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who have the same problems, and
are voicing their thoughts to
government and society.
Social Media • People are collaborating
good. Tweeting by hashtags, they are
for
Depression
Anxiety
Stress
Insecurities
Dose Social Media Cause Dépression?
struggle with
insecurity is
because we
Social Media
Insecurities compare our
behind-the-scenes
with everyone
else’s highlight
reel.”
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We live in a world where we
frequently see the edited version of
people’s lives. Facebook
friends seem to be forever sharing all
their wonderful moments.
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YouTube videos capture the
incredible talents of otherwise
average looking people. It’s awe-
Social Media inspiring… and, unfortunately, it is
Insecurities also often demoralizing. You may
find it difficult not to compare
yourself to it all, thinking: Their lives
are amazing! They have such talent!
And as for my life and me… well, I
just don’t match up. This is a trap
for many people. But there are ways
to avoid it, or at least break free…
and they are well worth learning.
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The key to avoiding or escaping such
insecurities is to fully understand and
appreciate what it means to be
human. All people have strengths and
weaknesses. They struggle with
feelings of sadness, hurt, loneliness,
and many other vulnerable emotions.
And just because people don’t
highlight their struggles doesn’t mean
Social Media they don’t exist. You can choose to
Insecurities see this by looking around in your
daily life. Allow yourself to observe
that you are not alone and that
others struggle like you do. People
often don’t advertise their struggles,
so you need to look closely and be
open to seeing them. Then, once you
can truly feel that you are not alone,
offer yourself some compassion.
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Having self-compassion isn’t
permission to give up and accept
yourself as inferior. Rather, it means
recognizing that your struggles are
understandably difficult and shared
by others. It also involves staying
connected with a larger sense of
yourself—one that includes your
Social Media strengths, values, and interests.
Insecurities When you pay attention to these
parts of yourself that you appreciate,
you will naturally feel better about
you. You will want to do what’s best
for yourself. In fact, if you stop for a
moment now and think about what
you value in yourself, you will feel a
small boost in your sense of well-
being (Go ahead. Give it a try!).
• You can also lessen the hold insecurities have on
you by looking for people who have worked to
overcome their struggles. Using them as role
models, you can learn how to accept your personal
weaknesses or “flaws” while also focusing on what
you do well. There have been plenty of role models
out there both in the public eye – think Stephen
Social Hawking, Helen Keller, Ray Charles – as well as in
your everyday life… if you pay attention.
Media • When you redirect your energy and attention to this
Insecuri more positive perspective, you will notice moments
ties when you are free from self-criticism. But you will
also notice that those thoughts and distressing
feelings return. When this happens, it’s up to you
to decide how to respond. You can fall back into
old patterns and stay stuck; or you can choose to
regroup and refocus.
• Instead of finding “evidence” to prove your
inferiority, choose to remind yourself that you
are not alone—you struggle just as every other
human does, even if they don’t highlight it on
Facebook. Really seeing the truth of this can
help you to rally, bringing up your morale.
Social Ultimately, you will feel more secure and self-
Media assured, knowing in your heart that you are not
the only one with behind-the-scenes struggles.
Insecuri Then you can feel free to celebrate your
ties highlight reel!
How to minimize negative effects of social media
use
While we don’t yet have conclusive evidence that social media use
actually causes many things, we do have plenty of warning signs that it may
be affecting our kids negatively. So it’s smart for parents to check in
regularly with kids about their social media use, to make sure it’s positive
and healthy, and guide them towards ways to change it, if you think it’s not.
Move social apps off your home screen. Having this extra step to open them
can reduce the urge to check social media as soon as you get on your phone.
Schedule specific times to check social media or set a timer to limit yourself
to 20-30 minutes.
Put your phone on silent. When we aren't hearing a tone or vibration every
time we get a notification, we're less likely to get distracted.
Take a break from social media or limit the number of apps you use. Try
sticking to apps that you use the most to communicate with people.
Steps you can take to insure healthy social media use:
Focus on balance: Make sure your kids are also engaging in social
interaction offline, and have time for activities that help build
identity and self-confidence.
Look out for girls at higher risk of depression: Monitor girls who
are going through a particularly tough time or are under unusual
stress. Negative effects of social media can have more impact when
confidence is down.
Steps you can take to insure healthy social media use:
Internet was initially used for contact with strangers, it has later
become a platform where people develop and cultivate their
already existing relationships. And while most of the initial
research in this field concluded with Internet mostly having
negative impacts on social life and well-being, more recent
research focusing on social networking sites like Facebook and
Instagram find that users of such sites have increased social
capital, social support, sense of community and improved well-
being.
Connections between online communication, social life
and well-being
In the early years of the Internet you saw tendency towards
online communication simply substituting ordinary face-to-face
interactions. However, it is clear now, that social networking
sites like Facebook and Instagram can have positive effects on
our social life. It can make it easier for us to keep track of
existing acquaintances, and easier to have access to
information relevant to one’s social life. Social media can also
help us develop relationships with people that are far away
geographically," says Fulvio Castellacci.
Narcissism and Superficial
Relationships
The negative aspects associated with social media use – such as
increased narcissism, superficial relationships and increased
stress – particularly if the platforms are used with high
frequency and for excessive amounts of time.