Petikan kata-kata motivasi dari Prof Dr.

Muhaya
The Difference Between Being a Success and a Successful Life
Now, most people would consider this athlete "successful." He is rich beyond anyones
imagination. He has and will set world records. He will undoubtedly be elected into his Hall of
!ame, most li"ely on the first ballot.
But he is not a successful human being. #t is common "nowledge that he is uni$ersally disli"ed.
This got me to t
hin"ing. # attended two funerals recently. %ne was the funeral of a man who was "successful" in
the eyes of the world. That is, he made a lot of money. But he wasnt a terribly successful human
being. He was estranged from his oldest son and hadnt spo"en with him in years. He was a
borderline alcoholic. There were other storms in his life. &bout '( people will attend.
The other funeral was for a man who was not "successful" in the eyes of the world. )ou would
ha$e ne$er gi$en him a second loo" had you seen him in the store. He wasnt wealthy. He was
not high*profile. )et he was +uite a successful human being. ,eople were encouraged and built
up by this man. ,eople were better because he graced their li$es, e$en in small ways. His funeral
will ha$e about -(( people there, paying their last respects. He would ha$e ne$er guessed there
would be that many, yet after he died, people came out of the woodwor" to spea" highly of him.
So what is the difference. &nd can we be both "successful" and a successful human being. #
belie$e that we can ha$e both. # do belie$e it is hard because the accumulation of wealth ta"es
time and time at wor", which usually ta"es away from time doing things that foster human
relationships. But it is possible.
#t can be done by those who understand balanced li$ing and are aggressi$e time and priority
managers. /i$e yourself time to ma"e your fortune or pursue your dreams, but gi$e yourself
time to ma"e yourself a successful life as well.
Here are some tips for being a successful human being who has a successful life0
Lo$e people, use things. ,eople who become "successful" and miss a successful life are those
who lo$e things and use people. Be sure to put people as a priority for your life.
Ta"e time off. Life isnt 1ust about wor". There is so much else to e2perience here in this life, and
unfortunately, too little time to en1oy it.
Be a gi$er. Be someone who gi$es more than ta"es. )es, we all ha$e to ta"e from time to time,
but we should ta"e only when we need to and gi$e e$ery time we ha$e a chance to3
Be a life*long learner. # truly belie$e that we become better people as we learn. Ta"e time
throughout your life to grow and learn and become a better person.
4eep a sense of humor. ,eople who laugh are a gift to the world. Dont ta"e yourself or your
circumstances to seriously. Learn to loo" on the bright side and see the humor in situations.
Honor your commitments. This is a "ey to a successful life. 5e li$e this life based on
commitments we ma"e toward one another. Those who honor those commitments are those who
will be respected and trusted by others.
6entor someone. &lways ta"e the time to mentor someone. # "now this firsthand because of the
energy a few people put into my life, sometimes 1ust letting me "now that they belie$ed in me.
This goes a long way and ma"es the world a better place3
# am sure there are other aspects of a successful life, but these are the simple ones that you can
begin to apply today. 7emember, you can wor" and become a success, and # encourage you to do
so, but dont forget to li$e a successful life as well3
8hris 5idener
Monday, 26 March 2012
MUTIARA KATA CELIK MATA DA CELIK MIDA PR!" DR MU#A$A
M!#AMAD
HAMPIR SETIAP SABTU DAN AHAD SELEPAS
SEMBAHYANG SUBUH, CUBA MENILAI DIRI,
CELIKKAN MINDA DAN HATI MELALUI KOLEKSI
AUDIO RADIO IKIM CERAMAH MOTIVASI ISLAM ITU
INDAH OLEH PROF. DR. MUHAYA MOHAMAD. INI
YANG SEMPAT DICATIT UNTUK DIKONGSI
BERSAMA.
1. KITA TIDAK BOLEH DAPAT KERJA YANG LEBIH BAIK
DENGAN MUDAH TETAPI JIKA KITA BEKERJA
DENGAN LEBIH BAIK, INSYAALLAH KERJA YANG
LEBIH BAIK AKAN DATANG
2. 3 PERKARA SUSAH KITA NAK LAKUKAN. a. BAIK
PADA ORANG YANG TIDAK BAIK PADA KITA. b. JAGA
NAMA ORANG YANG SEDANG DI UMPAT, c. AKUI
KESILAPAN SENDIRI...
3. KITA AKAN DILAYAN SEBAGAIMANA KITA
MELAYAN ORANG LAIN . JIKA NEGATIF KITA DAPAT
ITU FEEDBACK. PERBETULKAN DIRI KITA DAN
BERHENTI MENYALAHKAN DAN CARI KESALAHAN
ORANG...
