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“To me it felt like he was a Talmud
teacher and I was back in yeshiva.”
— Sam Nunberg, former Trump campaign aide and Ramaz School graduate,
describing his testimony before special counsel Robert Mueller’s grand jury.
“It was ‘boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.’ There was nothing subjective,” he added.

Gal Gadot puts Israel


graffiti artist on the map
l After he spent more than a decade the promenade, and eventually took to
painting in the streets of Tel Aviv’s Neve painting on surfboards, cars, motorcy-
Tzedek neighborhood and sketching cles, clothing, and sneakers, he says.
caricatures on the city’s beach prome- His surfboard series combines stars
nade, an unlikely event recently cata- from “Justice League,” including Batman,
pulted graffiti artist Elior Yosef into the Superman, and Wonder Woman, with el-
international spotlight — an Instagram ements from classic works by Leonardo
post by fellow Israeli Gal Gadot. da Vinci, Vincent Van Gogh, Michelan-
Yosef, 30, says the “Wonder Woman” gelo, Salvador Dali, and Pablo Picasso.
star discovered his work on Instagram Each piece is one-of-a-kind and takes
and began following him about three about seven months to create, he says.
months ago. A few exchanges between Yosef’s acrylic creations also incorpo-
the two led him to create a special paint- rate sparkly objects such as Swarovski
ing on a skateboard featuring an acrylic crystals, fragments of perfume bottles,
portrait of Gadot as Wonder Woman. and even diamonds.
“She asked to see more of my art, Since his meeting with Gadot was
so I told her I would come to show her made famous on Instagram, Yosef says
a special piece,” Yosef says. “When I many opportunities have emerged.
showed up to bring it to her, her hus- Though he can’t discuss all the details
band asked me if I was a surfer and I yet, galleries in New York and Los Ange-
said, ‘This surfboard is not for surfing!’ les have shown interest in his work. Col-
Then I took it out of the case and they laborations are in the works with high-
were both wowed.” end fashion companies, who have taken
Growing up by the beach in Neve interest in his paint-splattered jeans,
Tzedek, Yosef spent his childhood paint- leather jackets, and sneakers painted
ing and drawing superheroes. When he with intricate designs.
was 18, he began painting caricatures on REBECCA STADLEN AMIR/ISRAEL21C.ORG

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Noshes
“It’s Yom Kippur so the office is for
all purposes closed. I am in tomorrow
but can speak for the next
3 hours via cell if necessary.”
— Donald Trump’s personal attorney, Michael Cohen, in an email (sent
from his trump.org address) to Stormy Daniels’ attorney.
TV SERIES CATCH-UP:

Teacher serves
as inspiration
Two very different in the cast, BEN SHENK- doctor, Morrison didn’t
TV series pre- MAN, 49, plays the head have an easy childhood.
miered last Tuesday at 9 of the federal prosecu- Her mother was diag-
p.m. Over on NBC, tion unit. Rappaport, a nosed with breast
there’s “Rise,” a musical handsome fellow who cancer when Rachel was
drama based on the grew up in a religious 4 and died when she
nonfiction book “Drama home in Houston, has ap- was 14. Morrison told
High” (2013). The peared in a few recurring Time magazine that she
author, MICHAEL TV roles (including “The turned to photography
SOKOLOVE, 61, grew up Good Wife”). Shenk- and home movies to
in Levittown, Pennsylva- man, Dr. Sacani, was a capture her childhood’s
nia, a blue-collar com- regular on the TBS com- fleeting happy moments
munity that has been in edy “Royal Pains” and and freeze them in time.
an economic slump for Emmy- nominated for his Michael Sokolove Josh Radnor Ben Lee Morrison said that
decades. But it has had performance in the HBO she had to shoot 11 indie
at least one great thing production of “Angels in films before she was
going for it: Lou Volpe, a America.” given a chance to shoot
recently retired teacher a studio movie. Men,
who ran a nationally she said, usually get a
At the movies: studio gig after two or
acclaimed theater
program at Levittown’s ‘7 Days at Entebbe’ three good indie films.
only high school for 45 “7 Days” is the fifth But there’s been prog-
years. JOSH RADNOR, movie to dramatize ress, she says. Women
43, stars in “Rise,” the famous Israeli raid in she’s mentored now get
playing a character, Lou 1976 that rescued 102 a studio gig after two to
Mazzuchelli, who is Israelis from captivity at three indie films, like the
based on Volpe. Radnor, Uganda’s Entebbe men. Her breakthrough
the former star of “How airport. The Israeli film was “Fruitvale Sta-
I Met Your Mother,” is a prisoners had been Ben Rappaport Ben Shenkman Rachel Morrison tion” (2013), a hit indie
practicing Jew and a passengers on an Air film directed by African-
practicing musician. France plane that was another take. critics think the depic- notable Jewish Oscar American Ryan Coogler,
Late last year, he hijacked by four German Leading reviewers tion of the Germans is nominee in my recent who had another hit
released a CD in collab- far-left radicals and (“Hollywood Reporter,” too sympathetic. On the coverage: RACHEL with “Creed” and then
oration with Australian several Palestinians. The “Variety,” “The Guardian,” other hand, the Palestin- MORRISON, 39, the first had the juice to make
Jewish musician BEN film is directed by Brazil- etc.) say that the film is ians, reviews say, are not woman in Oscar history “Black Panther” and to
LEE, 39. ian Jose Padilha, who is curiously flat. The most “gussied up.”. The best to be nominated for the hire Morrison to shoot a
“For the People” is an best known for hit controversial detail is part, all reviews agree, is (best) cinematographer big-budget comic-based
ABC series that focuses Brazilian action pics and the death of raid leader the depiction of the ar- Oscar. Morrison was spectacular. Morrison is
on new lawyers work- for directing two YONI NETANYAHU (the guments between Prime nominated for shooting the first woman to be the
ing for the prosecution episodes of the Netflix brother of the current Minister YITZHAK RABIN “Mudbound.” She is cinematographer on this
and the defense as they series “Narcos.” I’ll cut Israeli prime minister) at and others about what to almost a cinch for type of film. There’s a
litigate criminal cases be- here to the bottom line: the start of the raid and do. (Opens March 16) another Oscar nomina- very good interview with
fore the federal court in based on many film not near its climax, as tion next year: she was Morrison on Time maga-
New York City. BEN RAP- festival reviews — don’t many reports said — and Much better the cinematographer for zine’s website. It includes
PAPORT, 32, plays Seth waste your money on a the other films showed. late than never this year’s mega-mega- a brief video with pics of
Oliver, a newly minted theater showing. But if Padilha says he relied A reliable source hit “Black Panther.” Born her family. Google: Time
assistant U.S. attorney. you are fascinated by on info from Entebbe just told me that I and raised in Cambridge, Rachel Morrison Firsts.
The other tribe member the raid, do rent it to get raid commandos. Most failed to include a Mass., the daughter of a –N.B.

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Mysteries and
Jewishness
Author Julia Dahl
among the three Strong
Women to speak at the
Kaplen JCC on Sunday
JOANNE PALMER

It’s possible that among the many ways to divide the world
into two, one of the best ways is by asking whether or not
you love murder mysteries.
Those of you who don’t, well, my condolences.
Those of us who do understand the way the genre (or
why give in to haters? The art form!), when done well,
fulfills our need for a story that has a beginning, a mid-
dle, and an end; novels that mix intuition with analytic
thought, and characters who have histories, motivations,
families, and voices, and who move through the real world
and encounter the situations and crises that deal with real
problems without getting didactic about them.
Then, of course, there are badly written mysteries;
we’re not dealing with them here. (Or, if possible, ever.)
In what is usually an entirely different category of
thought, there are the questions about Jewish identity
that bedevil many of us. What does being Jewish mean?
Can you be just ethnically Jewish? Culturally Jewish? The-
oretically Jewish? If you are halachically Jewish, what if
anything do you have to do to maintain your Jewishness?
Is it about religion? About DNA? What is it?
So imagine what a mystery-loving, Jewish-world-living
reader thinks when stumbling across a series of myster-
ies about a young reporter, the daughter of a long-van-
ished chasidic mother and a genuinely sweet, nurturing
Protestant father, who explores mysteries in the chasidic
community — mysteries involving both murder and iden-
tity — as she explores the Jewish world she is just begin-
ning to meet.
Julia Dahl — the author of the so-far three books about
the young journalist Rebecca Roberts, a freelancer who
lives in Brooklyn and works for the down-market Trib, a
thinly veiled pseudonym for the down-market New York
Post — will be among the three writers at the Kaplen JCC
on the Palisades’ “Sunday of Strong Women” this week-
end. (See box.)
First, the mystery part.
Ms. Dahl has loved mysteries as long as she can remem- Julia Dahl
ber, she said, although it was only about 10 years ago that
she realized that she could write them. “I started with the New School. Fine arts, though, includes literary nov- “My mother comes from Nashville,” Ms. Dahl said. “Her
Agatha Christie and Stephen King, before they were age- els, not mysteries. “So I wrote a literary novel,” she said. maiden name was Blum, and the other family name is
appropriate,” Ms. Dahl said. “And of course Nancy Drew; “It was terrible.” And then, in a bookstore, she picked up May. Being Jewish in Nashville is a family thing. My fam-
when I was growing up in the ‘80s, there was a reboot of a book by Gillian Flynn — it was her first novel, “Sharp ily is Reform, and they all go to the synagogue on Friday
cool Nancy Drews, and I would read, like two a day. Objects,” not her breakout work, “Gone Girl” — and “I night, and they all go to the Jewish day school there.
“In high school I decided that I wanted to be a writer, thought this is what I want to write. A creepy literary mys- “Being Jewish is at the center of their lives. And they’re
but it didn’t occur to me to wonder how someone could tery, where character and prose matter, and it is thrilling also big Zionists.
make a living as a writer. So when I did start to think about and dark and psychological. “Judaism and Israel are at the center of their lives.”
that, I got into journalism, and I loved it. And of course “And it all came together with ‘Invisible City.’” But things, as often happens, happened. “My mother
I’m still always reading mysteries, and also becoming That’s where the Jewish part comes in. was in California in 1970, and went on a blind date with
obsessed with Law and Order and NYPD Blue and Murder Like her heroine, Ms. Dahl is the daughter of a Jewish my father. They married, and her grandparents sat shiva
She Wrote. My brain has always been attracted to murder mother and a Protestant father; unlike her heroine’s par- for her. She never saw them again.”
mysteries.” ents, her own mother and father remain sturdily and hap- The Dahls live in Fresno. That’s where Julia grew up.
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Ma’adan changes hands


Jonny Shore to take over Cedar Lane fixture
BANJI GANCHROW

Before Teaneck became known for its plethora of kosher


establishments, there was just one place for kosher consum-
ers, or for anyone who enjoyed good take-out. Ma’adan.
It’s 36 years later, now, and Ma’adan still is the crown
jewel of Cedar Lane — but its owners, Stuart Kahan and Yossi
Markovic, are passing the torch. This Teaneck treasure, with
its tried and true appetizers, tantalizing delicacies, and just
plain delicious comfort food, will now be under the owner-
ship of Jonathan “Jonny” Shore.
But do not fear, the cole slaw will be unchanged. All the
recipes are staying. And Stuart and Yossi aren’t going any-
where either, at least not yet.
Mr. Shore, who is originally from Montreal, has lived in
Teaneck with his wife and family for almost 10 years. No
stranger to the food industry, he has built his career work-
ing for various restaurants and kosher caterers. Though a
real state agent had approached him about buying Ma’adan
months before, after reading the Jewish Standard’s story
about its being for sale (“A Fulfilling Life in Food,” July 13,
2017), Mr. Shore had just started a new job and was not
interested.
Still, a seed was planted.
“I knew Stuart and Yossi from the community,” Mr. Shore
said. “I had gone to them for advice about catering and
ordering procedures when I had been part of other food
establishments. They were always so forthcoming and gra-
cious. I knew they were great guys and ran a great business.”
So, a few months later, after some encouragement from
close friends and family, Mr. Shore decided he wanted to
buy the business after all.
One reason for that decision was Ma’adan’s meaning to
the community, Mr. Shore said. “I had read the article in the
Standard and was especially drawn to the fact that Stuart Ma’adan’s old owners, Stuart Kahan, at left, and Yossi Markovic, flank new owner Jonny Shore. BANJI GANCHROW

and Yossi had wanted to stay on for a few years after the
sale. After our first conversation, it just felt right. I wouldn’t and people who depend on us, and we didn’t want to sell busy right before Passover, but after, when things quiet
just be buying a business, I would become part of a 36-year to just anyone,” he said. “We have an emotional connection down a bit, I will be able to learn the ins and outs of making
system of great service and consistency.” to the store, because it has become our second home, and sure things run smoothly.
Mr. Kahan and Mr. Markovic have many reasons to want because the community has let us in to their lives. “But before I do anything, whether it’s making aesthetic
to stay at Ma’adan for a bit longer. “Our wives aren’t ready “We take that responsibility very seriously.” changes to the physical space, or adding new items to the
for us to retire,” they joked. “But seriously, it was very “Ma’adan has done weddings, brisses, shiva house meals menu, I will be running it by Stu and Yossi.”
important to us to make this process as seamless as possi- — they have been an integral part of people’s lives,” Mr. And what are Stuart and Yossi’s plans?
ble,” Mr. Kahan added. “It’s easy to make a recipe, and we Shore said. “There is something very beautiful about that. I After they finally leave Ma’adan, “With God’s help, I am
have all of those recipes for Jonny, but it isn’t as easy to know just want to continue in that tradition.” hoping to travel, volunteer within the food industry, possi-
how much to order to make the recipe, how much to put He knows about how important continuity in a business bly play the guitar and take ulpan,” Mr. Kahan said.
out, when the demand is for certain food item over others. can be to a community, he added; his father and uncle had “For the past few years, on my Wednesdays off, I have
That comes from experience.” owned a pharmacy in Montreal for 60 years, so he has been been entertaining residents of assisted living facilities with
And those are experiences that the seasoned experts are able to see that loyalty firsthand. my comedy,” Mr. Markovic said; he hopes to continue to do
happy to share with their new boss. Ma’adan’s staff will stay in their jobs under the new own- that.
Mr. Markovic emphasized the importance of keeping the ership. As for any changes, Mr. Shore said, “Right now I am “We are confident that Jonny will do us proud and will
transition as smooth as possible. “There are organizations focused on learning the business. The store is extremely continue our legacy,” they both added.

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THE ORTHODOX UNION PRESENTS
Dahl world, the world from which her charac-
FROM PAGE 6 ter’s mother had fled, and to which she
“Both my parents are very religious,” remains somewhat connected.
she said. “My dad was a lawyer, and he “Growing up in Fresno, I had no idea
was a deacon, but as soon as we went to chasidim existed,” Ms. Dahl said. “There

NEW YORK
college, he went to seminary. Now he’s wasn’t even Chabad there in the 80s.
a pastor.” Her mother was active in her And then I moved to Brooklyn, and had
synagogue. the experience of signing a lease for my
“I grew up going to church and going apartment, and the landlord was cha-
to synagogue,” Ms. Dahl said. “Doing sidic and he wouldn’t shake my hand. I
Easter and doing Passover. Both of my realized that we are the same people —
parents were very religious, and we did
all of it. It was very normal to all of us.
and we are not at all the same people. So
who are they?”
SUNDAY APRIL 29 2018, 8:45 am - 6:00 pm
“My parents found more similarities Her interest was piqued. And then,
than differences in their religions. “I moved into an apartment where the SPEAKERS INCLUDE
“For me, I dabbled in being both, and I man who had lived there right before me
always asked myself what it means to be had committed suicide,” Ms. Dahl said.
Jewish,” she continued. Did she ask her- “He was gay; he had been chasidic, and
self what it means to be Christian? No, because he was gay, he was shunned by
she said. “It seems simple. There’s less of the community.
a question. Either you believe in Jesus as “So I was living in this tiny apartment
the messiah and the savior or you don’t.” where this man had lived and died, and Rabbi Efrem Rabbi Moshe Rabbi Dr. Shnayer
Meanwhile, Ms. Dahl’s grandparents I had to know who he was. Who the Goldberg Hauer Leiman
moved to Fresno and became a vital chasidim were. That’s how the story
part of her life. “They lived down the started.”
block from us, and I think they moved In her first book, “Invisible City,”
just to be sure that we were Jewish. My Rebecca solves a mystery in the chasidic
grandmother said, ‘There are enough world. In the second, “Run You Down,”
Christians in the world. We need more she works with the chasidic world in
good Jews.’” upstate New York; the third, “Convic-
Between them and her own under- tion,” is set in Crown Heights and tog- Mrs. Lori Palatnik Mrs. Esther Wein Rabbi Moshe
standing of what it means to be Jew- gles between now and the riots in the Weinberger
ish, her identity seemed to settle on the early 1990s.
ADDITIONAL SPEAKERS INCLUDE
Jewish side (and according to halacha, In all three books, Ms. Dahl’s take on
Jewish law, her mother being Jewish the chasidic world Rebecca encounters Rabbi Yosef Adler Rabbi Yaakov Neuburger
makes her Jewish, no matter what else is open-hearted and sympathetic. She’s
also might be true). “I am not a super- now working on a fourth mystery about
Rabbi Dr. Ari Bergmann Mrs. Sivan Rahav Meir
religious person,” Ms. Dahl said. “To me, Rebecca, set in lower Manhattan, that Rabbi Eliezer Breitowitz Rabbi Yosef Tzvi Rimon
Jewish identity was more about history. centers around NYU rather than cha- Rabbi Moshe Elefant Rabbi Hershel Schachter
It almost felt like a privilege. At birth, I sidim. After that, she’s likely to leave Rabbi Menachem Genack Mrs. Atara Segal
was given the gift of being Jewish. Most Rebecca behind, at least for the foresee- Mr. Charlie Harary Rebbetzin Dr. Adina Shmidman
people don’t get that.” able future. Mrs. Michal Horowitz Rabbi Dr. Avraham Steinberg
So, she said, “The question of what it But she will not leave her Jewish iden-
Senator Joseph Lieberman Rabbi Dr. Tzvi Hersh Weinreb
means to be a Jew has always been part tity behind. It’s not that she’s so deeply
of my life.” connected, she said. “I don’t belong to a Rabbi Eli Mansour Rabbi Gideon Weitzman
Ms. Dahl is married now, and she has a synagogue. I always have a big Passover Rabbi Judah Mischel Rabbi Mordechai Willig
son. Her husband isn’t Jewish, so “what seder. That is important to me. And I Rabbi Elazar Muskin Rabbi Yitzchak Yisraeli
it means to be Jewish will continue to be light the candles on Chanukah. I have a
a central question of my life.” lot of Jewish things, and my friends and
But it wasn’t a question she particu- I talk about things in the Jewish world.
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larly wanted to write about. She wasn’t “I guess that my Judaism is more like
interested in a memoir. So instead, her my arm,” she concluded. “It’s just who I
semi-autobiographical sort-of-alter-ego am. I don’t think about it all the time. It’s American Sign Language interpreters available
investigated a mystery set in the chasidic just who I am.”

