VALLEY SOCIAL CLUB NEWSLETTER FOR JANUARY 2014

Issue 42/Volume 1

NEW YEARS GREETINGS FROM THE PRESIDENT

HAPPY NEW YEARS ! I hope that every one had some great holidays. What a holiday season we have had. Thanksgiving, was as always great. Every year its amazing how much food they serve us. Christmas was more intimate but a lot of fun. Everyone worked really hard making the club look bright and festive. New years day was just crazy fun. We had food, music and bingo. Boy Im tired ! Now down to club business. Being its the new year your club dues need to be paid for the year. You can see Phyllis, Mike, and Jacques to make your payment. Its still just $10 and you get a lot out of it. Im looking forward to another great year at the club. President Julianne.

NEW YEARS ADDRESS FROM THE CLUBS VICE PRESIDENT

Baby its cold outside ! Brrr! Its cold out there ! I hope your all keeping warm toasty warm. The holidays are over and its back to our diets and other New Years resolutions. Did you remember to make one this year ! January brings a new year to the club too. Dues are due now so if you want to enjoy all of what the club has to offer pay them soon. There only $10 for the year. Get in on the fun and good times to come! So dont fret about the cold and snow cause good weather wont be far away. Welcome 2014. Lets make it the best year yet.

TASTEFULLY DONE
Well heres something new. Tasteful art! Yes an art group that allows you to make and munch on your creations. We meet on the 1st and 3rd Thursdays from 11-12pm. This group replaces the weekly art and crafts groups that met on Thursdays 11-12pm. There will be sign up sheets in the Valley Social Club. The number of people who can attend is limited to ten people. If you have any questions contact Karen K.

A TIME TO GIVE THANKS

So many times generosity comes to us in ways that we dont even know about. With the start of a new year we would like to thank all those who helped the club during the past year. Tony San Angelo for the donation of pies at the Thanksgiving Dinner. Daisy at Shick Corporation for razors for our Christmas Brunch. Arlene, Debby, and Marsha who are always thinking of the club! Thank you for everything you do. A great deal on our used pool table from Re-Rack. They really took care of us!

NEW AND ONGOING CLUB FUN FOR THE WINTER BLUES Hi Everyone, We have some of the best activities going on to beat the winter blues. We have two drawing groups, one on Monday at 2pm and the other is Thursday, at 1pm. You dont have to be a great artist to join in. Mark O. teaches the most basic drawing for all levels. All you need is your imagination the rest is provided for you! Julianne loves to crochet and she is looking to get as many people into this easy but relaxing activity. If you have your own crochet needles or you dont, she will provide all the materials so you can learn how to make a blanket, scarf's, and so much more. Thursdays at 2-3p at the Valley Social Club.

PROSE FROM THE PRO SUBMITTED BY ROBERT S.

May the bright spots in the old year be but flickers in the dark, when compared with what the New Year will enkindle with its spark. By Author Margaret Rourke Seventy percent of success is just showing up. Said By Woody Allen

Think big thoughts enjoy small pleasures . Said By Jackson Brown

Dont look where you fell , look where you slipped. An African proverb Better to fight for something than against something. Author Unknown. Dont tear down fences before you know why they where put up. Said By Robert Frost
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OH THAT FRANKI VALLI BY PAULA B.

The Frankie Valli Tribute Band performed in Milford, CT. All those who attended had such a good time. The music brought us back to the songs that we grew up with. Even after all this time we still remember, the words to these songs. There were Vietnam Vets in the audience, and they gave up so much to serve our country. Louie R. gave a shout out for our social club on the microphone too. I am so glad that Jacques asked me to go.

THANKSGIVING DINNER BY PAULA B.

The Thanksgiving Dinner was at Christ Church in Ansonia. The food was so good. The staff at BHcare and The Social Club, did an awesome job of cooking and serving. The tables were set up nice with the lighted jars that we made in the social club by our crafting group. There was everything from turkey to pie. After dinner the jars and wreaths that we made were raffled off. I had a good time and will definitely attend next years dinner.

NEW YEAR WISHES BY STEVE K.

Hello Everyone! I hope that you all had a very happy holiday and that you all have a very healthy and blessed New Year. If Santa Claus wasnt good to you last year, maybe you should try being a little nicer this year! Good Luck! Happy New Year in 2014 to one and all!!

MASTERS TABLE IS APART OF MY LIFE BY BRENDA T.

I go to the Masters Table every 1st Sunday of the month . It is a good dinner to go to. On December 8th , at Christ Church in Ansonia, we had such a great dinner that I just couldnt believe it was free! They served roast beef. I had a fun time with this little girl that wanted a Santa Hat which was on the table. I found one and gave it to her and her eyes being filled with tears stopped crying. She thanked me. Even Santa visited the dinner to spread good tidings to everyone. They even have clothes available to anyone who needs it, of course you have to find your size but they are all real good quality items. So come and enjoy the fun and you might event want to volunteer or meet new people. I am so grateful we have this in our community. Hope you all had a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

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THE JANUARY MASTERS TABLE DINNER

The folks at the Masters Table Dinner would like to say Happy New Year to all its guests. Januarys Masters table dinner will be January 26, 2014 from 3-5pm (winter hours). The cost is free and we hold the dinners at 56 South Cliff Street, Ansonia. We will have a special guest for our dinner and she is Maggie Sessa, RN from Griffin Hospital. She is also a certified as a person assister for Access Health CT. In case of inclement weather call this number for updates. The dinner will not be rescheduled. The next dinner will be on Sunday, February 23, 2014.

