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Dua's for Good Matrimonial Relationship

Contents :To create or develop love | To remove misunderstanding |To remove discord and separation| To create and develop love and
affection | If Husband is displeased with wife |If there is discord after marriage | If husband is taking interest in another woman |To make a
bad tempered and wicked husband gentle | Duas From Tohfatul Hashmiya

To create or develop love between man and wife

Dua'a 189 Recite Surah Yasin 7 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on 7 almonds separately and give
them to your spouse for eating all of them.

Dua'a 190 BISMILLAHIR RAHMAN NIR RAHIM 786 times on a glass of clean (pure) water and give it to your spouse for drinking.

Dua'a 191 Recite Surah An-Nisa 7 times a day.

Dua'a 192 Surah al Quraysh (chapter 106) on roses and both of them should smell them.

Dua'a 193 Recite (AL WADOODU) 1000 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables
and both should eat it.

Dua'a 194 Recite Surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 41 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some
sweet eatables and give it to your spouse to eat.

Dua'a 197 Recite the following du-a'a (verse 31 of Aali Imran) 3 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on a
glass of pure water and give it to your spouse to drink.

‫ي‬ ‫ُقْل ِإن ُك نُت ِحُتُّبو ا َفاَّتِبُعويِن ْحُيِب ُك ا َيْغِفْر َلُك ُذُنوَبُك ا َغُفو َّر ِح‬
‫ْم َو ُهّلل ٌر ٌم‬ ‫ْم‬ ‫ْب ُم ُهّلل َو‬ ‫ْم َن َهّلل‬
Dua'a 200 Recite verse 32 of Sad on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat during a period of 7 days.

‫‏َفَقاَل ِإٓىِّنَأْح َبْبُت ُح َّب ٱَخْلِرْي َعن ِذْكِر َر ىِّب َح َتَواَر ْت ِبٱِحْلَج اِب‬‎
‫ٰىَّت‬
Dua'a 207 Recite verse 83 of Yasin on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat. Inshallah very soon they will come very close
to each other.

‫ َو َالَح ْوَل َوَالُقَّوَة ِاَّالبِاِهلل اْلَعِّىِل اْلَعِظ ْيم‬- ‫َفُس ْبَٰح َن ٱَّلِذ ى ِبَيِد ِهۦ َمَلُك وُت ُكِّل ْىَش ٍء َوِإَلْيِه ُتْر َجُعوَن‬

‫َّما َكاَن َحُمَّمٌد َأَبا َأَح ٍد ِّمن ِّر َج اِلُك ْم َوَلِكن َّر ُس وَل اِهَّلل َوَخ اَتَم الَّنِبِّيَني َوَكاَن اُهَّلل ِبُكِّل َشْي ٍء َعِليًما‬
Dua'a 208 Recite verse 40 of Ahzab on some fragrant flowers or eatables and give it to your spouse to smell or eat.

Dua'a 209 As directed in Biharul Anwar, take an egg (hen) clean it and write verse 128 of al Bara-at on it with the name of your spouse.
Enclose the egg in a pot with a cover and bury it under the earth where fire burns everyday. Inshallah the spouse will come very close to
you. If there has been a separate, an immediate reconciliation will take place.

‫ٌف َّر ِح‬ ‫ِن‬‫ٌل ِّمۡن َاۡنُف ِس ُك َعِز ۡيٌز َعَل ِه ا َعِنُّت َح ِر ۡي َعَل ُك ِبا ۡؤ ِم‬
‫ۡيٌم‬ ‫ۡي َم ۡم ٌص ۡي ۡم ُمۡل َنۡي َرُءۡو‬ ‫ۡم‬ ‫ـَلَقۡد َج ٓاَءُكۡم َر ُس ۡو‬
Dua'a 210 It is written in Biharul Anwar that in order to create love between man and wife write the names of Ashab al kahf (the people of
the cave) and then the name of your spouse with her or his mother's or father's name and wear it as a ta'wid on the right arm. The names
of seven sleepers (followers of Prophet Isa) in Christian books are as under : Constantine Dionysius John Malchus Martinian Maximiam
Serapion According to Hafiz Farman Ali Sahib they were six and the seventh was a dog. Their names are given below : Kimsilmina
Martunus Sarnivilus Ninivanus Tmlikha Wariwanus

