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Ch. 8 Relational Comm STU
Ch. 8 Relational Comm STU
COMMUNICATION
Chapter 8
WHY ENTER INTO A RELATIONSHIP?
Affection
Support
Companionship
Predictability
FORCES OF HUMAN ATTRACTION
Human Attraction- a force that brings people together
Proximity
Liking/perceived reciprocity of liking
Physical attractiveness
Similarity
Self-esteem
Anxiety
Social isolation
PROXIMITY
Geographic closeness
We are attracted to people we are close to, those who are
nearest us.
Affects who we meet and whether the relationship will
continue
Why? (
Another explanation: “interaction, not distance per se”
LIKING
We like and are attracted to people who like us.
“perceived reciprocity of liking”
-Increases our self-esteem
-Increases our self-worth
Sometimes regardless of other factors
PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
Physically attractive photos rated more likeable, more
friendly, more intelligent
But, relationship is somewhat curvilinear
SIMILARITY OR OPPOSITES?
“Birds of a feather, flock together” or “Opposites
attract?”
Actually little evidence that opposites attract.
Circumscribing
Less info exchange, topics
controlled, superficial comm,
less reciprocity
COMING APART CONT…
Stagnating
- Almost no communication (like that of strangers), holding it
together for some reasons.
Avoiding
- Avoid face to face, separate lives, avoid pain of relationship
loss
Terminating
- Summary statements, the longer the relationship, the longer and
more painful the termination
DUCK’S MODEL OF DISSOLUTION
Focuseson the relationship between cognition
and communication during the dissolution
process
Includes
the social network as well as
communication within the dyad