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Local

How do your poems


sound in Korean?
Local poet finds out
LOIS GOLDRICH copy of the book last week. “Generally

A
speaking, an editor will tell you within
ccording to Susan Amsterdam 6 months if your work is going to be
— a longtime Ridgewood resi- published,” she said. “After two years, I
dent recently transplanted to assumed he wasn’t interested.” She also
Midland Park — she was a bit was surprised by Mr. Barkan’s request
surprised when poet and publisher Stan- that she read her poems at the Yale Club
ley Barkan approached her after a poetry in Manhattan a few weeks ago. Appar-
reading. ently, the publisher lines up the poets for
It was two years ago, and at Passaic the club’s monthly readings. “There were
County Community College, and the gath- seven of us reading.
ering was celebrating the launch of that “The energy was so warm and friendly.
year’s Paterson Literary Review. Mr. Bar- I’ve discovered at all the readings that
kan “didn’t really talk much,” Ms. Amster- everyone is so enthusiastic about each
dam said. “He was just struck by the poem other’s work. I have found a generosity of
I read. spirit in the poetry world as poets go out of
“When they have launches, people their way to compliment each other’s work
with poems published in the Review are and invite each other to poetry events.”
encouraged to read their work from it,” When Susan and the late Marvin Amster-
she added. That’s what Ms. Amsterdam dam moved to Ridgewood in 1973, they
was doing when Mr. Barkan approached immediately became active in the town’s
her for a “brief conversation,” she said. Temple Israel, Ms. Amsterdam said. “Until
“He said he wanted me to submit four his death in 2004, Marvin was active on
short poems, no more than a certain the board and on the bima as past presi-
length, for ‘Bridging the Waters 2.’ dent and a lay leader, whose tekia gedola
“I didn’t know what that was.” is still remembered by longtime members
Now, she not only knows what it is — a — although he preferred to be known as a
poetry anthology, in Korean and in Eng- Torah reader. When we were honored by
lish — but two of her poems are included the Temple in 1997, we created an endow-
in it, both as written and translated into ment fund that supports the purchase
Korean. Ms. Amsterdam, who volunteers of siddurim for the aleph class and now
as an ESL tutor at the Ridgewood Library, serves as a living memorial to Marvin.”
has two Korean women as her students. She has worked in the cultural affairs
“I’m going to ask them to read my poems department at Passaic County Community
in Korean so I can hear what they sound College for 24 years, helping to organize
like,” she said. many poetry events there, and participat-
“The poems had to be short,” she con- ing in them as well. “But my main respon- Susan Amsterdam LUIS RUIZ

tinued. “Korean poets are represented sibility is to administer the Theater and
as well, and their poems are translated Poetry Project, a grant-funded language children’s theater, free of charge, to stu- creative process.
into English. Even with the proviso about arts enrichment program benefiting the dents who might never have the opportu- Another of her jobs is to provide poetry
length, the book runs to 628 pages.” Paterson public schools,” she said. nity to see it otherwise. She also facilitates writing workshops and a district-wide con-
Ms. Amsterdam said she was “com- Through that project, Ms. Amster- “meet the author” visits, providing stu- test culminating in a printed anthology,
pletely surprised” when she received a dam provides high-quality professional dents with a personal connection to the an awards ceremony, and a reception.
“The entire 300-seat college theater
is packed with student poets, fami-
Two poems by Susan Amsterdam, both first published in Lips
lies, and school personnel,” she said.
LOST HEIRLOOM TALLIS “Naturally, not every child wants to be
Lost is such a trivial word My husband’s chant, so deep and resonant, a link to antiquity, a poet, but for some the experience of
I lost my husband To wooden synagogues decayed and cantors forgotten. using poetry as a means of self-expres-
Not misplaced, forgotten or dropped like an umbrella in a storm Our shoulders touch in the sleek modern pew sion can be transformative.”
Literally lost, lost from my life Warmth emanates from his heirloom tallis, The poem that appealed to Mr. Bar-
Gone — a gap beyond imagination Age-darkened wool trimmed with silver threads. kan was a nostalgic piece about her
But today at the cemetery The tallis — a wedding gift to my father-in-law grandparents’ home, Ms. Amsterdam
I thought of the cosmos From his own new father-in-law recalled. And one of the poems he
And I said to my dead husband In a Polish shtetl a hundred years ago. accepted for the anthology was about
Perhaps you’re like the supernova Today in our suburban temple a very old tallis. “I think he likes poetry
Spewing energy, elements, atoms My husband wears the tallis that has a touch of yiddishkeit in it,”
After all, if the universe re-uses, recycles Bearing history in every strand and sequin. she reflected, though the anthology is
Maybe your essence exploded from your grave He leans toward me with a whisper far from a religious volume. She also
And I can breathe you in And I feel his immaculate beard against my cheek thinks he likes the kind of poetry she
And smell his sweet breath writes, which “is clear, accessible, and
Redolent of breakfast. you can understand what the poet is
saying. I took a fast look at the Korean

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Mr. Barkan and Ms. Amsterdam had met before,
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executive director of the college’s cultural affairs
department and head of its poetry center. Mr. Barkan,
a friend of Ms. Gillan’s as well as a poet, publisher, and
translator, had attended many of the center’s events.
“He has published 400 titles in 50 languages,” Ms.
Amsterdam said; Mr. Barkan also is the editor and
publisher of Cross-Cultural Communications, she
added. “Bridging the Waters” is co-published by a
Korean publishing company seeking to “contribute to
the globalization of Korean literature,” according to a
blurb on the book’s flap. Korean contributions include
poems from Korean Americans.
Ms. Amsterdam, who considers herself “a very pri-
vate person,” said, “It never occurred to me to have
people I don’t know” reading her poetry. While she
wrote a lot when she was young — “I was the kid who
always wrote the bunk pages and the camp yearbook”
— “I hadn’t written poetry in years,” she said. When
her husband was terminally ill, “Life turned, every-
thing changed, and not in a good way. Writing poems
was a way to process my emotions and release them
by creative means.
“One of my earliest memories was of telling my
mother that I liked a particular book,” she recalled.
“We were library-goers, a bookish household. She
said if I liked the book, I should read other books by
the same author. I still remember it as a light-bulb
moment. It didn’t occur to me that books were not Meet Dr. Eitan Okun, head of the Paul E. Feder Alzheimer’s Disease
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Let all who are hungry


Fair Lawn food pantry opens as food insecurity grows
Lois Goldrich

For most of us, the question of what to


eat for breakfast, or lunch, or dinner,
is simply one of decision-making. We
know that the food is there. We simply
have to choose what to eat.
For a growing number of local fami-
lies, however, the question is very dif-
ferent. Their problem is not what to
eat but how to get the food they need,
for themselves and for their families.
The problem of food insecurity is
growing, and the majority of families
that need assistance are working fami-
lies with children. That’s true even
when both partners are employed. It is
not surprising, then, that Jewish Fam-
ily and Children’s Services has opened
a second food pantry, this one in Fair
Lawn. (The other one is in Teaneck.)
Jessica Fleischer, JFCS’s chief oper-
ating officer, said that “the impetus
for opening the Fair Lawn pantry”
— it opened on Wednesday, March 14
— “was our own clientele” from that
area. In January 2017, JFS of Bergen
and North Hudson, headquartered
in Teaneck, and JFS of North Jersey,
which covered Fair Lawn and Wayne, merged to form Jew- year, the number of households was a food pantry manager and staffed by
ish Family and Children’s Services of Northern New Jersey. 140. The year before, it was 128. This Americorps VISTA volunteers. “As an
Clients who need food assistance have been recognized includes people from all over the area. agency, we are incredibly honored and
through clinical situations, Ms. Fleischer said. “We didn’t “If you stick a pin in Teaneck on a map, humbled to provide this service to the
set out to look for it,” she added, noting that the topic sim- the families are coming from a 10-mile community,” Ms. Fleischer said, and
ply arose during the provision of services or counseling radius,” she said. Clients may be self- “we’re hopeful and optimistic” that the
through the agency’s mental health clinic. Some clients, referred, come through the agency’s venture will be successful.
the agency’s staff has found, suffer from food insecurity. own clinical or job readiness programs, Fair Lawn’s Mayor Lisa Swain said
Others are experiencing “real hunger.” or be referred by other agencies. she is happy to welcome the new pan-
Ms. Fleischer said the problem “cuts across the board. The Teaneck pantry is “stocked like a try. “Many people today are in need of
The first 10 clients [at the new pantry] will probably supermarket,” she said. “Families shop extra help from time to time, and we are
include three or four seniors and six or seven families with for what they need.” In addition, since grateful these services are conveniently
children. That is what we’ve experienced in Teaneck. it’s by appointment only, and only one located in Fair Lawn and will provide
“The majority who come in are working adults,” she person shops at a time, people’s privacy much-needed assistance,” she said.
said; the community does not have the problem of chronic and dignity are respected. “We provide Rabbi Andrew Markowitz, associ-
unemployment, she added. But insufficient income, “com- one person with enough time to come ate rabbi at Fair Lawn’s Congregation
bined with rather significant decreases in food stamps,” and go,” she said. “There is nobody who Jessica Fleischer Shomrei Torah, said that the syna-
has caused the problem to increase. She noted that one comes who doesn’t need it.” gogue and the Fair Lawn community
senior gets food stamps — but now it’s been reduced and When clients come, the agency takes the opportunity to “are lucky” to have the services of the new pantry. “Unfor-
he receives only $13 a month. do a thorough assessment of them, reviewing employment, tunately, the needs of our community are great and JFCS
Rather than advocate for increased benefits, “our budget, and what a sustainability plan might look like. provides important leadership in bringing these critical
strength as an agency is to help clients advocate for “We’ve also started offering meal replacement snack services to our community.
themselves,” Ms. Fleischer said. She noted, however, bags for clinical clients — any day every day,” Ms. Fleischer “In the Ha Lachma Anya paragraph of the Passover
that JFCS does participate as an agency in advocacy orga- said. “We consulted a nutritionist. Kids were coming in seder, we recite ‘This is the bread of affliction our ances-
nizations when it’s appropriate. “If benefits are denied, hungry. It’s open to everyone — we would give it to any- tors ate in the land of Egypt. Let all who are hungry come
we will help clients file appeals, go to meetings with one who asked — but 25 percent of our child clients have and eat,’” he continued. “This declaration is made at
them, or sit with them during phone calls,” she said. “It’s requested snack packs.” the beginning of the seder to teach us that a Jew cannot
person-to-person advocacy.” Ms. Fleischer said the pantries get their food in sev- feel free at his seder unless he or she has ensured that
The agency has seen the need to open a second food eral ways. “We’re blessed to have communal partners everyone has enough to eat for the holiday. The notion of
pantry for the last two years, Ms. Fleischer said. “We’re — synagogues and other organizations — do fundraising ensuring that ‘all who are hungry come and eat’ applies
only a year into our merger. It was one of our goals.” In on our behalf. We’re also a partner of the Community all year round.
the meantime, she said, JFCS has referred people in need Food Bank of New Jersey and get direct donations.” JFCS “We at Shomrei Torah look forward to continuing our
to the Food Action Center. “All pantries work together,” is hoping to put in a fridge and freezer in its Teaneck partnership with JFCS on this and other worthy projects
she said. “We refer clients back and forth and share office so it will be able to offer meat, dairy, and eggs, “if in the future,” Rabbi Markowitz added.
resources.” we can get it.” For more information, or to become involved in the Fair
Ms. Fleischer said that this year, the agency antici- The Fair Lawn pantry initially will offer only dry goods, Lawn Food Pantry project, email the food pantry’s man-
pates serving about 195 households, or 1,500 clients. Last because it will not have a refrigerator. It will be run by ager, Sari Schnipper, at saris@jfcsnnj.org.

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Coming to America
Exchange program brings 12 Israeli
high schoolers to homes near you
LARRY YUDELSON an emotional thing for me, I would often
procrastinate ridiculously.
They’re here. “I know the federation does wonderful
Well, they’re expected to be here. At things. I thought it would be a perfect way
press time we don’t know that they actu- to memorialize and honor Scott.”
ally arrived. Once the idea was put forth, Dina’s sis-
They are a dozen high school students ter, Lisa Pazer, also was on board.
from Nahariya. During their week here — Last year, Ms. Steinberg hosted some
scheduled to begin on Thursday, March of the Nahariya high school students who
15 — they will visit Jewish and non-Jewish came on the exchange program.
schools, New Jersey malls and Manhattan “They were adorable,” she said. “We
tourist attractions, and — perhaps most had them in our homes for a week. We
importantly — make friends. loved having them.
They’re half of the Jewish Federation of “They’re very worldly. They bring a
Northern New Jersey’s Scott Pazer STEM background that we don’t have in Amer-
Exchange Program. The other half will be ica. They have different ideas and customs.
18 students from the Bergen Academies, They’re different — but they’re the same.”
who will go to Israel in May. Ms. Steinberg isn’t hosting any students
This is the second year for the exchange this year. “We want to give the opportunity Israeli Air Force
program, but the first year that it bears to other families,” she said. cadets from
Scott Pazer’s name. It was just endowed by Her advice for this year’s hosts: “Enjoy Nahariya visit the
the family of Scott Pazer, a college student their company. Sit down to dinner and lis- Frisch School in
who died suddenly 33 years ago. ten to them and learn about their culture. Paramus as part of
“We are beyond thrilled to be receiving Enjoy being with them. Learn what they last year’s STEM
the Pazers’ grant,” Franci Steinberg said. do at home.” Exchange Program.
Ms. Steinberg chairs the federation’s Part- Ms. Steinberg’s daughter, Simone, is in
nership 2Gether committee, which over- high school, a year behind last year’s visi-
sees the federation’s cooperation with its tors, and she was struck by the different
Israeli sister city, Nahariya. life paths girls in the two countries face.
Ms. Steinberg lives in Tenafly, as does “They go into the army before college,”
Scott’s sister, Dina Bassen, who also is she said. “It’s their way of life. They’re
involved with the federation. Ms. Bassen focused on that. They lead a little bit of
told her mother, Shelly Pazer, who was a difficult life, they know it, and they’re
Scott’s mother, about the STEM exchange proud of it.
program. “They loved the shopping. Every group
“She knew for quite a while that I was that comes wants to go to an American
looking for the right venue to memorial- mall, which is so funny. They love how
ize her brother,” Ms. Pazer said. “She said, everything is so accessible — the shopping, Facebook names and all the messaging since they’ve been back in Israel. That’s
‘Mom, maybe the federation would be a the clothes, the food. and they start talking to each other. Before what we’re looking for.
wonderful way to make this donation.’ I “They love American kids. Once they you know it they’re friends forever. My “The cultural exchange and friendship —
said ‘Now is the time.’ Because it was such meet the kids, they start exchanging daughter has been talking with these kids that will be forever.”