Dua'a 216 To create love between man and wife (who is showing signs of indifference) (i) Write Surah as Zukhruf (chapter 43) on a plate of
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China Clay and wash it with pure water and give it to the wife to drink.
Or (ii) The aggrieved husband should recite Surah al Jumu-a'h (chapter 62) 5 times a day
Or (iii) Keep the written text of the said Surah on the body as a tawid
Or (iv) The aggrieved husband should recite Ayat al Kursi (see du-a'a 39 ) equal in number of the total of his and his wife's name as per the
rule of abjad.

Or (v) He should wear the written text of Ayat ul Kursi as a tawid on his body.

To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between man and wife
(1)Recite Surah Jumah (chapter 62) on Friday and invoke the Almighty Allah to fulfill your desire.
(2) Recite (AL MAANI-U) The Preventer as many times as possible.

‫ِحُّيُّب ِحُيُّب َنۤٗهۙ َاِذَّلٍة َعىَل ا ۡؤ ِمِن َاِع َّز ٍة َعىَل اۡلٰكِف‬
(3)Recite the following portion of verse 54 of al Ma-idah on some sweet eatables and let both of them eat it.

‫َن‬‫ۡي‬ ‫ِر‬ ‫ُمۡل َنۡي‬ ‫ُهۡم َو ۡو‬

To remove discord and separation between man and wife and to bring themselves in to harmony again
One of them should recite the following du'a on some fresh fragrant flowers with full concentration and send them to the other spouse for
smelling them.
Say 11 times -
Then say 11 times :

‫ الَّلُهَّم َص ِّل‬- ‫ َواهلٌَل اُمْلْس َتَعاٌن َعىَل َما َتِص ُفْوَن َيا َر ِفْيُق َيا َشِف ْيُق ٌِجَن ِمْن ُكٌِل َض ْيٍق‬- ‫الَّلُهَّم َص ِّل َعىَل َحُمَّم ٍد َو آِل َحُمَّم ٍد‬
‫ْىِن‬
‫َعىَل َحُمَّم ٍد آِل َحُمَّم ٍد‬
‫َو‬
Recite the following verses 29 and 30 of surah Yusuf on some sweet eatables and let both the husband and wife eat them to remove
discord that has made their life miserable.

‫ِو‬ ‫َٰر‬ ‫ُت‬ ‫ِزيِز‬ ‫ٱْل‬ ‫َأ‬ ‫ٱ‬ ‫ِة‬ ‫ي‬ ‫ِد‬ ‫ٱ‬ ‫ىِف‬ ‫ٌة‬ ‫ِن‬ ‫ا‬‫َق‬ - ‫ِٔـ‬ ‫ِط‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ٱ‬ ‫ِم‬ ‫ِت‬ ‫ن‬ ‫ُك‬ ‫ِك‬ ‫َّن‬‫ِإ‬ ‫ِك‬‫ِب‬
‫ۢن‬ ‫َذ‬‫و َأْعِر ْض َع َٰهَذا ٱ َتْغِفِر ى ِل‬
‫ُد‬ ‫َع‬ ‫ُت‬ ‫َر‬ ‫ْم‬ ‫َن‬ ‫َن َني َو ْس َو َمْل‬‫َل‬ ‫َخْل‬ ‫ْن َو ْس‬ ‫ُي ُس ُف‬
‫َفَتٰى َها َعن َّنْفِس ِهۦ َقْد َشَغَفَها ُح ًّبا ِإَّنا َلَنَر ٰى َها ىِف َض َٰلٍل ُّمِبٍني‬
According to Biharul Anwar to create love and understanding between husband and wife, if they are drifting from each other, recite a 2
rakat salat after Isha, at any time during the night, on Monday. In each rakat, after the recitation of al Fatihah, recite surah ad Duha
(chapter 93) 10 times, and after the salam recite the following dua 25 times.
allaahumma ah'abbanee ilaa qalbi

