There are several effective ways to say no to vaping or smoking when pressured by others. These include being direct and confident in saying no, changing the subject to avoid focusing on the refusal, using humor by having a witty comeback prepared, walking away from uncomfortable situations without explanation, making an excuse to leave, and avoiding situations where friends may pressure you entirely. The document provides tips and examples for each of these strategies to empower people to refuse vaping or smoking offers from others.
There are several effective ways to say no to vaping or smoking when pressured by others. These include being direct and confident in saying no, changing the subject to avoid focusing on the refusal, using humor by having a witty comeback prepared, walking away from uncomfortable situations without explanation, making an excuse to leave, and avoiding situations where friends may pressure you entirely. The document provides tips and examples for each of these strategies to empower people to refuse vaping or smoking offers from others.
There are several effective ways to say no to vaping or smoking when pressured by others. These include being direct and confident in saying no, changing the subject to avoid focusing on the refusal, using humor by having a witty comeback prepared, walking away from uncomfortable situations without explanation, making an excuse to leave, and avoiding situations where friends may pressure you entirely. The document provides tips and examples for each of these strategies to empower people to refuse vaping or smoking offers from others.
With a FIRM voice and confident attitude, just say no.
When you are confident, people are less likely to question
you, or second guess your answer. Redirecting the conversation gets you out of smoking and turns the focus to something else, CHANGE THE SUBJECT instead of the fact that you said no.
When someone askes you to smoke, say
“No, lets go to the gym” or “No, lets go swimming instead” When someone asks you to smoke, come back with a smart reply, make a joke out of it or them. By thinking up a line or two ahead of time you’ll be ready with a good BE A WISE GUY one-liner! You have the right to remove your self from uncomfortable situations without
WALK AWAY saying anything.
This might be useful
for those people who don’t want to take no for an answer. Using an excuse to get you away from the situation can be an indirect way to say no, which can avoid conflict. USE AN EXCUSE Say, “I’m already late, I have to go.” AVOID IT ALL TOGETHER
If you know your friends are going to smoke and try to
pressure you into it, avoid hanging out with them. People who don’t respect your right to say no aren’t your true friends.
By not placing your self in these situations, you can be
free to make your own choices. American Heart Association (2018) Hey Kids, Don’t Smoke, Use Smokeless Tobacco or Other Products. Retrieved from: http://www.heart.org/HEARTORG/HealthyLivi ng/HealthyKids/LifesSimple7for kids/Hey-Kids- Dont-Smoke-Use-Smokeless-Tobacco-or- Nicotine-Products_UCM_466542_Article.jsp REFERENCE
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