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The most desirable result of the group discussion is consensus, where everyone agrees on the
solution. But this may not always be feasible. Other situations may necessitate a majority vote,
third-party mediation or arbitration, or even a temporary suspension of the discussion.
Criticism
Another type of conflict that often arises in the workplace is giving and receiving criticism. Even
though criticism is normal, it is often uncomfortable for all parties involved. Instead of avoiding
it, why not learn to better often and receive criticism? If you are a leader or manager, you may
find yourself in the position to offer criticism to an employee. To make this more comfortable,
choose a setting that is private and nonthreatening.
Present your viewpoint with specific details, and provide objective data where possible. Finally, work out a
plan for change so both parties heave realistic expectations. If you find yourself on the receiving end of
criticism, request examples of the behavior and avoid becoming defensive, as this will only heighten negative
emotions. Try to paraphrase your responses so both of you agree on the issue. Admit when you are wrong or
have room to grow, and ask how you can improve. By keeping the conversation collaborative and focused on
a solution, you will maintain emotional control. We all make mistakes – what will set you apart is how
effectively you learn from them.
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