ULTIMATE

STYLELIFE
ACADeMY
Training
program
 WHATS IN THE GUIDE
This is a guide to help students who are either
enrolled in Stylelifes Ultimate Training Pro-
gram, or for students thinking about joining.
This guide contains articles about the
features of the Stylelife Ultimate Training
Program:
How to Practice Seduction
Bootcamp Training
Preparing for a Bootcamp
The Stylelife Girl Interviews
The Stylelife Video Training Series
The Ultimate Training Masterclass
Private Phone Coaching
Group Phone Coaching
Using The Stylelife Elite Forum
STUDENT
TESTAMONIALS
In-field is where the magic happens.The instructors
strategically observe us, wing us, and correct us.Their
excellent at pickup and have the skills to effectively
impart this knowledge onto the students.
- Ezekiel
The generosity of the coaches and their wealth of
knowledge was overwhelming. Incredibly giving indi-
viduals. Each one of them took time to share with me.
- Holistic
Changed my life. - Major
Thanks for making such a huge impact on my life -
you guys are helping men not just to become better
lovers, but better people. - Aaron
This weekend was insane. I cold approached more
women than I ever have in my life. The coaches
showed me a level of care and personal growth that
I think is extremely rare for the industry. - Mr. X
I cant say Ive had an experience with such a pro-
found reach into who I am, where Im from, and
where Im going until this bootcamp. Its the begin-
ning of a new era. Thanks for such well organized
and executed training. - Ryan
I had the most amazing time of my life. - Kylar
01 ULTIMATE TRAINING PROGRAM
Letters to style
I receive several hundred emails a day. Heres a
sampling from todays mailbag:
hi style how are you? I think that cool
well I would like to girls pay attention to my
could you help me? thanks
I think its a haiku.
Actually, it brings up a good point.
And that is whenever I talk to people who dont
get it, they think that the game changes depend-
ing on where one lives. They think there is al-
ways an exception. Yeah, but I live in a really
small town, or The women here are different,
and so forth.
The fact is, everywhereregardless of big cities
or small towns, Western countries or remote
Eastern villages, permissive societies or more
restrained areasmen want women to pay at-
tention to them. The mannerisms and interac-
tions may change slightly, but that simple desire
for attention is universal.
And, everywhere, women pay attention to the
same thing.
Hopefully, you all are using all what the Ultimate
Training Program offers to make those changes
to get the attention youve always wanted, from
the way you present yourself to the way you
conduct yourself.
One of the most important ways you can go
about making that all-important change is by
refusing to let others in your life keep you
from making the bold move. Its unfortunate,
but sometimes even our friends can intention-
ally (and not so innocently) hinder our devel-
opment because they want things to remain as
they are. When you grow and change, they feel
threatened. You must convince them that your
metamorphosis is something youre dedicated
to pursuing and that its a positive thing.You can
even elicit their help or encourage them to im-
prove themselves as well. However, if theyre un-
willing to go along for the ride, then sometimes
you simply have to reduceor eliminatethe
time you spend with them.
Its a bold and challenging move to re-shift your
priorities away from people who hold you back.
But in a way, thats what this whole thing is
about: being bold. Another example of the im-
portant ways you can make the bold change nec-
essary to attract female attention is to take up
space. One of the crucial body language lessons
you will learn in at Stylelife is to take up space,
to lounge through the world as though every
nightclub, restaurant, and coffee shop is your
own personal living room. You should be polite
certainly, but dont withdraw into yourself, dont
cram yourself into the corner, and dont meekly
sit on the edge of a couch. Instead, boldly take
up the space you deserve.
Similarly, the simple act of learning to stand out
is a bold gesture for many men. Learn to dress
in a cool, eye-catching manner that reflects your
personal style. Be confident enough to perform
magic illusions or palm readings or other Dem-
onstration of Higher Value (DHV) strategies.
Learn to stand out by telling engaging and en-
tertaining stories. Learn to accept the spotlight
of attention instead of wilting away from it.
Yet another important and bold change is to
move confidently through the world. At lot of
simple magazine articles or self-help texts will
tell you, be more confident. But confidence isnt just a switch you can flip
on and off.You have to build up to it.Thats why the missions in the Stylelife
Academy present information and challenges to you in small chunks. You
master a small task, store away the confidence gained by doing a job well,
and then move on to a bigger challenge. Stack your successes and reflect
on what youve accomplished so you can ultimately reach a point where
you move confidently through the world.
At the same time, it is vitally important to remember that you should
never take yourself too seriously. Were all familiar with guys who are so
obsessive about something that they drain the life out of a room.They feel
their attempt to write a novel, increase their max bench press, or to book
a pilot television show must be the center of every conversation. They
think we should all bow down and be amazed at their supposed determi-
nation. Dont be that guy.
Instead, be dedicated to your transformation, be determined. But remem-
ber to have fun. This journey of building the social life of your dreams
should be a joya challenging one, surebut a time you will look back
upon with great fondness. Laugh at your experiences and even yourself
when necessary. Dont take yourself so seriously that you become one of
those boorish guys no one wants to be around.
These bold changes to the way you present yourself and conduct yourself
will trigger the transformation you desire. Dont lose time and focus wor-
rying about how your situation (or job or hometown or financial status)
