great and complex history. It is influenced by most of the people we have interacted with. A blend of the Malayo-Polynesian and Hispanic culture with the influence from Chinese, Indians Arabs, and other Asian cultures really contribute to the customs and traditions of the Filipinos.
The Filipino Customs
and Traditions 1. Having close family ties is also one of their unique traits. It is one of the outstanding cultural values that Filipinos have.
2.The Bayanihan-Its the spirit
of communal unity or effort to achieve a parcular object.
3.Courtship - We Filipinos are very romantic
when it comes to heart affairs Serenading or harana in Tagalog is one of the most popular forms of courtship to show that a man is very serious with his intentions to a woman. 4.Religion- The Philippines is one of he predominantly Roman Catholic nationsinAsia-Pacific. Their habit of going to church and often praying reflects that Filipinos have a deep faith and belief when it comes to religion. 5.Superstition-In the Philippines supersatious beliefs have grown throughout the country. 6. Marriage and Wedding Customs-In the country, marriage is a sacred union of man and women after a period 7.Death- Death in the Philippines is one of the most important occasions in family life. For many Filipinos a death of a relative is an opportunity to strengthen ties in the family.
8.Society - The Philippines is a
combined society, both singular and plural form. It is singular as one nation, but plural in that it fragmented geographically and culturally. 9.Christmas in the Philippines is considered as one of the biggest holidays in the archipelago We earned the distinction of celebrating the world's longest Christmas season.
10 Fiestas - Every town and city in the
Philippines has a fiesta of its own whatever time of the year it is, there's sure to be a fiesta going on somewhere. Festas in the Philippines are held to celebrate a patron saint. 11.Living with Parents-Filipinos highly value the presence of family more than anything Adult children living with their parents are another Filipine traditional that make them The Filipino people are very resilient - in times of calamities and catastrophe Filipinos always manage to rise above the challenge Instead of wallowing they manage to pick themselves up and smile. Filipinos take pride in their families-In the Philippines, it is family first,So whether you are part of the immediate family or you belong to the third or fourth generation you are treated as a family member Sometimes, even the closest of friends are considered family, too Filipinos are very religious- In all corners of a Filipino house, you can find brazen images of crosses and other religious paraphernalia. They go to church every Sunday, or sometimes even twice or three times a week. Filipinos are very respectful- From the moment they are born into this world, they are already taught how to be respectful by using these simple catchphrases-po and opo words that end sentences when addressing elders They have a 5. Filipinos help one another More popularly known as bayanihan. Filipinos help one another-without expecting anything in return-so that undertaking their tasks and responsibilities become much easier. 6.Filipinos value traditions and culture-For Filipinos, traditions in their home and in their family are important. They usually set aside a specific day for a certain celebration like festivals, birthday parties, reunions, etc. And of course, every gathering is dedicated to keeping up with each other over sumptuous 7.Filipinos have the longest Christmas celebrations-Even as early as August you can hear Christmas songs and jingles being played in the malls or in the restaurants in the Philippines. The mood becomes festive, with many people shopping and in good spirits. 8.Filipinos love art and architecture-Just look at the massive and tall buildings everywhere. Filipinos have a penchant for bringing art and architecture to a whole new level. 9.The Filipinos are hospitable people-Foreign visitors in the country are treated with the utmost respect. This trait is usually seen during fiestas and holidays where many Filipinos are giving their best to entertain their visitors well. FILIPINO FAMILY VALUES Paggalang (Respect) The English translation of paggalang means to be respectful or to give respect to a person. Filipinos are accustomed to using the words "po opo," and "ho" when they are conversing with older people or, sometimes, with those who are in a high role or a prestigious member of society. Using these words is customary in the Philippines, and it shows a sign of respect if you do so. Pakikisama (Helping Others) Pakikisama has the connotation of getting along with people in general. There is a general yearning to be accepted and well-liked among Filipinos. This applies to one and his or her friends, colleagues, boss, and even relatives. This desire is what steers one to perform pakikisama. Utang na loob (Debt of Gratitude)-Utang na loob means to pay your debt with gratitude. With utang na loob, there is usually a system of obligation. When this value is applied, it imparts a sense of duty and responsibility on the younger siblings to serve and repay the favors done to them by their elders.
Pagpapahalaga sa Pamilya (Prioritizing Family)-
Pagpapahalaga sa pamilya is in other words, putting importance on your family. This implies that a person will place a high regard on his/her family and prioritize that before: anything else. Damayan System-extending sympathy for people who lost Hiya (Shame) -This their loved ones In case of death means shame. This of a certain member of the controls the social community, the whole behaviors and community sympathizes with interactions of a Filipino. the bereaved family. Compassionate a Filipino trait of being sympathetic to others even the person is a stranger. An example of this is giving alms to the beggars. This is observed when we hear Filipinos saying"Kawawa naman".
Fun-loving Trait -trait found in most Pilipinos, a trait that
makes them unique that even in times of calamities and other challenges in life, they always have something to be happy about, a reason to celebrate. Social Values of the Filipinos 1).High regard for amor propio (self-esteem) Self- esteem reflects an individual's overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own worth.
2).Smooth interpersonal relationships - An
interpersonal relationship is the nature of interaction that occurs between two or more people. 3).Personal alliance system -This scheme is anchored on kinship, beginning with the nuclear family. 4).The Compadre system - Bonds of ritual kinship, sealed on any of three ceremonial occasions-baptism, confirmation, and marriage-intensify and extend personal alliances. 5).Utang-na-loob A dyadic bond between two individuals may be formed based on the concept of utang na loob.
6).Suki relationship - In the commercial context,
suki: relationships (market- exchange partnerships) may develop between two people who agree to become regular customer and supplier.
7).Friendship -Friendship often is placed on at par
with kinship as the most central of Filipino relationships. Weaknesses of the Filipino Character 1.Passivity and lack of initiative-Acceptance of what happens, without active response or resistance. 2.Colonial mentality-Colonial mentality more strictly refers to the attitude the Filipinos feel that products coming from other countries are more superior than the local products. syndrome-Flipinos have a selfish, self- 3.Kanya-kanya serving attitude that generates a feeling of envy and competitiveness towards others, particularly one's peers who seem to have gained some status or prestige. 4.Extreme personalism- Filipinos view the world in terms of personal relationships and the extent to which one is able to personally relate things and people determines. 5.Extreme family centeredness-Excessive concern for family manifests itself in the use of one's office and power as a means of promoting the interest of the family, in factionalism. patronage, and political dynasties and in the protection of erring family members. It results in lack of concern for the common good and it acts as a block to national 6.Lack ofconsciousness. discipline - Procrastination is one reason of lack of self-discipline, Lack of willpower, motivation and ambition are also causes for lack of self- discipline. 7.Lack of self-analysis and reflection-There is a tendency in the Filipino to be superficial and even somewhat flighty. In the face of serious problems. both personal and social, there is lack of analysis or reflection We joke about the most serious matters and this percents looking 8.Ningas cogon-A Filipino attitude of being enthusiastic only during the start of new undertaking but ends dismally in accomplishing nothing . 9.Gaya-Gaya Attitude-A Filipino attitude of imitating or copying other culture specifically in mode of dressing, language, fashion, trend or ever haircut.