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Michael Sendin Online Dating
Michael Sendin Online Dating
Michael Sendin
Professor Rosenfeld
English 113B
8 November 2017
Back in the day, it was common for people to write a love note and give it to the person
they admired. However, nowadays the physical interactions have been replaced with a more
lazier approach through a digital medium. Such as putting a few love words on a digital page and
sending it from your own home. In the peer reviewed journal, Dispositional factors predicting
use of online dating sites and behaviors related to online dating, Blackhart, Fitzpatrick, and
Williamson construct research of different behavior levels with other college students describing
more of these behaviors (113). When it comes to dating, people have different insecurities that
could cause the person to act or behave a certain way that could be crucial. Self-esteem is almost
like an energy level system where it can reach a point where one can feel they can do anything in
the world but when the person gets rejected; the energy levels get lowered to a critical point of
loneliness. Everyone has a different way as to deal with rejection but some are more extreme as
to use alcohol to drown the tears away and others play games or hang out with love ones to
forget the rejection. Therefore, while online dating has proven itself to bring some people
together, it instead brings nothing but pain to others as well as loneliness due to the lack or
Many online dating websites are structured for people and their specific taste. Like
someone is into a certain race then the person would use the online dating website that is only
meant for one race. Also, what people dont know is that some people dont use online dating
websites. Instead those people who are gamers actually use the
virtual world is a reality. The players would join guilds and play
to show other players their skills and try amaze some players.
the background it looks like he is in the comfort of his home where the walls are yellow and the
desk is magenta and it looks like he has a Shrek poster hanging on the side of the wall and looks
like the Shrek poster is smiling but, smiling towards Superman. Almost as if Shrek is smirking at
him because him and Wonder woman werent a match. This is somewhat of a self-esteem
situation because when people see that there might not be a chance to find the ideal perfect
match they start to lose confidence and might end up of thinking of other ways to get a person to
like them.
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Most people who use online dating websites lie about their profile. Those people put
down anything on the description bar and for their profile picture they put a young fit person
perfect figure confuses people into thinking that who they are isnt good enough and that there is
no one else in the world that could be the significant other. In some statistic matter, most people
agree on saying that there are a lot of people out in the world trying to put down what others
want to hear, but on the other hand a few people say that out in the large and lonesome world
there are people who tell the truth and are hoping some one will love them for who they are, on
Saying that online dating is completely bad is very misleading because there are good
sides in terms of connecting to others. Like the fact that when people go on an online date there
could be many out comes to it. For instance, people who go on the online dating websites might
think that they will find the perfect mate but what the online dating users dont think about is that
they might find a best friend that they know will have their backs in any situation and wont need
to worry about being so lonely. For many others though they have actually found their perfect
match and then they marry after a couple of dates. In the article Convenience with the Click of a
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Mouse: A Survey of Adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder on Online Dating, Roth and Gillis
write more of the people with autism and have a certain disability use online dating for the
reason of them not being able to go face to face interaction. It may seem to look like it is another
excuse, but it is actually a good tool for those who have personal problems or who are disabled
(133).
Many people have thought of just to go out in the so called world to find the significant
other but it isnt that easy for people with autism. Autism is one of the hardest things people live
with and they feel a little discriminate about their problems. Same goes for people who let say
have a miss print in their genetics. What that basically means is that people who were born with,
say an indent in their nose people will think they look a little funny and that it is unattractive.
Those people use the online dating website as a way for people to not know of their personal
problems such as appearances or how they act. It is a dire shame, but this is something that
online dating helps with. Online dating has helped people with autism or a DNA default to find
that significant other that doesnt care about the looks or what kind of mental illness.
Online dating has brought good into the world by helping people find their exact match.
However, when people get to the point of being too lonely then they use the online dating
websites to find the match but they lie on their description page just to get more numbers from
other random people. The disabled people however, have proven to use the online dating
websites for more than to just find the one. They also find long life friends that understand them
and would help them no matter what. I do find it hard to believe that others would have to lie
about them selves to impress some random strange. One must be true to them selves before
being true to others. As some random person once said before nowadays and the main problem
is that people are always reminded on the magazines of super models and these multi billionaires
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that they feel a little insecure which is why online dating is also used and should be but to a
minimum.
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WORK CITED:
Online Dating Sites and Behaviors Related to Online Dating." Computers in Human
Davis, Eden M., and Karen L. Fingerman. "Digital Dating: Online Profile Content of
Roth, Matthew, and E. Gillis. "Convenience with the Click of a Mouse: A Survey
Toma, Catalina L., and Jeffrey T. Hancock. "What Lies Beneath: The Linguistic
Whyte, and Torgler. "Things Change with Age: Educational Assortment in Online
https://www.surveymonkey.com/results/SM-LN72W9ZY8/