- Entails the development of social skills, knowledge and
positive human values toward desire. It can be aquired through social process of inquiry, values exploration and social dicision- making that relate to aquistion of knowledge and understanding (Arthur, Davison and Stow, 2,000) Social Skills - Social are aspects of social literacy. As such, these are an integral part of functioning in society. It involves good manners, communicating effectively with others, being considerate of others’ feelings and expressing personal needs. Types of Social Skills There are types of social skills that teachers can demonstrate among students to attain harmonious relationship with them. 1. Effective communication - it is the ability to communicate effectively and share thoughts and ideas with students through group conversation, discussion, etc. 2. Conflict resolution - it is the ability to get to the source of the problem and find a workable solution by weighing both sides from those involved with the goal of mediating for reconciliation. 3. Active listening - it is the ability to pay close attention to a student in times of counseling, introspection and consultation. 4. Empathy - it is the ability to understand and identify the feelings of students in times of difficulty and trouble. 5. Relation management - it is the ability to maintain relationship and build key connections with school stakeholders for the student’s development. 6. Respect - it can be done by knowing when to initiate communication and respond during interactions or even in times of heated arguments and confrontations. 7. Problem solving skills - These involve seeking help, making effective decisions and accepting consequences to derive better solutions to the problem. 8. Interpersonal skills - These include the abilities of sharing, joining activities, asking for permission and waiting for one’s turn in every facet of school undertakings. Improving social skills - Social skills can be improved by focusing on sustaining desirable attitudes and eliminating those undesirable ones through modeling, role-playing and performance feedback mechanism. Impact of Social Skills - Possessing social skills: (1) better relationship; (2) better communication; (3) greater efficiency; (4) advanced career prospects; and (5) increased over-all happiness. Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
- Emotional intelligence can bring about maintaining a
healthy and purposeful relationship worth others that may best depict a socially literate person. Goleman (1996)
- defines Emotional Intelligence (EQ) as the ability to: (1)
recognize, understand and manage own emotions; and (2) recognize, understand and influence the emotions of others. THANK YOU!
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