-How do you cope with your Stressors? UNDERSTANDING STRESS Stress is defined as the individual's response to the demands or pressures brought about by internal or external factors that may cause mental tension, anxiety, or worry. Stress is inevitable in life. People respond to stress in different ways. Situations or factors that trigger stress are what we call stressors. Stressors can be big or small. They come and go, but sometimes they stay. They are also caused by internal or external factors. How a person responds to stress determines his or her stress level or stress tolerance. To cope with stress, you should first understand the stressors that trigger such a response. Understanding stressors is the first step in managing stress. As adolescents, what are the usual things that stress you? How do these stressors affect your life? Types of Stress Oftentimes, we associate stress with something negative, but actually it is not. Stress has two categories-positive and negative stress. •Eustress is positive stress because it motivates a person to continue, move on, and do things to be happy and productive. This good stress energizes the person and makes him or her perform well or do better either in his or her job or in academics. When life's stress no longer makes a person happy, this kind of stress is called distress. •Distress gives a negative impact on a person's life, particularly on his or her health. Bad Stress or Distress happens when the person's stressors overwhelm him or her. This type of stress can lead to mental and physical health problems such as depression, anxiety, panic attack, fatigue, and burnout. When it is not treated, this can also cause a person to develop unhealthy habits such as drinking, smoking, and binge eating. Positive Stressors (Eustress) Job promotion Elected as an officer Marriage Vacation Additional course/studies Transfer of home Extracurricular activities in school Additional family member Celebration or event Negative Stressors (Distress) Injury (self or with a loved one) Hospitalization Separation of parents Death of a loved one Failing grades Breakup with a loved one Too much academic workload Sleep problem Conflict with a friend, a classmate, or family member 1. What is Stress? Why is it considered a normal and inevitable part of life? 2. How do you differentiate EUSTRESS from DISTRESS? 3. Give examples of Eustress or Positive Stressors. 4. Give examples of Distress or Negative Stressors. 5. What do you think can happen if a person is not be able to cope with his or her bad stress?