Each of us is sexual being with preferences and fantasies that may surprise or even shock us from time to time. Usually these are part of normal sexual functioning. But when our fantasies or desire begin to affect or other in unwanted or harmful ways, they begin to qualify as abnormal. Gender and Sexuality • Across wide range of indices, men reported more engagement in sexual thought and behavior that do women. • Compared to women, men report thinking about sex, masturbation, and desiring sex more often, as well as desiring more sexual partner and having more partners. • Beyond these differences in sex drive Peplau (2003) has described several other ways in which the genders tend to differ in sexuality. Women tend to be more ashamed of any flaws in their appearance than the men, and this shame can interfere with sexual satisfaction (Sanchez & Kiefer, 2007) Gender and Sexuality • For women, sexual appears more closely tied to relationship status and social norms that for men (Baumeister, 200). • Among women with sexual symptoms, more than half believe their symptoms are caused by relationship problems (Nicholls, 2008). • Men are more likely to think about their sexuality in terms of power than are women (Andersen, et al. 1999). Gender and Sexuality There are many parallels in men’s and women’s sexuality. For example, in a survey more than 1,000 women reported that their primary motivation for having sex was sexual attraction and physical gratification (Meston & Buss, 2009) It would be exaggeration to claim that the sole reason women are having sex is to promote relationship closeness. It is important to acknowledge commonalities as well as differences across genders. Sexual Response Cycle Many researchers have focused on understanding the sexual response cycle. Kinsey group made breakthroughs in the 1940’s by interviewing people about sexuality. Masters and Johnson created another revolution in research on human sexuality 50 years ago when they began to gather direct observations and physiological measurements of people masturbating and having sexual intercourse. Sexual Response Cycle Kaplan identified four phases in the human sexual response cycle. 1. Desire phase. This stage refers to sexual interest or desire, often associated with sexually arousing fantasies or thoughts. 2. Excitement phase. During this phase, men and women experience pleasure and increased blood flow to the genitalia. 3. Orgasm Phase. Sexual pleasure peaks in ways that have fantasies poets and rest of us ordinary people for thousand years. 4. Resolution phase. This last stage refers to the relaxation and sense of well-being that usually follow an orgasm. Sexual Dysfunctions Sexual dysfunctions are disorders in which people cannot respond normally in key areas of sexual functioning Sexual dysfunctions are typically very distressing, and often lead to sexual frustration, guilt, loss of self- esteem, and interpersonal problems Clinical Description DSM – 5 divides sexual dysfunctions into three categories: Those involving: 1) sexual desire, arousal and interest;
2) orgasmic disorder; and 3) sexual pain disorders.
The diagnostic criteria for all sexual dysfunctions specify that dysfunction should be persistent and recurrent and should cause clinically significant distress or problems functioning Sexual Interest, Desire and Arousal • Sexual interest/arousal disorder in women. Refers to persistent deficits in sexual interest (sexual fantasies or urges), biological arousal or subjective arousal. • Hypoactive sexual desire disorder in men. Refers to deficient or absent sexual fantasies and urges, and erectile disorder refers to failure to attain or maintain an erection through completion of the sexual activity. Orgasmic Disorders • Female orgasmic disorder. Refers to the persistent absence of orgasm after sexual excitement. Two orgasmic disorder for men: • Early ejaculation disorder. Defined by ejaculation that occurs too quickly. • Delayed ejaculation disorder. Define by persistent difficulty in ejaculating. Sexual Pain Disorder • Genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder. Defined by persistent or recurrent pain during intercourse.
• DSM ndistinguished two pain disorders:
Dyspareunia is define by persistent or recurrent pain during sexual intercourse. Vaginismus is define by involuntary muscle spasms of outer third of the vagina to a degree that make intercourse impossible. Parapahilia • Paraphilias or perversions are sexual stimuli or acts that are deviations from normal sexual behaviors, but are necessary for some persons to experience arousal and orgasm. • These individuals can experience sexual pleasure, but are inhibited from responding to stimuli that are normally considered erotic. • The paraphiliac's sexuality is restricted to specific deviant stimuli or acts. Persons that occasionally experiment with paraphiliac behavior (e.g., infrequent episode of bondage or dressing in costumes), but are capable of responding to more typical erotic stimuli, are not diagnosed as suffering from paraphilias. Diagnosis and Clinical Features
• In DSM the diagnostic criteria for paraphilias include
the presence of a pathognomonic fantasy and an intense urge to act out the fantasy or its behavior elaboration. • The fantasy, which may distress a patient, contains unusual sexual material that is relatively fixed and shows only minor variations. • Arousal and orgasm depend on the mental elaboration or the behavioral playing out of the fantasy. Sexual activity is ritualized or stereotyped and makes use of degraded, reduced, or dehumanized objects. Exhibitionism • Exhibitionism is the recurrent urge to expose the genitals to a stranger or to an unsuspecting person. • Sexual excitement occurs in anticipation of the exposure, and orgasm is brought about by masturbation during or after the event. Fetishism
• In fetishism the sexual focus is on objects
