Easing Bedtime Battles • Preschoolers need 10 to 12 hours of sleep each day. So it is important to solve your bedtime battles. Power struggles are common with preschoolers after a full day of activity • Stick to a pre-determined bedtime routine, your evening will be more orderly. • Give Transition Time: to do this use a timer and positive tome of voice. Giving transition time works well for other situations. • Motivates: make it fun; turn it into a game like; beat the timer. • Special Time: sent some time aside to talk with your child. Responding to Aggression • Remove the child from situation. • Help the child clam down. Offer a soothing cloth, water to drink or back rub. • Teach your preschoolers alternatives to pushing and hitting by talking about what happen. • Take responsibility: start by an apology. • Limit Tv time • Do not fight in front of your child Dealing with Defiance • Acknowledge: know your child’s feelings • Offer choices: such as What would you like wear? • Set Limit: if you child listens offer rewards like; extra playtime. Take the No Spanking Pledge I will not shake, slap, or spank my child. I will not yell at, threaten, insult or tease my child. Add a Slide Title - 1
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Departments Summary As parents it is easy to loose our temper and react to our kids in an angry way, especially when we are tired and stressed. In addition to regret we usually feel afterwards, therefore good reasons to give up this harsh way of discipling. The American Academy of Pediatrics has concluded that using physical punishment like spanking, threatening, putdowns can be harmful to the child. There is a better way to guide our children’s behavior called Positive Discipline. It works by teaching children acceptable behavior in a consistent loving way by using age appropriate parenting technique's .
Positive Discipline for Kids: The Essential Guide to Manage Children's Behavior, Develop Effective Communication and Raise a Positive and Confident Child