Personality

Development
• Personality development is defined as the development
process that enhances the personality, attitude, behavior
and making unique from the crowd.
• Everyone possesses the qualities that make him/her
different from the rest.
• Every person has a mix of good and bad qualities, which
determines their response towards people and situations.
• The factors, such as genetics, environment, parenting,
etc. can influence personality among different people.
• Research of psychologists reveals that a person can
easily change his/her personality if he/she wishes to do
so. These traits are stable over time and can be
improved if a person wants to.
Personality development tips and tricks
• Don't compare ourselves with others
We should never compare ourselves with others. Everyone possesses
different qualities; It lowers our confidence and self-esteem. It acts as
an obstacle between our personalities and does not let us bloom our
strengths.
• Be kind to everyone
We are always taught to be kind to others since our childhood. Still,
some of us fail to do so. Studies show that kindness to self and others
brings happiness, prosperity, wisdom and other positive traits.

– Remember that we deserve kindness and affection from ourselves.

– Remember that we have no right to be unkind to others.
– We should be aware of the emotions and feelings of others.
– Remember that mistakes are a part of life. Learn to start again after
learning from our mistakes.
• Be friendly
Some people can easily talk to anyone around them. Such persons
are more likable; No one wants to communicate with a straight face
person. We should learn to smile. Be friendly and try to help others
as much as we can.
• Be passionate
Such people are different from the crowd. They value the power of
time, are obsessed, and have strong beliefs. It makes us live our life
to the fullest. So, we should be passionate about our life despite any
opposed situations.
• Add style to our look
Adding styles to our look enhances our personality. The keys to add
styles are enthusiasm and a relaxed mind. Never let anyone distract
the concentration at the workplace. Always try to keep the mind
calm and relaxed.
• Don't fear mistakes
Mistakes often happen, and there is nothing to worry about. It is a
part of life. Learn from the mistakes and try to come back with
more confidence.
• Practice communication skills
Communication is the successful transfer of views and feelings. It
is essential to practice good communication skills. Such skills help
us to develop healthy relations and confidence. Our positive
behavior, body language, gestures, facial expressions, etc. also play
a vital role to enhance our personality.
• Focus on the appearance
The dressing is a significant part of our appearance. We usually
have different dressing styles for office, parties, colleges, etc. A
person should be well dressed according to the environment; It is
the first impression on the people around us. But, the dressing does
not mean to be uncomfortable. Try to dress in comfortable attire.
• Do not Copy anyone
During a group discussion or any communication, some people
copy the speaker due to a lack of information. It creates a negative
impression. Everyone has its perspective. We should try to
represent the information in our own words.
• Be strong
Never let the pressure to overcome the skills. Be strong and face
every task with confidence. There are two outcomes of a challenge,
either lose or win. Lose does not mean that we are not capable.
Instead, we learn something invaluable.
How well we perform during a challenge is an outstanding
achievement. Do not focus on the final results. Be strong, and
always try to give the best.
• Always focus and maintain eye contact
Lack of focus and eye contact shows the disinterest of an
individual. It not only distracts the mind of the speaker but also
creates a negative impact.
• Remember the power of breath
Sometimes, it becomes challenging to stay calm during pressure,
headache, etc. In such situations, a deep breath can give us freedom
from pressure and fear. Once we become habitual, the power of a
deep breath will diminish all our stress.
• Be confident
Confidence defines the strength and ability to face problems. It not
only enhances our personality but also removes our discomfort for
effective communication. Don't let overconfidence to overcome
ourselves. Overconfidence lets us misjudge our learning, values,
opinion and abilities.
• Set the goal
Many people believe in hard work, but do not have a direction or
goal. Note down what we want to become and what directions can
take us to that goal. We should follow the SMART goal.
Importance of personality development
• Overcome stress issues
Studies show that personality development can help us to overcome
the stress issues. It also helps us interact with people quickly and
convey our thoughts without hesitation positively.
• Makes us smart
Personality development makes us smarter. It enhances our
presentable skills to stand out from the crowd. It is essential in every
field, such as sales, marketing, job interviews, meetings, etc. It is a
competitive skill, which is crucial to develop in a competitive world.
• Boosts confidence
Personality development helps us to enhance our skills, boost
confidence, and soften our behavior. It first focuses on understanding
self. Our confidence reflects our communication. The more
confidence, the better we communicate with others.
• Improves our attire
Most people are not aware of the dressing style,
which is different according to the occasions.
It addresses the following styles:
– Do not wear tight clothes.
– Our attire should be neat and clean.
– Our clothes should be properly ironed.
– Polish the shoes for any formal outgoing, such as job
interviews.
• Makes us reliable
People with good personalities are often looked
for suggestions and problem sharing. Hence, it
plays a vital role in the development of a person.
• Develop positivity
Positivity helps us to deal with difficult situations with
ease. It means that we can quickly analyze the
problematic situation with a good personality and solve it
to resolve them. It also helps in terms of decision-making,
relationships, professional workspace, and personal life.
• Makes new friends
Personality development teaches us to behave and
respond positively. Everyone wants to talk to the people
who have a positive attitude, good behavior, and smile on
their face. People attract to such personalities. It helps to
gain respect and acceptance in society, workplace, school,
or any organization.