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Although Swift was a pessimist, a cynic and a misanthrope, these
resolutions contain much wisdom; so much, in fact, that a faithful
adherence to them would save most old men much suffering and
humiliation. I read them first when I was a boy and they produced a
profound impression; now that I am in a position where they fit my
case, I believe them to be good medicine, bitter but wholesome. Swift
must have been bored horribly by many old men, or he must have
observed many old people behaving in a silly fashion to have written
down these rules with such emphasis.
(1, 2) “Crabbed age and youth cannot live together,” said
Shakespeare; the few exceptions do no more than prove the rule.
Many old people suffer because they fear that young people do not
desire their company. The solution is for old people not to allow their
happiness to be dependent on young folks but to have either company
of their own age or intellectual resources which will make them
mentally independent. I have taught young people for forty years, and
although I am very fond of them, I prefer the society of people of my
own age. If I were about to take a trip around the world and could
choose either a young or old companion, I would take the latter.
(3) Good advice for any age, but old persons, owing to bodily
infirmities, are more apt to show these unlovely characteristics.
(4) This advice was never more needed than now.
(5) I would change this, so it would read “Not to fondle children.” A
man with a bushy beard can terrify babes.
(6) “I suppose you have all heard this before, but——” then why tell
it?
(7) Especially of the health, vigour, and activity of younger men.
(8) Swift was himself almost fanatically clean. It is a disgusting
sight to behold old men who are careless of their clothes and
appearance, as though old age gave one the privilege to appear in
public with the remains of the last meal on the coat, waistcoat and
shirt.
(9) Observe the ways of the dog, and learn wisdom. The dog
allows children to pull his tail, and bother him in many ways; not
because he likes it, but because he knows children have no sense. It is
useless to expect that children and young people will think and act like
middle-aged men and women; why be fretful when they are simply
running true to form?
(10) One must remember that slander is of value only as a self-
revelation, never as an accurate description. The recoil of that
particular gun is greater than the discharge.
(11) Every person loves to give advice and no one loves to take it.
The mother says to the child, “Now, Freddy, don’t forget to put your
rubbers on!” to which Freddy replies “Huh!” Then when Freddy is
seventy-six years old, his granddaughter says, “Now, Grandpa, don’t
forget to put your rubbers on!” to which the grandparent replies “Huh!”
It is a good thing not to force one’s opinion on others unless they ask
for it; one’s professions and creed will be judged by one’s life, anyhow.
(12) Ah, that requires the very grace of God. This kind comes only
by prayer and fasting.
(13, 14) Many an old man likes to have others think that he was in
his prime a devil of a fellow. This particular vanity is hard to eradicate.
Even in the moment of Lear’s heartbreaking and shattering grief over
the death of his daughter Cordelia he found time to boast of his former
prowess.
(15) I say it not cynically, but in all seriousness: There is no one
who cannot be successfully flattered, provided the flattery be applied
with some skill. We have at the core such invincible egotism that we
not only listen greedily to flattery, but, what is far worse, we believe it!
(16) An overbearing, domineering, dogmatic manner in
conversation is abominable in persons of any age; when old people
behave in this fashion, and it is not resented by the young, it should
really all the more humiliate the old. For such acquiescence means
that the old man hasn’t any sense, anyhow.
(17) Know thyself. Ulysses showed his wisdom in not trusting
himself. A Yale undergraduate left on his door a placard for the janitor
on which was written, “Call me at 7 o’clock; it is absolutely necessary
that I get up at seven. Make no mistake. Keep knocking until I answer.”
Under this he had written. “Try again at ten.”
IV
ENGLISH AND AMERICAN HUMOUR
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My amazement at his pride and joy in salesmanship will be easily
understood by all who read this article. In many shops the customer
has to wait for some one to wait upon him. And when finally some clerk
does deign to notice you, you are made to feel as if you were
interrupting him. Either he is absorbed in profound thought in which he
hates to be disturbed or he is skylarking with a girl clerk and you feel
like apologising for thrusting yourself into such intimacy.
He displays no interest either in you or in the goods he is paid to
sell. Yet possibly that very clerk who is now so apathetic began his
career with hope and enthusiasm. The daily grind was too much for
him; the novelty wore off; his only pleasures were found outside of
working hours. He became a mechanical, not an inspired, salesman.