To create and develop love and affection between man and wife

Dua'a 203
O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad
H'aa meem ayn seen qaaf
Ya Sin. By the Quran, the book of wisdom.
Nun. By the pen and by what they write.
You alone we worship and from You alone we seek help.
O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on the children of Muhammad.
allaahumma s'alli a'laa muh'ammadin wa aali muh'ammad
h'aa meem ayn seen qaaf
yaa seen wal quraanilh'akeem
noon wal qalami wa maa yast'uroon iyyaaka na-budu wa iyyaaka nasta-een
s'allallaahu a'laa khayri khalqihee muh'ammadin wa aalihee ajma-e'en lih'ubbi (name of husband with his mother) a'laa h'ubbi (name of
wife with her mother)
allahumma s'alli a'laa muh'ammadin wa aali muh'ammad.
(i) Recite 14 times : (ii) (iii)Ya Sin, By the Quran, the book of wisdom. YAA SEEN WAL QURAANIL H'AKEEM
(iv)Nun. By the pen and by what they write. Noon Wal Qalami Wa Maa Yast'uroon
(v)You alone we worship and from You alone we seek help. Iyyaaka na'-Budu wa iyyaaka nasta-e'en
(vi) Say : Blessings of Allah be on Muhammad and on his children, all of whom are the best creation among His all creations; for the
purpose of (creation) love (in the heart of (name of husband with his mother) for (name the wife with her mother).
(vii) Recite 14 times :
Recite the following verse 96 of Maryam on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat. Inshallah they will come close to each
other very soon.

Recite following verses (last portion of 62 and 63 of Anfal) on some sweet eatables and give it to both of them to eat. Inshallah there will

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be a positive result very soon.

According to Biharul Anwar to create and develop love between man and wife, after marriage, if there is discord and misunderstanding,
write verses 9 to 14 of Az Zukhruf on 4 pages and bury these 4 pages separately in four corners of the house (One page in every corner)

It is written in Biharul Anwar that in order to create love between man and wife write verse 63 of al Anfal and verse 7 of al Mumtahinah
with saffron on a piece of paper after praying a 2 rakat salat on Sunday wash it with pure water and both of them should drink it for 7 days.

If the husband is displeased with the wife, she should recite the following verse 165 of al Baqarah on some sweat eatables and give it to
him to eat. Inshaallah soon there will be positive result.

Recite 30 times verse 129 of al Bara-at during the Friday night, keeping in mind the name of the displeased spouse. Inshallah, there will be
harmony between the two spouses again. But if they turn away, say:
Then say name of spouse with mother

If there is discord after marriage between man and wife, in order to create love, it is written in Biharul Anwar, to write verses 1 and 2 of Ad
Dahr with saffron and wash it with rose water and both of them should drink it.

According to Biharul Anwar, if husband is taking interest in another woman, gambling and drinking etc.,etc., the wife should recite a 2
rakat salat and in each rakat after reciting surah al Fatihah, Recite :
(i) verse 7 of al Mumtahinah
(ii) say 70 times

(iii) Then recite the following du-a'a 27 times.

To make a bad tempered and wicked husband gentle recite the following du-a'a on some sweet eatables and give it to him to eat.