Remembering Scott Pazer an election. I looked out the window when he came
off the school bus. He had a very dour expression. He
LARRY YUDELSON wonderful young man as a son. walked in. I didn’t want to pounce on it. I assumed he
“When I went to Tufts after he died didn’t win. He said, ‘Aren’t you going to ask your son
In hindsight, his family learned that for a memorial service the students what happened in the election? I won. I’m president.’
something was very wrong with Scott organized, they said ‘Scotty was our “He didn’t want to make a big thing out of it. I think it
Pazer’s heart. rabbi.’ People would come to him was also a way of teasing me.
Nineteen years old, a sophomore with their problems. He listened to “He was the star on the debating team.
at Tufts University, he didn’t wake up people. He had a lot of empathy. He “One summer, Scott got himself a job with a landscap-
one morning, 33 years ago. was wise beyond his 19 years.” ing family. They were all men of the soil, working very
“He died from acute arrhythmia, He also was an avid jogger. hard. He liked it. At the end of the summer they said to
very much like the sudden death of “He would jog in any sort of him, ‘Who knew a Jewish kid from Dix Hills could work
infants,” his mother, Shelley Pazer, weather,” his mother said. “He was so hard?’”
who lives on Long Island, said. extremely disciplined. He had a won- He took up jogging when he was 13.
“He was a very hardworking, intel- derful sense of humor. He was always “He decided he wanted to lose weight,” Ms. Pazer
ligent young man who had an affin- Scott Pazer like president of his class. He was said. “There was no drama. He just did it. Then he
ity with all sorts of people,” she said. president of his middle school.” became very very slim. He was very very proud. He
“He was principled. He had many convictions. If I had His mother has a story about “how low key he was. ran marathons. He did very well. But he never, never
ordered him from a catalog, I couldn’t have had a more “He was about 12 or 13,” she said. “I knew there was bragged.”

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Briefly Local

Areyvut breakfast is this Sunday


Areyvut will be hosting its annual break- many organizations including Friends of
fast on Sunday, March 18. Billy Cook of Lubavitch, Bikkur Cholim, and the Great
Washington Township, founder of Billy’s Big Challah Bake, all of Bergen County; the
BASEballs, is among the honorees. Janet Teaneck Food Pantry and the Young Israel
Hod of Teaneck, will receive Areyvut’s of Teaneck. In addition, she uses the box-
Community Leadership award. ing skills she developed as a former junior
The nonprofit that Billy Cook, a high boxing champion to volunteer at the boxing
school junior, runs aims to provide cheer program at the Jewish Home at Rockleigh.
to military troops home and abroad. Peo- The breakfast is at 9:30 a.m., at Con-
ple write and draw messages on baseballs gregation Bnai Yeshurun in Teaneck.
that he then sends to U.S. troops. He is a Areyvut is a New Jersey-based non-profit
member of Temple Beth Or in Washing- dedicated to the core Jewish principles
ton Township. The organization stemmed of chesed, tzedakah, and tikkun olam.
from his bar mitzvah project. For information, to make a reservation
In the 27 years that Janet Hod has or donation, call (201) 244-6702 or email
lived in Teaneck, she has volunteered for info@areyvut.org.

Judith Jaffe, left, director of congregational learning at Shomrei Torah


Conservative Congregation in Wayne, and Grace Gurman-Chan, educa-
tional director at the United Synagogue of Hoboken, next to her, were
among the participants at conference in Israel. PHOTO PROVIDED

JEA holds annual conference in Israel


The Jewish Educators Assembly, The conference aimed to give par-
the Conservative movement’s orga- ticipants a better understanding of
nization for professional educators, what Israelis face in their everyday
PHOTO PROVIDED

held its 66th annual conference lives, Israel’s accomplishments and


in Israel. The gathering brought technological achievements, and a
together congregational school edu- look back at history. Some participants
cation directors, bureau and agency continued on to Prague to learn about
personnel, and family and informal the Jewish community there, visit the
Woodcliff Lake shul educators from across North Amer- synagogues of the old Jewish quarter,
ica and Israel. and stop at the Terezin ghetto.
represented at AIPAC
Members of Temple Emanuel of the Pas- Todd Stewart, Marty Prince, Larry Feiler,
cack Valley attended the AIPAC confer- Brian Feiler, and David Cantor are in the
ence in Washington from March 3 to 6. middle row, and Simone Wilker, Norma
Top row, from left, Jeff Pittel, Josh Cohen, Walsky, Serena Steinfeld, Susan Prince,
Jeff Cohen, and Richard Wilkes. Robert Geri Cantor, and Sheryl Pittel are in
Walsky, Liz Stewart, Cantor Alan Sokoloff, the front.

JCT lecture on women’s talmud Torah


The first annual Sara Lamm Dratch a’h Memorial
Lecture was held last month at the Jewish Center of
Teaneck. Jackie Rosensweig spoke about the histori-
cal development of women’s talmud Torah from the
Bais Yaakov movement to opening of talmud study for
women. A large audience of women and men attended
the lecture. A question-and-answer period followed.
Sara Lamm Dratch, a beloved wife, mother, sister,
and aunt who died five years ago, was the daughter of
Rabbi Dr. Norman and Mindy Lamm.
Communicating art and soul
Lubavitch on the Palisades celebrated thought, giving insight and practical
Jackie Rosensweig the graduation of participants in its ways to enhance communication with
 MICHAEL LAVES adult education course, “Communica- our spouses, children, and friends in
tion: Its Art and Soul,” led by Rabbi Mor- this technologically advanced age. Class
dechai Shain, pictured, with the class. recordings and upcoming classes can
Rockland Jewish Family Service The six-week course compared scien- be found at www.chabadlubavitch.org/
tific discovery with traditional Jewish adulteducation.
to be honored Sunday
The Nanuet Hebrew Center’s annual jour- Rockland Jewish Family Service, recipi-
nal awards ceremony and brunch recep- ent of the Stanley Blumenthal Community
tion is on Sunday, March 18, at 9:30 a.m., Service award. There will be an online Keep us informed
at the Rockleigh. This year’s honorees journal. For information call the shul We welcome photos of community events. Photos must PR@jewishmediagroup.com
be high resolution jpg files. Please include a detailed
include Adam Sayer and Bruce Pollack, office at (845) 708-9181 or e-mail journal@ caption and a daytime telephone. Mailed photos
NJ Jewish Media Group
immediate shul past presidents; and nanuethc.org. will only be returned with a self-addressed stamped 1086 Teaneck Rd., Teaneck, NJ 07666
envelope. Not every photo will be published. (201) 837-8818 x 110

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Briefly Local

Abby and Scott Herschmann and family Dana Septimus and Joseph Nini Berger and family Eli and Shoshi Hason
Feldman and family

Moriah celebrates annual dinner at Metlife Stadium


The Moriah School in Englewood held its Joseph Feldman were the Young Leader- The program opened with the Moriah clubs.
53rd annual dinner on motzei Shabbat on ship awardees, and teachers Nini Berger choir, followed by a welcome from Mori- Alen Gollender and Alex Solomon were
March 3 at Metlife Stadium in East Ruth- and Shoshi Hason received Rabbi J. Shelley ah’s board president, Aaron Yunis. Next, the dinner campaign co-chairs, and Nira
erford. Nearly 700 came to celebrate the Applbaum z”l Service awards. More than the head of school, Daniel Alter, pre- Feldman, Shira Forman, Talia Gollender,
school. Abby and Scott Herschmann were $1.2 million was raised for Moriah’s schol- sented “Moriah Moments.” Dinner was Rachel Heumann, and Lisa Schechter were
the guests of honor, Dana Septimus and arship and financial aid programs. served in one of the stadium’s field-access the dinner co-chairs.

NJ elders organize vigil against gun violence


Residents of the Jewish Home Family, “As elders, we wish to step up and add tragedy,” the Jewish Home Family’s presi- the same way, bringing together residents,
which includes the Jewish Home at Rock- our voices to the effort to address school dent and CEO, Carol Silver Elliott, said. families, visitors, and staff in a national
leigh and the Jewish Home Assisted Living violence and increased violence in our “Our residents want to express their con- moment of silent unity. In this way, we
in River Vale, have united with their peers society,” reads a statement from the resi- cern and want to step forward as grand- will mourn the senseless loss of life and
nationwide to hold a vigil against gun vio- dent activists. “We will honor those whose parents and great grandparents, focused express our support for positive change.”
lence on the eve of the national March For lives have been lost and add our support on protecting our youth. We can’t join The Jewish Home Assisted Living is at 685
Our Lives in Washington. They will come to the movement for change,” Helaine the marches that are taking place. It’s just Westwood Ave. in River Vale, and the Jew-
together on Friday, March 23, at 2 p.m., for Glantz, who lives at the Jewish Home not possible for our older adults, many of ish Home at Rockleigh is at 10 Link Drive in
a moment of silence and reflection at both Assisted Living, said. whom have difficulty walking. So we are Rockleigh. It is necessary to make reserva-
campuses. The vigil will coincide with the “All of us, staff and residents alike, expressing ourselves in another way, join- tions to go to the rally, which requires tight
“March for our Lives,” which will be held have been thinking and talking about the ing older adults in other senior commu- security. RSVP to sbuchwald@jewishhome-
in many cities nationwide on March 24. issue of gun violence and the latest school nities, holding a vigil at the same time, in family or call (551) 444 3183.

We invite the
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Wishing everyone a Chag Sameach!


possibly expanding funding to work with Israeli tech
companies that can help the U.S. better protect itself
from foreign interference. Bill Nelson is serving his
third term in the U.S. Senate; he will run for re-elec-
tion this year.
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Rockland
Where the Jewish films are
Rockland film festival comes to Nanuet in April
Larry Yudelson she said. “When I saw that, I brought this up to our CEO. It

T
took over a year to convince them to do it. I learned it by the
he Israeli baseball team. Martin Landau’s last film. seat of my pants.”
Hedy Lamarr, the gorgeous Hollywood actress, She took to calling the directors of Jewish film festivals
Austrian refugee, and scientist who invented the around the country — New York, Baltimore, the San Fran-
radio technology that underlies WiFi networks. cisco Jewish Film Festival, which was the first in the country
Elliot Gould. Sammy Davis Jr. Comedies and dramas. Stories in 1980 — and asking: How do we start one?
of life before, during, and after World War II. “We got a tremendous amount of help from the film festi-
Yes, it’s a film festival — specifically the 15th annual Rock- val community,” she said. “It’s grown from there every year.”
land Jewish Film Festival — 18 films coming to Rockland Back in 2004, movies still arrived on 35 millimeter film.
County in April. Most playing at the Regal in Nanuet; all Now the film festival team previews films on DVDs or Blue
accompanied by speakers waiting to field questions after Ray disks on a 50 inch TV screen at the JCC; the films are
the presentation. screened in the theater on Digital Cinema Package hard
And if you find yourself going out to Jewy movies night drives, with Blue Rays for emergency backup. ( Over the
after night this spring, you’ll have Micki Leader of Orange- years, Ms. Leader has learned that “Whatever can go wrong
burg to thank. Ms. Leader came up with the idea for the film will go wrong.”)
festival, convinced the Rockland JCC to take it on, served as This year, the volunteers on the programming commit-
the chair, and then, after “retiring” from the time-consum- tee watched some 70 films. How do they find out about the Micki Leader
ing volunteer position to become chairperson emerita, is new ones? Distributors suggest some of them; they learn
back in the saddle this year, leading the coordination of the about others from other festivals. The San Francisco film Alison Chernik will introduce her film, Itzhak, about
$80,000 project. festival kicks off the season in July. “We look at what they’re Izhak Perlman. Ms. Chernick is a Rockland native: She
It was 16 or 17 years ago that Ms. Leader, a member of the showing. That’s when we start to request our screeners,” grew up in New City and went to Clarkstown High
board of the JCC, was reading a publication of the national Ms. Leader said. School. For the opening night of the film festival, on
JCC Association which had a feature “about how young Jew- A variety of factors come into play in the selection deci- April 3, the three men who made the film “Heading
ish people who had no affiliation with synagogues or any sions. There’s an effort to balance foreign and American Home,” about the Israeli baseball team, will speak
Jewish organizations were getting their culture, history, and films. “This year we have more English films than ever about it.
current events information largely from film and television,” before,” Ms. Leader said; that’s because the programming But when the filmmaker is in Japan or Israel or even
team has heard many com- California, it can be trickier. There’s the matter of the
plaints about too many sub- budget again.
titles. There’s also the ques- “We try to get people who are local to the metropoli-
tion of cost. Many film festivals tan area,” Ms. Leader said. “You do a lot of research.
demand entry fees from film- You ask a lot of people.”
makers, Jewish film festivals So for “Bombshell: The Hedy Lamarr Story,” the dis-
seek to nurture Jewish culture tributor connected them to Fleming Meeks, the jour-
by paying rental fees for the nalist whose 1990 interviews with Ms. Lamarr are at
films they screen. Some films, the center of the film.

L ’ Shana
though, are too expensive for How many people come to the film festival? More

L ’ Shana
Rockland’s budget. than 5,000 last year, Ms. Leader said.
And then there is the matter “It’s a celebration of global Jewish life,” Ms. Leader
of getting a speaker to go with said. “It’s history, complexity, and culture. An incred-

Tovah!
the film. ible diverse number of films and an incredible diverse

Tovah!
“The introductions by the number of attendees. We get people from New Jersey
producers, directors, writers, and Westchester and even New York City.”
or actors are wonderful. The Q When you go from New Jersey to Manhattan for
& A, the energy — that’s what a film festival — or anything else — you have to pay
makes it a film festival!” Ms. tolls. To go to Rockland from New Jersey is free. And
Leader said. so is parking.
Wishing you a sweetyou
Wishing newa sweet
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Most films show in Regal Films in Nanuet. “It’s
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Itzhak Perlman’s inspiring musical journey captured


in documentary to play in Rockland next month
Curt Schleier life, from his birth in Tel Aviv and his early

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struggle with polio, to his appearance on
tzhak Perlman, arguably the most “The Ed Sullivan Show,” to the enormous
famous violinist in the world, has concerts he has played around the world —
heard plenty of questions in his but it inevitably appears.
50-year career. In one scene, he shares a Shabbat meal
But when asked if his religious her- with his children and grandchildren. (He
itage has affected his playing, he never travels or performs on Friday eve-
sounds stumped. nings.) In another, shot in Israel, he takes
“I’m a violinist. I’m Jewish, so that director Alison Chernick, who grew up in
makes me a Jewish musician,” he said in a New City, on a tour of the many streets
recent phone call from Singer Island, Flor- named for famous figures in Israeli and
ida, where he is to perform at a benefit. Jewish history. Then there’s a visitor, a
“I’m a musician who just happens to be friend from Boston, who worries that the
Jewish. When I play klezmer ... “ pickles she brought as a gift don’t have the
He doesn’t get to finish the thought Kosher K on their label. Itzhak Perlman, shown in a scene from the documentary “Itzhak,” endured hard-
because he is interrupted by Toby, his wife The film is most interesting when it ships to become arguably the most famous violinist in the world.
of more than 50 years. “I think that’s not shows Perlman in private moments, often  Courtesy of Greenwich Entertainment

true,” she says in the background. “I think in conversation with Toby. The pair met at
you’re the embodiment of a Yiddle with a music camp, and after hearing him play since 1967. I think he’s the greatest? Yes. But if he’s
a fiddle.” just once, Toby went to Itzhak’s bunk and At one point in the film, Toby points out sharp, or I believe I see a bad habit that
Perlman, 72, is the subject of a new doc- proposed to the Israeli virtuoso, then 17. “I that a note he played was out of tune. has crept into his playing, I’ll tell him.
umentary, “Itzhak,” which opens soon and was hopelessly in love with him,” she says “About his playing, nobody else is going I’m truthful.”
will play in Rockland, at the Regal Theater in the film. Perlman had one other girl- to be honest with him,” she said. “Every- Perlman hasn’t encountered much criti-
in Nanuet, on April 11. His Jewishness is not friend after that, but eventually he came one is going to tell him ‘you’re so great.’ cism of his playing over the decades. He
front and center — the film spans his entire back to her, and they have been married I’m going to say ‘you’re so great,’ too. Do See perlman page 60

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Rockland

Celebrating Passover in Montebello


Congregation Shaarey Israel offers a The shul is at 18 Montebello Road,
full schedule of Passover services and in Montebello. All are welcome.
94 Demarest Mill Road, Nanuet, NY 10954
94 Demarest Mill Road, Nanuet, NY
Phone (845) 10954
623-5800 Fax (845) 623-6921 events. A community seder led by Can- For information and seder reserva-
www.Rocklandbakery.com tor Menachem Bazian is Saturday, March tions, call (845) 369-0300, or go to
Phone (845) 623-5800 Fax (845) 623-6921
94 Demarest Mill Road, Nanuet, NY 10954 31, at 8 p.m. Community Yizkor is on Sat- shaareyisraelrockland.org for a full list
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Phone (845) 623-5800 Fax (845) 623-6921 urday, April 7 during Shabbat services. of Passover events.
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Happy Passover OU director speaking in Monsey


The Community Synagogue of Monsey tackle “Are We On The Verge Of WWIII?
and the Stern family invite the commu- — The Shia, The Sunni, The Iran Agree-
Happy Chanukah nity to the 21st annual Israel and Pearl
Stern Memorial Lecture. This year it is
ment, JCPOA (Russia, China, Germany,
France, England and The United States)
in memory of Lila Stern, who died in and Israel.”
Happy Chanukah September. The morning event, which The shul is at 89 West Maple Ave., in
includes brunch, is on Sunday, March Monsey. There will be no solicitation.
18, at 10:15 a.m. For more information, call (845) 356-

Happy Chanukah
Rabbi Steven Weil, senior managing 2720 or go to comsyn.org.
director of the Orthodox Union, will

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In commemoration of Yom HaShoah —
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her father David Friedmann’s work — and 157-158). It’s under the auspices of the Gross
preserve his legacy. Her talk is on Mon- Center for Holocaust and Genocide Studies
day, April 9, at 1 p.m. at Ramapo College and Hillel of Ramapo.
of New Jersey in Mahwah, in the Robert A. Email holgen@ramapo.edu or call (201)
Scott Student Center (alumni lounges, SC 684-7409.