is so incredibly unique and specific. Instead, remember that women every-
where pay attention to the same thing. Make those bold changes and youll
learn firsthand about that attention.
S T Y L E
HOW
TO
PRACTICE
SEDUCTION
Seduction is a skill that occasionally rises to the level of an art form.These
great artistic seductions stay with you for your entire life. Whether, its
meeting the woman of your dreams, having a unique sexual adventure, or
just making a great friend - you wont forget it.
Seduction, like all skills, requires practice, and means time, focus, and per-
sistence. Let me explain what that means:
Time: Get started by finding one night a week to practice, if you have the
time try to stay out for three hours.This will give you plenty of time to get
accustomed to the venue and accomplish a few simple goals.
Treat this as classroom time. By that I mean, the venue is your dojo, its
where you come to practice. During this time youre not out to socialize,
your out to practice something that just happens to be social in nature.
Focus: This program will throw a lot of techniques at you. In the end,
you wont use all of them. Choose a few that you think will work for you
and practice them.
During your classroom time, write down (and I mean write down, not
type out) one technique or series of techniques to work on. Practice
what youve chosen all night, then come home and write about it in a field
report. (More about writing field reports on page 6.)
This focus will help you improve specific aspects of the art form. Its similar
to practicing forms or katas in martial arts, drills in sports, and working
specific body parts in the gym.Trying to practice everything in the art form
is impossible, focus on specific pieces and put them together over time, as
you improve.
Persistence: Seduction can be a tough skill to practice, because the
only way to improve at it is to practice in a social environment, and some-
times that means facing rejection. Its all part of the art. Anyone who says
theyve never been rejected while practicing this is lying, selling you some-
thing or both.Think of it like strumming a bad note while learning guitar, its
going to happen, when you start, but it will happen less and less as you con-
tinue to improve. The only way you wont get better is to quit - dont quit.
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THE STYLELIFE BOOTCAMP
The fastest way to improve your game
We all know the pain of failing with women.
Sometimes you meet someone amazing, but she
doesnt feel the same way. That stunning model
in the club is too intimidating to approach or
perhaps you seem to always befriend girls, but
cant figure out how to create a romantic spark.
Well, what if you could learn to be your true,
authentic self, and women found that version of
you to be irresistible? Well, you can.
In 2005, Neil Strauss wrote The Game. Men
everywhere read it and tried to change their
lives. They wanted to experience the thrill of
meeting and connecting with high quality wom-
en. Results varied.
Among the masses Neil met Evolve and The
Sneak, two men whod found extreme success
in this form of self improvement. They both fol-
lowed this important piece of advice:
You cant learn this stuff just reading e-books.
You have to make lots of approaches.
Neil Strauss, Evolve, and The Sneak created a
program that embraces this philosophy. Youll
study the skill of the cold approach and the art
of seduction. Youll learn and practice the tools
until youre ready and then go out to bars and
talk to the women you want to meet.
03 ULTIMATE TRAINING PROGRAM
How do I sign up?
The Ultimate Training Program has a bootcamp
included in the price. Once youre paid in full, log
on to the ultimate training program dashboard,
just sign up for the event in the city where youd
like to take your bootcamp.
How long are bootcamps?
The bootcamps are three days long, they start at
5pm on Fridays, and end at approximately 6pm
on Sunday. They consist of three lecture por-
tions and two nights in-field.
Do I have to be skilled at seduction to attend?
Negative. Our goal is to get someone of any skill
level to the next level. Just bring a notebook and
an open mind.
What is covered in a bootcamp?
Nearly everything. From what to do before you
make your first approach to sex and relation-
ships.
How many people can attend a bootcamp?
To make sure our students get as much atten-
tion as possible, we offer nine spots maximum,
And have a minimum of one coach per three
students.
How to
prepare
for
a bootcamp
A message from Evolve and The Sneak: We want to
express our genuine excitement to meet and work
with you in person. Every bootcamp is an extraor-
dinary experience for us. We never grow bored of
seeing the transformations that take place before our
very eyes.
Dress Code
Every bootcamp has at least a one hour break be-
tween the lecture and the in-field portion. The venues
we attend may be enforcing the following dress code:
No athletic wear of any kind (shorts, jersies, hoddies,
ball caps), flip-flops, sandals, tennis shoes or athletic
shoes, t-shirts, collarless shirts or torn or baggy jeans.
Show up to the bootcamp wearing a nice pair of dress
shoes along with a collared shirt and/or sports coat.
Get Some Sleep
Bootcamps consist of two main sections lecture and
field work. Friday and Saturday, consist of class time
followed by a night out, with specific social goals were
going to be setting for each of you. Once you com-
plete your nightly missions youre free to do what you
want, but we suggest getting home and getting some
rest, especially on Friday night. This is because, Satur-
day is a very long day 10 hours of class time followed
by a very long night out you want to be as awake and
energized as possible.
Drinking Rules
Lets get this out of the way, Jay and I love good beer
and delicious cocktails, however when were out prac-
ticing seduction material, we dont touch the stuff. So
heres the deal with drinking during bootcamps.Youre
not allowed to do it, unless one of the following two
exceptions comes up:
You finish your goals for the night.
Someone you meet in the nightly venue buys
you a drink.

