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The Academy of Accelerated

Learning
Bully Prevention Month

Activities from
October 7 through October 14 to
help

STOMP OUT BULLYING!


Monday October 7th

Bullying. What is it?

Bullying is unfair and one sided. It


happens when someone keeps
hurting, frightening, threatening, or
leaving someone out on purpose.
Have you ever been bullied?
Without using names tell us
about it and how it made you
feel.

Complete paper activity.


Paper Heart
Complete the activity in the teacher notes. When you are done ask the
following questions:
1. Is it possible to get the wrinkles out?
2. The wrinkles are what happens to a human being
who gets bullied. Ask the students: does anyone
have the right to leave wrinkles on another human
being? Does anyone have the right to hurt someone
else?
3. If you witness a person being bullied or they tell
you they have been bullied how can you help
smooth their wrinkles?
We can never 100% get rid of the
wrinkles but what could we do to
help the student who has been
bullied?
Give small groups a band aid and have the
students work in groups to come up with
some ideas to help the student who has
been bullied. Write the ideas on the band
aids and have the student glue/tape it on the
wrinkled heart. Review the ideas and hang
the heart in your classroom room.
EACH OF YOU CAN BE PART OF
THE SOLUTION TO STOMP OUT
BULLYING!
Watch the Video
Monday:
4th and 5th grades -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXXKMehgiAk

Bullying or Not watch until (4:59)

K4,k5,1st, 2nd , 3rd grades-


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39fiuigmL-w
Kids Talk About Bullying ( 2:20)

http://www.stopbullying.gov/kids/webisodes/playground-is-for- everyone.html

Yes That’s Bullying (1:16)

http://www.stopbullying.gov/kids/webisodes/yes-thats-bullying.html

The Playground Is for Everyone (1:04)


Tuesday October 8, 2013

1. Review the definition of bullying.


2. How do you know the difference
between bullying and a conflict?
Conflict Vs Bullying
CONFLICT BULLYING
Equal power Imbalance of power
Happens occasionally Repeated actions
No intent to harm Purposeful intent
Equal emotional reaction Victim reacts strongly
Not seeking power/attention Bully is often seeking power
Remorse No remorse
Effort to solve the problem Not motivated to problem
solve
When you are determining if it is bullying or a
conflict you can ask yourself the following
questions:
Is it fair?
Is it one sided?
Is there an imbalance of power?
Has this happened before?
Bully Detectives
1. Jeff is in third grade, and Matt is in fifth grade. They ride the same bus to school. Jeff is one of
the last people to be picked up, so he usually has to sit in the back. Matt always tries to trip
Jeff as he walks past. Matt laughs whenever Jeff falls down.
• Is this bullying? Yes No Unsure

2. Samantha is working on her math assignment . Her two friends , Julie and Shaniqua, are
talking about what they did last night. This makes it hard for Samantha to think. She yells,
“STOP IT, you two, I’m trying to work!”
• Is this bullying? Yes No Unsure

3. Frank is walking through the hall. His friend Jeff comes up and punches him in the arm really
hard. Frank is surprised and runs after Jeff and punches him back.
• Is this bullying? Yes No Unsure
Bullying Detectives (continued)
4. Melissa likes playing on the tot lot. She likes climbing up the slide instead of sliding down.
Jessica is sliding down the slide. On Monday, Melissa tells Jessica to move or she will hurt
her. On Tuesday, Melissa does it again and tells Jessica to move or she will beat her up. On
Friday, Jessica is climbing the ladder and Melissa pulls her down to the ground and laughs.
• Is this bullying? Yes No Unsure

5. Patricia always makes fun of everyone she sees. She laughs and thinks she is so funny. She
called Patrick poodle because he got a new hair cut. Patrick responded, “ Well you are so
skinny I am surprised your clothes stay on.”
• Is this bullying? Yes No Unsure

6. Julie is in 5th grade. She always teases kids in the lunchroom and takes their food and eats it.
She especially likes to pick on first graders. Yesterday she stole a first grader named
Cameron’s Twinkies and today she took his milk.
• Is this bullying? Yes No Unsure
Watch the Video
Tuesday:
3rd, 4th and 5th grades-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HBN6xlHWO-8
Chester Elementary School - Anti-Bullying Teacher (Video 5:01)

K4,k5,1st, and 2nd grades-


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybwC6vQ0nY0
Cabear and the Bullies (3:35)
Wednesday October 9, 2013
Responding to Bullying
What do you do if someone is
bullying you or you see them bullying
someone else?
If you don’t feel SAFE. If you do feel SAFE
REFUSE THE BULLYING
and then report!

REPORT
Role Playing Refusing Bullying
Assertiveness Steps:

1. Get calm- take three deep breaths.


Between each breath, say two or three
short words that remind you to get calm.
ie: “calm down”
2. Stand straight and tall.
3. Look at the person you are speaking to.
4. Say what you mean in a strong, clear,
respectful voice.
Role Play:
1. Francis Frankfuter gets teased by his classmate Jack every day because of his
name. He calls him hot dog, dog-dog, and Frankie dog. Jack is fed up being
bullied. Jack decides the situation is safe enough to refuse the bullying.

2. Shante is in the lunch room and Julie and Martha tease her about her funny
lunch box on Monday. On Tuesday they make fun of her hair bows and on
Wednesday they encourage the entire table to laugh at her because she wears
glasses. Shante decides the situation is safe enough to refuse the bullying.

