excellent problem solvers. Indeed, they can predict challenges
with incredible accuracy simply because they always want to know where the
situation is going.

These people are naturally attuned to forming solid bonds with their colleagues,
and people love working with them because they bring a sense o structure and
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most people find boring and boring.

Enneagram Type 6 as eaders L

Thanks to their strong sense of responsibility, attention to detail, and highly

developed organizational skills, Sixes make great leaders. They may not have the
vision of other, more risk prone Enneagram types, but they will lead their team to
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steady success .

Enneagram Type 6 in Teams

Sixes truly care about the goals of the organization they work for and the people
they work with. They selflessly o er their help, share nowledge with others, and
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are generally perfect examples of what it means to be a team player.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 Careers Matches

Enneagram Type 6 Careers Matches

Sixes love to feel safe and to belong. Therefore, they enjoy
typical business settings with a fixed work schedule,
structure, hierarchy, and corporate rules. Also, thanks to
their impeccable work ethics and responsible nature,
they make excellent bosses, which is especially true once
they get past their usual self-doubts.

This type also feels comfortable working in teams, and when things go wrong, they
are a dependable and resourceful teammate everyone can count on.

When it comes to working independently, it's not impossible for a Six to work on
their own. However, they usually prefer to work in large systems and organizations
because they love working with people.

Best & Worst Careers

Sixes have a strong intellect, exceptional analytical skills, and great troubleshooting
and problem-solving abilities. They also care deeply about others and have a unique
sense of humor. Thanks to all this, they excel in many different fields—from finance
to show business.

The best careers for Enneagram 6 are:

Financial Managemen
Insuranc
Accountin
Auditin
Operations Managemen
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Healthcare

On the other hand, the worst careers for Sixes are those with high levels of
uncertainty, where it is impossible to predict the outcome. Their need for control
may also rob them of creativity, so they would probably not feel good in:

Desig
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Copywritin
Content Creation

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Development Levels of Enneagram Type 6

Development Levels of Enneagram Type 6

Whether Enneagram 6 will function at their healthy,
average, or unhealthy level depends largely on their
experiences and circumstances in life. The more stressful
the circumstances, the greater the chance they will display
their weaknesses and fears.

Healthy Enneagram Type 6

A healthy Enneagram Six personality becomes more comfortable with themselves
and others as they mature. They understand that letting go of expectations and
embracing unpredictability is one of the most important aspects of human
experience.

At this level, Loyalists are aware of their strengths and weaknesses. Understanding
the real origin of their fears, they bravely chose a more positive outlook on life.
Being highly emotionally intelligent, they successfully balance their work and
personal lives.

Average Enneagram Type 6

An average Enneagram 6 worries a lot and is concerned with being prepared for
worst-case scenarios. Even though they worry too much, their intuition is still
strong and helps them find their way through the fog of their own fears and doubts.

Struggling to feel safe and trust others, they swing from being too truthful to
being conspiratorial about others. Their attitude toward authority figures is also
often ambivalent, and they are either too compliant or passively aggressive toward
them.

Unhealthy Enneagram Type 6

Unhealthy Enneagram 6 becomes image conscious, conceited, and defensive.
They tend to drive away people who love them and unwisely burn bridges by being
too negative, critical, and pessimistic.

Unable to cope with their insecurities and anxiety, they strive to rely on authority
figures for protection in the hope someone will take care of them. As this rarely
happens, they panic and often turn to substance abuse and other self-destructive
coping mechanisms.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Enneagram Type 6 Growth Tips

Enneagram Type 6 Growth Tips

We all have to overcome our weaknesses to reach our full potential, regardless of
our Enneagram type. So, here are some essential tips for Enneagram 6 to help them
develop into their best selves:

Take control of your destiny. You seek security in others while failing to notice
how strong and capable you are. Acknowledging your own talents, skills, and
strengths will help you develop a sense of security within yourself
Practice optimism. Carefully note each time your catastrophic visions didn’t
happen. Write down all the positive outcomes that you feared were impossible
Learn to trust others. As children, we can’t handle it if adults fail to take care of
us and betray our trust. But, as adults, we can. Trusting others does not mean
blindly believing others can never disappoint us, but acknowledging we can
overcome the disappointment and learn from mistakes
Become aware of your self-sabotaging patterns. You are so afraid things will
go wrong that you unconsciously notice only the downsides of everything, which
inevitably leads to failure and disappointment. Practice positive thinking and see
what happens
Learn anxiety-relieving techniques. Your whole body suffers from your chronic
anxiety. Practicing body consciousness will help you feel more grounded and
stronger. It is essential for you to learn breathing techniques and similar somatic
practices for reducing the effects of stress
Engage in some creative activity of your choice. Writing, painting, sculpting,
dancing, and similar hobbies can be a great way to introduce more joy and
spontaneity into your life. Art can be a great way for you to express your fears
and not let them control you.

Enneagram Type 6 Famous People

Modest and hardworking Sixes do not crave fame. That surely does not mean they
don’t often deserve it. Some of the most famous Enneagram 6 celebrities are:

Woody Allen, American movie director, actor, scriptwriter, and author famous for
his irresistible sense of humor
Mark Twain, American humorist, novelist, and travel writer whose works never
lost their popularity
Jennifer Anniston, American actress, loved by her audience for her honesty
Joe Biden, American politician and the 46th president of the United States.

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The Loyalist – Enneagram Type 6 Key Takeaways

Key Takeaways
If you like the Loyalist’s complex personality, make sure you are kind and patient
with them. After all, they surely deserve it! Before we dive into exploring other
Enneagram personality types, let's review the key details about the Enneagram 6
this eBook provided us with:

Sixes are compassionate, trustworthy, and hardworking individuals always

willing to help others, regardless of where they come from
Analytic, practical and grounded in reality, they are excellent troubleshooters
who love to contribute to their community
When they overcome their self-doubt and insecurities and learn to be more
trusting, they become exceptional, thoughtful leaders.

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