sup guys ! again one of the best programs there is !

i love his stuff really worth the read ! i really recommend it.
ps: session 2 was corrupt so i didn't really take notes of it.
ps2 : there is a product i downloaded from demonoid called pure perosnality it has a
technique called conversation ninjitsu which i found pretty freaking awesome if you
incorporate it with other techniques of conversation! i will post it with the other part
of my conversation notes i am going to upload.
after this i am going to share all the routines i am using, and going to use in the future,
palm reading, cold reading, soul gaing routines, ring in finger routine,... and a bunch
of openers that i will be using. !
here are the notes: ! enjoy !
!obby "io conversation escalation notes:
# $mall talk cannot be avoided so % should take advantage of this fact and learn how to
make small talk se&y
# 'hy do guys struggle in this area( it)*+s because sometimes they can)*+t even
open a girl, or the quickly loose steam after opening the conversation, they can)*+t
move the conversation to a se&ual level and they can)*+t get any further than that
and they usually get stuck in the friend one
# $ometimes we do not approach because we do not know what to say, or completely
running out of things to say and get stuck into the awkward silences.
# ,ne of the biggest fucked up things a guy can do when meeting a new minute is
going into interview mode don)*+t, don)*+t do it !
# % should take the conversation to a se&ual level once the conversation is on and
flowing. -on)*+t go overload on rapport. .ust when % see the horny look in her eyes
escalate the conversation.
# /verything can be faked e&cept conversation0 once % start talking everything will be
revealed1
# %t)*+s not really what you say! %t)*+s what % say underneath what % am saying and
taking it to the ne&t level. %t)*+s all about small talk but doing it %n a way that creates
attraction
$o what are the fundamentals of a good conversation(
$o what are the big mistakes % am doing(
# 2he 34564 rules which means saying too much at the beginning of a conversation.
7ake the questions rhetorical questions and not ask interview mode! 8or e&ample tell
her a story about the question % asked before she even answers! 0 e&: where are you
from( % m from a town were )*9 then let her answer1
# :oing into a conversation with a completely different energy level then the people %
am talking to! $o % should go in with a slightly higher energy level than the girl % am
talking to
# $peaking of rapport! ; big mistake is not assuming rapport always assume rapport
and talk to her as if % knew her forever. 2alk to her that way0 with the mindset %)*+ve
been fucking her for a long time and she)*+s all over my dick 1
# :etting hung up on the idea of transitioning0 the constant thinking of the how do %
move the conversation to the ne&t level1, there are no smooth perfect transitions, there
are very forgiving transitions0 just go in the subject % want to talk about1,don)*+t
wait for smooth transitions just change the conversation myself0 say % don)*+t want
to talk about this right now1
# -on)*+t ask questions, interview mode will put the burden on her! -on)*+t let
her lead the interaction, % should be the one to lead the conversation, instead of
questions make statements 0for e&ample instead of what kind of music do you like!
say you % totally take you ask a kind of girl that listens to rap music1 get the picture(!
:ood ok. my conversation should be like this )*< what can u insert or comment or
add to what % just said, instead of it being you answer my question1so think statements
and try to avoid questions as much as possible
# 'hen it comes to flirting! 'omen want fun and not funny remember that. don)*+t
make them think % am funny, just give them what they want and have fun with
them0 give them that nervous giggle1
# 2ake off the social mask and assume rapport always0 when % first meet somebody
remove that mask and assume rapport, and be myself don)*+t act like % socially
should act like what % would act like when % am in my comfort one, besides % cannot
e&perience real connection with the mask on1 keep in mind display a cool
vulnerability
# =ot having tactics ready! do not take on the personality to someone else, just have
my own stories and tell them, know a formula to make her laugh instead of
memoriing jokes, know tactics, know how to take it to the fun, so figure out the
quickest way to get it to the fun, once % get it to the fun can get her to the se&ual. .ust
be ready. !e me not someone else but be ready at the same time be equipped with my
own tactics and knowing how to take it to the ne&t level.