Yom HaShoah commemorations


Please join us for the 6th Annual
Jeannie Opdyke Smith will be the keynote Ms. Smith is part of a new generation
Community Seder led by Chazzan Bazian speaker for Rockland County’s commu- of Holocaust speakers who share life sto-
nity-wide Yom HaShoah commemoration ries from their parents’ first-hand expe-
SATURDAY, MOTZEI SHABBAT · MARCH 31 AT 8:00 PM on Sunday, April 8, at 5 p.m. This year’s riences. She is a member and speaker
memorial will be at the Orangetown for the Oregon & Washington Holocaust
Please join us on the second night of Passover
Jewish Center, 8 Independence Ave., in Speakers Bureau, a regular speaker for
as we tell the story of our exodus from Egypt. Orangeburg. the Anti-Defamation League, the Bearing
Following the reading we will have a full catered Jeannie Opdyke Smith is the daughter Witness program, and the Jewish Federa-
of Irene Gut Opdyke, a Polish woman tion of North America.
Seder meal. From brisket to nuts. who rescued Jews during the Holocaust. •
Cost $54 per person · Family $136 Irene, who died in 2003, received interna- The Justice Brandeis Law Society has
(two adults & up to 2 children, $18 additional children) tional recognition for her bravery during a Yom HaShoah commemoration on
the Holocaust as she worked as a house- Sunday, April 11, at 3 p.m., in the Rock-
DEADLINE IS MARCH 23
keeper for a high-ranking German official. land County Courthouse, Jury Room,
Please call the office (845) 369-0300 Irene’s life story was told on Broadway in 2nd Floor, 1 South Main St., in New
if you would like to join. the nationally acclaimed play “Irena’s City. Alexander Levy is the keynote
Vow” starring Tovah Feldshuh. speaker. For information, call (845)
• 574-4099, or email awinograd@holo-
CONGREGATION On Monday, April 9, at 12:30 p.m., Ms. cauststudies.org.

SHAAREY ISRAEL Smith will speak in the Technology Center,


Ellipse, at Rockland Community College,
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Israeli rescue workers stand over victims’ bodies at the scene of a Palestinian suicide

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bombing on a passenger bus in Jerusalem on June 18, 2002. Yossi Zamir/Flash 90

Running out of time


American survivors of suicide bombings in Israel
hope against hope that Supreme Court will take their case
Joanne Palmer Massachusetts — says yes, according to the Pentagon, who also wrote a brief in favor in Cedarhurst, one of Long Island’s Five

S
amicus brief it filed. of the plaintiffs. Towns, and who had ironically, terrify-
hould victims of suicide bomb- So does the entire House of Represen- So does Noam Sokolow, the Teaneck ingly, mind-bogglingly survived the Sep-
ers who were wounded, or whose tatives, according to a unanimous amicus restaurateur and local entrepreneur tember 11 terrorist attacks — he’d been on
family members were murdered, brief it filed. whose brother Mark is the named plain- the 37th floor of the south tower, and got
during the second Palestinian inti- So does a group of former high-ranking tiff in the case. out just in time, before the second plane
fada be able to get damages from the PLO federal officials that includes retired Con- But that’s not a view shared by the Justice hit and that second tower collapsed — was
and the Palestinian Authority? necticut senator Joseph Lieberman, for- Department, whose solicitor general, Noel in Israel, with his wife and two younger
The lower court said yes. The appellate mer Republican attorneys general John J. Francisco, wrote an amicus brief urging daughters, visiting their oldest daughter,
court said no. Now it’s up to the Supreme Ashcroft and Dick Thornburg, and one- the Supreme Court not to take the case. who was spending her gap year in Jeru-
Court. time FBI director Louis Freeh. So what’s going on here? salem. “Why?” Noam remembers asking?
Should it take the case? A group of 23 So does Ted Olsen, who was George W. Noam Sokolow remembers sitting at What could possibly be wrong? “Turn on
senators — a bipartisan group ranging from Bush’s solicitor general, whose first wife, home on Sunday, January 27, 2002. He’d the news,” his friend advised. And there he
Ted Cruz, right-wing Republican of Texas, Barbara, was killed in the plane hijacked gotten a call from a friend, asking how his saw that there had been a suicide bomber,
to Elizabeth Warren, left-wing Democrat of on September 11 and flown into the brother Mark was. His brother, who lives the first woman to kill herself in that way

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in Jerusalem, just outside a shoe store on abroad. So an American killed or injured


the Jaffa Road. by an act of terrorism abroad can bring
A victim had died in that attack; Pinhas suit in an American court. Of course, you
Toklatli, an 81-year-old painter, fifth-gen- have to be able to serve someone, but as
eration Jerusalemite, husband, father, and long as that person is served under the
grandfather. (If you have a really strong provisions of the act, you can bring suit.
stomach, google images of him. You’ll see “For example, if ISIS were to kill an
what a suicide bombing victim looks like. American in Iraq — you can’t serve ISIS in
Newspapers didn’t use these photos — cer- the United States, so you can’t sue them in
tainly we wouldn’t, couldn’t, shouldn’t — the United States. But the PLO has a U.S.
but they are unvarnished.) presence; it has a presence in New York,
Mark Sokolow, his wife, Rena, and and the United States gives the Palestinian
their daughters Lauren and Jamie all Authority millions of dollars every year, so
it seemed ludicrous that they should not
be able to be sued in the United States.”
So the 11 families served and sued the PA
and the PLO, and it went to trial.
Money cannot “Throughout the trial and the pre- and
post-trial arguments and briefings and
bring back the motions, the PLO raised the jurisdiction
dead or undo issue, and Judge Daniels kept striking it
down,” Mr. Sokolow said. That was Judge
physical or George B. Daniels, who presided over a civil Four Sokolows together — from left, Rena, her husband, Mark, Mark’s brother,
psychological trial in a federal district court in Manhattan. Noam, and Noam’s wife, Shelly. Noam and Shelly live in Englewood.

damage, but it “The jury found the PLO and PA responsi-


ble for every single count, for every single but the PA and the PLO are very impor- Circuit on many grounds, the most impor-
can represent one of the attacks,” he continued. tant partners in the peace process in the tant of which was jurisdiction.”

vindication. “It was a very fact-based trial. Every


attack was documented and proven
Middle East.’
“And so the government asked Judge
The appeals court basically said that
despite the ATA, the court lacked jurisdic-
through years of research. The documen- Daniels not to do anything that would tion. It invoked the 14th Amendment, the
were wounded seriously; they all have tation showed who was ordered to commit bankrupt or damage the PLO and the PA. one about equal protection under law, the
recovered in the decade and a half since the attacks.” And Judge Daniel took that into account, rights of citizenship. It cited a 2014 case,
the bombing, although residual physical It took a decade, but in February of 2015 and so instead of setting a bond of $650 where the Supreme Court ruled the auto-
effects remain. they won. The jury awarded the plantiffs million, we asked for $20 or $30 million a maker Daimler could not be sued in Cali-
Mark Sokolow is a lawyer, and coinci- $218.5 million; because the terrorism act month to be put into court. But Judge Dan- fornia because it did not have enough of
dentally he works for Arnold and Porter, demanded that those damages be trebled, iel said they had to put $10 million in on a presence there. “It held that a foreign
the firm that is handling the lawsuit. He is a the final amount was $655.5 million. Day One, and then $1 million a month after company has to be ‘at home’ in a state
corporate lawyer, who does transactional Money cannot bring back the dead or that. That’s much much less. before you bring suit against it in that
work for corporate institutions, but he is undo physical or psychological damage, “We think that if the court had enforced state,” Mr. Sokolow said. Applied to this
well situated to explain the legal theory but it can represent vindication. So far, how- a more customary bond, the case would case, the appeals court said that “the PLO
underlying the case. ever, the defendants have received nothing. have settled.” or the PA has to be held to be ‘at home’
He and the other 10 families represented “The PLO and the PA had the right to But it didn’t. “They posted their bond, in the United States and they would hold
in the lawsuit, harmed by six separate acts appeal,” Mr. Sokolow said. “They appealed and every month they posted the extra $1 that they were not.”
of terrorism, were able to bring it because to the Second Circuit. In order to appeal, million, and they appealed to the Second Also, he said, the court “treated the PLO
of the Anti-Terrorism Act, passed in 1992 in they had to post a bond. Typically it is
response to the murder of Leon Klinghof- roughly the same as the judgment, so the
fer in 1985. As it turned out, Mr. Klinghof- bond would have been $655 million. They
fer’s family was able to sue his murderers, said they couldn’t afford it.
including the PLO, because he was killed “And then, uninvited, the U.S. govern- [The court] treated the PLO and the
at sea, so they were able to take advantage ment came in and filed a statement of
of maritime law. “That was a quirk of the interest in the case before Judge Daniel set PA better than they would treat
case, and Congress felt that it should not the bond. They said, ‘Look, we feel really a government. We could more
have to be dependent on quirks,” Mark badly for these American victims of terror,
Sokolow said. “They wanted to pass a law and they ought to have their day in court easily sue the governments of Iran
protecting American citizens traveling and be able to get relief under the ATA, or Iraq than the PA or the PLO.
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and the PA better than they would treat a Abbas and Palestinian leaders have a
government. We could more easily sue the responsibility to prevent these attacks, to
governments of Iran or Iraq than the PA or stop the incendiary rhetoric that encour-
the PLO. Because it isn’t a sovereign gov- ages violence and terrorism and stop a
ernment, it was being treated as if it had perverse system that rewards and incen-
more rights. tivizes violence. He supports the efforts
“So the appeals court reversed the case. of all victims of terror, anywhere, to see
It looked at Judge Daniels’ case and said compensation for their suffering.”
that the courts did not have jurisdiction Calls to Mr. Booker’s office have not
over the PA, and that the terrorism act was been answered as of press time.
unconstitutional as it was applied. If the PA And Mr. Sokolow also held out some
had either attacked someone in the United hope that his case might be accepted
States, or had made it crystal clear that it because “there is a long history of the
was targeting Americans abroad, it would Supreme Court taking a case where the act
have been different. of a lower court essentially has rendered a
“But because the suicide bomber didn’t Mark and Rena Sokolow with their three daughters and sons-in-law; from top law passed by Congress inoperable or said
yell ‘Death to America!’ before she deto- left, Rena, Mark, Mordy and Jamie Fenster. From bottom left, Michael and Lauren it to be unconstitutional.”
nated her vest, it didn’t count. Mandelstam and Elana and Rafi Rosman. But the Supreme Court asked the solici-
“They applied Fourteenth Amendment tor general for the Justice Department’s
principles to a Fifth Amendment case, Petitioning for cert is always a long shot. include New York State’s Charles Schumer official view on the question of whether
and they gave them more rights than an According to the Internet consensus, about and Kirsten Gillibrand, but they do not it should grant cert and hear the case.
actual sovereign state would have in terms one percent of those requests are granted. include New Jersey’s Robert Menendez or “They do that from time to time,” Mr.
of being subject to suit,” Mr. Sokolow But these plaintiffs had some advantages. Cory Booker. Sokolow said. It’s called CVSG — “call-
summed up. While it is common for interested people In response to a question about ing for the view of the solicitor general.”
Once the plaintiffs were turned down or groups to file amicus briefs, it is not whether he thinks that the Supreme (“Although the CVSG is technically an invi-
by the appellate court, they had only one common to have the entire House of Rep- Court should hear the case, Mr. Menen- tation, the solicitor general always treats
option open to them other than dropping resentatives file on your behalf, and then dez emailed “Senator Menendez has con- it as a command,” SCOTUSBLOG helpfully
the case. That was petitioning for a writ there are those 23 senators and seven for- sistently and forcefully condemned ter- explains.) This time, it took the solicitor
of certiorari — that is, asking the Supreme mer high-level administration officials. rorist attacks against innocent civilians general nine months. “All that time, the
Court to consider the case. Interestingly enough, the senators in Israel. Palestinian President Mahmoud See survivors’ LAWsuit page 31

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chided Muslim leaders for not condemn- the tweet and Pompeo apologized to his Trump will defer too much to Russia in
Trump likes his son-in-law. ing Islamist terrorist attacks in ways that opponent. shaping the outcome of the Syria civil war.
A lot. Don’t get in his way. often rankles Jews, who are sensitive to “With the appointment of former CIA Russia’s de facto ally in that war is Iran,
Ivanka Trump’s husband, Jared Kushner, collective blame. In many cases, however, Director Mike Pompeo as secretary of Israel’s deadliest enemy.
is taking the lead in shaping Middle East Muslim leaders in fact had condemned state, President Trump is playing right into Pompeo is a Russia hawk. He repeatedly
policy for his father-in-law. Tillerson, the attacks. In 2015, Pompeo appeared the hands of the radical anti-Muslim move- has endorsed the intelligence commu-
for the most part, left Kushner alone. at a “Defeat Jihad Summit” with figures ment in the U.S. and abroad,” the Southern nity’s conclusion that the Russians tried
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however, was in Kushner’s enthusiastic just Islamists but all Muslims. behalf (although he also said, incorrectly,
backing for Saudi Arabia in its attempts In 2016, Pompeo called on a mosque in One possible difference: that the report concluded that the Russian
to isolate Qatar. The Saudi regime, and his district to cancel a speech by an Ameri- Pompeo is skeptical of Russia. intervention did not have an effect; the
Kushner’s new BFF, Saudi Crown Prince can Muslim speaker who decades earlier Much of the speculation Tuesday was that report stopped short of any conclusion on
Mohammed Bin Salman, targeted Qatar had appeared in a video singing support Trump fired Tillerson because the secre- that matter).
for its defiance of Saudi leadership in the for Hamas, the Palestinian terrorist group. tary of state forcefully said that the assas- “The Russians attempted to interfere
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a U.S. ally and host to a major U.S. mili- ing the appearance on Good Friday. The in Britain was “clearly” the work of Russia. said as recently as Sunday on “Fox News
tary base, said he wanted a “calm and mosque soon started receiving threats and Trump has equivocated on the matter. Sunday.”
thoughtful dialogue” to resolve the clash canceled the event, although it was not According to this narrative, Trump On Tuesday, Axios pointed out that
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a role in spurring the threats. off his team. Trump has said that Russia as CIA chief, he was skeptical, to say the
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Why Israel’s government coalition


could be headed for collapse
MARCY OSTER sufficiently different from the old law.
The charedi parties also are calling for
JERUSALEM — A Knesset bill that would an amendment to the country’s Basic Law,
exempt charedi Orthodox yeshiva stu- which serves as a kind of a constitution,
dents from the mandatory draft has that would call Torah study a higher value
brought the possibility of snap elections than equality in military service and cir-
closer in Israel. cumvent the high court.
But it is only one variable in a compli- Charedi men are now eligible for the
cated political dance involving the charedi draft, although in practice fewer than 4
parties, Israel’s colorful defense minister, percent of recruits are charedim. The dis-
the 2019 budget, and the possibility that parity angers Israelis across the political
Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu will spectrum, who resent that the religious
be indicted on corruption charges. students don’t help shoulder the burden
On Monday, the Ministerial Committee of national security.
for Legislation approved a controversial The charedi parties agreed to help pass
bill that essentially would allow charedi the military exemption bill in its prelimi-
yeshiva students to be exempt from the nary form, though they have made it clear
draft. Last September, the Supreme Court they are expecting more. They have threat-
struck down a similar law that allowed ened retaliation — if the bill does not pass,
mass exemptions for the students, say- the parties said they won’t vote to approve Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu prepares during a plenum session
ing it was discriminatory. Supporters of the country’s 2019 budget, which both earlier this week. MIRIAM ALSTER/FLASH90

exemptions for yeshiva students are try- Netanyahu and Economy Minister Moshe
ing again with the new measure, which Kahlon, head of the Kulanu party, have has called the legislation a “classic fake near-universal draft is essential for the
reportedly is opposed by Attorney General identified as a high priority. law.” His party, which has five seats in the country’s security. Liberman has vowed
Avichai Mandelblit. The attorney general But Defense Minister Avigdor Liber- government coalition, is both right wing that not one Yisrael Beiteinu lawmaker
reportedly does not believe the wording is man, who leads the Yisrael Beiteinu party, and largely secular, and believes Israel’s SEE COALITION PAGE 65

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Being Jewish,
TRUTH REGARDLESS OF CONSEQUENCES

