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UNDERSTOOD
FORMS OF COMMUNICATION
1. Speaking
2. Reading
3. Writing
4. Listening
• Communication is the most
important skill in life.
• We learn to speak, read and write.
• But what about
listening?
There is no training or
education that enables you to
listen.
If you want to interact effectively
with the other person, to influence
that person
then you first need to understand that
person.
2- PRETENDING
3- SELECTIVE HEARING
4- ATTENTIVE LISTENING
Instead Stephen Covey says that a
person should learn to get better
at EMPATHIC LISTENING
• Empathic Listening is listening with the intent
to “UNDERSTAND”
• STEP INSIDE THE OTHER’s SHOES
• How would you feel if an optician
gave you new spectacles without
a proper eye test
• We get into the mind of the
other person
• We deal with the reality inside
his or her mind as well as the
heart
• We see the world the way he or
she sees the world
• We understand his or her
paradigms
• We understand how he or she
feels
• Empathic Listening is
• Listening with our
ears
• Listening with our
eyes
• And Listening with
our hearts
• We listen for Feelings,
Meanings, Intentions
• We try to Feel, Sense, Intuit
• The essence of Empathic
Listening is not that you have to
agree with someone.
• It’s that you understand that
person intellectually and
emotionally
So the message that needs to be
taken from this habit is that use
EMPATHIC LISTENING to be
truly effective in your relationships
SO WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF
EMPATHIC LISTENING?