but first of all, … life makes you’ (Nigel Owens, 2019). SELF ACCEPTANCE Maybe one thing we could all agree is that, one of the hardest things to do in life is to fully accept ourselves. Sometimes it is easier to accept what has happened and what others have been done but harder to accept how we behaved and acted that time or who we are. SELF ACCEPTANCE In a well-being programs, it includes to bring your “full potential” and “best version” of yourself. To achieve our best self or our full potential, accepting ourselves is fundamental. We enable ourselves to bring out the best version when we accept and embrace who we are without conditions. SELF ACCEPTANCE Before you look outward too much, it is important to look within and accept who you are. Looking at yourself in the mirror, eye to eye and being good with what you see and feel is a great start. Individuals have great qualities as well as weaknesses. SELF ACCEPTANCE When we can fully sit with ourselves, we can sit with anything that comes in life. Meditation is a great tool to help you learn to sit with yourself and build self- acceptance. SELF ACCEPTANCE According to Dr. Harry Barry, he stated that “Self-acceptance’ believes it is importance to focus on unconditional self-acceptance while taking full responsibility for our behavior. If I fail, I am not a failure, I simply failed at a task. The only failure in life is not getting back up again.” SELF ACCEPTANCE Self-acceptance differs to one another. One might accept himself easily than the others. But even if it is hard for you, it does not mean it is impossible. RHGP/ HOMEROOM (2 SPIRITUAL) MEDITATION Meditation isn’t a cure-all, it can certainly provide some much-needed space in your life. Sometimes, that’s all we need to make better choices for ourselves, our families, and our communities. And the most important tools you can bring with you to your meditation practice are a little patience, some kindness for yourself, and a comfortable place to sit. MEDITATION Here are five reasons to meditate: 1. Understanding your pain 2. Lower your stress 3. Connect better 4. Improve focus 5. Reduce brain chatter HOW TO MEDITATE? 1) Take a seat - Find place to sit that feels calm and quiet to you. 2) Set a time limit - If you’re just beginning, it can help to choose a short time, such as five or 10 minutes. 3) Notice your body - You can sit in a chair with your feet on the floor, you can sit loosely cross-legged, you can kneel—all are fine. Just make sure you are stable and can stay in for a while. 4) Feel your breath - Follow the sensation of your breath as it goes in and as it goes out. HOW TO MEDITATE? 5) Notice when your mind has wandered - Inevitably, your attention will leave the breath and wander to other places. When you get around to noticing that your mind has wandered—in a few seconds, a minute, five minutes—simply return your attention to the breath. 6) Be kind to your wandering mind - Don’t judge yourself or obsess over the content of the thoughts you find yourself lost in. Just come back. HOW TO MEDITATE? 7) Close with kindness - When you’re ready, gently lift your gaze (if your eyes are closed, open them). Take a moment and notice any sounds in the environment. Notice how your body feels right now. Notice your thoughts and emotions. That’s it! That’s the practice. You focus your attention, your mind wanders, you bring it back, and you try to do it as kindly as possible (as many times as you need to). The key is to commit to sit every day, even if it’s for five minutes. “…the most important moment in your meditation practice is the moment you sit down to do it. Because right then you’re saying to yourself that you believe in change, you believe in caring for yourself, and you’re making it real. (Sharon Salzberg), a meditation teacher. 12 minutes of meditation, 5 days a week can protect and strengthen your ability to pay attention. RHGP/ HOMEROOM (3 SPIRITUAL) FINDING INNER PEACE Inner peace is defined as the state of physical and spiritual calm despite many stressors. Finding your peace of mind means attaining happiness, contentment, and bliss no matter how difficult things get in your life. Finding happiness and inner peace does not depend on a problem-free life or the absence of conflict because we all go through challenges in our lives. BENEFITS OF FINDING INNER PEACE Finding your peace of mind results in fewer worries, anxieties, stressors, and fears. Inner peace is linked to achieving self- actualization. BENEFITS OF FINDING INNER PEACE • Better everyday function in handling your day-to-day affairs • Increased energy levels and improved emotional management • Less drama, fewer worries, less stress, and positive thoughts • A kind and compassionate treatment of other people • Not being easily affected by society’s negative comments • The ability to learn how to deal with difficult emotions • The ability to have a clear judgment when dealing with stressful challenges • Better sleep quality WAYS OF FINDING INNER PEACE 1. Spend Time in Nature When you spend time in nature, like taking short walks or appreciating nature, you may find serenity. Spending time with nature and taking a deep breath can prevent your mind from thinking about stressful thoughts. This is not a one-time thing, but long-term exposure to nature is an opportunity for you to deal with life’s everyday stress. 