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1.3.1. Business Etiquette
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Preface
A positive attitude, confidence and a well-groomed appearance are inextricably linked in todays professional life. Outside appearance gets people
judged much faster than achievements, education or reliability. The very
first seconds of your appearance will decide what people think about you
and your image.
This is why the question shouldnt be, Do I need a certain image, but
instead
Is what other people think about me as accurate as possible?
Does your self-image correspond to how other people perceive you?
You simply cannot avoid having other people perceive you in a certain way.
So, you need to think about HOW you would like others to perceive you
before you let other people make such an important decision concerning
you. However, we are not talking about a persons artificial and unrealistic
outside packaging. Instead, the right kind of outfit and an appropriate
way of treating other people tends to upgrade a person and radiates a positive attitude, professionalism and competence.
Our dress, grooming and behavior create our IMAGE.
This seminar will help you achieve the following goals:
Create and expand your self-image
Create the best possible way of expressing your personality by matching and harmoniously combining clothing style with your individual
body features
Using business etiquette as a way of supporting your career.
You can perfect your outside appearance and the way you behave by
means of simple and easy to apply basic rules of image design and individual helpful hints. That way you will achieve a winning manner that will
impress your customers, coworkers and superiors.
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Mentor
Peter Schneider
voestalpine Rotec GmbH
Tel.: +43 50304 24-301
peter.schneider@voestalpine.com
Expert
Eva Kck-Eripek
IMAGE INSTITUT
Tel: + 43 650 50 660 50
eva@imageinstitut.com
www.imageinstitut.com
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Table of contents
Preface 2
1. First impressions
2.2. Escorting
2.3. Greetings
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2.6. Titles
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5.4. Congratulating/gifts/condolences
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8. Self-presentation and
image-building
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9. Personal style
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10. Styling
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10.4. Proportion
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16. Questions
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17. Tables
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1. First impressions
When we meet people weve never met before, we pick up certain signals
that immediately trigger a number of reactions in us, such as:
These mental observations create an image of others within us. Or, more
brutally stated: We put labels on people. Since we cant always use ways of
personal contact to get to know people more closely, we are forced to create mental pictures of others. How true these pictures may be compared to
reality is a different issue. First impressions are hardly ever objective and
fair.
So, what determines if we like or dislike another person?
The Mehrabian Circle (named after Albert Mehrabian, an American psychologist) shows that only 7% of meaning is in the words that are spoken.
Non-verbal signals are more important. Words do transfer meaning; however, a persons voice and non-verbal factors set the mood.
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Voice
Issue
Non-verbal
factors
Voice
Melody of speech, pace of
speaking, pronunciation,
volume, pitch, pauses,
sentence length ...
Non-verbal factors
Facial expression, gestures, eye contact, posture,
appearance, colors, smells,
dress and grooming
Figure 1: Pie chart: First impressions and self-expression
Two or three key triggers are already enough to quickly let people form an
opinion based on other peoples appearance concerning intrinswic values
such as performance, competence and reliability. This psychological phenomenon is what makes wearers of glasses look more intelligent, although
glasses really only mean that someone has eye problems.
You dont get a second chance at a first impression!
Intimate proximity:
0 to 60 cm (a business taboo!)
Personal proximity:
60 to 120/150 cm
Social proximity:
120/150 to 360 cm
Public proximity:
up to 500 cm
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2.2. Escorting
Escort your guests in a way to make them feel comfortable. Lead the way
through hallways or big rooms. Confidently walk ahead of your guest,
taking their walking speed into consideration. Unobtrusively lead the
way by opening closed doors. Open the door and then let your guests enter
first. Then you follow and close the door.
Your guests walk AHEAD of you into closed spaces. This applies particularly to meeting rooms and elevators (YOU press the button!), etc.
Walking up the stairs, your guests will walk ahead of you. Downstairs
YOU lead the way.
Some ladies would still like to treated as such by gentlemen. You might
want to take this into consideration. Inconspicuously direct your guests to
the most convenient seats. The seat to the right of the host is usually considered more comfortable than the one to the left. Make sure your guests
dont have to sit with their backs to a door or another person (it might make
them feel unsafe). It is also considered helpful when guests to have to look
into any lights.
Sitting across from others makes some people feel more uncomfortable
than sitting across the corner or at a round table (frontal = confrontational,
around corners or tables = cooperative).
