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ATTRACTION &
RELATIONSHIPS
PSY112
What is interpersonal attraction?
The desire to a_______ another individual
Need for Affiliation
Attractive people make more money (Hamermesh & Biddle, 1994) and get better
job ratings from bosses (Hosoda et al., 2003)
Attractive infants & children evaluated more positively, where negative
behaviors more likely to be dismissed as atypical (Casey & Ritter, 1996; Dion, 1972)
Similarity
Most important
(similarity)
determinant of
attraction (Gaunt, 2006;
Montoya & Horton, 2004)
Physical attractiveness
We are attracted to those who m______ us in physical
attractiveness
Estimate same social exchange value
Less rejection
“Opposites attract”?
Traits in potential partners
Men prefer:
Younger women
Youth signify beauty
Women prefer:
O_____ men
Maturity signify higher social
status
Looks-for-status exchange
Complementarity
Evolutionary Perspective (Buss & Schmidt, 1993)
Factors that increases chances of genes being passed on to the
next generation
Men Women
Highly selective due to biological
Seek young and & physically limitations
attractive women Prefer men who possess (potential)
Infatuation
Physiological changes:
Rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath
Heightened physiological arousal
Engages dopamine-pathways
Increases in o________
Passionate Love
Involves sexual attraction but accompanied by strong emotional
arousal
Desire to be physically close
Intense need to be loved just as much
Elation when reciprocated; jealousy, desperation when not returned
Recurring fear that relationship will e _ _
Passionate Love
Equity
Ratio of costs & rewards similar for both partners (Adams, 1965)
Unbalanced relationships lead to dissatisfaction/unhappiness
Characteristics of Healthy Relationships
P_______ illusions
Those who see virtues in their partner that their partners
cannot see in themselves tend to be happier (Murray & Holmes, 1999)
Social support
Partner support related to
Decrease in stress
Increase in physical health & happiness
Increase in satisfaction & commitment
(Coyne et al., 2001; Dehle et al., 2001; Feeney, 2004)
Characteristics of Healthy Relationships
Forgiveness
A conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or
vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of
whether they actually deserve your forgiveness
Forgiveness can keep troubled relationships going (McCullough et al., 1997)
Commitment
The wish or intention to stay in a relationship
Higher commitment predicts relationship satisfaction & trust (Kurdek, 2000;
Wieselquist et al., 1999)
Trust predicts relationship s________