After being mechanical, he became incompetent; then he saw younger
clerks who had more zest in their work, promoted over him. He
became sour and nourished a grievance. That was the last stage. His
usefulness was over.
I have observed this melancholy decline in the lives of so many
men in so many occupations that I have come to the conclusion that
the surest road to failure is to do things mechanically. There is, for
example, no greater literature in the world than the Bible and no more
exciting subject than religion. Yet I have heard many ministers of the
gospel read the Bible in their churches with no interest and no
emphasis, whereas they ought to read it as if they had just received it
by wireless from Almighty God. I have heard hundreds of sermons
preached mechanically, with no more appeal than if the speaker were
a parrot. There are many teachers in schools and colleges who seem
duller than the dullest of their pupils; they go through the motions of
teaching, but they are as impersonal as a telephone.
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In reading that remarkable book, The Americanization of Edward
Bok, I was impressed by what he said of competition in business.
Beginning as a very young man in a certain occupation, he had
expected to encounter the severest competition. As a matter of fact, he
met no competition at all, and found that success was the easiest thing
in the world, if one provided the conditions necessary for it.
He worked along with a number of other young men in the
business. He was the only one who ever got to the place ahead of
time. At the noon hour at lunch the other youngsters never on a single
occasion mentioned the business in which they were engaged. They
talked of their girls, or of athletic sports, or of various dissipations. He
was the only man who ever remained after business hours, and he
was convinced that he was the only one who ever occupied his mind
with the business during his evenings.
He rose above the others with consummate ease, and for two
obvious reasons: First, he made himself indispensable; second, he
found his chief pleasure in his work, not in the dissipations outside of it.
It is simple enough for any one to be attracted by the novelty of a
new job. The real difficulty is to keep up that initial enthusiasm every
day of one’s life, to go to work every morning with zest and excitement.
I believe that a man should live every day as if that day were his first
and his last day on earth.
Every person needs some relaxation, some recreation; but a man’s
chief happiness should not lie outside his daily work, but in it. The chief
difference between the happiness of childhood and the happiness of
maturity is that the child’s happiness is dependent on something
different from the daily routine—a picnic, an excursion, a break of
some kind. But to the right sort of men and women happiness is found
in the routine itself, not in departures from it. Instead of hoping for a
change, one hopes there will be no change, that one will have
sufficient health to continue in one’s chosen occupation. The child has
pleasures; the man has happiness. But unfortunately some men
remain children all their lives.
VI
AN INSPIRING CEMETERY
The last time I was in Florence I bent over his grave and with
deliberate emphasis I whispered “Alas!” I do not know whether he
heard me or not.
Robert and Elizabeth Browning made the poet’s later years as
happy as was possible for one of his temperament; they secured a
villa for him, furnished it, hired servants and did what they could. He
was wildly irascible, and if he did not like a meal that was served, he
grabbed the table-cloth, and twitched all the food and dishes on to
the floor. All his life he was a fighting man, which makes the beautiful
Farewell he wrote somewhat incongruous.
In addition to the three great English poets who are buried in this
cemetery, two famous Americans lie there, Richard Hildreth and
Theodore Parker. When I was an undergraduate, I asked Prof. W. G.
Sumner what was the best History of the United States that had ever
been written; he answered gruffly and without a word of qualification,
“Hildreth’s!” Accordingly, I read every word of the six volumes. Many
years later I had the unique pleasure of telling Sumner something he
had not known; I told him I had done homage at Hildreth’s grave in
Florence, and he was surprised to learn that the historian was buried
there. If any one believes that the contemporary custom of
“debunking” historical characters is new, he should read Hildreth’s
Preface to his History.
In the attack just quoted the most interesting thing to the modern
reader is that precisely the same objections were made to the game
as we hear today.
In the robust days of Queen Bess football was regarded as low
and vulgar; it received the denunciation of the Church and the more
potent frown of fashionable society. Today at a great university
match prominent clergymen are seen even on the sidelines; the
bleachers bloom with lovely women, and in a conspicuous place
stands the President of the United States.
VIII
RIVERS