Professional Documents
Culture Documents
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Objectives
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Bioecological Theory (Bronfenbrenner)
• Microsystem Effects
– Parents who have love and support from another adult tend
to provide more nurturance for child.
• Exosystem Effects
– Parenting challenges and successes influenced by
workplace (or neighborhoods) stresses and joys
• Macrosystem Effects
– The economy, government, political climate, tax laws, and
availability of services affect what parents can do for their
children.
• Chronosystem Effects
– Historical time periods affect parenting. 4
Developmental Contextualism
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Parenting
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Brainstorm
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Parental Responsibilities
• Economic
– Parents meet the needs of children.
• Nurturance and Child Care
– Traditionally, mother is typically the primary
caregiver.
– Parents will have better parenting when they have
social support
– Parents choose child-care arrangements.
• Attachment and Socialization
– Parents nurture child’s psychological well-being
– Parents are child’s link to society. 8
Parental Responsibilities
• Mothering
– Monitoring – surveillance for safety
– Nurturing child for meeting the child’s dependency
needs
– Responsive caregiving – social partner to support
child’s sense of trust
• Fathering
– Roles for fathers have changed due primarily to
mothers spending more time in the work force.
– Father interaction has increased to 67% of time of
mothers on weekdays and to 87% time of mothers
on weekends
– Father availability is related to job stress and
positive work experiences.
– Father responsibility is related to fathers’
perspectives on importance of nurturance.
– https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=__OVH9UnDVk
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(Redefining fatherhood)
Parenting Style
Two dimensions
- Acceptance/responsiveness - Extent
to which parents are supportive, sensitive
to needs, affectionate.
- Demandingness/control - How much
control over decisions lie with parent as
opposed to child.
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Parenting Style
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Effects on Development
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Effects on Development
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Activity
Each group will deal with the following situations according to a
specific parenting style:
- The child is watching TV. The parents announce that it is time
for bed, but the child refuses to go.
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Physical Punishment
• Parents are more like to hit/spank if:
- They are young
- They were hit/spanked as children
- They are being hit by significant others
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Misbehavior
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Most common reason for misbehavior:
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ATTENTION
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OTHER BEHAVIORS
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Solution to All Misbehavior:
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Solution to Attention Problems:
• Ignore if possible.
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Solution to Power Problems
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Solution to Power Problems
• Look for a mutual agreement upon solution that will end the
power struggle.
Offer Choices
• When possible, offer two choices. Just make sure you can live
with either choice.
• For example, if you want your child to put his clothes away and
he’s watching TV, say, “Would you rather put your clothes away
now or do you want to wait until a commercial break?” Either
choice will get the job done. 32
Solution to Power Problems
Provide a Consequence
• Sometimes it’s necessary to provide a negative consequence.
Instead of arguing or trying to force a child to do something, stay
calm and issue a single warning.
• Don’t provide multiple warnings or repeat your instructions over and
over. Simply make it known: “You can comply, or you can lose a
privilege.” Then, leave the choice up to the child.
• For example, instead of arguing or begging your child to go to bed,
provide a warning. Say, “If you don’t go to bed now, you will lose your
toy bear for 24 hours.” If your child doesn’t go to bed, she loses her
toy bear and there’s no arguing about it.
• Don’t threaten to take away anything that you wouldn't follow through
with doing. If you make idle threats and don’t follow through, you’ll be
teaching your child that you don’t mean what you say. 33
Solution to Revenge Problems:
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Feeling Inadequate
• https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-tCCF8I-w8
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Time In
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