2he first steps to take to improve my conversation:
# ;dmitting that it will not get better on its own. $kills will not naturally improve
unless % learn what works and implement it. !ecause the longer % wait the harder it
becomes to change, get on this quickly. =othing beats the fact that % cannot talk, the
ability to talk is what will take me further in life than anything
# 'ork on my small talk0 use some pop culture references, tell my own stories that %
know they will impress and craft them when opportunity presents itself for me to tell
it1
# 7ake small talk se&y, % do that by implementing some flirtatious banter, back and
forth talking, and imitating, making fun of her voice while she talks. % want to
subconsciously convey to her that % know the rules, % know how to play the game and
% get it.
>s: it takes knowledge0 knowing what to do and say1,practice0to get good at it1,and
evaluation of what works for me and what does not0 to see what fits my personality
what is getting me results and what is setting me back1. $o yes conversation can be
learned but it needs the three things listed above.
$ession 6:
#conversation the most important skill to cultivate it)*+s what % use the most during
my life, % will always be using it and getting good at it will get me instant
gratification. %t is what will take me the furthest in life
#pressure handicaps learning! $o take it easy and practice in easy mode. 7ake it a
habit so it becomes second nature. ?se sparring practice which means take a
technique and use it in low pressure environment that means with regular girls. 2here
is no way to practice under pressure 0when % am horny and with a girl % want and
don)*+t want to mess up with1 and no way to actually be emotionally detached from
the outcome. $o do sparring practice, practice on easy mode to be able to handle
things under pressure because it is hard to practice under pressure and even nearly
impossible. $o master one skill at a time. %t)*+s skill building when it doesn)*+t
count. ;nd do also shadow bo&ing! 'hich means visualie me using the new
techniques % am using(
#get comfortable letting certain phrases out of my mouth, and become used to reading
reactions
$ession @:
#7indset that should underline my conversations: % am not trying to get se&, or
convince them or maneuver my way into a se&ual relationships, women already go
out to have se& but they want nothing to do with it 0they want a guy to lead them
through it and take full responsibility for it1 % am making her a favor when % approach
her. % and she are plays in a game that we both want to play.realise that girls actually
want it and like it.
#change between threads freely, with no worries that she will pick up on it, lead the
conversation, she likes that
#throw se&ual comments every now and then and fill into the time between with
normal conversation that way she will know what % want and she will not be
disoriented 0 women are naturally se&ual too1.
#do a time bridge after conversations, if % get positive results cool get the number do
that also if she was neutral, if % get negative results walk away
$ession A:
#be in tune to what a girl is feeling at all time.
#see the right time to talk to her!
#use baiting which means throw in a little pieces and wait for her to ask me a question
#get out of my head and pay attention to the girl.
#if % feel ok talking about something than it will become easy to become to the girl
#get her invested in the conversation, and getting her personally invested in me
#look for hook points in a conversation 0when she rather wants me to stay then to go1
#practice not talking too much nor too little. ;nd try to accomplish a lot with a little,
throw in some small clues that she will get curious and ask me questions about.
;lways try to accomplish the ma&imum with the minimum.
#remember that % am not there to sell myself % am there to enjoy the conversation and
have a good time
#as soon as % feel that a girl is ready for taking flirting, start flirting but the sooner the
better, do some frame tests and depending on the results either frame test more or start
flirting.
#use future projection from time to time 0to put the frame that we are going to do
something together in the future without actually asking her1
#use some false interpretations from time to time too can use this to compliment them
indirectly
#use this A step process a lot, first tell a little fun story about myself, the second step is
to ask her if she has done something similar that she has done, third reward her for
doing that, and the forth thing is future projecting about something % would do with
her in the future.
$ession B:
#if % still fear rejection when % open it will not go well 0she will tell % am fearful if %
am1 be ok with rejection and don)*+t fear it accept it. % should think if she likes me
great if she doesn)*+t % don)*+t really care.