2.3. Greetings
In Austria, a simple hello without shaking hands is considered much too
informal. Saying good morning or good day is the appropriate thing
to do.
The rule where women only rise to great older women no longer applies in
business settings. During introductions, each person rises, independently
of sex or age.
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2.6. Titles
Where a large number of people with titles work in flat hierarchies,
proper titles are usually not used. If you join a team as a rookie, use
titles. If you are invited to so, leave them away.
DO NOT USE double names!
In the German speaking world, academic degrees should also be used.
If someone has more than one degree, use the highest one.
Titles of nobility are part of a persons name and should be used. Your
Highness is still used in some circles.
Awarded titles should be used; however, not with the persons spouse.
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In German culture there are strict rules for hierarchies: The hierarchical
superior decides if the informal pronoun DU should be used.
On equal hierarchical levels, the person with higher seniority decides.
On equal seniority levels, age decides.
For colleagues who are the same age, DU is matter of negotiation.
Gender makes no difference.
There is also the option of using first names WITH the formal SIE.
The question if it is okay to use informal pronouns in front of customers
is usually a matter of company policy. It could possibly lead to misunderstandings and confusion if the polite SIE is used in front of foreign-language customers.
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5. Etiquette focus:
Basic manners
5.1. Office manners
If you would like to work in peace, be sure to discuss the rules of teamwork.
If everyone sticks to these rules, then you can remind each other of them,
thus allowing everyone to work purposefully and successfully.
Say hello when you enter your office first thing in the morning.
Before entering other peoples office, be sure to knock even if you are
expected.
Only use other peoples workplace after having asked for permission to
do so. Use the phone or talk to others in the room in a low voice if there
are people at work. Keep private objects at a minimum on your desk.
Please, thank you and excuse me should be used frequently, even
with coworkers. Polite gestures, such as opening a door for someone, are
always a good idea.
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6. Etiquette focus:
Foreign countries
6.1. Etiquette and manners in other countries
If you dont want to embarrass yourself in a more and more global society, then you need to familiarize yourself with international dos and donts.
Learn more about dress and grooming in other countries and find out more
about their traditions and customs.
Nobody will expect you to completely integrate yourself and be perfect
from Day 1, but you will be a welcome guest if you are open for new things
and willing to accept others. It will literally open doors if you learn to say
please and thank-you and hello in the local language.
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Since many managers do business abroad over lunch or dinner (see Etiquette focus: Restaurant manners), you should familiarize yourself with
international table manners.
Here are some foreign customs:
France: Always order at least 3 courses
Italy: Everything is relaxed. People get together to enjoy themselves and
celebrate pleasure and indulgence
Russia: Vey large serving sizes. If you clean up your plate, you will be
served even more. Toasts must be returned. Everyone has to join in Down
in one!
Arabic world: No alcohol. Please only use your right hand for eating. Refusing food is considered impolite. Leave a small bit on your plate to signal
that you are full.
China: Smacking and slurping is permitted. Leave a small bit on your plate
to signal that you are full.
India: Vegetarian dishes are always a good choice. Use silverware in
restaurants; otherwise, use your right hand for eating.
Japan: Its okay to lift your rice or soup bowl to your mouth. Toasts must be
returned. Whoever asks for the restaurant bill is expected to pay.
U.S.A.: Some people only use forks or spoons. Table manners are casual.
After coffee you are immediately presented with the check.
Korea: Use chopsticks or spoons. The guest of honor or the oldest person
will begin to eat first. Smacking and slurping is permitted.
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Should you arrive at the restaurant ahead of your host, wait in the lobby
or at the bar. If this is impossible, then take a seat. Get up again when
the other guests arrive. Your host will decide who sits where.
You dropped your napkin? You tipped your glass over? In fancy restaurants there will always be a waiter to help you. Accept such help.
Should your cellphone start ringing, then apologized and turn it off.
If you must answer the call, then leave the room and only explain the
reason when you return without creating even more disturbance.
Admit mistakes. I just really put my foot in it! Please help me!
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You will need to be able to see the servers. The seat to your right belongs to
the most important guest. Across from this person, the second most important guest gets to sit and next to that person maybe one of your employees
(to hand bread, etc. )
Wine-tasting is done by the host, or by the waiter (if asked to do so).
The meal is not paid for in front of the guests. You will need to take care of
that discreetly or afterwards.
