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By – HERB COHEN
Author’s Profile:
• Herb Cohen - a practicing negotiator for more than three
decades in U.S.A. He is a person with extensive practical
experience and unique presentation style which made him
internationally renowned as someone who can articulate and
explain complex events.
• You Can Negotiate Anything, which was on the New York
Times Bestseller List for almost one year and has been
translated into twenty-one languages.
• Other works
– Negotiate This! By Caring But Not T-H-A-T Much
Part 1
• Manage Conflict
• Resolve Dispute
• Soften Palatable
- Either Hard or Soft ultimatum should not be used
- Hard ones might offend the other side
- While soft ones are only a statement
• Power of Legitimacy
– Printed words, documents and signs carry authority.
• Power of Identification
– Negotiating ability is maximized if one gets others to identify with him.
Manifestations Contd..
• Power of Commitment
– Persuade others to help, get them involved and they’ll shoulder part
of the burden.
• Power of Expertise
– Establish your background and credentials early in the
confrontation.
• Power of Investment
– Resource investment and compromise are directly proportional.
Manifestations Contd..
• Power of Rewarding or Punishing
– Advantage rests with the one who knows the needs and
perceptions of the other side, while the other side thinks
he is more powerful.
• Power of Morality
– If you lay morality on people in an unqualified manner, it
often works.
• Power of Precedent
– They have got it; we should get it too attitude.
Manifestations Contd..
• Power of Persistence
– Learn to hang in there and be tenacious.
• Power of Attitude
– Regard the negotiation process as a game or a fun filled
activity.
TIME
• Time and tide waits for none, but there's always a tide
behind.
STYLES OF NEGOTIATING
“A Tactic perceived is not a Tactic”
Three styles of Negotiating:
• Win-Lose ( Soviet Style ) – winning at the expense of
other
• No continuing relationship.
• No remorse afterward.
• No awareness by victim.
Collaborative Negotiation :
• Using the process to meet needs
– It’s all in the approach.
– Eg: The clock sale.
• Harmonizing or reconciling needs
– Eg: Howard Hughes and Russell Jane contract if $1
million.
Conflict
• Conflict is actual or perceived opposition of needs,
values and interests.
• Reasons of conflict:
– Experience- we are all captives of the pictures in our head.
– Information
– Role
• A finance and a Marketing manager.
Win-Win technique
• “ If the focus shifts from defeating each other to defeating
the problem, everyone can benefit”
• Graceful exit
• Germany
• Scandinavian cultures
• Switzerland
• United States
HANDLING THE HIERARCHY
• IN SWEDEN THERE IS NO HIERARCHY
• THE MUMBAI STORY
• IN INDIA ???
NON-VERBAL LANGUAGE
• Nodding – we understand it as YES
- Greece, Bulgaria and Turkey it
means NO
• Thumbs up sign – to us ‘Good’
- France – deal is worthless
- Japan – a little bribe has
been asked for
• Smiling – In Japan people smile when they are sad,
angry and confused
• Earlobe pinching – Brazil – shows appreciation
• Waving – In China – means “come here”
• Using One hand – Japan – pass someone an item
with one hand , it is considered as an epitome of
rudeness.
• Beckoning – with an index finger- obscene in
Portugal, Spain, Latin America, Japan, Indonesia and
Hong Kong.
• Crossing fingers – rudest gesture in Paraguay
MAKING SMALL TALK
• JAPAN, ARABS – GAIN TRUST
• NO SMALL TALK WITH GERMANS, SWISS,
SCANDINAVIANS AND FINNS
MANNERS AND CUSTOMS
• Understanding manners and customs
Americans often interpret inaction and silence
as a negative sign
Russians have an abrasive style and it is usual
for them to come up with last minute change
requests.
Finland – they may continue negotiations in the
Sauna bath.
MANNERS AND CUSTOMS
Source : J.M. Brett, “Culture and Negotiation,” Intl jrl of Psy, 2000
Take Away:
• Many dimensions to approach Negotiations.
• He relates practical examples uniquely with
each situation.
• Win-Win situation is the best negotiation
policy.
• It gives a perspective to tackle Visceral
opponents intelligently.
• “Trust” – only mantra for success.