TO CREATE LOVE BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE - PET book extracts

1 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite surah Ya Sin 7 times and every time blow breath through the palm of the
right hand on 7 almonds separately and give them to your spouse of eating all of them.
2 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite BISMILLAAHIR RAHMAN NIR RAHIM 786 times on a glass of clean (pure)
water and give it to your spouse for drinking.
3 To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between husband and wife recite surah al Jumu-ah
(chapter 62) on Friday and invoke the almighty Allah to fulfill your desire.
4 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite surah al Quraysh (chapter 106) on roses and both of them should smell
them.
5 To remove misunderstanding and discord and instead create love and understanding between husband and wife recite as many times as
possible. “AL MAANI-U” (the preventer)
6 To create or develop love and understanding between husband and wife recite 1000 times : “AL WADOODU” [ the affectionate ] and
every time blow breath through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and both should eat it.
7 To create or develop love between husband and wife recite surah al Muzzammil (chapter 73) 41 times and every time blow breath
through the palm of the right hand on some sweet eatables and give it to your spouse to eat.
8 To remove discord and separation between husband and wife and to bring themselves in to harmony again one of them should recite the
following dua on some fresh fragrant flowers with full concentration and send them to the other spouse for smelling them. Say 11 times
salawat: “ ALLAAHUMMA S’ALLI A’LAA MUH’AMMADIN WA AALI MUH’AMMAD” [ O my Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and on
the progency of Muhammed. ]
Then say :
Then say 11 times salawat :
9 If the husband is displeased with the wife, she should recite the following verse 165 of al Baarah on some sweat eatables and give it to
him to eat. Inshallah soon there will be a positive result.

10 According to Bihar ul Anwar, if husband is taking interest in another woman, gambling and drinking etcetera, the wife should recite a 2
rak-at salat and in each rak-at after reciting surah al Fatihah, recite :
i) Verse 7 of al Mumtahinah
ii) Say 70 times :

iii) Then recite the following dua’a 27 times:

From Book Tohfatul Hashmiya

Love and attachment between spouses
Write and bury it in the four corners of the house, on four pieces of paper for reconciliation between spouses:

‫ٌل ِّمْن َأْنُف ِس ُك َعِز ْيٌز َعَل ِه ا َعِنُّت َح ِر ْي َعَل ُك ِبا ْؤ ِمِن ُؤ ٌف َّر ِح‬ ‫َلَقْد َج آَئُك‬.
‫ٌم‬‫ْي‬ ‫ْو‬ ‫َر‬ ‫َنْي‬ ‫ُمْل‬ ‫ْم‬ ‫ْي‬ ‫ٌص‬ ‫ْم‬ ‫َم‬ ‫ْي‬ ‫ْم‬ ‫ْو‬ ‫ُس‬ ‫َر‬ ‫ْم‬
In the same way write this verse for buildings by invoking blessings on the Prophet (s.a.w.s.) a hundred times; and say: O the Living, O the

