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LAW OF ATTRACTION

The Science of Attracting

More of What you Want and Less of what
You Don’t
MICHAEL LOSIER
2006
www.lawofattractionBook.com
Definition of the Law of Attraction

I attract to my life whatever I give

my attention, energy and focus to,
.whether positive or negative
 Disappointment  Joy.
Loneliness.  Love.
 Lack.  Excitement.
 Sadness.  Abundance
 Confusion Pride
 Stress.  Comfort.
 Anger.  Confidence
 Hurt. Affection
 YOUR THOUGHTS ARE YOUR DISTENY
FEELINGS Positive
Action: 

MYSSERY
Positive:

Happiness
-Self-confidence
-Work hard
-Braveness

-Love
 -Success
 - Quit
-Self
Satisfaction unwanted
-Calmness habits
-Alkhoshoo3 

-Meditation -Forgiveness
-Admire  -Discipline
-Proud ness  - Kindness
Negative:
 -Tenderness
-Self Non
 Negative
confidence
-Sadness
Action:
-Shouting

OR
-Anger

-Nervousness -Polyphagia

-Stress -Hitting
-Fear --Killing
-Shyness -Smoking
-Hesitation
-Stealing
-Worry
-Isolation
-Self accuse
-Addiction
Positive and Negative Vibration

The law of attraction responds to

whatever vibration you are sending
by giving you more of it, whether
it’s positive or negative. It simply
.responds to your vibration
 Non-deliberate Attraction
Observing Sends a Vibration

Whether it’s a positive or negative

vibration The law of attraction will
.give you more of the same
 Positive and negative Emotions
Positive and negative emotions cannot
occupy the mind at the same time .One or
the other must dominate .It is your
responsibility to make sure that the
positive emotions constitute the
dominating influence of your mind
Understanding the Significance of
Your Words

When you make a statement

containing the words don’t, not
or no, you are actually giving
attention and energy to what
.you don’t want
Simply ask yourself
”?SO, WHAT DO I WANT“
 Asking yourself
”? “So, what do I want

When you go from what you don’t want, the

words change. When the words change,
,the vibration changes
And you can only send out one vibration at a
.time
 Resetting Your Vibration
To know whether you are sending out a
positive or negative vibration, simply take
a look at the result you’re getting in that
area of your life. They are a perfect
.reflection of what you are vibrating
 Deliberate Attraction

The 3 step formula

Step 1: Identify Your Desire

Step 2: Give Your Desire Attention
Step 3: Allow It
 Step 1: Identify Your Desire
Observing contrast is essential because it
helps you to become clearer about what
.you do want
 Why Is It Important to Identify
?Contrast
,To help you observe contrast briefly, say
”?So, what do I want“
 Select aspect you want
Apply Clarity through Contrast process
In Law of attraction
 Law of Attraction Tool:
Clarity Through Contrast Worksheet
CONTRAST
CLARITY
List the things you don’t like
I don’t like to commute for an hour to get to work
I don’t like having to start and end work at a specific time
I don’t like being around negative co-workers
I don’t like short, 30 minute lunch breaks that don’t allow me enough time to
I don’t like being in a windowless office workout
I don’t like co-workers who don’t do their job well so I end up picking up the
slack
I don’t like being asked to work overtime without pay
List the things you do like
A short commute to work
The flexibility to start and end work when I want to
Upbeat and cheerful co-workers
One hour lunch breaks for working out
An office with a big window
 Law of Attraction Tool:
Clarity Through Contrast Worksheet
?So, what do you want

 CONTRAST CLARITY
 List the things you don’t like
List the things you do like
 I don’t like to commute for an
hour to get to work A short commute to
 I don’t like having to start and work
end work at a specific time The flexibility to start and end
 I don’t like being around negative work when I want to
co-workers
Upbeat and cheerful co-workers
 I don’t like short, 30 minute lunch
breaks that don’t allow me One hour lunch breaks for
enough time to workout I working out
don’t like being in a windowless An office with a big window
office
 An office with a big window
 I don’t like co-workers who don’t
do their job well so I end up
picking up the slack
 I don’t like being asked to work
overtime without pay
 ?How Long Is Briefly
Identify what makes you feel good and do
.more of it
 Your Goal is to Limit Contrast in All
Areas of Your Life
 Career
 Money
 Life partner relationships
 Friendships
 Work relationships
 Business clients
 Business referrals
 Education
 Health
 Other
 Wrapping up Step 1
Identify your desire
1. Your words generate a vibration that is either positive
or negative.

2. When you use the words don't, not and no you

continue to give more attention ,energy and focus to
what you are referring to.

