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Chapter 3 : NOMAD
Chapter 7 : TINSELTOWN
Chapter 8 : GRIEF
Chapter 10 : SHAADI
Chapter 11 : HOME
Chapter 1 Summary : MONACO
BISCUITS AND LADAKHI TEA
Section Summary
Early Dreams and Priyanka's journey to fame began when her brother suggested her mother apply for the Miss India
Family Dynamics competition on her behalf, leading to unexpected public life.
Family Background Her parents were army doctors, with her father following family expectations in medicine and her
and Cultural mother serving as a strong academic and professional role model, emphasizing education and cultural
Influence values.
Parental Priyanka admires her parents' respectful partnership, which balanced demanding careers while
Relationship and nurturing family bonds, instilling the importance of pursuing dreams.
Values
Travel and The family's adventurous travels across India fostered a strong sense of connection through shared
Adventure as experiences and cultural exploration.
Family Values
Awakening Social Childhood experiences, including attending a medical camp, highlighted societal disparities, shaping
Conscience her awareness of privilege and commitment to advocating for girls' rights.
Conclusion Chapter 1 establishes the foundation of Priyanka's identity and values, influenced by family, culture,
and social consciousness, as she transitions into adulthood.
Conclusion
Conclusion
Introduction to America
Influence of Family
The visit was centered around her aunt Kiran, who inspired
Priyanka to consider staying in America for high school.
After a positive experience visiting John F. Kennedy High
School, where she admired the school’s size, freedom, and
lack of uniforms, Priyanka expressed her desire to stay in
America. Her parents, after discussions, agreed to let her
pursue this opportunity.
Revelation of Plans
Return to Roots
Cultural Reentry
Participation in Extracurriculars
Conclusion
Life in Mumbai
Crowning Moment
When her name is called as the new Miss World, Priyanka is
in a state of disbelief and joy. The celebratory chaos and
media attention are both exhilarating and overwhelming.
Despite her victory, she faces pressures regarding her studies
and the implications of her newfound fame.
Adjusting to Fame
Personal Challenges
Early Career Pressures and Priyanka navigates her transition from Miss World to acting while studying, highlighting her
Family Support father's encouragement and her family's sacrifices for her success.
Navigating the Industry She shares her early experiences in Bollywood, including criticism from a director, which
taught her to embrace her uniqueness amid industry challenges.
Learning from Experience Her experience in *Thamizhan* helped her regain confidence; she pursued professional dance
training after facing negative feedback on *Andaaz*.
Facing Industry Realities Priyanka faced patriarchal practices and pay disparity in Bollywood, staying true to her
self-respect and making tough choices regarding her projects.
Building a Career Amidst She reflects on favoritism in the industry and how it shaped her determination to prove her
Challenges talent while navigating struggles for roles.
Embracing Empowerment Her role in *Aitraaz* marked a breakthrough, followed by successes in female-centered films
Through Roles like *Fashion*, emphasizing strong narratives.
Rising Fame and Reflection With rising fame and endorsements, she challenged beauty standards, rejecting harmful
on Beauty Standards advertising and apologizing for past involvement in such campaigns.
Continued Evolution and Priyanka discusses taking diverse roles to learn from respected directors, reflecting on her
Ambitious Pursuits career's unpredictability and the need for continuous reinvention.
Success of “Quantico”
Navigating Challenges
Overview
Reflection on Loss
Reemergence to Life
Conclusion
Finding Clarity
The chapter also includes her vision for the outer space of
their home—lush, vibrant, and inviting, with the
remembrance of her father through a gulmohar tree.
Conclusion
2.Question
What lessons does Priyanka share about her parents'
marriage?
Answer:Priyanka emphasizes the equality and mutual respect
present in her parents' marriage. They supported each other's
careers and ambitions while raising their family,
demonstrating that partnership means encouraging one
another to pursue dreams without sacrificing individual
aspirations.
3.Question
Describe how Priyanka’s early experiences with her
parents shaped her views on gender equality. What
significant moment highlighted this for her?
Answer:Priyanka's understanding of gender equality was
profoundly shaped by the values her parents instilled in her.
A turning point came when she participated in a medical
camp and witnessed girls in a village being denied medical
treatment due to cultural biases favoring boys. This disparity
angered and confused her, illustrating the stark differences in
opportunities based on gender and solidifying her
commitment to advocate for girls' rights.
4.Question
What impact did Priyanka’s childhood experiences with
her family have on her view of tradition and cultural
values?
Answer:Priyanka's upbringing, which blended traditional
Indian values with progressive ideas fostered by her parents’
careers in medicine, led her to appreciate the importance of
cultural tradition while also recognizing the need for change.
