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Counseling Practice - Lessdon 2
Counseling Practice - Lessdon 2
PRACTICE
Lesson 2
INTERPERSONAL
SKILLS
Wolfelt: “all interpersonal
relationships are either
helpful, neutral, or harmful”
WOLFELT’S CHARACTERISTICS OF THE
COUNSELOR
•Empathy
•Respect
•Warmth and Caring
•Genuineness
HELPING SKILLS
• Attending/Listening: “giving undivided
attention by means of verbal and non-verbal
behavior”
• What are some barriers to listening skills?
PARAPHRASING
•“expressing a thought or idea in an
alternate and sometimes a shortened
form”
•Paraphrasing exercise
CLARIFYING
• “the process of bringing
vague content in the
interaction into clearer focus
or understanding” (Wolfelt)
PERCEPTION
CHECKING
•“asking the person for verification of your
understanding….asking for feedback
about the accuracy of your listening”
•(Wolfelt)
LEADING
• “anticipating where the person is going and
responding with an appropriately
encouraging remark” (Wolfelt)
• 2 types: indirect and direct
QUESTIONING
• “a method of gaining information and increasing
understanding” (Canine)
• 2 purposes:
• 1) to obtain specific information
• 2) to direct the person’s interaction with you into more
helpful areas