3. When you have yourself saying words don't, not and

no ask yourself “So what do I want?”
4. When you go from what you don’t want to what you do want
,the words change and when the words change your vibration
changes.
5. You can only send out one vibration at a time.
6. You can reset your vibration simply by changing your words,
remembering that thoughts are made of words.
7. Contrast is anything that doesn’t feel good .
8. Observe contrast briefly knowing that the law of Attraction is
always responding to your vibration .
9. Use contrast to help generate clarity.
10. When building your contrast list find as many contrast items as
possible ,the more contrast you identify the more clarity you’ll
have
 Step 2 – Give Your Desire Attention

Give Attention Increase Vibration

The Law of Attraction responds to how you
feel about what you say and how you feel
about what you think
What Am I Including in My Vibrational Bubble?
How to give attention ,Energy or Focus of any
kind and includes it in your current vibration
 Talking about my desire
 Noticing something like
 Daydreaming about my desire
 Visualizing my desire
 Pretending I have my desire
 When I say “Yes” to something
 When I say “No” to something
 When I sorry about something
 When I complaint about something
 When I remember something positive
 When I remember something negative
 When I am observing something positive
 When I observing something negative
 When I am playing with the idea of having my desire
 When I am making a collage about my desire
 When I am praying about my desire
 When I am celebrating something I like
 Remember

The law of attraction responds to

How you FEEL about what you say

And
How you FEEL about what you think
 Two Tools for Raising Your Vibration
to Fuel Your Desire
Tool # 1:
Rewording Your Affirmations to Make Them Feel Better
e.g.
I’m in the process of creating ideal family relationships.
Tool # 2:
The Desire Statement Tool;
There are three elements to the desire Statements:
1. The opening sentence.
( I am in the process of attracting all that I need to do, know, or have,
to attract my ideal desire) Mention it.
2. The body (your Clarity list from Step 1)
e.g.
I love knowing that my ideal partner lives in my city.
I love seeing myself ……
I am excited at the thought of
It excites me ………
3. The closing sentence
The Law of attraction is unfolding and orchestrating all that needs to
happen to bring me my desire
 How to create Your Desire
Statement
……………… My Ideal
I am in the process of attracting all that I need to do, know, or
have, to attract my ideal desire( Mention it.)
…………………………………………………………………………………
………………………………………………………………………………
………………………………
The Law of attraction is unfolding and orchestrating all that
needs to happen to bring me my desire
If you don't feel Great when you read your statement (Raise
your Vibration) Revise It So that you feel better
 Better Affirmations
 I Choose to be ,I Choose to Feel, I Choose to Have,To Get ……
 Better than I am in the process of
 You Can Use Both
 To be Speaking and feeling the truth and nothing but the truth
 Do these two statements affect you differently?
 Looking at the above statements, which of the two –– the first or
the second in each group –– do you find more believable?
 Which of them creates a feeling of contradiction? Which feels
harmonious (and truthful) when you say it?
 Which of these statements brings forth a tiny little voice within you
that says "Oh yeah!"?
 Most people notice a difference in their reactions to these two types
of affirmation. In general, the Choices affirmation is experienced as
more convincing because it is not contrary to fact, and therefore
easier to accept and believe. A Choices affirmation also seems to
put the person using it in “the driver’s seat” in his or her own life —
it appears to be more empowering.
Even though I feel furious (anxious), I choose to have this “
”.unexpected delay work to my advantage

 Of course he could just as easily have said, “I

choose to be calm and confident when I walk in
for the interview” or made some other EFT
Choice which would have counteracted the
problem he was experiencing. The only rule he
had to follow was that it would have had to be a
targeted statement aimed at the specific
challenge he was facing, rather than just a
general self-acceptance statement.
 Wrapping up
Step 2 Give your Desire Attention
2 nd phase of Deliberate Attention

1. Your Vibrational Bubble contains all of your current

vibrations.
2. You must include the vibration of you new desire in your
current vibration Bubble .
3. A desire Statement helps you include the vibration of
your desire in your vibration Bubble.
4. The purpose of step 2 to give your attention.
5. You raise your vibration when you give your desire
attention, energy and focus.
6. Your affirmations may not feel good when the
statements aren’t true for you.
7. Law of Attraction responds to how you feel about your
affirmations.
 Step 3 – Allow It
Allowing is the absence of negative vibration
(doubt)
The speed at what Law of Attraction
manifests your desire is direct proportion
to how much you Allow
Allow It
 ‫قانون الوفرة‬
‫” ما عند الناس ينفذ وما عند هللا ال ينفذ“‬ ‫‪‬‬

‫”وما من شئ إال وعندنا خزائنه“‬ ‫‪‬‬

‫‪ ‬حديث‪:‬‬
‫‪ ” ‬تفاءلوا بالخير تجدوه“‬
?Where Does Doubt Come From

The most common source of doubt

(negative vibration) from your own
limiting beliefs. (Repetitive thoughts)
 There are two ways to tell
: when Allowing

First, you feel a sense of relief and often

hear yourself saying “Ah !this feels
much better.”

Second, you see evidence of your

manifestation appearing in your life.
 . !What is a Limiting Belief

Remember, it's the absence of doubt that

will bring your desire faster

Doubt will be in 2 words (IF & Because )

 Allowing Statements to move
your thoughts to a more
.abundant place
Here are four guidelines for creating your allowing
statements.
1. Is there anyone on the planet having or doing
this now?
2. If so, how many today, yesterday, tomorrow,
next week, etc.
3. Make it believable.
4. Exclude reference to yourself
 Examples
Limiting Belief: Customers won’t want to
pay the high price I’m asking for my high-
end products.
Allowing Statement: In this very moment,
1,000,000’s of entrepreneurs are being paid
full price for their high-end products…
Today, 100’s of people are putting amazing
amounts of money in the hands of
entrepreneurs in this very city…
Limiting Belief: I can only get business if
I pay for advertising
Allowing Statement: In this very
moment 1,000,000’s of people are
making purchases on items that were
not advertised.
Right now, 1,000’s of people are referring
people to other types of businesses, all
for free.
 Remember
The Law of Attraction does not care whether
you are remembering, pretending,
celebrating, playing, creating, complaining
or worrying . lt simply responds to what’s
in your Vibration Bubble.

