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History of Sexuality in India
History of Sexuality in India
1. Introduction
2. Heterosexuality in India
3. Homosexuality in India
4. The Emergence of homophobia
5. Conclusion
Love story like Sassui and Punnhun (The story of Sassui and Punnhun is an old
Sindhi folktale about the prince of Kech Makran, Mir Punnhun Khan and the princess of
Bhambore, Sassui. The Raja gave up Sassui on birth as it was foretold that she would bring
great shame to the family. She was raised by a washerman and grew up to be immensely
beautiful. Punnhun heard of her beauty and came to marry her. But his brothers were not
happy with him marrying a lowly washerman’s daughter, so they took him away with
deceit. Sassui ran on foot from Bhambore to Kech and died in the desert in between.
Punnhun too ran from Kech and died at the same place in the desert to meet his lover in
her grave)
Dhola and Maru (The story of Dhola and Maru comes from Rajasthan though there
are versions from Chhattisgarh as well. The story is of a prince Dhola and a princess Maru
who are married in childhood. But when the father of Dhola dies in battle there is no one to
remind him of his marriage. He grows up forgetting about Maru and marries Malwani. A
group of folk singers from Maru’s hometown of Poogal visit Narwar and remind Dhola of
his first marriage. He remembers everything and faces many obstacles, from Malwani and
Maru’s admirer Umar Sumar, to get back to Maru. In the end they are able to get back
together and live happily ever after)
Shahjahan and Mumtaz Mahal (The top Indian love story has to be the one that has
been immortalized in the Taj Mahal, a monument built by Shah Jahan in the memory of the
love of his life, Mumtaz Mahal. Taj Mahal is one of the 7 wonders of the world and is a
symbol of eternal love. Born Arjumand Banu Begum, she was named Mumtaz Mahal by
Shah Jahan after marriage as it means the ‘jewel of the palace’. The couple stayed
together all the time and shared a great love for each other. Mumtaz Mahal gave birth to
13 children but died while conceiving the 14th) have become immortal and are still
read and talked about today. One can notice that all the stories talked or
read about are about royals or people who belonged the upper class in
these eras.
When we come down the social differentiation we see that there was a
particular section of society a minority whose profession was considered
filthy in latter medieval eras but during the early medieval eras their
profession was considered to be a normal professions.
But in the late medieval era the state deemed that filth needs to be
covered up, the prostitute’s locality was to be called shaitanpura and their
trade was to be completely within the state’s regulation. A darogha and a
clerk were to register of men who visited prostitutes and with only official
permission could one be allowed to take a dancing girl home. A strict
state system of license was especially in place for virgins (bekaarat) to be
taken home. In the same way, boys prostituted themselves. Capital
punishment was inflicted for the flouting of rules The high surveillance
was mainly to check and regulate morals, for otherwise the number of
prostitutes had grown to such an extent in the capital that they could
hardly be counted. Just as sewers were necessary to protect the city from
foul and filth, the state conceded that prostitutes were to be made
available to assuage the physical drives plaguing men. But prostitution is
also seen as emerging out of wantonness in females. According to an
imperial order, ‘if a young woman was found running about the lanes and
bazaars of the towns, and while so doing either did not veil herself, or
allowed herself to become unveiled’, she should be sent to the quarters of
prostitutes and made to take up the profession. Similarly, if a woman was
bad, or quarrelled with her husband, she was fit to be a prostitute.
Prostitutes were juxtaposed against the ideal chaste wife, as ‘house
devastating women’ and therefore a detestable category.
One can see that if a woman were to have any sort of sexual or romantic
attractions towards a man, speak against or defy her husband’s orders or
let alone walk unveiled in the market she was considered immoral and
“fit to be a prostitute”. A man could have sexual or romantic attractions
towards, and a woman and they could go to prostitutes to gain sexual
favours from them. Though a union between man and a woman was
celebrated, the woman majority of the times in the union was subject to
oppression and was not allowed to speak up or she was considered
immoral and unethical.
At the height of Islamic Golden Age (from mid-8th century to the mid-13th
century) homosexuality was openly spoken and written about. Muslim
societies once openly spoke of same-sex love, even celebrating it at times.
Mahmud of Ghazni, an influential sultan of his time (971-1030), was
considered an ideal for, among other things, deeply loving another man,
Malik Ayaz.
In the 18th century, Dargah Quli Khan, a nobleman from the Deccan
travelling to Delhi, wrote an enchanting account of the city called
the Muraqqa-e-Dehli (The Delhi Album), which described just how
common homosexuality was in Indo-Islamic society. At the public
bazaars, male prostitutes solicited openly, and Khan speaks appreciatively
of how “young good-looking men danced everywhere and created great
excitement”.
Till the 19th century, Muslims treated homosexuality as a part and parcel
of life, so much so that students were exposed to romantic stories of
homosexual love – a position untenable even today across parts of the
Western word. Kidwai writes: Sadi’s classic Gulistan, containing stories of
attraction between men, was considered essential reading for Persian students.
