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The Adher's Guide To Managing Anger
The Adher's Guide To Managing Anger
THIS BOOK
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Thank you!
A QUICK NOTE:
This workbook was created by ADHDers for ADHDers. We
are not medical or mental health professionals, and this
workbook is not a replacement for professional advice.
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ABOUT THIS BOOK
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TAKING A STEP BACK:
UNDERSTANDING ANGER
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MANAGING ANGER AND
BUILDING BETTER HABITS
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A FINAL WORD
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SOURCES & CONTRIBUTORS
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REFERENCES
ABOUT THIS BOOK
Hey there, fellow ADHDer. How have you been feeling lately?
Have you been under a bit of stress? Or maybe you’ve been
feeling like you react badly to situations, and you find yourself
starting to get angry when perhaps you shouldn’t?
We know exactly how that is, because we all struggle with anger
issues from time to time. But because you deserve to put your
energy into more positive pursuits, this book will help you
navigate anger and its underlying emotions.
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TAKING A STEP BACK:
UNDERSTANDING ANGER
To move past your anger, you need to take a step back and
observe it from a distance.
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Easier said than done, we know. But that’s why we’re going to
walk you through it.
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Anger is rarely the first emotion we feel, but rather it’s the
emotion that we express (often because it’s easier to express
anger than other emotions).
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FRUSTRA
FEAR TION SHAME
EM B A R R A S S M EN T E NT
DISAPPOINTM
HURT WORRY
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In the same way that anger is like a lot of other feelings, it also
takes different forms.
There are many manifestations of anger. Some people’s anger
manifests as silence. In others it takes the form of violent
outbursts. Some use words to express their anger, while others
use action.
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MANAGING ANGER AND
BUILDING BETTER HABITS
Of course, we don’t want that. So, it’s important that you work on
developing habits through which to manage your anger. If you’ve
made it this far, you’re already committed to building healthier
emotional habits, and we’re proud of you—keep going!
Here are some habits you can cultivate to help you manage your
anger (and other tough emotions):
When we get angry, it’s easy to let that anger cloud our
judgment. We become so emotionally invested in our situation
that it’s difficult to see things clearly.
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When you’re angry, you may say something you’ll regret later. If
you feel like you can’t stay silent, ask for a moment alone to collect
your thoughts.
Writing is a great solution to calm you down, and you can always
revisit your writing after you’ve had some time and space away
from the problem.
SLEEP ON IT.
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Imagine that you have spent a bad Monday at work, and your
feelings are all over the place. You could come home and take out
those negative feelings on your partner or loved ones, or beat
yourself up over it. But would that really help? Probably not.
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WEDNESDAY
THURSDAY
FRIDAY
SATURDAY
SUNDAY
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DAYS TIME HABIT
MONDAY
TUESDAY
WEDNESDAY
THURSDAY
FRIDAY
SATURDAY
SUNDAY
MANAGING ANGER AND BUILDING BETTER HABITS
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Of course, you may not be the only one feeling angry. That’s why
it’s important to make it clear that you still want to solve the
problem (you’re not just running away from it), and to show the
same grace to the other person that you’d like them to show you.
If, however, you’ve tried and tried and the other person still
refuses to understand your boundaries, then distancing yourself
might be something to consider. A person who fails to value your
mental well-being is probably a person to stay away from.
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A FINAL WORD
While this book has come to an end, our journey together has
just started. In these pages you’ve read, we’ve tried to show you
how to understand and manage your anger better by managing
the different emotions related to it.
Love,
-THE ADHDOERS
TEAM
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SOURCES
& contributors
Thanks to everyone who contributed to this workbook!
Designed by ADHDoers
Distributed by ADHDoers
REFERENCES
TJ. S. Rebecca. (2021). “ADHD and Anger: What’s the
Connection?” Healthline.
https://www.healthline.com/health/adhd/adhd-and-anger.