Stylelife Girl Interview
April ONeil
SL: Whats the most common way that a guy
hits on you?
A: A lot of guys talk to me when Im at bars. I
cant think of anything that peaked my interest
though. They say really mundane, average things.
What drink are you drinking? Are you from
here? Do you come here a lot?
SL: How does it make you feel when they ask
that stuff?
A: Bothered. Its like, oh youre talking to me and
I should just talk back out of niceness. But, you
havent peaked my interest with anything excit-
ing or interesting.
SL: Try to think of a guy you know who is excit-
ing and interesting. On paper, he is great, but you
still arent sexually interested.
A: Yeah.
SL: What is he missing? What is that ingredient?
A: Let me think. Its a level or a balance of their
desire to have you desire them. There are some
people that, yeah youre great, and you like me,
but maybe you like me too much.
SL: Thats a turnoff.
A: A little bit yeah. If youre okay with some-
body not liking you, even though you really like
them, thats desirable.
SL: Its extremely important.
A: Its a weird chase thing.
SL: Do you think a guy can benefit from study-
ing the art of seduction?
A: I do, yeah. I think you can improve at anything
if you actually try and do the research. You can
up your skill level, you just have to put enough
effort into it. Practice it enough. Learn to hold
conversations, be an interesting person, say the
right things. You could be using to get in some
girls pants or you could just want to be a more
talkative and interesting.
SL: Whats the sexiest thing that anyone has
ever done for you?
A: I personally like to be rather submissive in
the bedroom and like to be just kind of held
down sometimes. I dont know. I like it.
SL: Why do you think that is?
A: I think because Im such an independent per-
son and like a little bit of a control freak. Not
a control freak, but I like to take care of things
and be in control. I dont like needing people for
other things.
SL: Outside of the bedroom?
A: Outside of the bedroom. So I think when I
go into the bedroom, I like to have the opposite
of that and just like to be taken care of and just
told what to do and not worry about it. Because,
I worry about everything so much on the out-
side, but when I go there, I kind of want to turn
it off.
SL: An expression of your feminine energy.
A: Yeah, Im asking you to tell me what to do.
Theres an interesting thing in sexual submission.
The person submitting is actually the one with
the power.
SL: Um, tell me about that.
A: The person dominating, while they may be
the one saying do this or do that or whatever,
the submissive is the one that ultimately has
the power to be say, no I dont want that actu-
ally. Like this is the code word, or these are the
things I am willing to do to have done to me. So
they actually technically have that power.
SL: How does somebody form that trust? How
does somebody get into the position of being
a dom, if thats something they want to do and
theyve never done before? How do you forge
that with someone?
A: If youre talking about interpersonal relation-
ship with people you know, then its definitely
a thing that needs to be discussed a lot to get
ground rules and wants and dislikes discovered
and there is definitely a trust thing.
Read the full Stylelife Girl Interivews on the
dashboard of the Ultimate Training Program.
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 MASTERCLASS

This is your chance to hang out with Neil

Strauss AKA Style.