From her own experiences, such as the medical camp where
she saw girls deprived of care, she learned that traditions can
be limiting and that advocating for girls' rights is a
responsibility that comes with privilege.
5.Question
What role did travel play in Priyanka’s upbringing, and
how did it influence her worldview?
Answer:Travel was a cornerstone of Priyanka’s education
and family bonding, exposing her to various cultures and
lifestyles across India. This expansive view fostered a sense
of curiosity and understanding of the world beyond her
immediate environment, shaping her into a person who
values diversity and inclusivity.
6.Question
How did Priyanka’s parents demonstrate the balance
between career ambition and family life?
Answer:Priyanka's parents, both successful army doctors,
exemplified a harmonious balance between professional
ambitions and raising a family. They included her in their
professional lives and valued time spent together,
demonstrating that one can pursue career goals while also
nurturing strong familial relationships.
7.Question
What influence did her mother's independence and
achievements have on Priyanka’s aspirations?
Answer:Priyanka credits her mother as her primary role
model, noting her independence, multiple medical degrees,
and humanitarian efforts. Her mother’s ability to carve her
own path despite societal expectations inspired Priyanka to
pursue diverse ambitions and believe that she could achieve
anything she set her mind to.
8.Question
Reflect on a memorable childhood moment that
contributed to Priyanka’s early ideas about healthcare
and compassion. What did this moment teach her?
Answer:One significant childhood moment for Priyanka was
when her mother brought an abandoned newborn to a couple
who sought a child. This experience not only illuminated the
harsh realities some girls face concerning value in society but
also impressed upon Priyanka the importance of compassion
and active involvement in humanitarian work.
Chapter 2 | LIKE WATER| Q&A
1.Question
What does Bruce Lee mean when he says, 'Be like water'?
Answer:Being like water means being adaptable and
flexible, adjusting to the circumstances and
environment you find yourself in, just as water takes
the shape of the container it's in. Instead of being
rigid and resistant to change, flow with life and find
ways around obstacles.
2.Question
How did Priyanka Chopra's father influence her
perspective on moving?
Answer:Her father reframed the idea of moving as an
opportunity rather than a loss, teaching her that each new
place is a fresh start where she can reinvent herself, leaving
behind any past mistakes or impressions.
3.Question
What lesson did Priyanka learn from her experience at
boarding school?
Answer:She learned independence and adaptability. The
tough love approach of her principal and the challenges of
being away from home helped her to grow, find solutions on
her own, and become self-sufficient.
4.Question
Why was Priyanka's experience of being sent to boarding
school difficult at first?
Answer:She felt abandoned and struggled with
homesickness, missing her family's presence and fearing the
changes in her life. The adjustment to a new environment and
a lack of understanding about why she was sent away made it
particularly challenging.
5.Question
How did Priyanka eventually find comfort in boarding
school?
Answer:Over time, she began to make friends and adjusted to
the school's routines and rules, finding solace in structure and
the caring support of a teacher who helped her with her
studies and made her feel less alone.
6.Question
What did Priyanka mean by saying she learned to
compartmentalize difficult moments?
Answer:She learned to separate negative experiences in her
life, focusing on future possibilities and opportunities rather
than dwelling on past hardships, which helped her manage
emotions and move forward.
7.Question
How did her beliefs about religion impact her
upbringing?
Answer:She was raised in a multicultural, interfaith
environment that respected and celebrated different religions,
shaping her values of acceptance and harmony, which were
further reinforced at La Martiniere.
8.Question
What does Priyanka's experience with the schoolyard
monkey teach us?
Answer:It illustrates how she learned to find humor in
embarrassing situations and shows her growth in feeling
comfortable enough in her environment to laugh off minor
humiliations.
9.Question
In what ways did Priyanka’s early independence carry
into her later life?
Answer:Her early experiences of being on her own in
boarding school instilled a strong sense of self-reliance and
problem-solving skills, which she continues to apply in her
career and personal life.
10.Question
What was the significance of her mother’s visits to the
boarding school?
Answer:Initially, her mother's visits provided comfort, but as
the visits were reduced, they forced Priyanka to become more
independent. Eventually, these visits helped Priyanka
appreciate her growth and how much she had adapted to her
new life.
Chapter 3 | NOMAD| Q&A
1.Question
What inspired Priyanka to consider living in America?
Answer:Seeing American high schools and the
freedom they offered compared to her schooling in
India convinced her that she wanted to experience
that independence and responsibility.
2.Question
How did Priyanka's perception of America change after
her first trip there?
Answer:Initially, she was disappointed that it wasn’t as
glamorous as depicted in TV shows, but visiting a high
school made her realize the opportunities and independence
American students had, which excited her greatly.