4. LAYAN MANUSIA SEPERTI MANA MEREKA INGIN
DILAYAN. LAYAN MANUSIA MACAM MANA KITA INGIN
DILAYAN. LAGI RAMAI KAAN LAGI MURAH RE!EKI...
". CARILAH KEBAHAGIAAN KITA DENGAN MEMBERI
KEBAHAGIAAN PADA ORANG LAIN...INSYALLAH
KEBAHAGIAN ITU AKAN DATANG SENDIRI TANPA
KITA SEDARI.
#. HIDUP INI ADALAH DIY... $DO IT YOURSELF...%%%$
&. NAK JADI ISTERI YANG DISAYANGI SUAMI,
JADILAH ANITA YANG EKSKLUSIF.. YANG HANYA
SUAMI DAPAT MELIHAT KECANTIKAN KITA SENDIRI...
'. JANGAN KERANA MENCARI HARTA DUNIA YANG
SEDIKIT, KITA MENJUAL AKHIRAT...
(. BERKAAN DENGAN ORG YANG BODOH...
DENGAN BERGADUH DENGAN ORANG YANG BAIK...
LEBIH BAIK BERGADUH DENGAN ORANG YANG
BAIK...
1). ORANG YANG HEBAT AKAN MEMBUATKAN
ORANG LAIN MERASA HEBAT.. TETAPI ORANG YANG
KECIL AKAN SUKA MENGECIL*GECILKAN ORANG
LAIN... ORANG YANG SUKA MEMBUKA KEAIBAN
ORANG LAIN, SUKA MENCARI KESALAHAN ORANG
LAIN, SEBENARNYA MEMPUNYAI BANYAK KEAIBAN
SENDIRI...
11. JANGAN KEJAR CITA*CITA... TAPI KEJARLAH
MAKNA KEHIDUPAN SUPAYA HIDUP KITA LEBIH
BERMAKNA...
12. SESIAPA YANG TAKUT PADA ALLAH, TAKKAN
TAKUT PADA APA*APA YANG LAIN... TETAPI SESIAPA
YANG TAK TAKUT PADA ALLAH, DIA AKAN TAKUT
PADA BANYAK PERKARA...
13. ORANG YANG BIJAK, DIA TIDAK REAKTIF.. TETAPI
PRODUKTIF...
14. ORANG YANG SELALU KATA TIDAK ADA MASA
SEBENARNYA ADALAH ORANG YANG TIDAK TAHU
MENGURUSKAN MASA...
1". JANGAN ADA SINDROM KITA RASA KITA +BUDGET
BAGUS+
1#. SIAPA PANDANG DUNIA, AKHIRAT DIA TIDAK
AKAN NAMPAK... TETAPI SIAPA YANG KEJAR
AKHIRAT, DUNIA AKAN KEJAR DIA...
1&. E DON+T INTERACT ITH THE ORLD BUT E
INTERACT ITH OUR INTERPRETATION OF THE
ORLD. SO IF E INTERPRET IN POSITI,E MANNER
E HA,E A POSITI,E RESULT IN OUR LIFE..
1'. ORANG YANG SIHAT ROHANINYA, SIHAT
EMOSINYA, SIHAT BADANNYA...
1(. ORANG YANG KENYANG DENGAN KASIH SAYANG
ALLAH TIDAK PERLU KASIH SAYANG MANUSIA...
2). ORANG YANG BAHAGIA DENGAN ALLAH AKAN
BAHAGIA DENGAN MANUSIA...
21. KITA ADA PILIHANRAYA SETIAP HARI... IMAN KE
NAFSU.. DOSA KE PAHALA.. SYURGA KE NERAKA...
TAAT KE MAKSIAT.. ALLAH REDHA KE ALLAH
MURKA...
22. MEMBERI NASIHAT MUDAH TAPI TERIMA
NASIHAT PAYAH TERUTAMA BAGI MEREKA YANG
MEMPUNYAI KEDUDUKAN DI DUNIA...
23. NILAI KITA AKAN TURUN BILA KITA SIBUKKAN
DIRI DENGAN BENDA YANG TAK BERFAEDAH ATAU
MAKSIAT...
24. MANUSIA DIHORMATI DENGAN AKAL. ORANG
DITIPU KERANA TIDAK PERNAH BERFIKIR. ORANG
YANG BIJAK AKAN MEMASTIKAN APA DIA BUAT
ADALAH JALAN SELAMAT...
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