The Masterclass is a yearly event, that youre

invited to, that is part of the Ultimate Training
program.The cost of your seat is incldued when
you join the Ultimate Training Progrm.

The Masterclass is generally held every summer

in Los Angeles.
THE ULTIMATE TRAINING VIDEO SERIES The Masterclass constists of three parts:
EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW
1. A two-day lecture with Neil.
Picture this: Weekly classes on the game by the man who wrote the book The Game. Neil Strauss
will be your guide teaching you everything you need to know from A-Z. Every single topic is covered, Neil discusses his newest thoughts, techniques,
from the most basic opening tips, to super advanced lifestyle techniques. and stories about seduction.

This is by far the most comprehensive video series Neil ever filmed. Its delivered to you once week
over the course of 8 months to give you time to digest the material, practice it, and ask any directly
questions to Neil and his top coaches (see Phone Coaching section on page 6).
Heres a glimpse at whats covered throughout each of the modules:
Module 1: Approaching and Inner Game
Module 2: Creating an Attractive Appearance and Authentic Identity
Module 3: Generating Attraction, Flirting, and Building Value
Module 4: Getting her Number and Physical Escalation
Module 5: Dating and Avoiding the Friend Zone
2. A Graduation ceremony for students whove
made it through the whole 8-month program.
Evolve and The Sneak will give students an exam,
and each student who passes will go home with
a graduation certificate.
3. A party hosted by Stylelife with Neil Strauss
and his coaches.
A yearly graduation party for all the students
who attend the Masterclass, Students can hang
with Neil, his coaches and the Stylelife Girls

Module 6: Next Level Connection and Deep Rapport

Module 7: Arousal and Advanced Sexual Technique

Module 8: Relationships Threesomes and Lifestyle

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 Technique
COACHING CALLS
Private 1-on-1 calls
As a member of our Ultimate Training Program
you are more to us than just a customer. You
are a friend, who we want to see experience
the type of success youve only dreamed about.
We will be there for your every step of the way,
answering each of your questions and helping
you past any difficult challenge points you face.
In addition to live face-to-face training with Neil
and his top coaches, youll have constant phone
support both before, and after, your bootcamps
and seminars.
The one hour coaching calls are 1-on-1. Ask
any questions you may have. Reflect on what
is holding you back most with women, or a spe-
cific scenario with one woman in particular.
Every other month in the Ultimate training pro-
gram you will be issued a coaching call credit.
Which you can use to reserve a one hour time
slot with Evolve or The Sneak.
Click to Join the Ultimate Training Program
Group Coaching Calls
What if you could get on the phone to discuss
this issue with one of the worlds leading ex-
perts in seduction?
As a member of the Ultimate Training Program,
you can.
In addition to private, personal, hour long coach-
ing calls, youll also have access to group chats. In
these sessions Style and his coaches debut their
most recently developed strategies, techniques,
and routines, keeping you on the cuttng edge
of The Game.
We record all the group calls. So, if for some rea-
son the group call is at a bad time for you, just
check your dashboard to see if the recorded call
has been uploaded.
The group calls are accompanied by an online
flash chat on the forum, Where you can commu-
nicate with your peers while the call is in session.
THE ELITE FORUM
Your first practice session may feel overwhelm-
ing. You try to recall the events, but few specif-
ics come to mind. Perhaps moments of being
nervous, but not the important things you can
learn the most from. This is because your so-
cial memory is just beginning to develop. By
writing field reports, it develops much faster.
Suddenly, you remember a certain thing you
said, and exactly how she responded.
In time, more and more of the details are clear.
You remember a girl glancing at you while you
were chatting with her friends. You remember
your body language being laid back, leaning
against the bar.
A good forum is a powerful tool and the
Stylelife Elite Forum is the best. With Evolve
and The Sneak personally answering your
posts, and support from your fellow students,
youll get the feedback you need to improve
with every practice session. Soon, youll call
upon your social memory to give you the best
move at the best possible time.
Having you as a member of our community
is important to us, we all learn and grow to-
gether, so your membership to the forum is
lifetime access. Even when the program ends
with encourage you to stick around. Soon
enough, youll be teaching the lessons to the
newer guys, which solidifies them in your own
mind and helps him get to the next level. Plus,
if you encounter a more advanced problem,
say, dealing with multiple girls at once, we still
have your back.
We look forward to seeing you on the boards
and reading your first post!
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