3.Question
What lesson did Priyanka learn about making choices
and owning them?
Answer:Her mother taught her to own her decisions and have
the courage of conviction, reminding her that whatever
happened, her parents would always support her.
4.Question
How did Priyanka’s experience in America shape her
sense of identity?
Answer:Moving to America heightened her awareness of her
ethnicity and difference, but it also helped her embrace her
identity as an immigrant and learn that America comprises
diverse cultures and backgrounds.
5.Question
What effect did Mr. Ziegler's encouragement have on
Priyanka?
Answer:His faith in her abilities helped her understand that
failure is just a stepping stone, leading her to persist in
pursuing opportunities in music and theater.
6.Question
How did Priyanka manage her cultural differences at
school?
Answer:She faced initial challenges, such as adjusting to the
cafeteria food and navigating public transportation, but she
quickly learned to adapt and even found joy in trying new
experiences.
7.Question
What was the impact of bullying on Priyanka’s
confidence?
Answer:Bullying led to a significant decline in her
self-esteem, making her doubt her worth and happiness,
demonstrating the profound effect that peer interactions can
have.
8.Question
How did Priyanka's family sustain her during challenging
times?
Answer:Her family, especially her parents, provided
emotional support and understanding, helping her rebuild her
confidence and reminding her that she was always valued.
9.Question
What does Priyanka’s journey teach us about navigating
cultural identity?
Answer:Her experiences illustrate the importance of
embracing one’s unique identity while also adapting and
integrating into new cultural environments.
10.Question
How did Priyanka view the concept of belonging
throughout her time in America?
Answer:Initially, she felt like an outsider due to her ethnicity,
but eventually, she found belonging through friendships and
shared experiences, especially during her time in diverse
Queens.
Chapter 4 | TEEN TO QUEEN| Q&A
1.Question
What lesson did Priyanka learn from the urging of her
mother to step over the barricade at the Louvre?
Answer:Priyanka learned the importance of
stepping out of her comfort zone and taking risks to
pursue her desires, even when faced with barriers.
This incident metaphorically reflects her journey of
overcoming obstacles in her life.
2.Question
How did Priyanka's experiences in Paris impact her
confidence before returning to India?
Answer:The beauty and culture of Paris, coupled with the
supportive presence of her mother, revived Priyanka's spirit
and prepared her for a fresh start in India. It symbolized her
transformation from a girl dealing with insecurities to a
confident young woman ready to embrace her identity.
3.Question
What does Priyanka mean when she refers to the
empowerment found in 'reinvention'?
Answer:Reinvention represented embracing change and
growth, allowing Priyanka to shed the narrative written by
her past experiences of bullying in America, and to create a
new identity for herself in her homeland.
4.Question
How did Priyanka's return home serve as a catalyst for
personal growth?
Answer:Returning to Bareilly invigorated Priyanka, akin to
giving water and sunlight to a withering plant. It provided
her a sense of belonging, amplified her self-esteem, and
reignited her passion for activities she loved, thus
accelerating her personal growth.
5.Question
What realization did Priyanka come to regarding
confidence during her journey in Miss India?
Answer:Priyanka understood that confidence is not a
permanent trait, but something that can be cultivated and
accessed when needed. Her experiences taught her that with
courage and preparation, confidence can be sparked,
especially in challenging situations.
6.Question
How did Priyanka's family dynamics influence her
decision to compete in the Miss India pageant?
Answer:Priyanka's mother played a crucial role in
encouraging her to pursue the pageant despite her initial
reluctance. The family’s strategic discussions helped
Priyanka navigate her fears, showing how supportive family
structures can assist individuals in taking bold steps.
7.Question
What does Priyanka’s journey from being bullied to
becoming Miss India symbolize?
Answer:Her journey symbolizes resilience and the ability to
overcome adversity. It highlights how personal challenges
can lead to self-discovery, empowerment, and ultimately
success in one's desired aspirations.
8.Question
What impact did winning the title of Miss India World
have on Priyanka Chopra?
Answer:Winning the title transformed Priyanka’s life
trajectory, introducing her to the world of entertainment and
modeling. It was not just a victory; it was a validation of her
journey and a doorway to a future she had never originally
envisioned.
9.Question
How does Priyanka Chopra’s story reflect the idea of
chasing dreams despite obstacles?
Answer:Her story illustrates that despite societal pressures,
personal insecurities, and the fear of failure, one can achieve
their dreams through perseverance, the courage to try, and
support from loved ones.
10.Question
In what way does Priyanka Chopra’s narrative challenge
societal beauty standards?