#be screening her personality all the time see if % would like being with her
#there are three results when approaching! ,ne getting rejected, two it)*+s on, three
24 mins of meaningless conversation.
#have the blow me or blow me out mentality
#use slight e&aggeration, repetition, absurdaty)*9 just use a little of each every once in
a while
#keep in mind if she is still standing there that means that she is attracted 0or else she
will make up an e&cuse and leave.1
#don)*+t wait for signs of attraction to start touching the girl! ;nd start touching her
in the first @ minutes. !ut turn that a little bit down in the day. !e very subtle at the
begging, touch her on the shoulder, on the arm, the knee 0all stage one kino1 and when
doing this read the reaction of the girl, there is some girls that will touch me back
0good1 some girls who will lean back away from the touch 0bad1, if she does not move
back but no signal as well! Continue and move forward and proceed to stage two
kino. Calibrate, there is nothing wrong in being aggressive but there is something
wrong in not being aggressive 0because % will end in the friend one1. ;ccept being
rejected for being more aggressive than ending up in the friend one and be seen as a
pussy.
#reward her when she compliments me0 kino or whatever1 say thank you and kino
immediately , or say % know :>, or you)*+re not going to get in my pants keep trying
baby, or be nonchalant and like cool thanks and talk about something else 0 those
convey that % get compliments all the time1
>s: for every one hour % study pu stuff % need to go in flied 2 hours
$ession D:
# 2ease at any chance % can
# ?se cold reads! those are some attraction switches
# % didn)*+t really understand what the fuck he was talking about but % understood
that don)*+t use a method that does not conform to my personality.
$ession E:
#as soon as % learn it practice it! %t really digs down to speed of implementation
#don)*+t search for the perfect state, or don)*+t wait for perfection and stop giving
myself e&cuses and go out and do it
#don)*+t focus too much on outer game instead, calibrate between inner and outer
game.
#use a two to one ratio between high pressure and low pressure practice 0 shadow
bo&ing and sparring 1
2he inner game of conversation skills:
# -iscipline, continue to practice every day 0 find time to practice, make that time to
practice, use the time % have, stick to my word have integrity, get dedicated to get
better and improve 1
# !e motivated, get pumped and e&ited to start the conversations0 make an intention to
get better at this and remind myself at every approach opportunity, focus on building
the skill it)*+s more important than any woman, take every chance to get better1
# 7indsets, mental tricks % use to keep myself in the right mind frame when talking to
women 0 let myself become curious about others,1
2he outer game of conversation skills:
$mall talk secrets:
#always provide bait when answering a question or making a statement 0e&ample
when someone asks me where are you from don)*+t just say % m from Febanon! say
% m from Febanon the only country where u can go from the beach to skiing in less
than A hours but nobody actually do that: >, add meat to everything that people can
bate on1
#when introducing someone always say someone about him, whether a statement, a
silly comment or whatever 0hey this is jenny the pretty one: >, or whatever, it should
be smooth and breaks the ice1
#look for key words coming out of a woman)*+s mouth, learn to spot the topics that
e&cite her and jump on those topics, learn to pick up on what she says and likes and
e&pand on it1
#parroting, parrot back the last word she said 0e& she says she said % went to a fantastic
run % say fantastic Gan!1
#research weird stories or funny stories and use them when conversation comes low or
awkward and talking stops1
=ow the big guns:
# $torytelling, practice that and use it often, make a story collection a personal story
connection and craft them to become even better and tell them when the time presents
itself. be visual and descriptive, use body language, face e&pressins,pauses,voicetone
variation, living the emotion,elment of surprise)*9, start strong and end great, develop
different stories for different moods
# :rounding! $how her that % am human give her a sneak peak of behind the curtains,
tell her things that make me seem human, let her in on little glimpses of the real me
# 'hen we find mutual interest, future project the e&perience, make indefinite plans
without setting a date in a vague way, she will imagine a time in the future with me.
