Our Topic Tonight is Knowing Tru Partner

Let someone project 1 Cor 3:9

Christians are co partner with God. Defination of terms

To know maeans 1. be aware of through observation, inquiry, or information

2. Be absolutely certain or sure about something:

[3/22, 20:27] Mummy Olutunde: Who is A Partner

[3/22, 20:28] Mummy Olutunde: A Burdenbearer

A confidant

[3/22, 20:28] Mummy Olutunde: A co-labourers

Joint Promoter

[3/22, 20:28] Mummy Olutunde: Fellow worker

Teammate

[3/22, 20:28] Mummy Olutunde: A Friend

[3/22, 20:29] Mummy Olutunde: Hope we are following

[3/22, 20:29] Mummy Olutunde: Who is now a true Partner

A TRUE PARTNER IS A PERSON WHO HAS AGREED TO GO THE SAME WAY, WHO SHARE THE SAME
VISION, BELIEVE, MIND, AND WHOSE FOCUS IS ACHIVING A COMMON GOAL.

Your Partner focus and aim with you must be to achieve a common goal. Amos 3:3

Biblical Examples of true Partners

[3/22, 20:30] Mummy Olutunde: •

Luke 5:7 Peter Partner at the sea shore

• Luke 3:19 Friend of the paralyzed man

[3/22, 20:31] Mummy Olutunde: •

Rev 1:0 John a faithful partners with Jesus

Onesimus a true partner Col 4:9

• 2Cor 8:23 Ttus , a partner, It was said of Titus that he was a good representatives of the Church.
[3/22, 20:32] Mummy Olutunde: All these partners helped their fellow partners to receive God’s
promises, their testimonies, and drew them closer to God.

[3/22, 20:32] Mummy Olutunde: The expectation of God towards any believer, is that he/she becomes a
true partner, and support syetem to the gospel of Jesus Christ on earth.

This will lead us to our main focus tonight KNOWING TRUE PARTNER IN MARpartner

[3/22, 20:34] Mummy Olutunde: The bible says He that works with the wise shall be wise, whoever
works with fools will suffer.

[3/22, 20:34] Mummy Olutunde: For a man or woman to succeed in life, he needs the right partner

Any man that fails martially has failed in life,

Every othersteps in life is determined by who you choose to be your partner martially

Someone might have been doing well in all areas before choosing a life partner, if he/she chooses
wrongly , that life might experience backward movement, stagnancy, depression and life time sorrow.

Let us pause here and pray

Say Father I refuse to miss it maritally

The issue of knowing and finding a partner in marriage is delicate and must be handled with all
seriousness, sensitivety and wisdom of God.

PEOPLE That Their Partner Affected Negatively

[3/22, 20:40] Mummy Olutunde: Sapphira partnered with her husband to do evil and brings untimely
death Acts 5:1-11

[3/22, 20:40] Mummy Olutunde: Jezebel was a bad partner to Ahab 1 kings 21:25

I pray you will not have a partner that will affect you negatively in Jesus name

FACT TO NOTE ABOUT MARRIAGE

1. MARRIAGE IS FOR ADULT, MATURED IN ALL AREAS (physically, emotionally, financially,

spiritually etc)

2. RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN UNBELIVER NOT IS ALLOWED, NOTHING LIKE I WILL CHANGE HIM OR
HERHER
3. RELATIONSHIP IS BETWEEN TWO OPPOSITE SEX. (NOT GAY, LESBIANIZM ETC)

can I ask a question before we go futher

[3/22, 20:44] Mummy Olutunde: Is dating biblical?

[3/22, 20:44] Mummy Olutunde: anyone?

[3/22, 20:44] +234 907 477 8268: No ma

Courtship is.

[3/22, 20:45] Mummy Olutunde: 2 people more

[3/22, 20:45] Akins Paul: I don't know ma

[3/22, 20:45] +234 901 068 2549: I don't know ma

[3/22, 20:45] Mummy Olutunde: noted

[3/22, 20:45] Mummy Olutunde: Thanks for your responses

[3/22, 20:45] Mummy Olutunde: 4. IN CHRISTIAN DOM, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE DATING. IT IS AN
EASY AVENUE FOR FORNICATION AND DISTRACTION. GOD’S WORD WHICH IS OUR STANDARD DOESN’T
SUPPORT IT.

CHRISTIANS DON’T DATE, WHEN WE ARE NOT READY WILL REFRAIN AND FOCUS ON THINGS OF GOD;
IMMEDIATELY WE ARE READY, WE GO INTO FINDING WHICH WILL LEADS US INTO COURTSHIP

[3/22, 20:46] Mummy Olutunde: Then Marriage

[3/22, 20:47] Mummy Olutunde: FUNDAMENTAL FEATURES OF MARRIAGE

• The Finding

• The Seeking

• The Third Party

• The willingness

• The Courtship

• The Marriage

These are steps to Godly marriage

1. THE FINDING Proverbs 18:22

He that Findeth a wife findeth a good things and obtain favour from thy LordLord

GOD BROUGHT EVE TO ADAM IN GEN 2 BUT HE WAS BLAME FOR IT WHEN MISTAKES ARISES, SO NOW
GOD EXPECTS HUMAN ESPECIALLY THE MAN TO DO THE FINDING HENCEFORTH

Sometimes, In His wholesome power, might Expressly inform us about our partner and sometimes he
might leave us to do the finding.

THE LEVEL OF FINDING IS THE LEVEL OF FRIENDSHIP, WATCHFULNESS AND SENSITIVITY.