Answer:Priyanka's experiences challenge societal notions of
beauty by questioning the emphasis on skin tone and
physical appearance. Her success in the Miss India pageant
despite these pressures showcases that confidence and
character can transcend traditional definitions of beauty.
Chapter 5 | TOP OF THE WORLD| Q&A
1.Question
What does Priyanka Chopra Jonas reveal about the
importance of family support in her journey to becoming
Miss World?
Answer:Priyanka emphasizes the crucial role her
family, especially her parents, played in her journey.
They divided tasks to manage her responsibilities
and after she won Miss India, her mother made
sacrifices to support her in Mumbai, showcasing
unwavering encouragement and dedication. This
familial support not only helped her navigate the
challenges of the pageant world but also instilled in
her a foundation of confidence and resilience.
2.Question
How did Priyanka's experiences in Mumbai shape her
perspective on freedom and responsibility?
Answer:Living in Mumbai offered Priyanka a taste of
freedom, leading to newfound independence. However, she
also experienced the challenges of balancing that freedom
with her responsibilities as Miss India. Her experiences of
partying and exploring the bustling city showcased her
youthful exuberance, but she quickly learned the importance
of focus and commitment when her training for the Miss
World pageant began.
3.Question
In what way did Priyanka's training prepare her for the
pressures of the Miss World pageant?
Answer:Priyanka's training was highly intense and
personalized, involving public speaking, diction, body
language, and cultural representation. Professionals helped
her articulate thoughts clearly, presenting herself effectively
on an international stage. These skills proved invaluable
during the pageant, especially during the Q&A rounds, where
confidence and clear communication were key to success.
4.Question
What does the question 'If ignorance is bliss, then why do
we seek knowledge?' reveal about the nature of
knowledge in society?
Answer:This question highlights the complex relationship
between ignorance and knowledge in our lives. It suggests
that while ignorance may provide comfort, the pursuit of
knowledge is essential for growth and understanding,
ultimately enabling individuals to confront and solve societal
issues.
5.Question
How did Priyanka react after being crowned Miss World,
and what does it signify about the pressure of
expectations?
Answer:Priyanka felt a mix of shock, joy, and immediate
pressure after being crowned Miss World. Her mother's first
words about her studies reflected the overwhelming
expectations that come with such a title, indicating the
transition from personal achievement to public
responsibilities and the scrutiny of representing not just
herself but her country.
6.Question
What does Priyanka's decision to bring cultural
representation to the Miss World pageant tell us about
her values?
Answer:By incorporating elements of Indian culture into her
attire and presentation at the Miss World pageant, Priyanka
demonstrated pride in her heritage and a desire to honor her
roots. This reflects her values of authenticity and the
importance of cultural representation on a global stage.
7.Question
How does Priyanka Chopra Jonas view her initial
struggles with her identity post-surgery?
Answer:Priyanka experienced a profound identity crisis after
her surgery, feeling as though she no longer recognized
herself. However, over time, she learned to accept her
changed appearance and made peace with her new identity,
illustrating resilience and the ability to adapt to life's
challenges.
8.Question
What lesson does Priyanka mention regarding beauty and
self-acceptance later in her career?
Answer:Priyanka concludes that beauty is not merely
physical; rather, it is about being oneself and embracing one's
flaws and strengths. She's grown to accept her appearance
and recognizes that true contentment comes from within,
valuing the person she has become.
9.Question
What is the significance of Priyanka's journey in
connection with her sense of purpose and identity?
Answer:Priyanka's journey from a uncertain teenager to Miss
World emphasizes her transformation and self-discovery.
Throughout her experiences, she developed a strong sense of
purpose tied to her identity as a representative of India,
fostering confidence and resilience that she carries forward in
her career.
Chapter 6 | DESI GIRL| Q&A
1.Question
What important life lesson did Priyanka Chopra learn
about pursuing her career in entertainment?
Answer:Priyanka learned that rather than seeing
her decision to pursue acting as a sacrifice of her
academic career, she could view it as an opportunity.
Her father's words about not wanting her to have
'what-ifs' pushed her to seize the moment and
pursue her passion without regrets.
2.Question
How did Priyanka's family support her career ambitions?
Answer:Priyanka’s family showed their support by relocating
to Mumbai and giving up their own established careers to
help her pursue acting, thus emphasizing the importance they
placed on her dreams.
3.Question
What pivotal moment did Priyanka face in her early
career regarding body image, and how did it influence
her?
Answer:After receiving harsh feedback about her appearance
from a prominent producer, Priyanka felt devalued. This
experience helped her understand that her uniqueness was her
strength and that she should embrace her individuality rather
than conform to industry standards.