say we need to do that one day
# 2easing! 2his is the used to spark the attraction, it makes her know that % am fun at
heart, and gives room for kino, its playground childish fun things and it)*+s great
because it is under the radar. /&amples, picking on her, overly bragging, pretending to
give her a high five and leave her hanging, imitating something she has said, pointing
out the face she does when she is angry at someone, playfully taking her hand and
pushing it into some guys ass that is standing inform of her, playfully push her,
playfully competing with her, imitating something she just said, imitating a facial
e&pression she has just made .practice by teasing everyone
# =ever answer a question directly unless it)*+s =,!
# "ole playing, creating an imaginary scenario or a persona that both of us can play
together, lead with the roles and let her follow and play along.
# Cold reading! "ead the special report about the cold reading! ;nd get good at using
the first ones first and add some of my own personality in it.
# Fearn palm reading! 2he special report as well.
# $e&ual framing! ?se it far enough in the conversation. %ntroduce a se&ual intent
early on in the conversation. !y this % make them know that it is ok for them to show
me this side of them to me 0 % can use covers to wedge these se&ual framing in
remember the Galloween party e&ample.1
!uilding rapport 0ps % never want to build too much rapport % do not want to end up in
the friend one.1:
#find some mutual interest, a common ground that we both like early on in the
conversation, ask opinion related question and open ended questions.
#look for hooks which are something that she enjoys talking about. !ut don)*+t
dwell too much about the topic. -on)*+t get deep report on one topicH get some
rapport on multiple topics.
#when % since that she does not want to talk about something just drop it and don)*+t
talk about any more
#calibrate, always calibrate every situation is different. $o remember rapport depends
on the girl, some girls needs more rapport, some girls needs less rapport. ;nd it
depends on what do % want from the situation.
$ome tactics:
# ;ctive listening, get that out of her head that % am there to pick her up. -on)*+t
lose the vibe of me picking her up. $o sit back and wait and listen to her whole
message and don)*+t react directly, let her finish her sentence. 2hat makes her think
that % am listening.
# ;mplify repeat back to her showing her that % understand her, so repeat the main
points that she said in different wording. 2hat shows her that % listened and understood
her
# /mpathy, is saying % understand how you feel without me feeling it, % do that by
state how % imagine how she would have felt. ,r comment on how she feels on
something in particular.
# Captioning, later on in the night remember something she said earlier and say it, or a
joke or whatever just let her know % remember what she told me before.
# 7irroring! $howing her a reflection of herself or what is going on, use her trance
words the words that she use and feed it back to her
# >acing, is pacing her reality, bring what is happening into light the obvious, bring
out the elephant in the room
# ?nmasking! $howing her that % have a life outside of the venue we are in,
unmasking that social mask, in a calculated way which leads her to unmask herself as
well and this gives the feeling that % have known her for ages.
# $how some cool vulnerability, tell her something that is slightly embarrassing which
makes me look kind of cool
# :ive her some approval a little bit, by giving her an indirect compliment, remember
the structure of how % should compliment.
# ?se some cold reading, tell her general statements that personalie her
# ?se matching, get my voice tone, pauses and tempo in sync with hers
2he obstacles:
#awkward silences, we make them awkward 0with friends silence is not awkward1 so
ho do % defuse awkward silence( !y humor, say for e&ample wow this is pretty
awkward someone has to say something quick: >. make a joke about it. ,r % can
change location. ,r have canned responses.
#when she is very closed off and not opening up. 7ake sure that % myself am open, or
comment or her own closeness. ;nd bring out into the open. ,r ask her hey are you
cold(
#too much rapport, she starts telling me too much. -on)*+t let her get too
comfortable. ?se humor to diffuse the situation. ,r just be blunt about it
>s: can pick right back up at that rapport level % left at the last time % saw her