Ghanimat’s Nau rang-i ishq, a seventeenth century masnavi describing the love
affair between the poet’s patron’s son and his beloved Shahid, was a prescribed text
in schools.
During this period, homoeroticism was talked about in non-pejorative
way. Homoerotism got ‘official patronage’ with the Arab-Persian –Islamic
cultural invention into the subcontinent. During this period love of boys
was practiced at the court of the Muslim rulers and Urdu and Sufi poets
celebrated it.
Baber, the first Mughal emperor of India, had written romantically about
his love affair with boy, Baburi, at Andezan, in the work Tuzuk – i –
Babri (Baburnama). Babur’s love for a boy that he had to leave behind
because of his political endeavours shows that homosexuality was
normalized to the point that an emperor wrote about it in his memoirs
with no sense of shame or fear associated with the emotions he had for
the boy. There seems to be hardly any consciousness of these emotions
being unnatural or forbidden in pre-modern mind.
Another account of an openly gay man was of Sarmad who a Jewish rabbi
was who had migrated from Kashan to Mughal India and eventually came
under Dara Shukoh’s services. His execution in 1660 was a political act
since he was associated with Dara. Sarmad was charged with denying
Muhammad and was accused of saying La Ilaha (There is no God).
Interestingly, in a 17th century world when people in the Mughal
establishment were looking for reasons to behead Sarmad, they didn’t
find homosexuality a reason enough to punish him, despite the fact that it
was well established and known that Sarmad had fluid sexuality and he
had helplessly fallen in love with a Hindu guy when he came to Thatta —
it is reported that it was due to his love for this guy that he gave up
everything and became a naked fakir.
Another example of sexual fluidity being celebrated are the vast amount
of literature with the lines mentioned below from Zulali Khwansari’s
Mathnawi-yi- Zulali translated by Kugle.
The above lines depict love story of Mahmud and Ayaz. Mahmud of Ghazna (971-
1030 AD) culminated in the establishment of Islamic culture in India and he is also
well celebrated for military prowess. However, Scott Kugle (2000) discusses
another aspect of the ruler’s life that is usually glossed over, that is his relationship
with his slave Ayaz. Scott goes as far as to make a comparison between the timeless
(heterosexual) lovers in Indian history like Heer and Ranjha, Laila and Majnu with
that of Mahmud and Ayaz’s love story. Mahmud was passionately in love with Ayaz.
Ayaz was a slave bought by Mahmud who played an important role within the court.
In the ‘ghazals’(poems) he is a symbol of perfect love which people quest for.
Queering this moment further we find not just love between two men, but love that
transcends the boundaries of class hierarchy. The Mahmud and Ayaz ghazals break
a further myth perpetuated through colonialism, that all same sex love between
men was pederastic. In fact, as Kugle puts it, ‘Mahmud and Ayaz are the archetype
of perfect male lovers, but both are adult men’.
Another form of literature was the ghazal that was consistently used within South
Asia is the ‘rekhti’. The rekhti poetry which historian Carla Petievich (2002) calls
Urdu poetry’s ‘lesbian’ voice was introduced by the poet Sa’adat Yar Khan Rangin
(1756-1834) to the literary elites of Lucknow. This form of poetry was composed
in the ‘begumati zaban’ (Ladies’ Language) and was addressed to the ‘feminine
aashiq (lover/narrator) and her beloved’. The poetry in themselves were not erotic
but indicated an intimacy between the women narrator and her beloved which
extended to eroticism. Petievich in her translation of Insha Allah Khan’s (1817c)
poem, ‘Noble Lady’ clearly points out to the suggestiveness of the erotic
relationship yet stopping short of explicitness:
The crucial problem with the rekhti genre is the woman addressing the
feminine beloved who like the Mahmud-Ayaz ghazals is explicitly
depicted to be of the same sex. The ambiguous identity of the beloved in
the Urdu poetry is challenged further by this strain of poetry.
Additionally the language of the poetry (begumati zaban) which was a
language used by courtesans and women of ill repute and the nature of
the poets like Jan Sahib who dressed up as a woman to recite his verses
made this form of queer ghazals further problematic leading to its
widespread suppression and ultimate eradication. The symbolism of love
between males and women in the Islamic tradition challenges the modern
Islamist heterosexism and patriarchal biases and would be useful in
reshaping some of these discourses. Clearly homosexual practices have
always been a part of these cultures.
Other institutions that grew substantially are slavery and harems. Even
though domestic slavery existed in pre – Islamic India, it became much
more organized in the medieval period with a predominance of young
boys as slaves. Included among the slaves was large number of eunuchs.
Eunuchs were a prized commodity because they were considered the
most reliable slaves. Their links with their owners were the closest
personal links they had. They were therefore often entrusted with the
most responsible positions. Eunuchs were the guardians of the harems,
the institutions that defined the relationship between the sexes among the
ruling elite.