Psychology and Children

by
by
M.Zakir Ullah

Ocean International Shool

Objectives of the trainings
Psychology
Parenting
Parents mistakes
Children psychological disorders
Children behaviors
New Session 2020 new changes.
Student Success Traingle
What is parenting?
The ways, responsibilities and activities which are
used
for raising children is called parenting.
2.Parenting is an art. It needs methods and training,
and skills.
Two Types of Children
 Introvert and Extrovert
Introvert: likes loneliness, salience, thinks, speaks
when need, eat when feel hungry, Listens, walks alone,
happy to live alone, want to work alone, observe thinks
carefully. Directly put matters in the mind.
Extrovert: Likes interaction, talk, reacts quickly, speak
when don’t need. can’t put secrete for long time.
Happy to talk. Can’t get tired in talking, have
knowledge, eating whenever he wants, don’t feel shy,
asks questions, can’t sit quiet for long time.
Research Found:
All the children reflect their families.
Most of the parents lack the abilities of good
parenting.
Most parents are the hurdles in their children’s future.
Most parents are problematic because they don’t
know their children’s intelligence.
Great Quotation
“If we don’t shape our kids,
they will be shaped by
outside forces and they don’t
care what shapes our children
are in”
 Child!
Khalil Jebran: “ Parents must remember,
children are through you, they don’t belong to you,
They belong to God, you are only instrument
through which they came, you can only help them
to reach to their destiny, you are not the maker of
their destiny.
e.g. Children are..,.. Parents are bows
Child!
Every Child is born unique intelligence from the same
parents.
Children are very innocent. They learn from their
outer world.
They express their inner world in behavior.
A child is like a white page, the parents, teachers and
Photostat Machines, what the machine can draw, they
can draw.
Six Types of Parents
Independent Parents
Permissive Parents
Authoritarian Parents
Rigid Parents
Aggressive Parents
Bad Guider Parents
Causes of Psychological Disorders

Parents Mistakes
Food
Sugar
Parents Mistakes!
White Liars. Abusive Tongue
Bad Character. Ill-prayer
Aggressive
Bad-mood
Showing less Talent
Independence
No limits
Not giving Time
Not completing the promise
Food
Food!
Sugar!
Psychological Disorders
ODD
CD
ADHD
ASD
ODD (oppositional Defiant Disorder)
Easily annoyed, irritated, and bored
Having Frequent Tantrum
Argue frequently with adults, particularly, Parents.
Refuse to obey rules.
Seem to deliberately try to annoy other.
Have low self-esteem
Have low Frustration
Blame others for their actions.
CD (Conduct Disorder)
Refusing Parents.
Refusing obey Rules.
Tendency to use drugs.
No empathy for others.
Spiteful and vengeful behavior.
Being aggressive to animals.
Being aggressive to people, including physical or sexual abuse.
Use of weapons in physical fight.
Tendency to run away.
Law breaking rules, like stealing, shoplifting, lighting fire etc.
Live in gangs, suicidal tendency.
ADHD (Woman and Men)
Inattention
Forgetting.
Can’t sit for long time.
Interrupting others.
Talking too much.
Can’t focus on daily tasks.
Keenness toward negative behavior.
Complaining.
Husband blaming.
Not listening carefully when spoken to.
ASD (Attention Spectrum Disorder)
Weak in social interaction.
Isolated
Fed up with world.
Blaming Time.
Want to go to jungle to live,.
Expressing mourns.
Kinds of Learners
Kinesthetic learners
“As a Potter
moulds clay
into a pot,
So as a
teachers
moulds life of
a student”