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Interpersonal conflict:
Conflict has been defined as "an expressed struggle between at
least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals,
scarce resources, and interference from the other party in achieving
their goals"21. Important concepts in this definition include
"expressed struggle," which means the two sides must
communicate about the problem for there to be conflict. Another
important idea is that conflict often involves perceptions. The two
sides may only perceive that their goals, resources, and interference
is incompatible with each other's.
Organizational conflicts and its management.
Intra Organizational : Conflict within the organization
Inter Organizational: Conflict between two or more organization
Causes of conflict :
Differing values (eg conservative v/s progressive minded)
Differing perspectives (eg limited v/s broad, domestic v/s
international)
Differing ideas (creative v/s mundane)
Different styles of solving organisational problems.
Differing agendas (sometimes hidden ones)
Differing attitudes (rigid v/s flexible)
Differing objectives and goals.
Differing circumstances.
How to manage conflicts in an organisation :
Let us simulate the situations under which the conflicts occur in an
organisation. Basically there could be three situations in an
organisational context.
This is not to say that one has to be yes man all the time. When
ever you face a conflict situation with your boss consider the
following approaches.
Most of the times the conflict between peers occurs because of the
tendency of " One up manship". When ever you face a conflict
situation with your colleagues, try some of the following
approaches.
(i) Communicate: Most of the time your colleagues may be
differing with you, either because they have not understood your
point of view properly or you have not communicated clearly
enough. Since you do not have any authority over them, enter into a
dialogue and discuss the issue with an open mind.
(ii) Conflict to Co-operation : Work towards skillfully converting
conflict in to a co-operation. Strive to appreciate their point of view.
Find out the ways and means to create a 'win-win' situation. If need
be ammend your approach and meet your colleagues midway.
3. Managing conflicts with the subordinates :
(i) Allow freedom to express : Give adequate freedom to your
subordinates to express their views freely, be patient listen to them
carefully.
(ii) Allow dissent : Dissent is natural, manage disagreement
constructively
(iii) Build consensus : Identify the +ve minded persons in your team
and convert them into the 'champions of causes' and let them reason
it out with the ynical fellows. Provide right kind of support,
intervene skillfully to build consensus.
(iv) Develop a common vision : Appreciate the fact that all your
subordinates may not have the broad vision and perspective like
yours. Its your responsibility to share your dreams and aspirations
for the organisation with them and make them appreciate these.
Through discussion, training and counseling develop a common
vision.
TEN (GENERIC) APPROACHES TO MANAGE CONFLICTS
1. Patient listening.
2. Empathy, understand other's point of view.
3. Avoid reacting strongly / avoid anger under all circumstances.
4. Evaluate your responses properly before responding.
5. Communicate, enter into a dialogue, convince or get convinced.
6. Choose the right time for dialogue, when the other person is in a
receiving mood.
7. Avoid throwing your weight, even if you have the authority.
8. Allow dissent, manage disagreement constructively,
9. Build consensus, take people along.
10. Create a common vision if others do not have as broad a
perspective as your, explain it to them with patience, train them &
counsel them.