Christmas: consumerism or togetherness

Christmas Day. Its the day that children look forward to all year round, eagerly
making lists for Santa Claus and hanging ornaments on the tree. Its the day that families
cherish as a time to be together, giving gifts and enjoying a break from the hustle and bustle
of everyday life. Its the day that I find to be one of the most special of the year. Is it because
of Christmas magic? Perhaps. But I think theres a deeper meaning to this special season than
the one that society has attached to it. We hear it a lot, dont we? The true meaning of
Christmas. Its the basis of nearly every holiday movie, the phrase found in Hallmark
Christmas cards and something parents constantly remind their kids of in hopes of quelling
pre-Christmas consumerism. But what exactly is the true meaning of Christmas? We hear
these words so often that perhaps theyve lost their effectiveness. However, when we look
deep down, we can find the essence of what makes this time of year so special.
These days, Christmas is more of a societal, consumerist norm than anything else. We
spend money on lavish gifts for those we love. We spend hours decorating both inside and
outside our houses with everything from flashing lights to festive garlands. We stress out
about holiday plans and whos going where for Christmas dinner. But, when we think about it,
is this what Christmas is supposed to be? A stressful, extravagant, showy occasion thats
almost a relief to be through with? Not at all. Theres a reason people get time off work and
school to celebrate. Its supposed to be a break from the craziness of life and provide a chance
for us to reflect on whats truly important. And what is truly important? Some people may say
the presents. Others may say the festive activities around town. While these are all good
things that help make Christmas a special time of year, they dont provide an answer as to
why we celebrate. Instead, its the simpler things that matter the things that cant be found in
the bargain aisle at Wal-Mart or blinking in light displays. Its the joy of a family, sitting
around the Christmas tree on Dec. 25, with their gifts to each other serving as an expression of
their love. Its the camaraderie between those in a church on Christmas Eve, who believe that
the birth of their Savior is the reason for the season. Its the happiness of a needy person who
receives the help of volunteers on Christmas, making their holiday season infinitely better.
See the difference here? Societys all about the outside, with the gifts and lights and shopping.
The true meaning of Christmas is found on the inside, where the gladness of togetherness,
faith and service makes Christmastime a truly special time of year.

Sociologie, Seria 2, Avansai 2, Voicu Octavian-Mihai

So, this Christmas, feel free to enjoy the pleasures of the season. I know that I never
turn down a delicious cookie or a charming movie! But, also, I hope youll look a little deeper
this year. Instead of seeing just the gift, see the person who gave it to you with love in their
heart. Instead of focusing on overspending, focus on giving something thoughtful to someone
you care about. Theres more to the holidays than what meets the eye because the true
meaning of Christmas is whats found in the heart.

Sociologie, Seria 2, Avansai 2, Voicu Octavian-Mihai