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Everlasting, O Powerful, I ask You by the sanctity of the Quran that You create love in such and such wife for such and such husband or in
such and such husband for such and such wife.[1] For love and attachment between spouses or brother or partners If you intend that you
cause reconciliation between two people take a thread from the dress of each of them and entwine the two together and say:
‫اْعَتِص وْا ِل اِهلل ِمَج ا َالَتَفَّر ُقوْا اْذُك وْاِن َة اِهلل َل ُك ِإْذ ُك ْن َأ َدآ َفَأَّلَف ُقُل ِبُك َفَأ‬
‫َو ُر ْعَم َع ْي ْم ُتْم ْع ًء َبَنْي ْو ْم ْص َبْحُتْم‬ ‫ْيًع َو‬ ‫َو ُم َحِبْب‬
‫ِبِنْع ِتِه ِإْخ اًنا َيا َأُّيَها الَّنا ِإَّنا َخ َلْقَناُكم ِّمْن َذَكٍر ُأْنٰثى َج ْلَناُك ُش ُع ًبا َق اِئَل ِلَت ا ُف ا ِإَّن َأْكَر ُك ِع ْنَد اِهلل‬
‫َم ْم‬ ‫َو َو َع ْم ْو َو َب َع َر ْو‬ ‫ُس‬ ‫َم َو‬
‫ِب‬ ‫َخ‬ ‫َأْتَقاُك ِإَّن ا َعِل‬.
‫ْم َهلل ْيٌم ٌرْي‬
‫ َكَم ا َاَّلْفَت َبَنْي ُمْویٰس َو َهاُر ْوَن َو َكَم ا َاَّلْفَت َبَنْي َج َرْباِئْيَل‬، ‫َالَّلُهَّم َاِّلْف َبَنْي ُفَالَن ْبَن ُفَالَنٍة َو َبَنْي ُفَالَنَة ِبْنِت ُفَالَنٍة‬
‫ َو َبَنْي َخ ِد َجْيَة اْلُك ٰرْبی َو َحُمَّم ٍد َر ُس ْوُل اِهلل َص یَّل اُهلل َعَلْيِه َوآِلِه َو َس َّلَم َو َبَنْي َفاِط َم َة الَّز ْه َر اِء َو َعٍّىِل‬، ‫َو ِم ْيَكاِئْيَل‬
‫ َالَّل َّم َاِّلْف َب ُفَال ْب ُفَالَنٍة ُفَالَنَة ِبْنِت ُفَالَنٍة َثًالَكِل ًة َط ِّي ًة َكَش َج ٍة َط ِّي ٍة‬. ‫ا ْر َتیٰض َل ِه ا الَّس َال‬
‫َر َب‬ ‫َم َم َب‬ ‫َو‬ ‫َنْي َن َن‬ ‫ُم ُه‬ ‫َع ْي َم‬ ‫ُمْل‬
‫ َيْض ِر ا ْاَال َثاَل ِللَّناِس َل َّلُه َيَتَذَّك‬،‫ ُت ُاُكَلَها ُكَّل ِح ٍنْي ِبِاْذِن ِّبَها‬.‫َا ُلَها َثاِبٌت َفْر َها الَّس آِء‬.
‫َع ْم ُر ْوَن‬ ‫َر َو ُب ُهلل ْم‬ ‫َو ُع ْیِف َم ْوْیِت‬ ‫ْص‬
When you are reciting them, for each recitation make one knot in the threads till there are seven knots and give it to one of them to carry
it. The two of them would be reconciled by the leave of Allah. (It is a proven remedy) quoted from handwritten manuscripts.
For love and attachment
Write on a piece of white silk cloth by pure musk and yellow saffron and April water drops and put it in the pocket of the shirt below the

‫ِر ي و ِل ْط ِف وا ُنو اِهَّلل ِبَأْف اِه ِه ا …َنْص ِّم‬

dress: The saying of the Almighty:

‫ي‬ ‫ِر‬‫َق‬ ‫ْت‬‫َف‬ ‫ِهَّلل‬ ‫ا‬

‫ٌر َن َو ٌح ٌب‬ ‫َو ْم َو ُهَّلل‬ ‫ُي ُد َن ُي ُؤ َر‬
These verses are for acceptance, awe, obedience and help on the enemies. One who wears this shirt will overawe all those he meets.
Supplication for affection