So, find proof, rejoice and send out a positive

vibration.
 How to Feel Allowance

Take time to appreciate anything, It's

the feeling that’s attached to your
appreciation that is important,
Appreciation and gratitude help you
offer strong, positive vibrations.
Your job is not to try to figure
things out intellectually but
to let the law of attraction
.figure it out
 Wrapping up
Step 3 Allowing
1. Allowing-the 3ed Step of the Deliberate Attraction
process is the most important step.
2. Allowing is the absence of doubt.
3. Doubt is the negative vibration.
4. The negative vibration of doubt cancels the positive
vibration of a desire.
5. A limiting belief is a repetitive thought
6. When you say “I can’t because ….” you ‘re just
uncovered a limiting belief.
7. Finding proof helps you remove doubt .
8. Finding evidence that others are having or doing what
you want to have or to do helps remove your doubt.
9. The purpose of Allowing is to help you remove doubt.
 Allowing Tools 10
 Tool #1: Celebrate the Proof (Evidence) .
 Tool #2: Record Proof of the Law of Attraction
 Tool #3: Appreciation and Gratitude
 Tool #4: Use the Expression, "I'm in the Process of...“
 Tool #5: Use the Expression, "I've Decided...“
 Tool #6: Use the Expression, "Lots Can Happen...“
 Tool #7: Ask for Information
 Tool #8: Make Yourself an Attraction Box. .
 Tool #9: Create a Void or Vacuum
 Tool #10: Allow the Law of Attraction to Figure It Out.
The distance between your vibrations
and someone else's vibration is
equal to the amount of resistance
(Negativity) you feel when you are
.with them
Observe the wave of speaker
 Beyond 3-Step Formula
 Become more Abundant and Attract more
money.
 Relationships and your vibration.
 Parents and teachers :Learn How to
teach Law of Attraction to children.
 Abundance is a feeling ,Be more
deliberate to include the feeling of
abundance in your current vibration, You’r
Vibrational Bubble.
 Daily log to track Abundant-ness
 “I'm Abundant ,Today I attracted abundance
when:
 A friend paid for my lunch.
 During lunch I received a half hour of free
coaching.
 I had free transportation to and from the airport.
 I received a check from a client .
 I received a thank-you email.
 I got a deal on my new eyeglasses.
 Others….
 Wrapping up
Abundance and Attracting More Money
 Be more deliberate to include the feeling of
abundance in your current vibration.
 Become aware of many different sources of
abundance.
 Recording evidence of abundance increases your
attention to the vibration of abundance .
 Your job is to include the vibration of abundance
as often as possible in your Vibrational bubble.
 Celebrate the moment you notice you’ve
attracted something abundant.
 Three tools to help you attract
:abundance more deliberately

 Record evidence of your abundant-ness.

 Always say yes to money.
 Hold onto that check.
Relationships and Your
Vibrations
 Wrapping up
Relationship and you Vibration
 At every moment you are sending a vibration, either
positive or negative.

 When your vibration is high and someone else’s lower

than yours ,you feel resistance (Negative vibration)

 To help maintenance a high vibration –when dealing

with others who have a lower vibration ask them" So
what do you want” when they are complaining or
talking about what they don’t want.
 Four tips for attracting your
:ideal relationship
Use the Deliberate Attraction process to attract
your ideal relationship.
 - Don't tell any one your date was a flop.
 -Build a list.
 Move on if it is doesn't feel right.
 Tell why it matches; ”Spend time talking
about it ,and day dreaming about –what is
matching &give attention energy.
 Wrapping up
Law of Attraction to Children
 Simple words like vibe and secret are powerful
teaching tools.
 Ask questions that get kids to relate to concepts
from their own experience (buy-t)
 Use visual aids with younger children (Light
switch poster).
 Reinforce with game and rewards.
 Parents be sure to participate .
 Ask permission and give permission.
 Keep it FUN
 Switch On and Off
For Positive Vib and Negative Vib
Parents and Teachers: Learn How to Teach
. . . . . . .the Law of Attraction to Children

 Tool #1: Magnetic Board Game . .

 Tool #2: On-Off Light Switch
Poster.
 Tool #3: The Secret-Question
Reminder.
 Tool #4: Family or Group Meeting.
 ‫قانون الوفرة‬
‫‪ ” ‬ما عند الناس ينفذ وما عند هللا ال ينفذ“‬

‫‪”‬وما من شئ إال وعندنا خزائنه“‬

‫حديث‪:‬‬
‫‪ ”‬تفاءلوا بالخير تجدوه“‬