4.Question
What did Priyanka learn from her experience while
filming 'Andaaz'?
Answer:During the filming of 'Andaaz', Priyanka faced
challenges with dance choreography that led to criticism.
This motivated her to train rigorously in dance, instilling a
sense of professionalism and the importance of preparation,
fundamentally shaping her future work ethic.
5.Question
What did Priyanka's father enforce regarding nighttime
meetings, and why was it significant?
Answer:Her father prohibited nighttime meetings to protect
her from potential dangers in the entertainment industry. This
protective measure underscored the importance of safety and
integrity, allowing Priyanka to navigate her early career
without falling victim to the darker aspects of the industry.
6.Question
In what way did Priyanka challenge industry standards
regarding female roles?
Answer:By taking on a female-led movie 'Fashion' when it
was risky, Priyanka not only proved that such films could be
commercially viable, but she also broke away from
traditional expectations of female roles in Bollywood, paving
the way for more complex characters.
7.Question
What regret does Priyanka express about her earlier
career decisions?
Answer:Priyanka regrets participating in skin-care campaigns
that promoted fairness, recognizing it perpetuated harmful
cultural standards. Her evolution in understanding prompted
her to distance herself from such endorsements going
forward.
8.Question
What was the significance of Priyanka's role in 'Aitraaz'
and its impact on her career?
Answer:Priyanka’s role in 'Aitraaz' as a bold and morally
complex character was crucial as it showcased her range and
unwillingness to conform to character stereotypes, leading to
recognition and establishing her as a serious actress capable
of tackling diverse roles.
9.Question
How did Priyanka navigate sexism and favoritism in the
Hindi film industry?
Answer:Priyanka observed the prevalent sexism and
favoritism, but instead of succumbing to frustration, she
focused on her commitments and worked within the industry,
consistently proving her worth through talent and hard work.
10.Question
What does Priyanka Chopra envision regarding the
future landscape of the film industry for women?
Answer:Priyanka envisions a film industry that is more
inclusive and supportive, where women can thrive without
the limitations of patriarchy and favoritism, advocating for a
larger table for all talented individuals.
Chapter 7 | TINSELTOWN| Q&A
1.Question
What opportunity propelled Priyanka Chopra Jonas to
shift her career focus from acting in India to pursuing
music in America?
Answer:Anjula Acharia, a venture capitalist and
tech investor, aimed to bring an Indian star to
mainstream American pop culture, leading her to
see potential in Priyanka after being impressed by
her performances in earlier films.
2.Question
How did Priyanka initially react to the idea of pursuing
an international music career?
Answer:Priyanka was initially hesitant and focused on her
filming commitments in India, expressing concerns about
being distracted from her current work.
3.Question
What was the role of destiny in Priyanka's journey,
according to her reflections in this chapter?
Answer:Priyanka felt that various accidents of fate
throughout her life directed her path, such as her unexpected
career shift from engineering aspirations through being
crowned Miss World.
4.Question
What risks did Priyanka face when transitioning into
music, and how did she view those risks?
Answer:Priyanka faced significant risks, such as diminishing
her established film career in India and venturing into a
completely new field of music in the U.S. However, she
viewed these challenges as opportunities to grow and
embrace new experiences.
5.Question
How did Priyanka's understanding of cultural dynamics
influence her music career?
Answer:Priyanka realized that to succeed in the U.S. music
industry, she needed to establish her relevance and sound,
striving to integrate her Indian roots into her music while
also embracing new cultural influences.
6.Question
Despite the successes, why did Priyanka ultimately decide
to step back from her music career?
Answer:After three years of hard work, Priyanka felt her
music did not meet her artistic expectations and struggled to
find a meaningful fusion of her Indian identity and Western
pop sound.
7.Question
In what way did Priyanka feel representation mattered in
her role on 'Quantico'?
Answer:Being cast as the first South Asian lead in a network
drama, Priyanka felt a significant responsibility to represent
her culture authentically and hoped to inspire younger
generations who felt underrepresented.
8.Question
How did Priyanka respond to backlash regarding
controversial plotlines in 'Quantico' involving her
identity?
Answer:Priyanka expressed sadness over the backlash,
highlighting her lack of control over the narrative while also
affirmatively declaring her pride in her Indian heritage.
9.Question
What does Priyanka Chopra Jonas hope for others in
terms of understanding differences?
Answer:Priyanka hopes everyone can adopt curiosity and
kindness in approaching differences, working toward
common ground instead of succumbing to fear or mistrust.
10.Question
How did Priyanka view her dual career in India and
America?
Answer:Priyanka saw her career as a multifaceted journey,
integrating various creative interests across continents, and
believed in creating her own opportunities and following
diverse paths.
