(2) Faces of Stress I. Threat or Challenge The story of Michael and Jason exemplifies how stress can either help or hurt you. Stress could either harness the anxiety and accomplish tasks that at first seem impossible or could allow yourself to become so burdened by it that it aggravates the situation. Michael demonstrated what stress physicians call eustress, which literally means "good stress" or "positive stress" when he utilized his feelings of stress and anxiety and transformed them into motivation. II. Happy Stress It is a common misconception that stress can only be related to negative events and circumstances. In the story of Hannah, her health has been affected by the stress caused by activities that she enjoys. Although you may not notice it as profoundly as stress that comes from negative experiences, positive experiences are equally stressful. These are the (2) two faces of stress – eustress and distress. Stress could, therefore, be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on one's reaction to it. When you allow stress to discourage you or deflate your spirits, you become powerless to face the source of stress. But if you only react positively to the pressures of the different stressors in your life – to view them as mere challenges and obstacles you would have the capacity and the drive to address these stressors head on. When you experience eustress, you become motivated to find ways in which you could address the problems causing stress, which would, therefore, open the possibility of eliminating the source of stress altogether. Coping with Stress in Middle and Late Adolescence Stress is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances. This is the response of individuals to stressors, which are circumstances and events that threaten them and tax their coping abilities. (J. Santrock, 2008). Stress may come from many different sources for adolescents among the sources are life events, daily hassles, and sociocultural factors. Environmental Factors (Life events and daily hassles) Think about your personal life; what events have the most stress for you? Break-ups, death of someone you loved, failed grades, family problems, or physical injuries may cause tremendous stress on you. Some health psychologists studied the impact of life events and daily hassles. People who have had major life changes (loss of a close relative, a divorce of parents) have a higher incidence of cardiovascular disease and early death than those who do not. Sociocultural Factors Sociocultural factors may help determine which stressors individuals are likely to encounter, whether they will most likely perceive events as stressful or not, and how they believe stress should be confronted (Berry, 2007). In other studies, females are fight or flight response than males are. They argue that females are likelier to "tend and befriend." Females often respond to situations may feel hopeless now, but my life will probably get better likely to respond to stressful and threatening situations with a by protecting themselves and others thru nurturing behaviors and forming alliances with a larger social group, especially the ones populated by women. Coping Strategies According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry in 2015, teens can decrease stress with the following behaviors and techniques: 1. Exercise and eat regularly. 2. Avoid excess caffeine intake, which can increase feelings of anxiety and agitation. 3. Avoid illegal drugs, alcohol, and tobacco. 4. Learn relaxation exercises (abdominal breathing and muscle relaxation techniques). 5. Develop assertiveness training skills. For example, state feelings politely and not overly aggressive or passive ways: ("I feel angry when you yell at me" "Please stop yelling.") 10. Take a break from stressful situations. Activities like listening to music, talking to a friend, drawing, writing, or spending time with a pet can reduce stress. 11. Build a network of friends who help you cope in a positive way.
By using these and other techniques, teenagers can begin to
manage stress. If a teen talks about or shows signs of being overly stressed, a consultation with a child and adolescent psychiatrist or qualified mental health professional may be helpful. QUESTIONS? THANK YOU AND HAVE A GOOD DAY!
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