AND MENTAL HEALTH Mental Mental health is the psychological well-being of a person. It is how a
Health person thinks, feels, and acts to
cope with life. Good mental health makes you function comfortably in the society. It denotes a sound state of mind that allows you to face and accept realities in life. Emotional health is a Mental component of mental health. If you are in control of your Health thoughts, feelings, and behavior, you are emotionally healthy. It means that you can deal positively with reality, regardless whether the actual situation is good or bad. Mental How you feel Health affects how you think and act. What are the ● Direct independent of the surrounding ● Functions Independently where and characteristics of a when appropriate ● Enjoys and contents oneself with simple healthy mind? everyday pleasures ● Capable of experiencing the full range of human emotion ● Deal with the world as it is rather than A person who has a healthy mind is the one wants it to be capable of doing: ● Accepts self, others, and life’s disappointments ● Shows no fear of the unknown and always open to new ideas What are the factors affecting mental health? No two individual have the same mental health status. Even an identical twin has different status. This is because there are different factors affecting one's mental health. Your mental health is a result of the interplay of heredity, environment background and personality, life experiences, and illnesses. Understanding Stress What is stress? Stress is the response of your body and mind to unpleasant or challenging events in life. Being tensed, uncomfortable, or worried about something can cause stress. These are called stressors. Stressors are situations, which make you feel worried or anxious. Eustress and Distress Did you know that some stressful situations also have positive effects? Stress is not always negative as most people think but also positive. Positive stress, also known as eustress, promotes growth and accomplishments. It motivates you to continue working However, when stress affects your mental and physical health, it is a distress or negative stress. Stressor is anything that causes stress. It can be What are the internal (chemical or biological agent) or external, common areas of brought by outside or stressors that environmental conditions or events. Any source of stress affect is considered stressor since it causes the release of cortisol, adolescents? the primary stress hormone. Knowing these stressors will help you cope with stress. Family Most stressors are going through parents major life changes, separation annulment having a parent remarry especially changes that having a seriousness of a affect family life. These member of the family having more arguments with changes threaten one's parents sense of security and self- having a parent lose his or esteem. The following are her job death of a family member examples of life changes being pregnant that affect family life and which may cause stress. School moving to a new school failing a grade fear of teachers too much work loads such as several examinations for a day homework and projects and participation in school activities being suspended from school Peers drinking alcohol, smoking or taking illegal drugs with peers breaking up from a relationship beginning to date being bullied wanting to belong to a group Community moving to a new community frequent noise from the neighborhood uncollected garbage crowded transportation Minor and simple everyday events may turn out to be stressful as well. These minor but frequent everyday events that cause stress are sometimes called "hassles”. Some examples of stressors are losing something, concerns of how you look, what to wear, or bad weather. Also, experiencing calamities like flash floods, fires, earth quakes, and other disasters may be very stressful. What are the common body reactions during stressful situations? It is also important to understand how your body reacts to situation so that you will know if you are stressed. You might be stressed when you see or observe the following signs: Physical Signs muscle tension headache pounding heart shortness of breath increased sweating dry mouth skin rash grinding teeth, nail biting Emotional Signs anger Irritability impatience nervousness forgetfulness inability to concentrate negative thinking Excessive worrying loss of interest self-criticism increased crying Behavioral Signs loss of appetite overeating drug abuse sleep problems restlessness hurrying and talking too fast criticizing others reckless behavior fidgeting w do you cope with stress? Learning how to cope with stress • Exercise and eat healthy is very important If you cannot manage • Think positive or handle stressors, it will affect your • Keep your mind active and mental and emotional health. First, you learn new things have to understand that stress is a normal part of life. Our body was • Be sociable designed to experience stress and be • Develop useful coping able to react to it. It is something that abilities can be managed. There are things that • Set attainable and you can do to cope with stress. reasonable goals • Take time out from stressful conditions Exercise and eat healthy.
If you are physically fit and healthy,
you can also think properly. Think positive You have to learn to see the positive side of even a negative situation For example, if you failed in an examination, this can be a good motivation for you to study harder in order not to fail again. Those "I cannot do this." thoughts can be inspired with "There's no harm in trying or "I will do better next time." Keep your mind active and learn new things
Train and prepare for conditions
causing stress. If speaking in crowd makes you nervous, take speech classes. Be sociable Have a group of encouraging friends. They can help you cope with stress positively. Learn to express your feelings in respectful, definite, and non- aggressive approach like "Shouting at me makes me angry, please stop shouting.” Develop useful coping abilities If you know that you will be stressed in doing a task, think of ways to make it less stressful An example is solving large tasks by splitting it into smaller, more attainable and manageable tasks. Set attainable and reasonable goals Aim high within your resources and capacity. Do not set goals that you know you can't achieve to avoid stress. If you do, you get pressured to attain those goals, making you more stressed. Be satisfied in having a competent or good enough accomplishments instead of trying to be always perfect. Take time out from stressful conditions Do relaxing activities like unwinding with friends and family or listening to music.