Chapter 8 | GRIEF| Q&A
1.Question
What does it mean to be patient with the unresolved
emotions in our hearts?
Answer:Being patient with unresolved emotions
means allowing ourselves the time and space to
process our feelings without forcing immediate
answers or resolutions. It’s akin to treating our
emotions as complex puzzles or foreign languages
that require understanding and patience. This
patience can lead to personal growth and deeper
self-awareness, as quoted from Rainer Maria Rilke:
to love the questions themselves.
2.Question
How did Priyanka’s family's love influence her father's
medical emergency?
Answer:During a dire medical emergency when her father
fell gravely ill, Priyanka's family exhibited remarkable
strength and unity, which was critical for his survival. They
were proactive, arranging for an emergency transfer to a
world-class medical facility, highlighting the importance of
community and love when facing unimaginable challenges. It
underscores how love can fuel determination and inspire
action in times of crisis.
3.Question
What role did Priyanka’s father play in her life and
career according to Chapter 8?
Answer:Priyanka’s father was not just a parent; he was her
greatest supporter and role model, embodying strength,
resilience, and ambition. He actively participated in her
career, from cheering her on at awards ceremonies to
encouraging her to pursue her dreams without letting his
illness interfere. His influence shaped Priyanka’s work ethic
and dedication, encouraging her to embrace opportunities for
growth and success.
4.Question
What can we learn from how Priyanka dealt with her
father's illness and eventual death?
Answer:Priyanka's experiences teach us about the
complexities of dealing with grief and the importance of
allowing ourselves to feel pain. Despite her father's declining
health, she focused on her career, obeying his wishes to
continue moving forward. It highlights the significance of
cherishing moments with loved ones, confronting emotions
rather than avoiding them, and finding a balance between
personal and professional responsibilities.
5.Question
How did Priyanka's relationship with her father influence
her grief process?
Answer:Her father's profound influence created a complex
grief experience, where she grappled with the desire to honor
his legacy while feeling the weight of her loss. Initially, she
built emotional walls to avoid confronting her grief.
However, over time, she learned to accept her sorrow as part
of her journey, demonstrating that loving relationships
profoundly shape our responses to loss.
6.Question
What insight does Priyanka offer about the concept of
control in life?
Answer:Priyanka suggests that the illusion of control is one
of life's hardest lessons. Acceptance of loss, sorrow, and the
unpredictability of life is essential for healing. Recognizing
that sadness can be a part of our journey allows us to
navigate through tough times, trusting that eventually, we
will move past these challenges to find joy and meaning
again.
7.Question
Reflect on the importance of community as demonstrated
in Priyanka's story.
Answer:Community played a pivotal role in Priyanka's life,
especially during her father’s illness. The support from
movie industry colleagues and family showcased the idea
that connection and compassion can alleviate some burdens
of personal struggle. This highlights the value of surrounding
ourselves with those who care, demonstrating how collective
strength can foster resilience in adversity.
8.Question
What does the tattoo symbolize for Priyanka, and how
does it relate to her relationship with her father?
Answer:The tattoo 'Daddy’s lil girl' symbolizes a lasting
connection to her father and the love they shared. It
encapsulates cherished memories and serves as a perpetual
reminder of his influence in her life. This act of getting a
tattoo in his handwriting signifies how Priyanka honors his
memory and keeps his spirit alive with her, reflecting the
deep bond they shared.
9.Question
What actions did Priyanka take to re-engage with life
after her father's passing?
Answer:To re-engage with life, Priyanka consciously made
efforts to reconnect with friends and change her daily
routines. She sought new experiences, invited friends over,
and embraced the companionship of her dog, Diana. By
altering her patterns and re-opening to the world around her,
she found avenues for healing and the gradual return of her
joy and spirit.
10.Question
What is the significance of Priyanka's statement about
grief becoming an 'ever-present companion'?
Answer:Priyanka's acknowledgment that grief became an
'ever-present companion' signifies her acceptance of grief as
a natural part of life rather than a burden to be discarded.
This acceptance allowed her to move forward while holding
space for her sorrow, illustrating that grief can coexist with
joy, and recognizing that healing often involves integrating
loss into our lives.
Chapter 9 | WHEN YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW|
Q&A
1.Question
What did Priyanka realize about her relationships during
her dating hiatus?
Answer:Priyanka realized that during her dating
hiatus, she had been prioritizing her partners' needs
over her own, which led to losing herself in the
process. She understood the importance of having a
relationship with herself and that true partnership
should be a two-way street.
2.Question
How did Priyanka's upbringing influence her romantic
relationships?