Israel’s government has


being blown up condemned Jewish leaders
I whitewashing Qatar
t seems that no matter what else we think about, the ques-
tions of Jewish identity are always there, sometimes overt,
sometimes hidden, never gone. We each answer them dif-
ferently, but they’re always there. It’s time to stop and rebuild communal unity

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Connected with those questions — what does it mean to be Jew-
ish? What does it mean to be a Jew born in a country in which emocratic Congressman Josh Gottheimer genocidal regime in Tehran.
we are deeply welcome and at home? What does it mean to be a of New Jersey’s Fifth District has taken a The American Jewish community has witnessed,
Jew born in a country in which we are unwelcome, uncomfortable, leadership position in Congress, along over the past few months, Jewish leaders fighting
always trying but never quite managing to fit it? And what does it with Republican Lee Zeldin of New York, vigorously over Qatar. The issues are as simple as
mean when that country changes around you? to hold Al Jazeera and Qatar accountable for their the stakes are large and it’s a shame that the Jewish
It seems that those questions are the subtext to just about every non-stop incitement against Israel by making Al leaders who have visited Qatar and helped to white-
issue of the newspaper. Sometimes they’re foregrounded. This Jazeera register as a foreign agent under the FARA wash the Emir have not shown the same moral clar-
seems to be one of those week. rules. Gottheimer and Zeldin wrote a letter making ity about Qatar as Congressman Gottheimer.
At the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, two of the three writers fea- that demand; 18 members of Congress and Senator Qatar finances the Muslim brotherhood and
tured in the Sunday of Strong Women examine issues tied to Jew- Ted Cruz (R-Texas) all signed it. Hamas, Israel’s sworn genocidal enemy. Qatar grants
ish identity. What does it mean to be the child of a Jewish woman “For years, Qatar has used its state- sanctuary to Hamas’ terror leaders in
and a non-Jewish man? Why is one identity stronger than the controlled propaganda arm, Al Jazeera, Doha. Qatar spews anti-Semitic hate
other, if each of your parents is strong in his or her own tradition? to incite violence, glorify terrorist kill- speech through Al Jazeera, includ-
What does it mean to be the Jewish child of a Jewish parent whose ers as ‘martyrs,’ and broadcast hateful, ing hosting sermons by people like
behavior is not stereotypically Jewish — who is an alcoholic, or a extremist content. But recent reports Yusuf Al-Qaradawi, who openly calls
drug addict? (It’s not that we don’t know that Jews drink or drug. that the network’s operatives secretly for a Muslim holocaust of Jews. Qatar’s
We know they do. It’s just that we also know that it doesn’t fit the filmed American nonprofit organiza- opposition even to the American Jew-
stereotype.) tions in Washington show the urgent ish community is evidenced by a secret
And then there is the question of the Jews, like Mark Sokolow, need for an investigation to determine undercover documentary launched by
who are the victims of terrorism in Israel. According to the appel- whether Al Jazeera undertook ‘political Al-Jazeera at the pro-Israel lobby in
late court that reversed the verdict that gave him and other victims activities’ in the U.S. and should regis- Rabbi Washington where Jewish leaders were
of terrorism damages, the plaintiffs could not win because they ter as a foreign agent. Shmuley secretly filmed in their work protecting
were not targeted as Americans. It’s not that they’re not American, “Now more than ever, American cit- Boteach Israel, with Al Jazeera seemingly alleg-
of course, or even that they’re not American enough. It’s just that izens deserve to know the difference ing a nefarious conspiracy of American
they were in a place that was full of Jews; to have won the case in between foreign propaganda and Jews working with Israel.
the United States of America, they would have had to have proven independent media,” Gottheimer said, according Yet this has not stopped a growing body of Jew-
that they were targeted not as Jews, but as Americans. It’s ironic, to his website. ish leaders from going to Doha on all-expense paid
no? (It’s also the decision that the plaintiffs hope the Supreme “Al Jazeera’s radical anti-American, anti-Semitic, trips to meet the emir, who seeks a whitewash of
Court will overturn.) and anti-Israel content is extraordinarily trou- Qatar’s financing of terror in order to lift a blockade
And then, of course, there is Vladimir Putin, who has said that bling and must be closely scrutinized to determine imposed on him by neighboring countries that was
Russian Jews are Jews, but they’re not Russians. In fact, those non- whether Al Jazeera is in violation of U.S. law. As a originally supported by President Trump and the
Russian Jews may even have messed with the American elections, state-sponsored news organization that favor- government of the United States.
he said. To be fair, it is not only Jews who are not quite Russian, ably covers foreign terrorist organizations, includ- The Israeli government has now stepped in with
according to Mr. Putin. “Maybe they’re Ukrainians, Tatars, Jews, ing Hamas, Hezbollah, and others, it is critical the no less than four public pronouncements oppos-
just with Russian citizenship.” It’s so nice to be grouped with our United States takes action where laws are being bro- ing the engagement with Qatar and reiterated in
friends! ken and American interests are being undermined,” no uncertain terms its opposition to American Jews
(It also is striking that neither our own president nor his press Zeldin is quoted there as having added. cozying up to the Qataris.
secretary have refuted Mr. Putin’s idea that Jews are responsible for This is a courageous action. Jewish leaders Prominent pro-Israel American Jews who
meddling with the election. They also have refused to acknowledge should join Gottheimer in pressuring the network accepted junkets to Qatar have persisted in suggest-
the terrifying consensus that Mr. Putin’s Russia appears to have to cease its anti-Israel and anti-American propa- ing they went to Doha with the Israeli government’s
poisoned a former Russia spy and British double agent in England ganda. They also should join in demanding that approval. Ambassador Ron Dermer shot down this
— but that gets into questions of Russian and British identity, which Qatar stop financing terrorists, especially Hamas, argument months ago in an interview with Forbes
is beyond our remit. But it certainly is terrifying…) and work with the United States to isolate the magazine, then followed up with a statement from
We hope that the Supreme Court does grant cert to Mark Sokolow.
And that no terrorist ever hurts anyone else ever again. And that Rabbi Shmuley Boteach is the founder of the World Values Network and the author of 31 books, including his
somehow the world will become just slightly less insane. —JP most recent, “The Israel Warrior.” Follow him on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.

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his embassy to Haaretz just weeks ago: “We oppose I’VE BEEN THINKING
this outreach effort in the Jewish and pro-Israel com-
munity... Anyone claiming that these trips received the The coward dies a thousand deaths

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ambassador’s blessing is not saying the truth.”
Now the prime minister himself has stated his objec- ne of the joys of writing this col- English paper assignment, I’d give it a D.
tions to giving legitimacy to Israel’s enemies. Netan- umn is getting comments, both And if I took off points for transliteration
yahu made his remarks to the Conference of Presidents complimenting and agreeing spelling errors (it’s hakarat or hakaras
of Major American Jewish Organizations two weeks ago with me as well as criticizing and hatov, not “Hakos Hatov” as erroneously
in Jerusalem. Netanyahu said: disagreeing with me. repeated six times, although hakarat hatov
“So, Iran is the most destructive force in the Mid- Of course, I prefer the former — who is one of the letter’s major themes), I’d
dle East, and all the other forces understand this and wouldn’t? — but I find the latter also worth- lower the grade to an F, even though I’ve
there’s a natural banding together, because there are while for two reasons. First, sometimes always considered myself an easy grader.
constructed [sic] forces in the region. I think engag- — but not too often, so I like to think — the I don’t know, of course, whether there’s
ing them is very important. I think you’ve just seen critics are right. But either way, there cer- Joseph C. any truth to the letter writer’s claim that
, some of those constructive forces in your visit to the tainly are parts of my columns that, based Kaplan he actually is a member of a YU board, but
g Gulf, and by the way, I’m definitely not talking about on criticisms, I’d like to revise, correcting if he is (and my strong sense is that it is a
Qatar, but I am talking about the place where you just factual errors, adding nuances, constructing he), then YU needs to up its game and vet
visited and many others. They want a better future phrases more carefully, and tightening or even rethink- its board members more carefully. Semi-literacy really
- for their people. They do not support terrorist groups ing arguments. Second, behind every critique there are should merit disqualification.
- like Hamas. They do want to engage with the positive two undeniable facts: the critic actually read what I wrote, But it wasn’t the semi-literate nature of the letter that
forces to block Iran’s aggression. And I have to be very and even more significantly, cared enough about it to com- riled me; indeed, it was so bad that it was almost humor-
clear about that.” ment. There’s not much more a writer can ask for (except, ous. What truly angered me was that I don’t like inter-
Netanyahu made clear that he believes the UAE is a perhaps, being paid). acting with cowards, and that’s exactly what this anony-
n constructive force in the region and Qatar is not, and There is, however, one caveat (sorry, legal jargon still is mous letter writer is — a coward. You disagree with what
that he rejects the visits there, because the emir sup- in my bloodstream). While the internet unfortunately has I write, you think I’m wrong or even an idiot, you believe
- ports terrorist groups such as Hamas and is engaging made anonymity the default identification rather than the my political views are indefensible and my heroes have
with rather than isolating Israel’s principal enemy, Iran. exception — one of my pet peeves about the internet — I clay feet, you’re of the opinion that the Standard and
Then last week Israel’s ambassador to the United still reject anonymous criticism, strongly believing that it Times of Israel shouldn’t give me a platform, you’ve con-
States, Ron Dermer, who was one of the highlighted is at best worthless and at worst highly offensive and all cluded that I don’t show the proper amount of hakarat
- speakers at our gala at the Plaza hotel, told the Jeru- too often unfairly damaging. hatov or love for Israel and Yerushalayim that I should?
t salem Post, “Israel is emphatically opposed to this Okay, then tell me so, explain why, support your argu-
y outreach.” ment with evidence and logic. I’m a big boy, and if I like
The Post added that “Israel’s ambassador to Wash- spouting my opinions in public — which I do very much
ington advised American Jewish leaders not to meet — there’s no justification for me to complain if any errors
with Qatar’s emir last fall during the Arab leader’s last What truly angered are thrown back in my face.
- visit to New York, but failed to dissuade them.” But if you do so, at least have the decency and cour-
From the very outset I argued that traveling to Qatar me was that I don’t age to put your name behind your opinion, the way I do
would give legitimacy to a regime that undermines like interacting with when I express mine. Why hide behind “a member of
- both American values and interests and our organiza-
tion quickly mobilized to take out full-page ads in the cowards, and that’s one of Yeshiva University Boards”? Tell us your name, so
in addition to evaluating your arguments we can weigh
f New York Times to condemn the Qatari whitewash. If exactly what this your credentials, investigate your consistency, and judge
Qatar wanted to change its image, all it had to do was
stop funding terror and stop demonizing Israel. Isra- anonymous letter your authority.
You’re not ashamed of your response to R. Glickman
el’s ambassador, Ron Dermer, is my former student writer is — a coward. and me, are you? So what are you afraid of? And you’re
president from Oxford University, and I quickly con- certainly afraid of something, since, as an ancient Jewish
firmed that despite the lies being peddled by Qatar’s adage teaches, too much fear makes a person a coward.
- hired agents that Israel welcomed the engagement, it I raise this point because after my February 15 col- I haven’t dealt, nor will I deal, with the substance of any
was clear what logic dictated: Israel opposed American umn, “How Jews Should Argue,” appeared, an envelope of the letter’s arguments (if they can be called that) because
Jewish legitimization for a government that funds the was delivered to my door, hand-addressed to me. It had cowards are not worth caring about. They deserve to be
Hamas terror movement, sworn to Israel’s annihilation. no return address, and when I opened it, I saw it was shunned, not engaged with. They merit our scorn, not our
And now that this issue has been settled defini- signed not with a person’s name but by “a member of thoughts and analyses. They have earned the dubious privi-
- tively, it is time to rebuild Jewish unity among the one of Yeshiva University Boards.” And while it said it lege of serving as role models of everything we want our
pro-Israel leaders by repudiating Qatar and Al was addressed “to those parents and students of the children — and ourselves — not to be.
Jazeera until they make quantifiable and measurable Frish (sic) High School that showed Hakos (sic) Hatov to And I’ve wasted too much time and ink on this one cow-
change, especially in the area of ceasing to finance the President of the USA and the USA for acknowledg- ard’s drivel already.
terror, changing the anti-Israel incitement on their ing Jerusalem as the capital of Israel,” neither I nor the Two of our greatest writers have taught us an important
airwaves, publicly pressuring Hamas to release the only other recipient of the letter that I know of is such a lesson about cowards. Shakespeare: “Cowards die many
bodies of murdered Israeli soldiers, and evicting parent or student. (If you know whether it was, in fact, times before their death. The valiant never taste of death but
Hamas terror leaders from Qatar. widely distributed to such parents and students, please once” ( Julius Caesar, Act II, Scene II). Or as paraphrased cen-
let me know.) turies later by Ernest Hemingway: “A coward dies a thousand
The thrust of the letter, as you can deduce from the deaths, the brave man dies but once” (A Farewell to Arms).
group of people it allegedly was directed to, was yet I don’t know if I can say, like Robert Louis Stevenson,
another attack on Rabbi Ozer Glickman for, in my opin- that “the world has no room for cowards.” But I can, and
ion, his thoughtful, nuanced, and moderate reaction to do, say it about our community. So, “member of a YU
The opinions expressed in this section are those the “thank-you letter” affair that for a short period of time board,” crawl back under your rock. The Jewish commu-
of the authors, not necessarily those bedeviled our community. It was also an implicit attack nity has no room for you.
on my criticism of the tone and language used by some of
of the newspaper’s editors, publishers, or other
R. Glickman’s critics in letters to the editor to the Jewish Joseph C. Kaplan, a regular columnist, is a long-time
staffers. We welcome letters to the editor.
Standard in which his views were quoted. resident of Teaneck. His work also has appeared in various
Send them to jstandardletters@gmail.com. Based on the letter’s numerous grammatical and logi- publications including Sh’ma magazine, the New York
cal errors, non sequiturs, poor organization, and factual Jewish Week, the Baltimore Jewish Times, and, as letters to
mistakes, were I grading it as a high school sophomore the editor, the New York Times.

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Opinion

Teaching our children to combat digital hate

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he other night my gasp from the parents and continue to expand filtering capabilities, we
stepson showed me grandparents who see all must collectively recognize that much in the
the game he was too well the addiction to way of anti-Semitism, racism, and bigotry
playing on his lap- Xbox, Playstation, and will find its way through, despite our best
top. It’s called Fortnite, and other such devices. intentions.
apparently this game is the While on this particular That means that a significant part of this
rage among our children. It lets day we were working with fight must be carried by us — the parents,
them build teams with anyone the HAFTR Middle School the schools, the communities, and yes, our
who happens to communicate in Lawrence, on Long elected officials. We must teach our chil-
with them on this highly inter- Michael Island, the results were dren how to recognize online hate, terror-
active platform. Cohen identical when we recently ism, and bullying and to have the trust to
The question we don’t ask held the same workshops communicate immediately with a trusted
quite enough is who are our chil- with tenth graders at Frisch adult. They must describe what they expe-
dren interacting with? Could these strangers in Paramus and seventh graders at Moriah rienced. They must learn to recognize the
have more on their agenda than partnering Englewood. (We are scheduled to do the purposeful subtleties interspersed in what
for a game? same with the ninth grade at the Dwight otherwise might be harmless material. They
Just the day before, the Simon Wiesenthal Morrow High School in Englewood.) must learn how to feel empowered to fight
Center held a forum for middle school par- Each year the Simon Wiesenthal Center back on those using bullying, harassment,
ents, demonstrating the growing trends of unveils a heavily researched report card and inferences of targeted negativity, and
hate and pro-terror postings from extrem- on digital terror and hate. We assign let- they must be ready for inevitably coming
ists ranging from the alt-right to ISIS and ter grades to each of the prominent social into contact with such content.
including the local lone wolfs on social media platforms, evaluating their com- In the classroom workshops that the
media platforms specifically targeting Gen- mitment to combating hate on their sites. Simon Wiesenthal Center has created
eration Z. When an eighth grade panelist What we have learned is that even when and begun to present in some of our local recognize the difference between legiti-
raised a point about the expansion of offen- some online giants take hate speech seri- schools, we have trained middle school mate debate and criticism and hate speech
sive content now being brought into interac- ously, they can never completely keep pace and high school students—who often are on social media. We no longer are sur-
tive gaming systems, there was a collective with the bigots. In other words, while we the main target of online extremists — to prised when seventh graders raise their