3. Martin and Julius and 2nd graders who like to play basketball each day. Sam and
Aaron are 3rd graders who also like to play basketball. Sam and Martin tell
Martin and Julius that they are older and little babies are not allowed to play on
the court. The next day they do the same thing. Martin and Julius decide the
situation is safe enough to refuse the bullying.

4. Melissa is on the bus. She is the last to get picked up so she always walks
through the bus to find an empty seat. Jessica had a seat next to her but told
her she could not sit there. The next day on the playground Melissa attempted
to play jump rope with Jessica and two friends and Jessica told her she can not
ever play with them. Melissa decides the situation is safe enough to refuse the
bullying.
Watch the Video
Wednesday:
3rd ,4th and 5th grades-
http://www.cartoonnetwork.com/promos/stopbullying/vid
eo/stop-bullying-speak-up-special-clip.html
Speak Up Against Bullying (25:29) ( long video if you want
to spread it out between today and Thursday)

K4,k5,1st,2ndgrades-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EvhIdB_8WXE

McGruff Anti Bullying Video (6:00)


Thursday October 10, 2013
Introduce the bully referral.
Teach students what information
they need when making a report.
Role Play reporting.
Bully report information

Who are you?


Who was involved?
When did it happen?
Where did it happen?
Has it happened before?
How did you handle it?
Did others see or hear it happen?

LET THE ADULT KNOW YOU ARE BEING


BULLIED!
Role Play Reporting: Pretend you are the student being
bullied in each of these situations .
1. Francis Frankfuter gets teased by his classmate Jack every day in his classroom and on
the playground because of his name. He calls him hot dog, dog-dog, and Frankie dog.
Jack is fed up being bullied. Jack decides to refuse and then report the bullying.

2. Shante is in the lunch room and Julie and Martha in her class tease her about her
funny lunch box on Monday. On Tuesday they make fun of her hair bows and on
Wednesday they encourage the entire table to laugh at her because she wears glasses.
Shante decides to refuse the bullying and then report the situation.

3. Martin and Julius and 2nd graders who like to play basketball each day. Sam and Aaron
are 3rd graders who also like to play basketball. They tell Martin and Julius that they
are older and little babies are not allowed to play on the court. The next day they do
the same thing. Martin and Julius decide the situation is not safe enough so they
decide to report the situation.

4. Melissa is on the bus. She is the last to get picked up so she always walks through the
bus to find an empty seat. Jessica a third grader in Mrs. Brown’s class had a seat next
to her but told her she could not sit there. The next day on the playground Melissa
attempts to play jump rope with Jessica and two friends and Jessica told her she can
not ever play with them. Melissa decides the situation is not safe enough to refuse
the bullying and she decides to report it right away.
Watch the video

Thursday:
K4,k5, and 1st grades:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGh
LeDugztY
Sesame Street: The Good Birds Club
(16:16)
Monday October 14, 2013
1. First follow teacher notes below
2. Ask students if they have ever been witnesses or been bystanders of
bullying. If so, without using names have a few students tell their
stories.
3. Ask students to share what they think they can do to help if they see or
hear someone being bullied.
4. Ask students to share how a bystander who witnesses the bullying and
does nothing can hurt the victim.
5. Ask students to share how a bystander who stands back and laughs can
hurt the victim.
6. Ask students to list all the ways a bystander is helping if they: 1. refuse
the bullying 2. help the victim report the bullying or 3. they report the
bullying themselves.
Is the bystander part of the problem or part of the solution?
Say the word “Problem” or “Solution” after your teacher reads each situation
below.
1. Johnnie sees Francis getting hit by Samantha every day at recess and he just ignores
it.
2. Tamika witnesses Clarence a 1st grader getting teased by two 3rd grade boys on the
bus. They did it on Monday and now again on Tuesday. She says, “Stop bullying him
now!” She then reports the behavior to her teacher.
3. Samuel took Hae Kue’s lunch box and started eating everything in it. Hae Kue said
to stop but he kept eating and said, “I don’t have to.” Kelly , Hae Kue’s friend did
not feel safe refusing the bullying but she got Hae Kue to come with her after lunch
to tell Mr. Rian what had happened.
4. Jack and Julie, two fifth graders, walk around the playground like they own it. They
take balls away from kids and kick them across the playground. They run into
people on purpose. They use bad language and make fun of people. Many, many
kids watch it happen every day but they don’t say or do anything because they are
afraid.
AAL: WE MUST
ALL BE PART
OF THE
SOLUTION !!!!!
Watch the Videos
Monday:
3rd, 4th and 5th grades-
httpwww.youtube.com/watch?v=Fg8wxcepAxM
Anti-Bullying Elementary School Video (4:23)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0qfo9QvY8DQ
Beekmantown Elementary School Anti-Bullying Video (1:15)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtkHsARkHbg
Football Players Protect Special Needs Girl From Bullies (3:23)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-ZRnE1SsMc
Speak Up, Reach Out (3:16)

K4,k5,1st and,2nd grades-


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-ZRnE1SsMc
Speak Up, Reach Out ( 3:16)
STOMP OUT BULLYING
TAKE THE PLEDGE!!!!!
• PLEASE HAVE EACH STUDENT SIGN THE ANTI-
BULLYING PLEDGE!

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