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Banter Lines

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For when she says something dumb

Banter Lines

To suggest shes hitting on you

The best way to deliver the lines below is to exaggerate how little
sense she is making. This is a good time to be animated, and a
slightly childish.

The lines below are meant to be delivered as it becomes clear

youre hitting on her. The way to deliver these lines is you know she
wants you, but she wont admit it.

What am I going to do with you:

Its a good thing youre pretty cuz when those looks go youre
gonna be in trouble
Now are you just making shit up as you go along?
Lets play a game and see how long you can hold your breath
Youre aware youre still talking right?
Bartender, I think you need to cut her off

The Cats out of the bag:

What did you come over here just to flirt with me?
So what else do you like about me?
Stop undressing me with your yes
Did you slip roofies in my drink?
Youre looking at me like a fat kid looks at a cheeseburger

Remember, you dont want to come across mean or insulting, just

playful and fun.

Remember, these lines work best if youve already used one of the
other banter lines above. You NEED to banter immediately. If not,
these lines can be taken out of context later in the conversation.

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Interest Signs

For before you approach her

Although I never recommend waiting for signs of interest before

approaching a girl you want to talk to. (Dont wait for interest to
approach. Create interest by approaching.) Here are some signals
girls will give to hint to you that she wants you to approach.
Signs that she wants you to approach:
She gets closer to you in proximity
She keeps making eye contact or smiling at you
She eave drops on your conversation
She has a friend talk to you to fish for information
On the other side of this card youll get signs that she likes you and
that should continue talking to her and begin escalating the
conversation after the approach.
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Fun Openers

Basic Openers

For when you can think of anything

My favorite type of opener is when you comment on something

thats going on around you, or invite her into a conversation youre
already having. But if thats not possible, use one of these.
Opening lines for any situation:
Hey. You look like youre having the most fun here out of
anyone (said with relaxed sarcasm)
Hey. Let me guess, youre from_____________
Hey (yes, this works)
These openers are simple and will get a girl talking to you. In
easy environments these are more than enough to get her
attention.

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For when youre in a playful mood

While the situational opener is my favorite. Sometimes if Im in a

playful mood, Ill use one of these to goof with a girl. Done right they
are really effective as they quickly establish you as a fun guy.

Opinion Openers

For built in topics to talk about

Opinion openers are great for situations where you want to start the
conversation off with an interesting topic.

Opening lines for any situation:

Is it cool for a dude to wear makeup
Whats your favorite dinosaur
You wanna know why you suck?_____________
Im lost I cant find my friends and Im scared
The voices in my head told me to come over and say hi

Begin opener with Can I get your opinion on something?

Do drunk I love yous count?
Who lies more men or women?
If your girlfriend kisses another girl is it cheating?
Do you think mic Jagger is sexy?
Would you go on the Maury show to have a secret admirer
revealed to you
Is it ok to break up with someone over text?

The important thing to remember about these openers is that they

have be said playful so that she immediately assumes youre just
having fun with her.

If you use any of these openers make sure that you have the back
story ready. These openers rely on you having a reason for asking.

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Motivation

How to get yourself to approach

The best way to get yourself motivated enough to approach a girl is

to change the meaning you give it. Instead of making it a life or
death situation simply aim to do one of the following.

Talking to Women

15 Tips to Keep in Mind

Here are 15 tips to keep in mind while talking to a woman.

Ways to make approaching more fun:

Play a role (pretend you are an actor)
Be a detective trying to discover what she likes
Be purposely uncool and a little goofy just for fun
Turn it into a game
Give her a story to tell her friends
Practice Faking confidence

Attraction building tips:

Lead the conversation- dont wait for her to dictate it
Talk about topics that evoke emotions
Pay attention to the non-verbal cues she is giving you
Remember the motto: Women like fun not funny
Tease her
Take the conversation to rated r
Use things like cold reads to show you understand her
Avoid complimenting her too much

Doing any of the listed above will make the experience more fun.

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Teasing Her

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What to tease a girl about

Conversation Topics

4 go to topics

Teasing her in one of the best ways to begin flirting with her. IF you
listen to her, youll find things to tease her about. Here are some
things to look out for:

These topics will keep a conversation moving forward toward

rapport, attraction, and sexuality. This is the exact order you should
bring the topics up in.

