It is important to know how to write a letter of a personal nature. Personal
letters are not as formal as business letters and can be handwritten or typed. Informal letters can also indulge inslang or colloquialisms. It is optional to include the date in the upper left-hand corner of your letter. You can just jump straight to an informal salutation, ending with a comma in lieu of a colon. In the body, the first paragraph is usually an introduction setting out the reason you are writing. The next paragraphs go into more detail. The closing paragraph summarizes what you've had to say. You may want to thank the recipient or ask questions. The closing comes after two skipped lines and can also be informal. If you want to add a P.S. or P.P.S. to your personal letter, skip another line and start the P.S. on the left-hand side of the paper. To write a personal letter, there are 3 methods: A. Beginning the letter 1. Date the letter 2. Write a salutation B. Drafting the body of the letter 1. Begin with some pleasantries 2. Share news and personal details 3. Reference topics that are relevant to your friend C. Closing the letter 1. Wrap it up 2. Write a closing 3. Consider including a postscript A. Beginning the Letter 1. Date the letter. If you're taking the trouble to write a letter by hand, it's nice to add a date on the top left corner of the paper. Many people save letters for years to come, and they like to be able to see what day and year it was written to reminisce about earlier times. Write out the date - for example, "May 18, 2020" - or abbreviate it using only numbers indicating the month, day and year. 2. Write a salutation. The beginning of a letter, whether it's handwritten or in the form of an email, is called a salutation. That's where you address the person to whom you're writing by name - for example, "Dear Emily" or "Hello, Skylar." Think about the nature of your relationship with the letter recipient, as well as your own preferences and style, and choose your greeting accordingly. For formal style, you can use “dear [name]” and for casual style, you can use “hi [name]” or “hello [name]”. And for your intimate, you can use “dearest [name]”, “sweet [name]”, “my [name]. Don’t forget to end your greeting with a comma (,). B. Drafting The Letter 1. Begin with some pleasantries. The first paragraph of a friendly letter is usually warm and lighthearted. It's a way to set the tone of the letter, letting the recipient know that what's to follow will be more friendly than businesslike or serious. Use the first few lines to say an extended hello, tell a joke, or reference the season. "How are you doing?" or "How have you been?" are common ways to start a letter. Asking a question helps make the letter feel like part of a longer conversation. If you'd like a reply to your letter, feel free to pepper it with questions throughout. 2. Share news and personal details. Now it's time to get to the meat of the letter, your purpose for writing it. Why are you opening this correspondence? Do you want to get back in touch with a long lost friend, express to someone that you are missing them, or thank them for helping you out in some way? Be forthright, open, and articulate to communicate your message effectively. 3. Reference topics that are relevant to your friend. What was your friend up to last time you talked? Was she on the verge of breaking up with her boyfriend? Was he in the middle of a difficult season on the soccer team? Follow up by making references and asking questions to show you're interested in your friend's life. Closing the letter 1. Wrap it up. Write a final paragraph sending your friend or loved one best wishes. The last paragraph is usually lighter in tone than the body, but it should match the general feel of the entire letter. Try to end the letter on a note that will leave your friend with positive feelings. Reiterate the purpose of the letter. For example, "I hope you can come!“ Encourage your friend to write back. If you'd like a response, write, "Hope to hear from you soon," or, "Please write back!" 2. Write a closing. The closing you choose should be in keeping with the feel of your letter, whether it is traditional or more casual in tone. Like the salutation, it should be determined by your relationship with the recipient. Follow the closing by signing your name. • If you want to write a formal closing, consider "Sincerely," "Warmly," or "Best wishes." • If your letter is more casual in tone, try "Yours," "Take care," or "Cheers." • For a more intimate closing, choose "Love," "Much love," or "Thinking of you." 3. Consider including a postscript. A postscript, or PS, is often included at the end of friendly letters as a way to add information that isn't important enough to merit its own paragraph in the body of the letter. You could also write a playful joke, or leave it out altogether. In any case, make sure it matches your letter's tone and leaves your recipient with the feeling you want him or her to have.