GROCERY AND LAUNDRY GROUPS FOR JANUARY

Laundry group schedule:
Derby, Seymour, Oxford Jan 14th. Shelton, Ansonia Jan 15th

Grocery group schedule:

Derby, Seymour, Oxford Jan 7th, & 21st Shelton, Ansonia Jan 8th & 22nd

All groups have a 10 am pick up time. Call 203-732-7089 for reservations.

BIRTHDAYS IN THE MONTH OF JANUARY

Happy birthday to all those who have birthdays in the month of January. Cathy B. , Rich C., Robert K., Nick K., Sophie Mc., Jose R.

ITS THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN !

Starts a new year, new hope and fresh starts. With that in mind its time for members to pay there yearly dues. Dues continue to be $10 despite inflation, the stock market etc. With a paid full time membership you receive ALL of the clubs benefits. We even offer a payment plan! See Mike, Jacques, or Phyllis to make your payment soon.

PLEASE PAY YOUR 2014 DUES TODAY, (payment plans available!!)

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PEER RUN SUPPORT GROUPS (WINTER SCHEDULE)

MONDAY3-4PM- OVER EATERS ANONYMOUS - For those individuals in need of support for all eating disorders-Meetings are held in the 1st floor clinic meeting room. Call John Dykman at 203-736-2601, Ext. 431.

TUESDAY
5-7pm-SOBER SOCIAL Come to this fun group held at the club for anyone who would like to learn a new game, and learn how to socialize with others in a fun and unique way! The group also shares a light dinner too! Rides provided only after the conclusion of group if needed. Call 203-732-7089 for more information.

WEDNESDAY1-2pm-NICOTINE ANONYMOUS-12- Step Group to assist with quitting or Support of quitting your tobacco habit. Located in the Lower Level of BHCARE, Call John Dykman at 203-736-2601, Ext. 431.

THURSDAY2-3PM-AA MTG. held weekly in the Lower Level Conference Room of BHcare. Everyone is welcome to attend that is in recovery. This is a 12-Step Support Group. 5-7 PM-SOBER SOCIAL- Come to this fun group held at the club for anyone who would like to learn a new game, and learn how to socialize with others in a fun and unique way! The group also shares a light dinner too! Rides provided only after the conclusion of group if needed. Call 203-732-7089 for more information.

FRIDAY4-5PM- EMOTIONS ANONYMOUS this nationally advertised program assists Individuals in dealing with their day to day concerns and works on a 12-Step Program. For more information please call 203-736-2601, Ext.431 and ask for John Dykman. (REVISED JANUARY 2014)

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THE SOBER SOCIAL TUESDAY AND THURSDAY NIGHTS!

A LIGHT DINNER, GROUP GAMES AND EVEN A RIDE HOME IF YOU NEED ONE! CHOOSE THE DAY YOU WOULD LIKE TO ATTEND AND SIGN UP IN THE VALLEY SOCIAL CLUB STAFF OFFICE. YOU MIGHT EVEN LAUGH, HAVE FUN, AND MAKE A NEW FRIEND! FOR MORE INFORMATION JUST CALL 203-732-7089.

VALLEY SOCIAL CLUB CALENDAR FORJANUARY 2014

Sun
203Phyllis 305-7895 Jacques 430-1466 Mike 732-7089 Social Club 735-9106 BHcare 736-2601 Clinic-736-2905

Mon
Warm Line 203-732-2004 Calling hours are Sun-Thursday 6-10p Friday /Sat 6-11p

Tue
All out of club activities are weather permitting. See center policy in newsletter for winter closings

Wed 1 Club & CenterClosed HAPPY NEW YEAR! 8

Breakfast Club 8:30-10am Beading Class 11-2 Crafting Class 2-3

Thu 2
Lunch 12-12:30a Drawing Class 1-2 Crochet Grp 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

Fri 3
Computer Lab 10-11a Free Lunch 12-12:30p Crafting Class 2-3p Emotions A.4-5

Sat 4 CLUB CLOSED

5 CLUB CLOSED

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Lunch Program 12-12:30a Lets Talk 1-2 Drawing 101-2-3pm Over Eaters A. 3-4

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10a Bingo 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Lunch 12-12:30a Executive Mtg. 12:30-1 Drawing Class 1-2 Crochet Grp 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Computer Lab 10-11a Free Lunch 12-12:30p Crafting Class 2-3p Emotions A.4-5

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12 CLUB CLOSED

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Lunch Program 12-12:30a Lets Talk 1-2 Drawing 101-2-3pm Over Eaters A. 3-4

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10a Bingo 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10am Pool Tourney in New Haven 10:15a* Beading Class 11-12 Crafting Class 2-3

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Lunch 12-12:30a Drawing Class 1-2 Crochet Grp 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Computer Lab 10-11a Free Lunch 12-12:30p Crafting Class 2-3p Emotions A.4-5

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MARTIN L. KING HOLIDAY CLUB & Center CLOSED

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10a Cultural Awareness 12-1 Bingo 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10am Beading Class 11-12 Crafting Class 2-3

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Lunch 12-12:30a Drawing Class 1-2 Crochet Grp 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Computer Lab 10-11a Free Lunch 12-12:30p Crafting Class 2-3p Emotions A.4-5

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Lunch Program 12-12:30a Lets Talk 1-2 Drawing 101-2-3pm Over Eaters A. 3-4

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10a Bingo 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Breakfast Club 8:30-10am Beading Class 11-12 Crafting Class 2-3

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Lunch 12-12:30a Drawing Class 1-2 Crochet Grp 2-3 Sober Social 5-7p*

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Computer Lab 10-11a Free Lunch 12-12:30p Crafting Class 2-3p Emotions A.4-5