(e.g., shoes, gloves, pantyhose, and stockings) that are intimately associated with the human body. Frotteurism • Frotteurism is usually characterized by a man's rubbing against the buttocks or other body parts of a fully clothed woman to achieve orgasm. Pedophilia • Pedophilia involves recurrent intense sexual urges toward, or arousal by, children 13 years of age or younger, over a period of at least 6 months. • Persons with pedophilia are at least 16 years of age and at least 5 years older than the victims • Most child molestations involve genital fondling or oral sex. • Vaginal or anal penetration of children occurs infrequently, except in cases of incest. • Most child victims coming to public attention are girls Sexual Masochism –Sexual arousal in response to being humiliated, bound, or beaten, for at least 6 months and suffer impairment, the arousal must be in response to actual, not simulated humiliation, bondage, or beatings –Most sexual masochists use little or no pain, more so through the loss of control –Can lead to serious injury and death (especially in the case of hypoxyphilia) –20:1 males: females Sexual Sadism • According to psychoanalytic theory, sadism is a defense against fears of castration; persons with sexual sadism do to others what they fear will happen to them and derive pleasure from expressing their aggressive instincts. • The onset of the disorder is usually before the age of 18 years, and most persons with sexual sadism are male. Voyeurism (scopophilia) • It is the recurrent preoccupation with fantasies and acts that involve observing persons who are naked or engaged in grooming or sexual activity Transvestic Fetishism
• Transvestic fetishism is described as fantasies
and sexual urges to dress in opposite gender clothing as a means of arousal and as an adjunct to masturbation or coitus. • As years pass, some men with transvestic fetishism want to dress and live permanently as women. More rarely, women want to dress and live as men. Paraphilia Not Otherwise Specified
• Telephone scatologia is characterized by obscene
phone calling and involves an unsuspecting partner. • Tension and arousal begin in anticipation of phoning; the recipient of the call listens while the telephoner (usually male) verbally exposes his preoccupations or induces her to talk about her sexual activity. • The conversation is accompanied by masturbation, which is often completed after the contact is interrupted. • Persons also use interactive computer networks, sometimes compulsively, to send obscene messages by electronic mail and to transmit sexually explicit messages and video images. • Because of the anonymity of the users in chat rooms who use aliases, on-line or computer sex (cybersex) allows some persons to play the role of the opposite sex, which represents an alternative method of expressing transvestic or transsexual fantasies. Necrophilia • Necrophilia is an obsession with obtaining sexual gratification from cadavers. Partialism
• Persons with the disorder of partialism
concentrate their sexual activity on one part of the body to the exclusion of all others. Zoophilia • Sexual relations with animals may occasionally be an outgrowth of availability or convenience, especially in parts of the world where rigid convention precludes premarital sexuality and in situations of enforced isolation. • Because masturbation is also available in such situations, however, a predilection for animal contact is probably present in opportunistic zoophilia. Coprophilia and Klismaphilia
• Coprophilia is sexual pleasure associated with
the desire to defecate on a partner, to be defecated on, or to eat feces (coprophagia). • These paraphilias are associated with fixation at the anal stage of psychosexual development. • Similarly, klismaphilia, the use of enemas as part of sexual stimulation, is related to anal fixation. Urophilia
• A form of urethral eroticism, is interest in
sexual pleasure associated with the desire to urinate on a partner or to be urinated on. • In both men and women, the disorder may be associated with masturbatory techniques involving the insertion of foreign objects into the urethra for sexual stimulation. Masturbation
• Masturbation is a normal activity that is common
in all stages of life from infancy to old age, but this viewpoint was not always accepted • The techniques of masturbation vary in both sexes and among persons. • The most common technique is direct stimulation of the clitoris or penis • Indirect stimulation can also be used, such as rubbing against an object Hypoxyphilia
• Hypoxyphilia is the desire to achieve an
altered state of consciousness secondary to hypoxia while experiencing orgasm. • Persons may use a drug (e.g., a volatile nitrite or nitrous oxide) to produce hypoxia. • Autoerotic asphyxiation is also associated with hypoxic states, but it should be classified as a form of sexual masochism. Differential Diagnosis
• Clinicians must differentiate a paraphilia from an
experimental act that is not recurrent or compulsive and that is done for its novelty. Paraphiliac activity most likely begins during adolescence. • Some paraphilias (especially the bizarre types) are associated with other mental disorders, such as schizophrenia. • Brain diseases can also release perverse impulses. Course and Prognosis
• The difficulty in controlling or curing paraphilias rests
in the fact that it is hard for people to give up sexual pleasure with no assurance that new routes to sexual gratification will be secured. • A poor prognosis for paraphilias is associated with an early age of onset, a high frequency of acts, no guilt or shame about the act, and substance abuse. • The course and the prognosis are better when patients have a history of coitus in addition to the paraphilia and when they are self-referred rather than referred by a legal agency. Treatment
Restriction Treating comorbid conditions CBT Dynamic Psychotherapy Sex Addiction and Compulsivity
• The concept of sex addiction refers to persons
who compulsively seek out sexual experiences and whose behavior becomes impaired if they are unable to gratify their sexual impulses. • Don Juanism (satyriasis):Some men who appear to be hypersexual, as manifested by their need to have many sexual encounters or conquests, use their sexual activities to mask deep feelings of inferiority. • Some have unconscious homosexual impulses, which they deny by compulsive sexual contacts with women. • After having sex, most Don Juans are no longer interested in the woman. • Nymphomania: Nymphomania signifies a woman's excessive or pathological desire for coitus. Persistent and Marked Distress about Sexual Orientation
• Distress about sexual orientation is characterized
by dissatisfaction with sexual arousal patterns and it is usually applied to dissatisfaction with homosexual arousal patterns, a desire to increase heterosexual arousal, and strong negative feelings about being homosexual. • Treatment : controversial, but psychoanalytic therapy, Behavior therapy and avoidance conditioning techniques can be helpful.