Never again isn’t just about Jews

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enying the Holocaust rightfully Rohingya have been murdered, burned in part, a national, ethnical, is that in South Sudan, where
offends Jewish sensibilities. to death, tortured, raped, and driven out racial or religious group, as mass killings continue along
We speak up, we do every- of the country. In 2012, the Pulitzer Cen- such: killing members of the ethnic lines.
thing we can to make sure the ter on Crisis Reporting said the Rohingya group; causing serious bodily The list goes on; it should do
world doesn’t forget the inhumanity of have become one of the most oppressed or mental harm to members more than shock us.
Nazi Germany and those who supported ethnic groups in the world. Yet these past of the group; deliberately In 2008, the Holocaust
them. We mean it when we say the words five years have seen no drop in Myanmar’s inflicting on the group condi- Memorial Museum, together
never again. efforts to destroy them. And now, much tions of life calculated to bring with the American Academy
All this is why Poland’s new “Holocaust like Poland’s efforts to eliminate evidence about its physical destruction of Diplomacy and the United
Law,” which criminalizes statements that to its role in the Holocaust, Myanmar’s in whole or in part; imposing Jason States Institute of Peace, con-
Poles were complicit with crimes commit- authorities are striving to erase any histori- measures intended to prevent Shames vened the Genocide Preven-
ted during the Holocaust, has rightly out- cal reminders of the Rohingya’s existence. births within the group; forc- tion Task Force. Co-chaired
raged us. The law is an attempt to rewrite Their military is currently bulldozing ibly transferring children of by former Secretary of State
history. It amounts to Holocaust denial. what’s left of the Rohingya villages in an the group to another group.” Madeleine K. Albright and
Notwithstanding the new law, it is well effort to alter history. Myanmar’s actions The Convention declared that former Secretary of Defense
documented that the Polish people com- simply add to an attempt to rewrite his- people committing this crime William S. Cohen, the task
mitted genocidal acts. That fact cannot be tory just as the Poles are now retroactively shall be punished regardless force offered practical rec-
wiped away. seeking to do. of their status. ommendations on how to
Only days ago, our State Department In 2016, Daw Aung San Suu Kyi, the de There’s a genocide going on prevent genocide. It asserted
issued a report that found “evidence that facto leader of Myanmar‘s government, in Myanmar, and the world that preventing genocide is
Poles persecuted the Jews as vigorously as embraced the view that the Rohingya largely remains silent. It has an “achievable goal” and that
did the Germans” during the Nazi occupa- don’t exist. She cautioned the Ameri- become all too common to Vered Adoni progress begins with “leader-
tion. Regardless of Poland’s new law, the can ambassador against using the term watch mass killings from afar ship and political will.” It pro-
evidence exists. We are here to bear wit- Rohingya to describe Myanmar’s perse- and say nothing. The geno- vided 34 recommendations
ness to what occurred, and to use it as a cuted Muslim population. If the Rohingya cide perpetrated by the Hutus on the Tutsi and outlined a comprehensive approach
reminder that genocide must be prevented don’t exist, how can there be refugee in Rwanda in 1994 is another example. Close when responding to “genocidal situations”
at all costs camps just outside Myanmar housing to one million people died there, and yet as they arise.
That is why we remain concerned, more than 650,000 people? that tragedy was hardly a blip on the human So the will and effort do exist, but the
for example, about the Rohingya. The In part because of the Holocaust, in radar screen. Currently there’s a humanitar- goal has yet to be accomplished. What can
Rohingya Muslim community has existed 1948the United Nations approved Article ian crisis in Yemen. The population is being we do to stop genocide, this ethnic cleans-
in Myanmar (formerly Burma) for centu- II of the Genocide Convention, describing starved to death under daily bombing. We ing that continues to happen in our world?
ries and now has been subjected to eth- genocide as “any of the following acts com- all know about Syria. The slaughter there How can we, the Jewish people, help the
nic cleansing for decades. Thousands of mitted with intent to destroy, in whole or for the last seven years is no different. Nor Rohingya or the innocent civilians in Syria

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New approaches to women’s issues

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hands when they are asked if they have his week, in honor of International has to go, something ends up suffering. It might be
experienced offensive content on their Women’s Day, the internet was full of your job, your children, your home, your husband,
digital devices. tributes, many of them acknowledging or you, but something ends up neglected. With this
We need these young targets to become, once again the complicated role that neglect comes stress, and with stress on one piece
in the words of Rabbi Abraham Cooper, mothers have in the modern world. of the family, trouble begins to brew for the rest.
the Wiesenthal Center associate dean who For several years now, this topic — the weak- Relationships become strained. Teenage drama in
founded the digital terrorism and hate nesses and failures of the feminist dream — has this era of absentee parenting is perhaps worse off
project 24 years ago, “not victims but our been cautiously approached with humor, frus- than ever before.
first responders.” tration, or determination to fix the problems. Yet The worst part of it is that for many of us, after
Today it may be Fortnite. Tomorrow these conversations are governed by the assump- Rahel going through all this stress to get out of the house
it most assuredly will be something else. tion that we are generally on the right track and Rocklin and work, the job itself is not an inspiration but
While as parents we all recognize the dif- only require some minor adjustments. The pro- a burden imposed on us by the financial needs
ficult battle we face in limiting our chil- posed solutions, therefore, appear as mere Band- created in a dual-earner economy, by exorbitant
dren’s time on their digital devices, and Aids, not broad enough to truly resolve the issues that we face. school tuition, by social expectations with regard to our house
knowing that it is simply a part of life, we The main assumption that continues to drive our thinking size, car quality, vacation destinations — or by the shaming of
all must join in fighting back against those is that achieving wealth, power, and fame is at least as impor- stay-at-home moms as lazy and subservient.
trying to negatively influence our kids. tant as raising our children. And our solutions continue to The reality is that in a continued attempt to liberate women,
We must empower our young people revolve around integrating parenting with personal ambition in modern feminism has chained them with doubled responsibili-
how to recognize hate and teach them a world driven by the pursuit of material rather than cultural ties. Moreover, it has substituted our age-old, intuitive desire
about the role they can play in combat- achievement. to care for our children with a new ideology that is devoid of
ting it. Anne-Marie Slaughter famously wrote about the adjustments inspiration.
that our society needs to make in order for women to “have it While combatting the so-called patriarchy, feminists have taken
Michael Cohen of Englewood is the eastern all.” That is, how to change our social norms so that working on some of the worst traits of their most dire enemies: the cut-
regional director of the Simon Wiesenthal mothers will be able to attain, and, perhaps more importantly, throat capitalists of the modern era and the haughty, not-to-be-
Center. He represents his city’s second ward retain, positions of power. She does not, however, address the bothered aristocrats of yore. While accusing men of obsession
on Englewood’s City Council, and he belongs plight of the simple mother-professional, who is not in it to with wealth and empire-building, feminists have made it their
to Congregation Ahavath Torah there. climb the ranks. goal to do the same and to do it better. In the meantime, much
As proud and as free as a working woman can be in today’s in the style of the European aristocracy, they will not be both-
world, she is faced with countless yet-to-be-resolved challenges, ered with their own children. Recall the not-so-fictional moment
particularly as a mother. These are not challenges created by ill- in Downton Abbey when Lord Grantham refuses to have tea with
meaning people who wish to demean women or bar them from his grandchildren until they are old enough to have a mature con-
entering the male world, but practical challenges that arise on versation. This attitude was prevalent among those who could
their own in a world that has not yet adjusted to the rapid social afford nurses, governors, and governesses: young children are a
changes that we have imposed upon it. As young girls, full of nuisance to be cared for by other, less important people.
aspirations and plans, we are told by society to reach for any This is exactly how today’s upper and middle class societies
career that strikes our fancy. We assume that in the 21st century, function, only instead of taking leisurely walks, reading novels,
and Yemen? Their situation is heartbreak- all our needs as mothers already have been accounted for. Some playing the piano, singing, drawing, embroidering, overseeing
ing. They are rejected by the countries they of us may even be so far-seeing as to choose careers with hours the house staff, and engaging in charitable activities, women are
call home, but they are unwanted by the that are well suited for family life. out making money.
countries where they seek refuge. They are It is not, however, until we become mothers that we real- It is time for our society to look for new approaches to solv-
impoverished and stateless. They tell stories ize what a false sense of security we were given. Sure, we have ing women’s issues. We need to start thinking outside the box
of continuous horror. In Myanmar’s case, government-mandated maternity leave, pumping accommoda- to help women achieve fulfillment, both as mothers and as lead-
the government says those stories are false tions, tax-cuts for child-care, and a plethora of schools for our ers in our society. Instead of simply throwing out the old world
and distorted. They deny they even exist. In children. But the list of the things that we have figured out pales for the new, we must reinvent it for modern times, looking for
Syria and Yemen, their governments deflect in comparison with the list of dilemmas we must face on a daily solutions that will build on the best of tomorrow and yesterday.
blame onto others. basis: how much time can we afford to take off pre- and post- One modest proposal would be that instead of borrowing
Never again can never be thought of as partum; what form of childcare should we choose — affordable the aristocrats’ shirking of responsibilities for young children,
being solely about the Jewish people, or or personalized; how we can prolong school hours to cover our we learn from their highly personalized approach to educa-
that we have been the only targets of geno- workday — early drop-off, afterschool care, afterschool program- tion. Upper-class children were taught in the home by tutors or
cide and yes, extinction. Rather, never ming, or a very part-time babysitter. (Camps and mini-camps even by the parents themselves (cf. Dolly in Anna Karenina or
again needs to be about all mass genocide, do not tend to cover the entirety of school vacations and days the mothers in Madame de Segur’s Sophie series). Aristocratic
no matter who the victims. Never again off, such as faculty professional development days, so someone women, as “tethered” as they may have been to the home, had
requires a Jewish response whenever there must cover the rest of the days.) And since no plans are infal- an education far superior to that of today’s girls. Their skills in
are genocidal efforts, regardless of who, lible, we need backups for when the babysitter is unavailable, languages, literature, music, history, and art surpassed today’s
what, where, when, and why. our child is sick, and so on. students by an enormous degree.
We, as Jews, must reconcile ourselves to In addition to these universal problems, each mother has her If we reprioritize intellectual ambitions over financial ones,
the paradigm of never again and move it own personal stresses based on her own and her children’s con- we can dramatically reduce the tension between motherhood
forward. We cannot be outraged about an crete needs. and accomplishment. This will mean different things for dif-
anti-Semitic law passed by the Polish gov- Moving past these issues, whether a woman was lucky enough ferent women. One basic model that is already growing across
ernment and yet remain silent about what’s not to face them, or already has gone through the headache of America is home/group schooling, with the current number of
happening to the Rohingya or innocent figuring them out, we are met with another set of problems: homeschoolers rising over 1.6 million. The beauty of this model
civilians in Syria, Yemen or anywhere else. balancing homemaking with work. At the end of your long and is its incredible versatility and ability to meet virtually any par-
We must speak up. We must, once more, meticulously planned day, you still need to find the time and ent’s and child’s needs. Still, there are other solutions that we
say never again. energy to cook, tidy, run errands, sit down to dinner with your can seek, other goals to attain, and the conversation must con-
family, help your children with their homework, give them tinue for us to break out of the self-imposed mold: at home —
Jason Shames is the CEO and executive attention, somehow find some time for yourself and maybe even bad, workplace — good.
vice president of the Jewish Federation of for your husband.
Northern New Jersey and Vered Adoni is a On some days — and for some people, on most days — all of Rahel Rocklin of Teaneck is a Jewish educator now leading a
lawyer who lives in Bergen County. the above is practically impossible to accomplish; something group-schooling project from her home.

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Opinion

‘Céline’ redux? France’s publishing problem

M
ention the name whom he fled to Germany during the Allied offensive of No one possibly could believe that Céline’s words can
“Celine” to most 1944 — he left explicit instructions that these pamphlets be read dispassionately in France today, where anti-
people in the never be published again. Semitic attacks of the most brutal kind occur with dis-
United States— In fact, they have been, in French-speaking Québec, turbing frequency. I have written on several occasions
or Europe, for that matter—and where the intellectual property rights of these works have in this column about the torture and murder of a Jew-
they will think you’re talking expired. But publishing them in France, under the imprint ish pensioner, Sarah Halimi, in April 2017. To study the
about the long-reigning Cana- of one of the country’s most prestigious publishers, is a account of her ordeal at the hands of a young Islamist
dian pop diva. proposition of an entirely different magnitude. intruder is to step into a Céline-like world of hatred,
But among French intel- That was why French President Emmanuel Macron where every word uttered is echoed in physical violence.
lectuals, there is only one Ben Cohen explicitly addressed what has become a bitter domestic Until France rids itself of these paroxysms of Jew-hatred
“Celine”: Louis-Ferdinand controversy in his remarks this week at the annual din- — —there also was the torture and murder of Ilan Halimi in
Céline, one of a handful of ner in Paris of the Conseil Représentatif des Institutions 2006; the 2012 massacre of a teacher and three small chil-
writers who redefined the mission and style of French Juives de France, or Crif, France’s Jewish representative dren at a Toulouse Jewish school; the 2015 hostage situa-
literature in the 20th century. tion and slaughter at the Hyper Cacher market in Paris,
This Céline, whose heyday was in the 1930s, detested and much more — it cannot pretend that republishing
the Jews. No surprise there, of course, given the unhealthy Céline’s pamphlets is somehow incidental and unrelated
number of writers and artists outside Germany who sym- to what French Jews are facing now. JNS.ORG

pathized with the Nazi program for the Jewish people. With cases like these,
There were quite a few, after all, in our own language. Ben Cohen writes a weekly column on Jewish affairs and
Take, for instance, the American writer Ezra Pound there’s an inevitable Middle Eastern politics. His work has been published
— regarded by some critics as the leading light of mod- debate about whether in Commentary, the New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall
ern English-language poetry — who regaled listeners Street Journal and many other publications.
to his radio show, broadcast from fascist Italy, with sto- we can or should
ries “about Jew-ruined England. About the wreckage of separate the artist’s
France, wrecked under y_d control. Lousy with k___s.”
With cases like these, there’s an inevitable debate about vulgar hatreds from his Letters
whether we can or should separate the artist’s vulgar or her works of art.
hatreds from his or her works of art. It’s rather like the furi-
ous arguments lots of Jews used to have about the appropri-
ateness of listening to the operas of Wagner. And every so organization. In a clever swipe at Poland’s recent draco- Thank you, Rabbi Meir
often, these debates enter the news cycle as ghosts of a past nian Holocaust legislation, Macron pointed out that there As someone with many relatives and deep ties to
that once again has become part of the present. are no “memorial police” in France; therefore, these mat- Israel, I was happy to read Rabbi Aryeh Meir’s article
That is exactly what has happened with Céline, at a time ters are decided by conscience, not law. Macron person- (“The occupation and Israel’s human rights record,”
when anti-Semitism has re-established itself as a serious ally left no doubt that he thought Gallimard should refrain March 2). I agree that the dehumanization and dispos-
and enduring problem in France. from publishing the pamphlets. sessing the Palestinian Arab population is contrary to
In brief, here is the backstory: Last December, the leg- What is the content of these pamphlets that make them the foundational teachings of Judaism and the Jewish
endary French publishing company Gallimard announced so terrible? In 2010, the New York Review of Books car- historical experience.
that it would reissue three monstrously anti-Semitic pam- ried a feature that revisited the original editions of these I’m hoping to hear more of these voices and par-
phlets Céline wrote between 1937 and 1941. When Céline works—Bagatelles pour un massacre, L’école des cadavres ticipate in actions that reflect the spirit of his article.
died in 1961 — having been condemned as a “national dis- and Les beaux draps—and quoted from them liberally. Laszlo Berkovits
grace” for his collaboration with the Vichy regime, with The venom, frankly, is chilling. “The sordid schemes, Teaneck
the betrayals, a nose that points to, lowers toward, and
falls over their mouths,” Céline wrote in Bagatelles pour It’s not the royal family’s first visit
un massacre. “Their hideous slots . . . their filthy k_e grins, You should correct the erroneous report in your most
boorish, slimy, even in beauty pageants . . . They erupt recent edition concerning the failure of the House of
from the depths of the ages, to terrify us, to draw us into Windsor to visit Israel (“House of Windsor’s Israel
miscegenation, into bloody Talmudic mires and, finally, problem,” March 9). His Royal Highness, Prince Philip,
into the Apocalypse!” Small wonder that the author of the Duke of Edinburgh, delivered the most profound
New York Review piece, Wyatt Mason, deemed these texts remarks on the occasion of his late mother’s interment
to be typical of a writer “who, from 1937 to 1944, spent all on the Mount of Olives, made at Yad Vashem.
his flagrant literary energy and aptitude calling — shouting David B. Simpson
— for the death of every Jew in France.” Stein Simpson & Rosen
By the end of the war, 75,000 members of a pre-war Fort Lee
Jewish population of 340,000 indeed had gone forcibly to
their deaths. Céline was a direct participant in this geno- THE EDITOR RESPONDS: The column, like all of
cide, every bit as culpable as the semi-literate French peas- Ben Cohen’s work (and unlike all our other op eds) is
ant alerting the SS to a Jewish family in hiding to make syndicated by JNS.ORG. Mr. Simpson is right. Prince
a few bucks. Reading his words, we hear the sounds of Philip and his son, Prince Charles, both went to Israel.
violence: shattering glass, boots on human flesh, the dis- JNS’s editor said that what Mr. Cohen had meant to say
cordant strains of the Nazi anthem, the “Horst Wessel” was that Prince William’s visit will be the British royal
song. And that is exactly how these words were intended family’s �irst of�icial state visit.
to be heard.
We can only hope that Gallimard will heed the advice
of France’s president and abandon its Céline project CORRECTION:
out of its own volition. There really isn’t a free-speech In “Really! You can’t do that at work” (March 2)
issue at stake, since all these pamphlets are available we misspelled the name of the CEO of the Jewish
on the Internet. Thus, the dilemma for Gallimard is Family and Children’s Service of Northern New
whether a publisher of its stature should distribute Jersey. She is Susan Greenbaum.
Louis-Ferdinand Céline. WIKIMEDIA COMMONS anti-Semitic ravings in the name of literary endeavor.

