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“To trade, the first condition was to be able to lay aside the spear. From
then onwards they succeeded in exchanging goods and persons, no
longer only between clans, but between tribes and nations, and, above
all, between individuals. Only then did people learn how to create
mutual interests, giving mutual satisfaction, and, in the end, to defend
them without having to resort to arms.” (Mauss, 1954, pg. 105-106)
When you stop acting defensively and look to create mutual interests, you
will be able to foster an environment of open communication and mutual
satisfaction. As a Leader you must be able to manage conflict and debate “Look to Create Mutual Interests”
topics internally without creating a hostile environment. When all people - Marcel Mauss
agree to lay down their weapons and defend themselves without resorting to
arms, the people will feel much more comfortable and freer to express how
they feel. When you want to have information flow freely through your
organization you must learn how to create mutual interests that lead to
mutual satisfaction so that there is incentive for one department to “trade”
with all the other departments in the organization.
Week 9: Demonstrate Ubuntu (cont’d)
Quote 20, from Marcel Mauss:
“The obligation to reciprocate worthily is imperative. One loses face for ever
if one does not reciprocate, or if one does not carry out destruction of
equivalent value. The punishment for failure to reciprocate is slavery for
debt.”(Mauss, 1954, pg. 54)
When someone does something selfless to help you or benefit you, it is your
obligation to reciprocate that act. When you are taking from others and not
returning the favor, you will “lose face” and in turn, lose respect. If you receive,
you need to reciprocate the favor and give something back. You will notice people
will begin to stop giving and reciprocating if they keep giving with nothing ever
coming of it.
“Forgiving someone is not easy, nor is it cheap. An exemplary leader lets his constituents know
that he understands the suffering they have experienced has contributed to who they are now
and that he will help reconcile their feelings toward the matter. A Leader should open wounds so
that people can cleanse these feelings without denying them, and not allow them to continue to
fester.”
– Louie Galaz
I have included this quote from my Co-Mentor Louie because it aligns the values of Ubuntu with the
aspects of the “Truth and Reconciliation” Video about Tutu and the TRC. Forgiveness is not an easy
thing to accomplish, but it is essential to remaining level-headed and centered. If our well-being is tied
to the well-being of all people and living creatures on the planet, we must learn to address and heal
our wounds, so they do not continue to fester and influence us negatively. An exemplary leader will
communicate with his constituents, develop relationships with them, and make sure they are not being
held back by suffering they have experienced in the past. Leaders need to genuinely care about their
constituents and having an “Out of sight, Out of mind” outlook on people’s suffering will only foster a
negative environment.
Week 10: Welcome Possibilities/Opportunities
Kouzes and Posner quote 23
TO DO today (in the…FUTURE!):
“Leaders accept and act on this paradox of power: you become more 1. Challenge the Process by reading
powerful when you give your power away. Long before empowerment
articles about habits of successful
entered the mainstream vocabulary, exemplary leaders understood how
important it was for their constituents to feel strong, capable, and people and practice them.
efficacious.” (Kouzes and Posner 2017, pg. 286/451 E-Book Location) 2. Enable to my brother to learn by
lending him How to Win Friends and
Leaders gain respect by showing humility and by giving power to others to Influence People
make them feel confident. By giving responsibilities to your constituents you
enable them to grow and learn which will motivate them to contribute to the
team’s mission. You must not beat down your constituents and expect them to
improve, but as a Leader, you need to make them feel capable and effective. To Earn Respect, A
Leaders are responsible for empowering their constituents so that more Leader Must Give
possibilities can be realized, and more opportunities can be chased. Leaders
that do not give away any power to constituents will feel like everything is Respect.
pilling up on his/her plate and they will never get around to looking for new
opportunities or trying to innovate.
Week 10: Enable Others and Discover Opportunities
Kouzes and Posner quote 24
“Freedom is the ability to make choices. People who perceive they don’t
have any choices feel trapped, and like rats in a maze, when left with no
alternatives, they typically stop moving, and eventually shut down. By giving
genuine autonomy, leaders can reduce the sense of powerlessness and stress
that people feel and increase their willingness to exercise more fully their
capabilities.” (Kouzes and Posner 2017, pg. 291/451 E-Book Location)
“Consistent Action
Creates Consistent Results”
– Christine Kane
QUALITATIVE QUESTION 8:
A Leader cannot become obsessed with trying to look like the best role model.
This causes them to think they always have the best answers and refuse to take
feedback seriously. Once the Leader starts doing this, they will try more and more
to keep up the act and lose the respect of their constituents. Acting genuinely is the
best way to build relationships with your constituents and you must consistently
behave like a Leader, getting better over time and showing people you are a good
role model. It is not possible to do on the first day, practice makes perfect.
Week 12: Build Genuine Relationships
Kouzes and Posner quote 30
“Learning about yourself and about leadership, however, are not the same
as leading. Deciding to be an exemplary leader is not the same as being
one. Leading is doing. You need to make leading a daily habit. You need to
do something every day to learn more about leading, and you need to put
those lessons into practice every day.” (Kouzes and Posner 2017, pg.
397/451 E-Book Location)
TO DO today:
1. Celebrate today with siblings and friends by cooking for them all
2. Reciprocate the patience my boss show me by not talking back or giving him
attitude.
QUALITATIVE QUESTION 9:
I always had the perception that being an exemplary leader was accomplished through personal development and practicing
the leadership skills you learn. But this is only half of the puzzle. Leaders need to enable and encourage their constituents to
reach their full potential. A Leader needs to treat his constituents like family. As a leader, genuinely caring about your
constituent’s well-being and showing genuine appreciation when they make progress will help you gain respect and open the
door to conversations that people would have felt uncomfortable having previously. When the Leader acts this way
consistently, they create a team that looks up their leader and will be more prepared to take on an unexpected problem
because they do not have to worry about what their leader might do next. Developing relationships with others and
encouraging others to do their best are key parts of leadership I was overlooking. Without practicing and implementing these
aspects of leadership, there is not a chance you will become an exemplary leader whose team would do anything for. There is
no “Out of Sight, Out of Mind” with personal relationships and feelings in a group of people. If personal connections are
ignored and the leader treats everyone like robots, the team will dislike each other and eventually fall apart. If you only focus
on yourself, you build up an ego that you begin to try and protect by acting like you are better than everyone else. This does
the opposite of create an exemplary leader because you close yourself off from personally connecting with your constituents.
Authors of Quotes Slide(s)
Gennep, Arnold van …………………. 37, 41, 42, 43
Horwitz, Tony (re. Capt. Cook)………. 24, 26, 27
Homer (The Odyssey) ………………….14, 15, 17, 21
Kouzes and Posner (6th ed.)………….. 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10, 11, 14, 15, 17, 19,
20, 24, 26, 30, 31, 36, 40, 48, 52, 53, 55, 62, 64, 65, 66
Mauss, Marcell ………………………49, 50, 56
Coulter, Mary……………………………...31
Varty, Boyd …………………………….....46
Woolf, Virginia ……………………….35, 36, 59
The Bible……………………………………29
Lusthaus, Charles…………………………30
Tzu, Sun……………………………………..60
TO DO Going Forward:
1. Read at least one of these quotes everyday when you
wake up for a month.
2. Practice whatever that quote teaches you that day at
work or school
References (Works Cited)
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10. Michael, April 29, 2019, 61 Bible Verses About Leadership https://www.leadershipgeeks.com/bible-verses-about-leadership/
11. OGL 360, “Odyssey synopsis” (2019)
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ADDENDUM (AKA “COOL STUFF”) Trying to Think Outside the Box