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8. Self-presentation and
image-building
In order to present yourself authentically and confidently, as well as to communicate a positive image of your company, it is important to think about how
you affect other people. This is why you will now create your image profile.
Personally:
What would I have to change for my self-image and the way others perceive me to agree?
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9. Personal style
Individual style consists of a harmonious interplay between your exterior
body with its shape, proportions, height, grooming, color types and your
inner self, which is hidden to a certain degree. It includes your character,
personality and values, but also how you express yourself in terms of body
language, facial expressions and gestures, your voice and pronunciation.
In order to find a good style, you will need to know how you want others
to see you.
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exuberant
formal
friendly
funny
generous
gentle
good-tempered
happy
helpful
imaginative
independent
ingenious
intellectual
interesting
laid-back
lively
natural
open-minded
orderly
patient
persuasive
playful
powerful
practical
reassuring
refreshing
relaxed
romantic
self-confident
sensitive
sexy
sincere
sociable
spirited
strong
stylish
successful
sweet
tender
traditional
trustworthy
unassuming
understanding
unflappable
versatile
vibrant
vital
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10. Styling
10.1. Body check
Emphasize the positive attributes of your body and try to conceal any weak
points by choosing flattering patterns and styles. For this you have to know
the shape of your body and its proportions.
Now you are ready to choose the most flattering necklines, lapels, collars,
and cuts for your shirts, jackets, slacks, suits, and accessories.
10.4. Proportion
Proportions of clothing items, fabrics, accentuations and accessories should
harmonize with your size and girth.
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White
White is fresh, clean, distinct, minimalistic, light, sterile, hard, boring, inviolable; it stands for innocence, purity, wisdom, perfection, holiness, but
also for coldness, emptiness and sacrifice.
Gray
Gray is unassuming, matter-of-fact, neutral, elegant, respectable, old-fashioned; it stands for discretion, submission, and age, but also for inconspicuousness, paleness, hopelessness and boredom.
Black
Black is mysterious, introverted, narrow, hard, heavy, strict, evil; it stands
for night, elegance, power, constriction, depth, withdrawal, raciness and
eroticism but also for rebellion, violence, death, grieving and forbidden
things.
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Creative jobs: Here, style can be more casual. Creativity is often expressed
through very individualistic or even outlandish styles. Of course, there
is always a hierarchy that needs to be maintained within the company.
(Therefore, employees should go by what their superiors wear).
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Styles should match the shape, features, and proportions of your body.
NEVER: Too tight, too wide, too short or too long.
Patterns should match your personality; in a business setting they should
NEVER be too big, eye-catching, unsubtle, or humorous.
Accessories should always match your style and physical appearance.
Often, accessories can be used as an opportunity to turn a rather neutral
and formal outfit into something special or individual. Accessories in a
business setting should always be tasteful and stylish.
Try to afford outfits that will yield the best possible value for the money
you can afford. Quality always shows, especially after having worn items
of clothing a lot. Also, look for excellent fit because even an expensive suit
that doesnt fit well looks sloppy.
Be sure to look for a professional combination of colors, fabrics, patterns,
and accessories. Outfits that are either too conservative or too shrill will not
help you present yourself in an appropriate way.
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Men
White socks, ill-fitting socks (and in a business setting: colored socks)
Slacks at half-mast
Belly-burst shirts
Neckties (too short/too long)
Visible gold necklaces
Comb-overs or ill-fitting toupees
A bad shave
Visible chest hair above the collar
Visible cigarette boxes, pens or cell phones in shirt pockets
Both
Clothing too tight/too slim-fitting
Worn clothing
Crumpled clothing, wrinkles and stains
Bad fake brands
Obvious cheap brands, especially shoes, handbags, and belts
Dirty shoes and worn-down heals
Dirty, unmanicured fingernails
Greasy hair
Visible hair (armpits, legs)
Dandruff
Tattoos, piercings, plugs
Too much/bad, unsuitable perfume
Body odor, sweat marks
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16. Questions
(1) Are you distinctive ? Do you have a brand labeled ME? What are its
characteristics?
(3) How would you introduce yourself to a business partner who doesnt
know you (name, job title, company, etc.)?
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(6) Do you always foot the bill (if you are hosting)?
(8) Do you ALWAYS greet a lady first in a business setting, even though
she is lower-ranked?
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17. Tables
Figure 1: Circle, first impressions and self
18. Bibliography
Mehrabian, Albert: Silent messages. Belmont, CA, 1971
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