STEPS TO FOLLOW Iweaknesses

[3/22, 20:52] Mummy Olutunde: • GET YOUR VALUE SYSTEM RIGHT AS THE FINDER. (WHAT DO
YOU WANT IN MARRIAGE, WHICH TYPE OF PARTNER DO I NEED)

[3/22, 20:53] Mummy Olutunde: When you have been able to find • OBSERVE HIS/HER
BEHAVIOURS, VALUES., interest, strength and weaknesses

[3/22, 20:53] Mummy Olutunde: • OBSERVE the partner LOVE FOR GOD

[3/22, 20:53] Mummy Olutunde: • GET TO KNOW YOUR INTENDING PARTNERS FAMILY
BACKGROUND

[3/22, 20:54] Mummy Olutunde: • MAKE ENQUIRY INTO HIS/HER HEALTH STATUS. WHETHER AA ,
AS OR SS ETC

[3/22, 20:54] Mummy Olutunde: NOTE

ALL THESE TRAITS CAN BE DISCOVERED IN A PERSON WHILE YOU RELATE ON FRIENDLY BASES.

[3/22, 20:55] Mummy Olutunde: We move to number two, and I will be faster now

[3/22, 20:55] Mummy Olutunde: The Seeking Roman 8:27

He that Searcheth the heart know the mind of the Spirit

THERE IS AN HELP MEET PREPARES FOR YOU BUT GOD WILL NOT LORD HIM OR HER ON YOU, YOU HAVE
TO TAKE PAIN TO ASK, SEEK THE FACE OF GOD FOR WHO EVER YOU HAVE SEEN. YOU HAVE TO SEARCH
THE MIND OF THE SPIRIT CONCERNING THE FELLOW.

[3/22, 20:56] Mummy Olutunde: THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR OF KNOWING TRUE PARTNER,
YET IT IS OFTEN THE MOST NEGLECTED FACTOR

[3/22, 20:56] Mummy Olutunde: STEPS TO TAKE IN SEEKING

• BE MEEK TO BE GUIDED BY GOD PSALMS 25:9

[3/22, 20:57] Mummy Olutunde: • BE PRAYERFUL PHIL 4:6

[3/22, 20:57] Mummy Olutunde: • TRUST HIM WHOLLY FOR GUIDANCE ECCL 3:14

[3/22, 20:58] Mummy Olutunde: • WAIT PATIENTLY UNTIL YOU RECEIVE ANSWER

[3/22, 20:58] Mummy Olutunde: • BE WILLING TO OBEY INSTRUCTION. YOU MIGHT LIKE THE
PARTNER AND GOD MIGHT SAY NO

THE PARTNER CAN BE TONGUE FIRE SPEAKING, MORAL OKAY AND GOD MIGHT STILL SAY NO

THE DIFFERNCE BETWEEN THE TIME OF FINDING AND SEEKING IS THAT TIME OF FINDING YOU OPEN
YOUR EYES WHILE THE TIME OF SEEKING YOU OPEN YOUR HEART TO RECEIVE FROM GOD

[3/22, 21:00] Mummy Olutunde: NUMBER 3

[3/22, 21:01] Mummy Olutunde: YOU INFORM YOUR SPIRITUAL LEADER FOR ADDITIONAL
CONFIRMATION OF WHAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED

THEN NUMBER 4

AFTER YOU ARE REALLY SURE ABOUT THE MIND OF GOD, YOU APPROACHED THE PARTNER AS A MAN

BUT AS A WOMAN, YOU MUST WAIT UNTIL THE BROTHERS COMES TO YOU BY HIMSELF

[3/22, 21:02] Mummy Olutunde: THERE MUST BE MUTUAL CONSENT OF THE MAN AND WOMAN
INVOLVED. BOTH MUST BE WILLING TO GO INTO THE RELATIONSHIP

[3/22, 21:02] Mummy Olutunde: RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BY FORCE

IF YOU TALK TO THE LADY AND SHE REFUSES, GOD ALWAYS HAS A BETTER ALTERNATIVES

[3/22, 21:03] Mummy Olutunde: THAT WAS WHY IN GEN 24:58 REBEKKAH WAS ASKED WHETHER SHE
WILL FOLLOW ELIEZER TO MARRY ISAAC

[3/22, 21:03] Mummy Olutunde: THIS WILL NOW LEAD TO COURTSHIP, IF SHE HAS AGREES, THEN
MARRIAGE

[3/22, 21:03] Mummy Olutunde: CONCLUSION

THE MOST ACCURATE WAY IN KNOWING TRUE

PARTNER IN MARRIAGE, IS KNOWING THE TRUTH (JESUS); WHO PROMISED TO GUIDE US INTO ALL
TRUTH. YOU CANT FIND TRUE PARTNER OUTSIDE GOD

HE IS THE AUTHOR OF MARRIAGE AND PERFECT MATCH-MAKER OF ALL TIMES.

HE KNOWNS WHO IS BEST SUITED FOR YOU, WHO HE HAS PREPARED AS AN HELP MEET BEFORE THE
FOUNDATION OF THE WORLD.
BECAUSE OF OUR TIME, LET US ALL SEND OUR QUESTION TO 08035104634, I WILL LEAVE THE ANSWER
ON THE PLATFORM BEFORE TOMORROW MORNING. THANKS

FATHER , PLEASE LEAD ME INTO CHOOSING RIGHTLY IN MARRIAGE

[3/22, 21:06] Mummy Olutunde: PLEASE ME FIND THE RIGHT BONE, AND FLEASH FOR MY DESTINY

[3/22, 21:07] Mummy Olutunde: GUIDE ME INTO MARITAL SETTLEMENT

[3/22, 21:07] Mummy Olutunde: IN JESUS NAME WE PRAYED

[3/22, 21:07] Mummy Olutunde: THANKS EVERYONE FOR THE PRIVELDGE