48 JEWISH STANDARD MARCH 16, 2018


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Music! We can hear it all around us. It streams from shoulders, and head are all synchronized with a vibrancy medical issues, both physical and neurological, the beat of
the radio and iPods. We hear it on television and mov- that surrounds us all. Walking is a dance step and to per- life must still be reignited. A dance step denotes a lightness
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from the speakers in airports, malls, and concert halls. So many elderly seem to stiffen when walking, pushing and a rocking of the head — all performed to the body’s
It is in the wind softly caressing a leaf. It is in the drum- their feet along the ground with little movement in their inner beat. Hear the music, walk to the music, bop to the
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A vaccine to prevent Alzheimer’s might be closer than you think

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ccording to the Alzheimer’s Association, one in memories and our ability to think. It is a terrifying universal He firmly believes that before long this preventative
nine Americans over 65 has Alzheimer’s. For epidemic. treatment will prove successful in protecting human
those 85 or older, that number is one in three. Dr. Eitan Okun heads the Paul E. Feder Alzheimer’s adults from contracting this heartbreaking illness.
Over five million American’s currently live with Research Lab at Bar-Ilan University in Israel. He has devoted “Alzheimer’s isn’t caused by a virus,” he explains.
the disease and it is the sixth leading cause of death in the his life’s work to finding a way to prevent the disease from “What actually causes it in most cases remains mostly
United States. Worldwide, over 47 million are afflicted taking hold of our minds. Recently, he has developed a vac- unknown. The vaccine that I am working on targets
with this irreversible brain disorder that shuts down our cine that has shown great promise in laboratory conditions. the amyloid beta proteins that accumulate in the brain
of people with Alzheimer’s. We’re trying to help the
body to go into attack-mode against this protein. So

SUBACUTE CARE
far, it has proved effective in studies with mice.”
The next stage is testing this potentially life-chang-
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1) Which people should be included in the test trails?
2) At what age group should the test vaccinations be
considered?
AT After years of careful research, Dr. Okun has a few
ideas as to where to begin.
“There are two subgroups made up of people who
have higher odds of getting the disease,” he points out.
“We have people who inherit the disease in their 50s.
And then there is the group that gets Alzheimer most
Trust the team that knows your needs commonly and at the youngest age. These are people
with Down Syndrome who often get Alzheimer’s in
Daughters of Miriam Center/The Gallen Institute has provided care to the seniors of their 40s or even their 30s.”
our community since 1921. Who better then to understand their specialized needs? Our According to Dr. Okun, moving on to human studies
is a matter of perhaps two-to-three years. “These criti-
experienced postacute care team uses the latest advances in therapies to provide the
cal trials will determine whether the vaccine actually
highest quality care. Individualized care plans are designed for each patient. Whether works in humans. Depending on the success rate and
getting back on your feet after a fracture or recovering from surgery or a stroke, DMC has side effects from that testing, we will be able to know
the most experienced staff to help seniors achieve the best results. how much more time is needed to make the vaccine
available on a global scale. I am convinced that a vac-
The rehabilitation team at Daughters of Miriam Center/The Gallen Institute cination approach is the way to go with neurodegen-
erative diseases.”
is here to bring you the best in rehabilitation and subacute care. In addition to his potentially groundbreaking vac-
cine, Dr. Okun is working on new ways to diagnose
Our interdisciplinary team of physicians, therapists, nurses Alzheimer’s earlier in its progression and to do it more
and social workers can meet all of your rehabilitation needs. accurately. Using the latest in MRI testing, he is aiming
to be able to catch the earliest sign of amyloid proteins
in the brain. “My researchers and I have been seek-
We offer intense short-term rehab for:
ing to construct a protein that could enter the blood-
• amputations
stream, make it through the blood-brain barrier, bind
• hip and knee fractures
to the amyloids, and then be visible in an MRI scan,”
• hip and knee replacements
he explains. “I am always looking for new angles to
• post stroke recovery
attack this disease from various angles. I have never
been more optimistic that we will soon find a way to
Our team can also provide you with prevent it for current and future generations.”
medically complex services such as: Dr. Okun has been a “lifer” at Bar-Ilan University in
• cardiac rehabilitation Ramat Gan, having earned his masters and doctorate
• comprehensive wound care in immunology there. His masters research analyzed
· enteral nutritional therapy how stress can affect a person’s immunity to various
• extended IV therapy diseases. For his doctorate, he concentrated on the
• nutritional diabetic counseling immune system — specifically how different modes
• pain management of our immune systems respond to various threats.
• PICC line management While his primary medical research today focuses on
• post surgical stabilization Alzheimer’s, he is also conducting studies in other
• pulmonary rehabilitation important areas. In 2015, he received a grant from
• total parenteral nutrition (TPN) the Michael J. Fox Foundation to research how to help
• orthopedic surgery care THERAPY IS
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Colorectal cancer:
Routine colonoscopies and
early detection can save your life
dR. MitchEll RuBiNoFF

Experience
Having a colonoscopy to screen for
colorectal cancer is not on anyone’s
list of favorite activities. However, with
colorectal cancer ranking as the second
leading cause of cancer death in the
United States, undergoing the outpatient
procedure as per the Centers for Disease
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Healthy Living & Adult Lifestyles

Peter Kolb celebrates


14 years at Cedar Crest
Serving the Jewish community
Senior facilities manager is everyday
of Bergen County for 12 years hero helping people live better lives
Serving Serving
thehome
All certified the
JewishJewish community
community
health aides Peter Kolb’s career as senior facilities and take into consideration your years
licensed, of Bergen
bonded County
and for for
criminal 12 years manager for Cedar Crest started with of experience in order to do a job in a
of Bergen County 13 years his mini bike. management position,” Kolb says.
background checks
All certified home health aides “When it broke, I learned how to fix They do that by getting to know their
• C ertified home health aides
licensed,
RN supervision bonded and criminal
& coordination it. Starting at a young age, I like to take employees and offering career path
background checks
• Licensed and bonded things apart to find out what made them mentorships like the one Kolb devel-
Hourly, live-in and respite care work,” says Kolb, who started working oped with Erik Jost, regional director of
• RN supervision and coordination for the Erickson Living retirement com- Maintenance and Engineering.
RN supervision & coordination
24/7
• H live on-call service
ourly, live-in and respite care munity in Pompton Plains when he was “The mentorship program is about
18 as a maintenance apprentice. Now, sharing knowledge and experience,”
• C Hourly, social
Complimentary
omplimentary live-inwork
and respite care 14 years later, he’s still happily with says Jost. “I brought Peter under my
services
social work services the same company and has held nearly wing to help him get not only the knowl-
24/7 live on-call service every position in maintenance and edge and experience but also the expo-
• C oordination of services with
Linkages to other elder care facilities. sure needed to be successful along his
options
other elder care providers
Complimentary social work “The opportunities from the company career path.”
services for career growth and the opportunity Kolb describes the culture at Cedar
to work with a team on a daily basis are Crest as “very personable” and says
phenomenal. Cedar Crest is very much each individual is not just a number.
Linkages to other elder care
1.866.7FREEDOM
201-883-1200 options
(1.866.737.3336)
dedicated to engagement and making
sure you love coming to work,” he says.
“You’re not just a face; you’re a per-
son. We’re family here,” he says. That
www.freedomhh.com
www.freedomhh.com “This company has helped me; I love culture extends to relationships with
what I do. It’s a passion.” residents, too, which, as most Cedar
“At Cedar Crest, we place a heavy Crest employees — Kolb included — will

1.866.7FREEDOM emphasis on helping our employees


grow professionally and personally,”
tell you are the greatest reason for work-
ing there.
(1.866.737.3336) Brightview.
says Todd DeLaney, executive director In his current role, Kolb says he can
www.freedomhh.com
Bright Life! at Cedar Crest. “Our tuition reimburse-
ment program, scholarship fund, and
various other employee discounts help
truly fulfill his sense of purpose and the
company’s mission: “I can’t go home
at the end of the day without feeling a
us attract and retain everyday heroes sense of accomplishment. In this role,
like Peter.” we’re really helping the operations of
While Kolb has helped Cedar Crest the community continue in a steady,
expand over the past 14 years, Cedar safe direction on a daily basis. We’re
Crest has helped him grow profession- helping people live better lives.”
ally in turn. He utilized the company’s There are close to 1,000 full- and
tuition reimbursement program to part-time employees at Cedar Crest.
obtain various trade school degrees, Employee benefits include tuition reim-
licenses and certifications such as HVAC, bursement, 401K, paid time off, com-
Plumbing and Mechanical as well as his prehensive medical benefits, on-site
Discover exceptional senior living CPMM Certification (Certified Profes- employee health and wellness centers,
sional Maintenance Manager) through employee discount programs and much
for Mom and Dad the accredited American Society of Facil- more. In 2017, Cedar Crest promoted 31
ities Engineers Association. Kolb has employees.
• Respectful, customized care also taken college courses in Mechanical Kolb is the type of everyday hero Cedar
Engineering and Project Management Crest is recruiting. When people join
• Cultural and social events computer programs. Cedar Crest’s team of everyday heroes,
Inspiring • Experienced associates In a day and age when 44.2 million they gain more than a great job in a boom-

Bright Lives • Luxury amenities


Americans hold $1.48 trillion in total U.S.
student loan debt, tuition reimburse-
ment is a high-ranking benefit, as is the
ing industry — they gain unparalleled
access to an array of rich experiences,
knowledge, and opportunities that will
for All Our • Gourmet meals Scholars Fund. Since 2003, the com-
pany has provided 340 student-worker
prove invaluable to their personal and
professional growth. What’s also reward-
Residents • Specialized dementia scholarships valued at $1 million. The
Scholars Fund Program is funded by
ing for them is that they get to change
lives for the better. For more informa-
care neighborhood the residents, staff and community part- tion about Erickson Living careers, visit
ners to support high school students https://jobs.ericksonliving.com.
employed on campus who have shown Cedar Crest, one of 19 continuing
Call Richard and Lindsay to commitment to serving the Cedar Crest care retirement communities man-
schedule your personal visit. community. aged by Erickson Living, is situated on
So what’s better than money to help a scenic 130-acre campus in Pompton
201.817.9238
you earn your college degree? Kolb says Plains, New Jersey. The community is
55 Hudson Avenue • Tenafly, NJ 07670 it’s the fact that Cedar Crest recognizes located in Morris County and is home
www.BrightviewTenafly.com experience counts, too. to 1,800 residents. Additional informa-
“What’s nice about this company is tion about Cedar Crest can be found at
they evaluate you on your performance CedarCrestCommunity.com.

56 Jewish Standard MARCH 16, 2018


Healthy Living & Adult Lifestyles

Jewish Home receives award


for special needs vocational program A Reason to Smile
The Jewish Home at Rock-
leigh Russ Berrie Home
for Jewish Living has been
given the Jewish Program-
ming Award by the Asso-
ciation of Jewish Aging
Services (AJAS) for its 2017
Vocational Certification
Program, which oper-
ated in conjunction with
Yachad. This is the fifth
time the Home received
this national award in the
past six years.
“This award recognizes TEANECK DENTIST
Jewish programs devel-
oped and implemented by
AJAS organizations that are We put the Care
innovative, creative and
specifically designed to
into Dental Care!
enhance the spiritual well- Jewish Home Executive Vice President Sunni Herman receives the AJAS Richard S. Gertler, DMD, FAGD
being of the older adults award flanked by AJAS President Don Shulman and Green House Project
Ari Frohlich, DMD
they serve,” the award’s Senior Director Susan Ryan.
Sami Solaimanzadeh, DMD
description reads.
“The Jewish Home successfully employs a diverse hospitality industry. This certification provided the
workforce with different abilities,” explains Executive means for participants to have a competitive edge when 1008 Teaneck Road • Teaneck
Vice President Sunni Herman. “Individuals with special
needs often have a difficult time obtaining employment
seeking paid employment.”
One of the program’s participants remains as a Jewish
201.837.3000
www.teaneckdentist.com
due to a lack of specific education and experience. After Home employee nearly a year after he received certifi-
undergoing in-depth training in our food services and cation from the program. “He has great pride in receiv- Visit us on Facebook
environmental services departments and earning certi- ing a paycheck from the Home,” Herman says.
fication, participants were expected to be better posi- For more information about the program, contact
Convenient Morning, Evening & Sunday Hours
tioned to gain employment either at the Jewish Home, Sherman@jewishhomefamily.org
by other employers catering to older adults, or in the

Aphasia communication
group offered
for stroke survivors
Do You Suffer From
The Adler Aphasia Center offers an Aphasia Communi-
Chronic Pain and or Illness...
cation Group for stroke and brain injury survivors with
aphasia. This group meets on two Friday mornings a
We are here to help in the comfort of your home.
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environment. Aphasia is a language disorder caused by SEMINARS
stroke or other brain injury. It affects spoken language,
reading and writing, but does not affect one’s intellect.
DEMENTIA BALANCE
This group will be led by one of the center’s licensed
TO IMPROVE:
speech-language pathologists. STRENGTH
Groups are offered from 10 a.m. to noon on two Fri- STROKE CORE
days each month. A person with aphasia may join the
group at any time, but must pre-register. The group PARKINSONS BALANCE
also provides an introduction to the Adler Aphasia
Center, but membership to the Center is not required
COGNITIVE
to attend this group. FIBROMYALGIA FITNESS
To learn more about this group and to pre-register,
contact Karen Castka, M.S., CCC-SLP, at (201) 368- Call to Schedule your Personal Evaluation
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For more information about the Adler Aphasia Cen-
ter’s full-service programs, visit their website at www.
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Jewish Standard MARCH 16, 2018 57


Healthy Living & Adult Lifestyles

In Clifton nursing home, the zoo visits you


Two- and four-legged ambassadors from cannot be released back into the wild. Petey expanded the scope of its
the Essex County Turtle Back Zoo outreach the rooster, a mistreated rescue animal who outreach program and
program recently visited nursing home resi- now happily resides at the zoo, was a color- now visits nursing homes,
dents of the Memory Care Unit at Daughters ful and proud king of the roost who deigned adult day care centers,
of Miriam Center/The Gallen Institute in to allow residents to touch his feathers. Most chronic illness organiza-
Clifton. Seniors touched, held and learned cuddly of all was Minner the rabbit, a very tions, and special needs
about their animal visitors who calmly strut- large, fuzzy, and soft ambassador for the ani- schools using programs
ted, padded, and slithered among their mal kingdom. Residents were also welcom- customized to each par-
new friends. ing of Maize the colorful corn snake, whose ticipant’s abilities.
Turtle Back Zoo brought Minner the rab- relatively small size allowed him to wrap For the health and P
bit, Petey the rooster, Maize the corn snake, himself around Ms. Burroughs’ forearm safety of people as well
and Gimli the western screech owl to inter- when she presented him for viewing. as wild animals, New Jer- A
act with residents. The zoo also provided Nursing home residents learned that mod- sey has restrictions on o
tactile experiences for the residents while ern zoo animals are either rescued or bred touching non-domesti-
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staff explained about the animals and their in captivity in the US or abroad as it is not cated animals. In order
habitats, life cycles, and the relationship permissible to import captured wild ani- to provide a tactile expe- Daughters of Miriam Center resident Geraldino D
between humans and nature. Zoo educa- mals in the United States. Therefore each rience, the Turtle Back Camacho makes a point with Gimli the wise owl. t
tors Sarah Burroughs and Shatiaa Burwell animal at the zoo represents and advocates Zoo Outreach Program c
mingled with residents while presenting the for its wild counterparts and native habitats brings both domesticated d
animals, explaining their backgrounds, and as ambassadors to the public. Programs like animals that people can w
showing center residents how to touch and the Turtle Back Zoo’s outreach program hold as well as a touch- S
interact with their visitors. are vital for conservation organizations able biofact for each wild e
Ms. Burroughs explained that Gimli the because an up-close and in-person meeting animal. Residents were p
owl was rescued from a car accident and, with an animal ambassador bridges the gap allowed to handle Minney e
due to his broken wing and damaged eye, between humans and nature. In 2017 the zoo the rabbit and Petey the s
rooster, while Maize the
corn snake and Gimli the v
owl were exhibited and o
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while she explained the life
Turtle Back Zoo animal ambassador Petey the
rooster, a mistreated rescue animal, visits nurs-
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Miriam Center when the Turtle Back produce a calming effect.”
Zoo ambassadors arrived. She enthusi- Activities at Daughters of Miriam Cen-
astically stated, “What a great program! ter focus on enriching the day-to-day
Everyone was so interested in seeing the lives of seniors through animal and pet
animals, it really perked the residents therapy, performing arts, intergenera-
up. You could see that even the people tional programs with visiting students,
who couldn’t speak were reacting to the daily movement exercises, cooking
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Care Care The Turtle Back Zoo Outreach Pro- that both stimulate and entertain nurs-
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Petey the rooster coming near. Activities ion, a rehabilitation program, a shel-
ShabbosRooms Director Nora added, “There is a heal- tered workshop, hospice care, a respite
forf amil
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Healthy Living & Adult Lifestyles

