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Astrotwins Compatibility Secrets PDF
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(or, as our friend Gabrielle Bernstein calls them, spiritual running buddies). But sometimes, you need a challenge in order to evolve. The person who pushes you
out of your comfort zone, or reflects
your own inner struggles, can be a
powerful teacher. Often, we attract
difficult people unconsciously because our souls yearn to grow. We
need to wake up, pay attention, learn
something. So dont shoot the messengereven if he is a Capricorn (or
whatever sign youve put on your
cosmic s--t list).
As twins, weve been lifelong students of interpersonal dynamics. Its
the nature of being born this way
(cue the Lady Gaga). Sure, weve had
our spats. But weve also been negotiating since the crib, where we shared
toys and even invented our own language. We cut our coexisting teeth on
years of birthday parties, when friends gave us shared
presentsas if we were each half a person. (Trust us:
one memorable fight over a Snoopy Sno-Cone Machine
in 1979 taught us the value of compromise.)
We wrote this guide to help you understand WHY. Why
are these tear-your-hair-out, frustrating relationships in
your life? We say its because theres something for you
to learn. The suffering and friction and conflict...well, it
ceases to be as big of an issue when you understand that
persons purpose in your life on a karmic/soul level. You
stop trying to change them and you quit pretending to
be someone youre not. You can say, This is what Im
dealing with here. Do I accept it or not? The power is
back in your hands.
As astrologers, were all about helping you make a conscious choice from an informed place. Thats what we
love about astrology. It gives you a map, but YOU are
always the driver. So here are a few things weve learned
on our own journeys, through trial and observation,
through hurled objects and weepy reconciliations. May
it bring you peaceyes, even with that person.
As they say, how can you love somebody else unless you
love yourself? Youll find out exactly how deep your selflove runs when you tangle with a signmate. Its like looking in the mirror: On a good day, you steal a few extra
glances at the hottie smiling back. Yeah, baby! But when
your hair is a wreck or an adult acne outbreak strikes,
the last thing you want to see is your own reflection.
When a signmate mirrors your better traits, you find
yourself high-fiving, feeling validated and laughing
aloud with recognition. When s/he presents the ugly
truth about your own flawsor demonstrates a raw,
unevolved trait common to your signyou just want
to run and hide.
For example, as outspoken Sagittarians, we know that
our sign has a rep for bluntness. We adore the refresh-
Iatss raidsingeaasy
bike. .sometimes.
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when youre
1 SIGN APART
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So you think your way is the right way, the only way,
the best way to do things? Think again. Mastering this
relationship means admitting that someone elses standard operating procedure is equally valid to yours. This
can be humbling to the ego, and youll need to swallow
your pride on a regular basis. Adopt a firm Im okay,
youre okay or live and let live stance. There will be
times when youll need to agree to disagree, and even
take cooling-off periods. Just do it.
Deep
healing
and
transformation,
at
times
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when youre
2 SIGNS APART
Heres a cautionary tale of two-signs-apart couple Jennifer Aniston (Aquarius) and Brad Pitt (Sagittarius). In
their wedding vows, he promised to split the difference
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when youre
3 SIGNS APART
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a common goal or cause.
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when youre
4 SIGNS APART
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In trine relationships, youll need to preserve some mystery to keep the spark alive. Otherwise, quicker than
you can say Easy Spirit, your wardrobe goes from
low-rise jeans and thongs to worn-out Hanes Her Way
granny panties and drawstring pants. Remember when
Sagittarius Britney Spears was dating Aries Kevin Federline? It was 24/7 trucker caps, dirty white undershirts
and bare feet in public bathrooms. And there was nary
a potato chip or a Big Mac in America that those two
wouldnt devour.
The trine relationship offers the opportunity to reward
the folks who treat us best...just because. Say thank you
and express gratitude, even if you dont have to. Buy
the cards and flowers. For years, our father, a Sagittarius
landscaper, only brought our Leo mom the red roses she
loved when he clipped them out of a customers garden.
(Cough up the cash, pops!)
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when youre
5 SIGNS APART
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when youre
6 SIGNS APART
Leo: Aquarius
Virgo: Pisces
Libra: Aries
Scorpio: Taurus
Sagittarius: Gemini
Capricorn: Cancer
Aquarius: Leo
Pisces: Virgo
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Energy
The Lesson
Self-acceptance
Friction
Friendship
Tension,
Compromise
power struggles
Conflict resolution
Where you can be stubborn and unyielding
Healing old wounds/parent issues
Adjustment, karma
Karmic repair
Healing a past life contract
Diving into deeper intimacy
Learning to serve/give
How to adjust to someone vastly different
Compromise, balance
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Water: Cancer-Scorpio-Pisces
Leo-Aquarius
Virgo-Pisces
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