Things you can look to tease a girl about:

Her bossy side
Her blonde side
Double entendres
Her wild side
Her naivets or gullibility
Her paranoia

The Four best topics to bring up:

Glorified Gossip (drama, jerry springer type stuff)
Early childhood memories (tv shows, stories, playground)
Future ambitions (get her talking about her ideal life)
Observations about her (notice things about her)

Basically youre looking for things she says or does that demonstrate
any of these things. (on the back are things to remember when
teasing)

These topics are so effective because they build rapport, provide

hooks, elicit emotions, highlight your value, and lead to sexuality.
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Banter Lines

To set the tone of the interaction

Ideally you want to get across 3 or 4 banter lines before you move
into normal conversation The best way to deliver these lines is like
you just realized something about her.
Your knee jerk reaction to her:
You and I arent going to get along
You guys are tourist arent you
Dont say anything, youre cute youll mess it up
Youre cool. You can help me pickup chicks.
You usually hang out at the library dont you
Oh, so youre one of THOSE
Dont dwell on the banter line. If she pries to try to get you to explain
more just let it roll off. Give a sly smile and change the subject.
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Interest Signs

Banter Lines

For when shes acting bitchy

The lines below should be delivered with the attitude that you know
beneath her tough exterior she is a cute little puppy dog.
Im going to make you smile no matter how hard you resist:
Oh weve got grumpy smurf here
Ooh she is very hostile when she hasnt taken her nap
I love it when you talk mean to me
I bet you have a real cute side somewhere. You just dont
show it
Stop playing hard to get. You know im better at it
Looks like someone put on their cranky pants this morning.
These lines are meant for a girl who is not giving you much to go with
or is giving you a little bit of an attitude.
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For After youve been talking to her

Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

Its good to have an idea of where you stand with a girl after youve
been talking to her for a while.

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep

some simple strategies in mind.

Signs that she you should escalate:

She tries to keep the conversation going so you dont leave
She tries to find out if youre single
She keeps moving closer towards you or touches you alot
She gives you a flirtatious nickname
Shell try to make future plans for the two of you to do
She laughs at all your jokes (even the unfunny ones
She is eager to introduce you to her friends
She calls you a player or heartbreaker

How to create the best chance of success:

Come in at the same energy level she is at
Dont invade her personal space
Talk to her friends if they are around
Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it)
Dont hesitate before approaching (she will notice)
Dont overthink- be spontaneous
Have laid back body language
Use a time constraint

If you are getting a few of these signs its time to escalate.

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

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Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

Approach Checklist Things to keep in mind

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep

some simple strategies in mind.

This is meant to quickly glanced at before the approach to keep

some simple strategies in mind.

How to create the best chance of success:

Come in at the same energy level she is at
Dont invade her personal space
Talk to her friends if they are around
Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it)
Dont hesitate before approaching (she will notice)
Dont overthink- be spontaneous
Have laid back body language
Use a time constraint

How to create the best chance of success:

Come in at the same energy level she is at
Dont invade her personal space
Talk to her friends if they are around
Be assertive, speak with confidence (even if you fake it)
Dont hesitate before approaching (she will notice)
Dont overthink- be spontaneous
Have laid back body language
Use a time constraint

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

Following these tips will make for a smoother approach.

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Motivation

How to get yourself to approach

Sometimes the best way to get you to take action is to get a slap in
the face with reality. Below are little doses of it that should inspire you
to act.
Things to keep in mind next to you hesitate to approach:
You never regret the approaches you make (only the ones
you dont make)
At the end of your life are you going to say I wish I
approached less girls? Or more?
If you want to achieve greatness, stop waiting for permission
Every no is one step closer to the girls of your dreams
An entire lifetime of sexual frustration can change with one
approach
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15 Tips to Keep in Mind

Here are 15 tips to keep in mind while talking to a woman.

Attraction building tips:
Make statements instead of asking questions
Avoid interview mode you like the plague
Dont hide your identity. Dont blindly agree with her
Never compliment her on her eyes, looks or body
Say something that expresses sexual desire for her
Touch her
Use conversation games and take her back to the playground
Dont give away your hand too fast. Let her work to keep you
interested
Be prepared to do 90% of the talking when you first approach
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Teasing Her

Talking to Women

Things to remember when teasing

Teasing her in one of the best ways to begin flirting with her. IF you
listen to her, youll find things to tease her about. Here are some
things to look out for:
Things you to keep in mind:
Always be playful no t mean
Avoid teasing her about physical appearance
Be clear and remember girls arent always so bright
If something works, go back to it throughout the conversation
You always have to have the better comeback if she starts
teasing you back
The biggest thing to keep in mind is to avoid making asshole
comments and instead concentrate on being playful.

Conversation Topics

8 More topics

A good topic should create connection, provide hooks, emotions,

sexuality, make you human, and highlight your best qualities
The 8 more of the best topics to bring up:
Travel
Pop culture
Observations of things around you
Lessons learned overcoming odds
Music
Food (oddly sexual)
Unusual experiences (meeting someone famous, scary)
Passions and interests