Answer:Priyanka's upbringing, with strong female role
models maintaining their individuality in relationships,
contrasted with her own tendency to self-sacrifice. She felt
societal pressure to accommodate the needs of her partners,
which affected her identity and happiness in relationships.
3.Question
What qualities did Priyanka decide were necessary for
her future partner?
Answer:Priyanka identified five non-negotiable qualities for
her future partner: honesty, appreciation for family,
seriousness about profession, creativity, and ambition.
4.Question
How did Priyanka’s relationship with Nick differ from
her previous relationships?
Answer:Priyanka's relationship with Nick differed in that it
felt balanced and fulfilling. Nick supported her independence
and career, encouraging her to prioritize her own needs,
which is a stark contrast to her past experiences where she
had lost herself.
5.Question
What lesson did Priyanka learn about self-identity and
relationships?
Answer:Priyanka learned that maintaining a strong sense of
self and being happy on her own is crucial for a healthy
relationship. She recognized that real love comes when
individuals are complete as themselves, bringing their own
happiness into the partnership.
6.Question
What event marked a significant turning point in
Priyanka's emotional evolution?
Answer:The significant turning point in Priyanka's emotional
evolution was her conscious decision to take a dating hiatus
after her last breakup, allowing her to reflect on her past
relationships and focus on self-healing.
7.Question
Describe the impact of Priyanka's professional drive on
her personal life.
Answer:Priyanka's intense professional drive often
overshadowed her personal life, leading her to prioritize
work over relationships. This overwork and later guilt for not
spending time with partners created imbalances and patterns
of dissatisfaction in her personal relationships.
8.Question
What did Priyanka’s relationship with Nick teach her
about vulnerability?
Answer:Priyanka's relationship with Nick taught her that
being vulnerable and letting go of control could lead to
deeper connections. Nick's willingness to support and uplift
her allowed her to lower her defenses and truly embrace love.
9.Question
How did Priyanka's relationship with herself evolve over
time?
Answer:Priyanka's relationship with herself evolved from
self-neglect to self-discovery. She learned to appreciate her
own worth, allowing her to enter future relationships as a
confident and complete individual.
10.Question
What significance did the list of qualities hold for
Priyanka?
Answer:The list of qualities held significant clarity for
Priyanka, helping her to define what she truly wanted in a
partner. It served as a reminder of her growth and
preparedness for entering a new, healthy relationship.
Chapter 10 | SHAADI| Q&A
1.Question
What does the quote from Kahlil Gibran imply about love
and relationships?
Answer:The quote suggests that while individuals
can love deeply, their personal identities and lives
should not be solely reliant on each other. Love
should be nurturing but individuals must stand
independently, like pillars of a temple, allowing each
other space to grow.
2.Question
How did Priyanka feel about the roka ceremony when she
experienced it?
Answer:Priyanka felt that the roka ceremony was highly
meaningful, marking the beginning of a new bond not just
for her and Nick, but for their families as well. She saw it as
a significant step toward merging their families.
3.Question
What challenges did Priyanka face while planning her
wedding?
Answer:The wedding planning was a significant task,
complicated by cultural elements, dual ceremonies, and short
timelines that made it a large undertaking, particularly
aiming for a joyful and culturally rich experience for both
families.
4.Question
What was the importance of music and dance at
Priyanka's sangeet?
Answer:The sangeet was an extravagant celebration featuring
competition between the families, showcasing their heritage
and commitment to the wedding festivities. It emphasized
joy, togetherness, and cultural exchange.
5.Question
How did Priyanka incorporate her father's memory into
her wedding?
Answer:Priyanka honored her father by selecting a song for
the mother-daughter dance that had personal significance,
demonstrating her love and connection to her deceased father
throughout the wedding while celebrating her mother's
presence.
6.Question
What does Priyanka mean by saying a marriage is
different from a wedding?
Answer:A wedding represents a joyful celebration, while a
marriage entails ongoing commitment, growth, and mutual
support in the day-to-day realities of life together.
7.Question
What reflections did Priyanka have while standing before
her wedding ceremony?
Answer:As she prepared to walk down the aisle, Priyanka
reflected on her deep love for Nick and her desire for their
future together, seeking reassurance from her father
spiritually despite his absence.
8.Question
What significance did the timing of the Bumble India
launch have in relation to Priyanka's wedding?
Answer:The launch represented a transition into her married
life, symbolizing the melding of her professional ambitions
with her new personal life, thus marking the beginning of
their shared journey together.
9.Question
How did Priyanka and Nick approach the cultural aspects
of their wedding?
Answer:They consciously created a cross-cultural experience
that educated both families about each other's traditions
through informative booklets and shared rituals, promoting
understanding and celebration of diversity.
