Etiquettes for the

Celebrations and
Ceremonies of Life
Presented by: Pinky Enerio, Lynn Holy Galisa, & Analyne
Gamalo
 What is… ?

• Celebrations
- is a special enjoyable event/party which people are celebrating
something.

• Ceremonies
- is a formal gathering of individuals for an intended purpose.
 Celebrations and Ceremonies of Life:

01 Funerals 04 Graduation

02 Religious Services 05 Wedding

03 Debut
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Funerals 04

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1. Dress Conservatively
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This isn’t the time for fashion statements other
than one of respect for the solemnity of the occasion and/or the
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traditions of the family.
2. Sign the registry 04
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Its purpose is to allow the family of the deceased
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appreciate those who attended rather than depreciate those who 05
didn't.
3. Respect the rites 06
Be observant and respectful. Stand and Pig sit when others
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blend in with the tone and traditions of the occasion.
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4. Feel free to decline

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5. Don’t be too jolly 03

Behavior that’s too upbeat might be misinterpreted as a lack of
respect for the somber nature of the occasion. 04
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6. Express your sympathy 05
Either a hug or a handshake can be accompanied by a sad look
that says “I feel for your pain". 06
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Avoid saying any and all of the following in expressing your
sympathy:
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“I know just how you feel.”
“You must be heartbroken.” 03
“It’s much better this way.”
“At least he’s out of his pain.” 04
“Now you can get on with your life.”
“You never liked her much anyway.” 05
“I suppose you’ll get the house?”
“Your parents can always have another kid.” 06
“I’m sure he wouldn’t want us to be sad.”
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7. Send a flowers
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8. Write a letter of condolence 03

This, like a thank-you note, is nonnegotiable.
Write it by hand, in ink, on good quality personal note paper. 04
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Do not send one of those tacky store-bought sympathy
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“Roses are red, 06

Violets are blue,
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Sorry he’s dead,
Boo-hoo, boo-hoo”.
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Correct letter in writing your condelence:
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Dear Mr. and Mrs. Bereaved,
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I was so sorry to hear the sad news of Billy’s death. His
friendship was very special to me. When I came to
Buford in the middle of my freshman year, he went out 04
of his way to make me feel welcome. I don’t know what
I would have done without his friendship (and his
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answers in math!).
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
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Sincerely yours,
Arthur Graves
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Religious 04

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 Follow these guidelines to 01
avoid offending the Higher Powers-That-Be:
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• Respond promptly to the invitation.

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• Arrive on time.
• Don’t skip the ceremony and just go to the party.
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• Don’t talk during the service.
• If you have to go to the bathroom, Simply exit quietly—preferably
during aboisterous moment in the ceremony. 05
• Don’t tell jokes - no environment is more conducive to
uncontrollable fits of giggling than a house of worship. 06
• Dress appropriately.
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• Participate in the rituals - you should stand when others
stand, sing when others sing, and honor the traditions of 03
worship practiced by that congregation.
• Don’t take the money - At some services, a plate full of 04
money will be passed.
• Send a gift - Honoring your friend and the occasion with a 05
gift is a thoughtful thing to do. It’s best if you don’t bring your
present to the church or synagogue. 06
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Debut 04

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If you’re a young woman whose parents are planning
to debut you, here are your responsibilities: 02

• Be mindful of your family’s financial limitations.

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• Remember that the true purpose of a coming out party is to
present you to your parents’ society.
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• Find a common denominator for music and food so members of all
generations present will be able to partake without shocking
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themselves or others.
• Welcome and chat with all guests.
• Dress properly. 06
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• Introduce your friends to your family, to your parents’ guests,
and to each other. 03
• Pay attention to all of your escorts.
• Smile and be patient with adults who say “Whatever happened 04
to the little girl I used to know?”
• Acknowledge all presents promptly. 05
• Thank your parents.
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Graduation 04

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 Here are some pointers for proper commencement 01
behavior:
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1. Send out invitations
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Typically,these are provided by the School.

2. Send out announcements 04

These you send to friends and relatives who would be

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thrilled to hear of your accomplishments.
3. Don’t fish for present 06

It's tacky to blanket the populace with news of your

graduation
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4. Shake, don’t stir
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When you go up to recieve your diploma resfict
physical contact with the principal to a handshake.
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5. Thank your parents
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Does it matter what you 02

wear under your gown at
graduation? 03

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The safest bet is to
follow your school’s
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dress code for
the occasion. 06
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Do you have any tips
for giving valedictory 02
address without
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offending anyone?
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Keep it short. Don’t swear.
Hurt no one. Tell a few inside
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jokes. Radiate idealism. Thank
all parents and teachers. Don’t
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trip when you leave the stage.
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Wedding
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 Here’s what you need to know: 01

BEING A BRIDESMAID 02
Their duties are to look pretty and support the dress
industry. 03
- For a wedding with all the trimmings- you’ll need to
attend a fitting for your gown (which you’ll be expected to 04
pay for)
- bridal showers (bring an umbrella) 05
- prenuptial parties -photography sessions
- wedding rehearsals 06
- postnuptial receptions and parties. (Don’t forget to go to
the wedding.)
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BEING AN USHER
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• If a lady arrives by herself, offer her your right arm. (She
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must give it back, though.)
• If a group of ladies arrives, offer your arm to the eldest.
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(You may guess their ages but never ask them.)
• If a lady arrives with a male escort, the escort should
follow meekly in your wake. 05
• If a male guest arrives, there’s no need to offer him your
arm unless he needs assistance. 06
• If a family arrives, escort the mother. Hubby and kids will
follow.
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“What are you supposed to say when you go
through the receiving line at a wedding?” 02

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You congratulate the groom. To do this, say
“Congratulations.” You never congratulate 04
the bride. Instead, you extend your best
wishes for her happiness, as in “I wish you 05
all the happiness in the world.”
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Don’t be rude! 04

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