2. Meditate Meditation has many proven benefits for our physical, emotional, and mental health. In particular, practicing mindfulness meditation has been seen to decrease anxiety and prevent depression. You can try yoga, read a book on meditation, listen to a guided meditation on a podcast, or practice 40–45 minutes of mindfulness meditation every day at home. These can all help you find your path to peace and happiness. WAYS OF FINDING INNER PEACE 3. Be Grateful Finding your peace and taking care of your well-being means being grateful for what you have, not complaining about what you lack in life. When you appreciate what you have, you’ll find more peace. It has been found that individuals with a grateful heart and the ones contented with their life’s blessings find peace and happiness within. 4. Take Responsibility for Your Actions Taking responsibility and accountability for all your actions takes a whole level of maturity. Even when it’s hard, you’ll find peace and happiness by admitting your mistakes. Accept criticisms and use them to improve yourself, as accepting that you made mistakes will make you a more resilient person. WAYS OF FINDING INNER PEACE 5. Don’t Let Your Past Mistakes Define You We all have mistakes in the past we’re not proud of, but dwelling on your past mistakes will take the best of you. To find your peace and happiness, let go of your regrets. Remember that these mistakes made you a better person. 6. Love Yourself Self-care is important to finding peace and happiness. Loving yourself means looking after your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health. These include eating healthy, exercising regularly, and looking after your overall well-being. When you have a healthy relationship with yourself and practice self-care, you also project this positive energy toward others. Imagine how happy and peaceful your life can be when you feel good about yourself. Healthy self-love also results in good relationships with the people around you. WAYS OF FINDING INNER PEACE 7. Practice Acceptance and Contentment In finding peace and happiness, acceptance and contentment are key. Accept that you will have problems in life and learn how to deal with them. Being contented means having emotional, physical, or even financial contentment. The desire for material things and financial wealth does not excite an individual with inner peace. 8. Declutter Decluttering can help with having a peaceful mind. This does not only mean decluttering your things and cleaning your home but putting order in your life. Start taking control of your life by organizing your house, tasks, and thoughts. RHGP/ HOMEROOM (4 SPIRITUAL) BUILDING MENTAL FORTITUDE Mental strength, or emotional resilience, is how effectively someone deals with challenges, pressures and stressors they may face. Working on your mental strength can lead to greater life satisfaction and help protect against future mental health issues. STRATEGIES TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGHT 1.) Acknowledge your feelings “Just to be able to check-in with yourself and name your feelings is so important,” says Duke. “Because without that mental check-in, you can’t start to give yourself more of what you might need.” STRATEGIES TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGHT
2.) Practice being self-compassionate
If you’re worried you offended someone or weren’t as patient with your little sibling as you wanted to be, try practicing self-compassion. STRATEGIES TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGHT 3.) Assess your challenge “We often interpret inconveniences as catastrophes, making that distinction can be helpful. Because if it’s an inconvenience, then you can start to problem-solve and brainstorm. Look at all the other times in your life when you’ve been able to solve problems successfully.” STRATEGIES TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGHT 4.) Take small steps toward what you want to avoid When you’re anxious or depressed, you tend to avoid things you don’t want to do. You may also procrastinate. (Hello, school activities) “Practicing taking small steps will not only help to alleviate anxiety, but it can also improve your self- esteem and mood,” STRATEGIES TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGHT 5.) Maintain a healthy lifestyle All those things you can do to lead a healthy life — exercise, a well-balanced diet and sleep — can also help when it comes to your emotional resilience. “I don’t believe that you can have mental strength or emotional resiliency without having a proper sleep schedule. Also, limit your social media use and news consumption.” STRATEGIES TO BUILD MENTAL STRENGHT 6.) Externalize how you feel If something is bothering you, don’t keep your feelings bottled up. Work on vocalizing those feelings through assertive communication. “Whether that’s through journaling, therapy or talking to your best friend, the practice of naming your feelings and communicating them effectively, as well as having a supportive and empowering social circle, is really important,”