10.Question
In what way did Priyanka view the experiences leading
up to her wedding and the wedding day itself?
Answer:Priyanka viewed them as a journey filled with
meaningful rituals and connections, filled a sense of
gratitude, love, and celebration, which ultimately marked a
significant new chapter in her life.
Chapter 11 | HOME| Q&A
1.Question
What does having a home mean to Priyanka, and how
does it relate to her personal growth?
Answer:For Priyanka, having a home symbolizes
stability and rootedness, which she had been lacking
during her years of living in rentals and hotels after
her father's death. This new home represents a
transformation, as she now feels grounded and able
to grow, both personally and professionally. It
becomes a sacred space where she can gather with
loved ones and celebrate important occasions,
providing her the opportunity to reflect on her past
and dream about her future.
2.Question
How does Priyanka view the relationship between her
career and the concept of unfinished spaces?
Answer:Priyanka sees her career and life as a work in
progress or an unfinished home. She envisions specific
'rooms' in her inner home to accommodate her aspirations as
an actor, producer, and philanthropist. These rooms inspire
her creativity and risk-taking while also symbolizing her
continuous growth and exploration of new opportunities.
This analogy emphasizes her belief that it's essential to keep
evolving, learning, and creating.
3.Question
What role does Priyanka's family play in her life and
aspirations?
Answer:Priyanka places significant importance on family in
both her life and her future goals. She describes a room in her
inner house that embodies her vision for family life, with
influences from both Indian and American cultures. She
values these connections and envisions a space filled with the
memories and influences of her extended family, helping to
create a nurturing environment for potential children in the
future.
4.Question
How does Priyanka's engagement with social causes
reflect her values and past experiences?
Answer:Priyanka’s engagement in philanthropy, particularly
in education and health initiatives, stems from her own
upbringing and discussions with her parents. A pivotal
moment was when she learned about the challenges girls face
in accessing education. This spurred her to establish a
foundation to help children in need, especially girls. Her
active involvement with UNICEF showcases her
commitment to using her platform to amplify the voices of
marginalized communities and inspire others to act
compassionately.
5.Question
What metaphor does Priyanka use to discuss her
ambitions and personal growth, and how does she
encourage others to join her in this journey?
Answer:Priyanka uses the metaphor of an unfinished home to
discuss her ambitions and personal growth, indicating that
there’s always room for improvement and new experiences in
life. She encourages her readers to take action towards
positive change by stating that every small effort can
contribute to a kinder world. She emphasizes that collective
effort is essential and invites others to join her in creating a
space where compassion and action thrive.
6.Question
How does Priyanka's story about her father's influence
shape her view on individuality and self-worth?
Answer:Priyanka shares a personal story about her father's
understanding and encouragement when she questioned why
her name wasn't on their house's nameplate. His immediate
validation of her feelings instilled in her a strong sense of
individuality and self-worth. This upbringing has greatly
influenced her belief in the importance of having a voice and
fighting for oneself, which she aims to instill in the next
generation.
7.Question
What personal qualities does Priyanka exhibit through
her journey in the entertainment industry and
philanthropy?
Answer:Through her journey, Priyanka exhibits resilience,
creativity, compassion, and a strong sense of responsibility.
She pushes boundaries in her career, taking on diverse roles
and ventures while passionately advocating for social
change. Her ability to reflect on her personal experiences
shapes her mission to empower others, especially girls and
women, to pursue education and create positive change in
their communities.
8.Question
How does Priyanka confront the challenges of her
industry regarding gender roles and expectations?
Answer:Priyanka challenges the traditional gender roles in
the entertainment industry by focusing on her production
company, which aims to create opportunities for female
storytellers and first-time filmmakers. She breaks the
narrative that female actors have a limited shelf life,
advocating for merit-based opportunities and pushing for
better roles for women of all ages in cinema.
9.Question
In what ways does Priyanka integrate her cultural
background into her vision for her career and
organization?
Answer:Priyanka integrates her Indian heritage into her
vision by producing regional films in various Indian
languages, focusing on stories that reflect the rich diversity
of her country. This cultural representation is vital to her
mission with Purple Pebble Pictures, as she wants to ensure
that the unique narratives of lesser-known filmmakers are
brought to mainstream audiences.
10.Question
Why is storytelling important to Priyanka, and how does
it connect to her broader goals?
Answer:Storytelling is crucial to Priyanka as she believes
that good stories are universal and can change perceptions.
They offer a platform for underrepresented voices and
experiences, serving as a bridge for empathy and
understanding. By supporting diverse storytelling through
her production company and philanthropic work, she aims to
foster positive change and inspire action in society.
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