، ‫ َالَح ْوَل َو َالُقَّوَة ِاَّالِبَك‬، ‫ َو َاَنا َعْبُد َك الَّض ِعْيُف الَّذ ِلْيُل‬،‫ َالَّلُهَّم َاْنَت اْلَعِز ْيُز اْلَكِبُرْي‬. ‫ِبْس ِم اِهلل الَّر ٰمْحِن الَّر ِح ْيِم‬
، ‫َالَّلُهَّم َس َّخ َر ْىِلُفَالًنا َكَم ا َس َّخ ْر َت اْلَبْح َر ُمِلویٰس اْبِن ِع ْم َر اَن َو َاِلْن َقْلَبُه َكَم ا َاَلْنَت اَحْلِد َْيد ِلَداُو ْوَد َعَلْيِه الَّس َالُم‬
‫ َناِص َيُتُه ْىِفَقْبَض ِتَك َو َقْلَبُه ْىِفَيِد َك ُتقِّلْبُه َكْيَف َتَش آُء ِإَّنَك َعیٰل ُكِّل ْىَش ٍء َقِد ٌرْي‬، ‫َفِإَّنُه َالَيْنِط ُق ِإَّالِبِإْذِنَك‬.
For Love
Allamah Naraqi (r.a.) says in Al-Khazain: For clear benefit for love, consideration of the kings and rulers, write it on the first Thursday of
the month:
“God is the greatest”, seven times, and “there is no power and strength except by Allah, the Exalted and the Mighty”, seven times, and.
Then he should fasten it to himself.
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Then he will obey you and not disobey till it remains fastened on you, and you will not fear snakes, scorpions and beasts and all the
creatures created by Allah. It is also one of the proven secrets of the veterans of this blessed art.[7]
[1] Tibb al-Aaimma, As-Sayyid Shubbar, Pg. 424
[2] Surah Aale Imran 3:103
[3] Surah Hujurat 49:13
[4] Surah Ibrahim 14:25
[5] Surah Saff Verses 8-13
[6] Al-Mukhla of Shaykh Bahai, Pg. 188
[7] Quoted from ancient manuscript

Supplication for warding off mischief, plots and for love in the view of people

‫ ا َض َنِرْي ا َذَّلِة َعیٰل ِر َقاِب ا ُل ِك ا اِب ِة َف ِم ْط ِتِه اِئ‬، ‫ِب ِم اِهلل الَّر ٰمْحِن الَّر ِح ِم‬
It is as follows:

‫ا‬ ، ‫ُف‬
‫ُمْل ْو َجْلَب َر ُهْم ْن َس َو َخ ْوَن َي َمْن‬ ‫ْي َي َمْن َو َع َمْل‬ ‫ْس‬
، ‫ َو َيا َمْن ْحَيُش ُر اْلِعَظ اَم الَّداِر َس اِت َوَیِهَر ِم ْيم َيْوَم ُيْبَعُثْوَن‬، ‫َتَعَّز َز ِباْلِعَّز ِة َو اْلَعَظ َم ِة َفَج ِم ْيُع َخ ْلِقِه ِمْن َخ ْيَفِتِه َو ِج ُلْوَن‬
‫ِه‬ ‫َل‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ُل‬ ‫ُخ‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ِه‬ ‫َل‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ْن‬ ‫َا‬ ‫ُف‬ ‫ا‬‫َخَي‬ ‫ْي‬ ‫ِذ‬ ‫َّل‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ِم‬ ‫ِن‬‫َال‬ ‫ا‬ ‫َق‬ ‫ٍذ‬‫ِئ‬ ‫َي‬ ‫ِع‬ ‫َز‬ ‫ْل‬
‫َف‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ِم‬ ‫َف‬ ‫َيا َمْن َاَعَّز َاوِل آَئُه ِبَط اَعِتِه‬
‫َع‬
‫ْوَن َعَم ُهلل ْي َم ْد ْو ْي ُم‬ ‫َع‬ ‫َن‬ ‫َن‬ ‫َر ُج‬ ‫َل‬ ‫ْوَم‬ ‫َن‬ ‫ْم‬ ‫ُه‬ ‫َي‬
‫ِمَل‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ْل‬ ‫ا‬ ‫َّب‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ِن‬‫ِم‬ ‫ْؤ‬ ‫ُّم‬ ‫ْن‬ ‫ك‬ ‫ِا‬ ‫آ‬ ‫ُل‬‫َّك‬ ‫َت‬‫َف‬ ‫ِهلل‬‫ا‬ ‫یَل‬‫َع‬ ، ‫ َفِاَذا َخ ْلُت ُة َفِاَّنُك ٰغِل‬، ‫اْل ا‬.
‫َو ْو ْن ُتْم َنْي َي َر َع َنْي‬ ‫َب َب َد ُم ْو ْم ُبْوَن َو‬
[1] Surah Maidah 5:23
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