Bring comfort and meaning to the dying


Englewood Hospital and Medical Center receive comprehensive training, sup-
is looking for compassionate, dedicated port, and continued education.
community members to provide com- To learn more, interested volunteers
fort and meaning to patients during their are invited to an information session.
final days of life. Just as a birth doula The next session is Wednesday, March
brings greater comfort and meaning 28, from 5 to 6:30 p.m. To RSVP, visit
to women in labor, an end-of-life doula englewoodhealth.org/calendar. If you
does the same for those who are dying have any questions, call (201) 894-3896.
and their loved ones. Our volunteers

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about options for personalizing death-
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D’var Torah
Vayikra: Imagining life without Leviticus

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ver twenty years ago, my col- of denomination, is to find further and deeper personal the formality of a traditional wedding or
league Rabbi Barry Block each community reading introspection. Many rabbis, the rituals of a sporting event or a pub-
gave a sermon entitled “The and wrestling with the open- puzzled by the cultic lan- lic meeting. There is something com-
‘Boring’ Parts of the Torah.” ing chapters of Leviticus. guage of Leviticus, sought forting about the familiar, the recogniz-
He wrote playfully, “Imagine scheduling And there are gems scat- interpretations suggesting able, the predictable. There is something
your Bat Mitzvah, only later to learn that tered throughout the book the importance of prayer, deeply moving about performing a rite
the portion is ‘boring.’ If a rabbi calls a of Leviticus. Chapter 19’s and arguing that a Tem- that is older than we are, one that goes
Torah portion ‘boring,’ it must really be a holiness code that teaches us ple restored in Jerusalem back beyond the time of our parents
yawn!... But the Torah is filled with intrigu- how to respect one another would be a place symboliz- and grandparents.”
ing stories and inspiring directives, many and reminds us that we Rabbi Paul ing peace and redemption, In many regards, ritual is seen as com-
of them highly concentrated in just a few should love our neighbor as Jacobson and not necessarily a place forting, sanctifying and necessary. We
weekly portions. Why couldn’t we just ourselves. Chapter 23’s cal- Temple Avodat of animal sacrifice. always hear how people enjoy attending
Shalom, River
spread those ‘good’ parts through the year, endar of festivity and cele- Edge, Reform
Leviticus is beautiful for Shabbat dinners, or feel better about their
and skip the ‘boring’ parts of the Torah?… bration, reminding us of the us because it provides a win- workweek after spending an hour singing
Out would go chapter upon chapter from importance of sacred time. dow into our people’s sacred in the synagogue and greeting one another,
Leviticus, all about animal sacrifice in the Chapter 25’s injunction to care for the past and it helps us to understand how because the ritual of doing so is uplifting
ancient Temple….” world around us and the environment in our ancestors made sense of the world in and rejuvenating. Most people rabbis work
By the end of Rabbi Block’s words, which we live. which they lived. This text is often called with want their wedding or their funeral
(which incidentally, address another And there’s more. The journey to Torat Kohanim, the laws for the priests, to be “traditional,” “by the book,” because
parashah besides Vayikra) he argues that understand this text spans generations. and we are commanded to be a kingdom familiarity soothes the soul.
in many ways, concepts that are diffi- We are not alone in our quest to under- of priests and a holy nation dedicated Each of the concepts of community,
cult for us to appreciate can still possess stand these sacred words. The prophets, to God. When a text appears unclear, or interpretation, ritual, and sacred question-
great beauty, and impart meaning into wondering if God actually required sacri- we don’t like the message it contains, we ing returns us to our sacred book of Leviti-
our contemporary lives. So how do we ficial offerings, tried to help the masses might need to look a little bit deeper, to cus. Interpreting the teachings of Leviticus
make sense of the text that is before us? understand the true reasons behind see if there is another angle or another leads us to recognize that prayer, charity,
What lessons might we able to glean from their sacrifices – moments of transition perspective with which we might address study, reflection, remembrance, timely
passages related to animal sacrifice and and gratitude, atonement for error and the subject. The prophets did this, the rab- celebration of our festivals, and gather-
priestly rites? If Leviticus appears merely poor judgment, developing a deeper con- bis did this, and so too do we. ing together as a community in times of
interested in bodily discharges and sinful nection with God. They thought that the So much of Leviticus is focused upon joy and sadness can help each of us draw
behaviour, wouldn’t it be better to envi- very act of sacrifice should be used as a the concept of ritual. Commentator closer to one another, and in the process
sion life without Leviticus? catalyst for seeking true forgiveness, for Baruch Levine writes in the JPS Torah draw closer to God. At the end of the
Perhaps not. To visit any synagogue in upholding the rights of the widow, the Commentary, “Something in the human day, we simply cannot imagine life with-
our community this Shabbat, regardless orphan, and the downtrodden, and for soul responds to ritual, whether it be out Leviticus.

Perlman had been written. White House, in concert with Billy Joel, opinion, Perlman sees a way out. “You’ve
FROM PAGE 23 Perlman survived, although his legs before a New York Mets playoff game, asked enough questions,” he says at one
first fell in love with his instrument when were paralyzed, and he went on to reveal and with countless orchestras around the point, and asks Toby to pick up the phone.
he was 3. That’s when he heard the legend- musical brilliance. Still, many experts saw world. After winning the 2016 Genesis Fortunately, she is an astute observer of
ary Jewish violinist Jascha Heifetz playing his disability and discouraged thoughts of Prize — known as the “Jewish Nobel” — the seasoned maestro. “He doesn’t know
on the radio. “It’s very interesting what a music career. His huge break came at 13, he directed the $1 million in prize money a lot of things about himself because so
makes kids who study instruments choose when he caught Sullivan’s eye. The impre- toward the projects that foster the inclu- much of it comes so naturally,” she said.
the instrument. It’s what speaks to you. sario and TV star had sent talent scouts to sion of people with disabilities in Jewish “It’s like breathing. We don’t think about
The sound just appealed to me. I wanted Israel to look for acts for his immensely life, Israeli society, and classical music. breathing, and that’s the way he plays.”
to do that,” he said. popular variety show, and eventually he The film illustrates how collaborative There is one thing Perlman is acutely
But Perlman has faced hardships. He visited the Jewish state himself. and generous Perlman is. While he is visit- aware of: He has a gift that can’t be taught.
contracted polio at 4. It was the late 1940s; In the documentary, Perlman admits ing a friend who tunes up his violin before “You can teach almost everything with
Israel was in its infancy as a nation and had that he suspects Sullivan brought him to a tour and teaches gifted students in one one exception: the magic that makes per-
limited medical facilities. Many people New York as much for the inspirational of his many workshops, he comes across formances special,” he said. “You can have
died from the disease, even in the most impact of his disability as for his skill. Nev- less like a classical music Beatle than like two people — both great — play the same
advanced nations. Part of Perlman’s treat- ertheless, he was a hit after he performed a peer. piece, and one will move you and one
ment involved inhaling the smoke of burn- on the program in 1958. From there, the He is not fond of being interviewed, won’t.”
ing parchment on which religious sayings rest is history — he has performed at the though, and when Toby voices her  JTA WIRE SERVICE

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ne of my many talents is was lighter. It was supposed to be bet-
being a cleaning lady. ter, faster, and stronger. Three months
Though I grew up with later, I was back, returning it. (Always
live-in help (who thought save your receipt.) And then we were
to appreciate that at the time? Oh well) on vacuum number two. It was even
I haven’t had any help in my house for lighter; “more suction” it advertised. It
about 15 years. Husband #1 will tell you came with 500 attachments. One attach-
that he keeps telling me to get help, but I ment for pet hair, one for stairs, one for
know the truth. Why pay someone when the ceiling, for corners, to trim trees,
your wife will do it for free? (I guess that to cut your kids’ hair…. And I came to
applies to several other situations that like this vacuum, though it could never
we cannot get into in a family paper.) replace the first one. (You never forget
In any event, I love being the martyr, your first love, after all.) And that brings
and you can often hear me singing us to last week.
songs from the Cinderella Son #3 was off for a snow
soundtrack, as the cartoon day, but he went into the
birds and mice help me city with a friend, leaving
make the beds, do the laun- me alone with my cartoon
dry, and scrub the floors… birds and mice to help me
Truthfully, I love to clean the house. I took
vacuum. I love the sound the vacuum out from the
the vacuum makes when closet and began to, well,
it cleans up the crumbs vacuum, and after finish-
from the carpet in the ing up the family room,
room that no one is sup- Banji I shut it off and out came
posed to bring food into. I Ganchrow everything I had just vacu-
love it when all of the dust umed up. All over the car-
bunnies get sucked up into pet. That I had just vacu-
Across Down
oblivion. When I got married, a zillion umed. I mentioned that son #3 was out
1. Makes like Prince Jonathan to young 1. Dangerous dealer
years ago (ok, only 22, but if feels like of the house, which is relevant because David 2. “Simpsons” character who grows up to
a zillion) my in-laws bought me a vac- the words that exited my mouth after 6. Mich. neighbor be a Chief Justice
uum cleaner from Sears (refrain from the discharge of dust and crumbs and 9. Many a Wiesel work 3. She, in Sicily
comment). This vacuum cleaner was a lord knows what else were not pleas- 14. Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki, familiarly 4. “Todah!”
beast. I loved it. And he and I (yes, it ant ones. 15. Class clown, e.g. 5. Modern card
16. Observe Yom Kippur 6. Feral
was a boy vacuum) shared many won- I found the instruction manual, called 17. 1970 Saul Bellow title character 7. George Harrison autobiography
derful times together. the customer helpline, and after 45 min- 19. Pine product 8. Passover time
When we first started together, before utes of troubleshooting, the genius on 20. Lee who co-created “Black Panther” 9. Serving of corn
the boys, we would vacuum every day, the other end of the phone finally said, 21. Own (up) 10. Music systems
so husband #1 would think I was the per- “Ma’am, do you still have your receipt?” 23. Former Missouri team 11. His massive homerun totals weren’t
24. Forte, Rio and Optima maker exactly kosher
fect homemaker. Then, when the babies The unpleasant words still floating out 26. Restroom sign 12. ___ Zemirot (Shabbat song)
came, my vacuum and I would clean up of my mouth, I gathered up the 500 28. 1964 Peter Sellers title character 13. Desires
hundreds of cheerios and a variety of attachments, took apart the vacuum, 33. Victorian, say 18. Hamachpela preceder, in Israel
other baby-related messes. (Except for put everything back in the box, and off 34. Relieve 22. “Super” primary day: Abbr.
vomit, unfortunately.) We were a perfect to BB&B I went. 35. “___ to recall...” 25. Do tax work, in Britain
37. Stimpy’s TV pal 27. Some pitches and burgers
team. All I would have to do was replace My friend Peggy, at customer service, 38. N.Y.C. rail org. or HS 28. Nebuchadnezzer had one that Daniel
the vacuum bag every few months. who I am convinced lives at the Paramus 39. Put two and two together interpreted
The years went on. We moved to our store because she is always there when I 41. Minions follow him 29. “Amazing” debunker of the paranor-
current home in Teaneck from our apart- am there, looked at me sympathetically 42. Circle segments mal
ment in Englewood. My vacuum would after I bored her with my tale of vacuum 44. CSA signature part 30. Simile’s middle
45. “First” or “Kool” ending 31. Tempeh eater, perhaps
be shlepped up the stairs and down the woes. And now I am the proud owner 46. 2016 Eva Green title character 32. Spooky
stairs, learning to acclimate to all of the of a new, shiny, and pink vacuum. Yes, 50. Téa of “Madame Secretary” 33. Mistake an Amish person for a chasid,
different kinds of messes that come with I finally have a girl, but she is a vacuum. 51. Lead up to U e.g.
living in a house and having three sons. With the receipt safely kept close by — 52. Perlman of “Cheers” 36. Dead Sea Spa item
(It was a wiz at cleaning up broken glass but how bad can a pink vacuum be? 55. Where a sukkah might be built 39. Chametz that can’t be removed from
57. Sefardi perk on Passover Jerusalem?
while the boys were instructed to stand The moral of this story? Sears is out of 61. Makes 40. Mets’ ace
on the couch in order to protect their business because they made one amaz- 63. 2017 Rachel Brosnahan title character 43. Frequent “Survivor” settings
cute little feet.) And then, one day, after ing vacuum…And I miss him every sin- 65. Best friend of Samwise, in fantasy 44. Red Sea country
almost 19 years, my beloved vacuum gle day. 66. Fish in 67-Across 47. Kellogg’s character
took its last breath. I brought it back to Happy cleaning 67. Stilettos, e.g. 48. Dental layer
68. Fresh, in a way 49. “Gave it my all”
Sears in the hope that they could give 69. MLB team that plays in Anaheim, 52. N.F.L. “zebras”
my dear friend new life. But, alas, it was Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck is stocking briefly 53. Lashon follower
not meant to be. I was at a loss. I now up on kosher for Passover coffee cake mix 70. Singer who apologized for making 54. Cupid, to the Greeks
had no vacuum. because it seems that Drakes has stopped anti-Semitic remarks in 2009 56. Actress Fisher of “The Great Gatsby”
Off to Bed, Bath and Beyond I begrudg- making husband #1’s beloved coffee cakes. 58. “Got it!”
59. Con’s confines
ingly went. I bought a new vacuum. It His breakfast will never be the same. The solution to last week’s puzzle is 60. “Or” or “Anything” follower
on page 66.
62. Tofu base
64. “Got it!”

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Calendar a.m. Schacharit minyan.
Friday  Lecture in Hebrew. 389
West Englewood Ave.
MARCH 16 (201) 837-2795.
Shabbat in Wayne: Eric iCan teen conference
Mayer discusses his life as in Englewood: The
a Holocaust survivor for Jewish Federation of
the annual community Northern New Jersey and
Joseph Gotthelf the Jewish Federation &
Holocaust Memorial Foundation of Rockland
lecture at Temple Beth join forces for the iCan
Tikvah, during services teen conference at
that begin at 7:30 p.m. Dwight Englewood
Mr. Mayer donated the School in Englewood,
encased Czech Torah 10:30 a.m.-5 p.m. Kosher
scroll in TBT’s sanctuary. lunch and snacks, an
950 Preakness Ave. Israeli market, resource
(973) 595-6565 or www. fair, separate parents’
templebethtikvahnj.org. program from 3 to 5.
Organizations include
StandWithUs, the
David Project, act-il.
Julia Dahl Leah Carroll Amy Silverstein com, AEPi, Students
Supporting Israel,
Israel Action Network,
MAR. The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly hosts “A Sunday of Hasbara Fellowships,
Strong Women” from 10:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., with three authors. Israeli-American Council,

Shabbat in Mahwah:
As part of the “One
Book One Community”
18 Julia Dahl discusses her book, “Conviction,” where a New York
City tabloid reporter investigates murder in New York’s chasidic
and the Committee
for Accuracy in Middle
East Reporting in
America will be there.
project, sponsored by
communities; Leah Carroll talks about her memoir, “Down City,” detailing JFNNJ.org/calendar/
the Jewish Federation her determination to uncover family truths. Amy Silverstein discusses “My ican or Ariella Noveck
of Northern New Jersey, Glory Was I Had Such Friends,” about the power of female friendship, at (201) 820-3946 or
Beth Haverim Shir ariellan@jfnnj.org.
Shalom offers a “Taste of
which saw her through a harrowing medical journey that involved two heart
Passover,” with an oneg transplants. Register at jccotp.org/ssw or call Kathy Graff at (201) 408- Family portraits in
featuring recipes from 1454. Supported in part by the James H. Grossmann Memorial Jewish Book Wayne: Shomrei Torah
this year’s book selection, offers family portraits,
“Zahav — A World of
Endowment Fund. 10 a.m.- 4 p.m. The cost
Israeli Cooking” by for a 15-minute sitting
Michael Solomonov and is $35 and includes one
Steven Cook, 7:30 p.m. St.; building entrance d’oeuvres, and desserts, 8x10 print. 30 Hinchman
Thinking about maror
280 Ramapo Valley on 10th Street where
free parking is available.
7:30 p.m. 585 Russell
Ave. (201) 891-4466 or in Teaneck: Rabbi Sunday  Ave. (973) 696-2500.
Road. (201) 512-1983 or Dr. Meir Soloveichik MARCH 18
bethhaverimshirshalom. rabbiaaron1@gmail.com, bethrishon.org. Jewish memories:
or go to bnaijacobjc.com. discusses “When Bitter Rabbi Alberto (Baruch)
org. is Better: a New Culinary
Wine tasting in Zeilicovich discusses
Shabbat joint learning Teaneck: The Men’s Club and Philosophical “Building Jewish
Shabbat in Teaneck:
program in Teaneck: of the Jewish Center of Approach to Maror” Memories” at Temple
Temple Emeth offers
Congregations Rinat Teaneck holds a pre- for Congregation Beth Sholom in Fair
musical services with
Yisrael and Beth Sholom Pesach wine tasting and Bnai Yeshurun’s adult Lawn, including how to
the Temple Emeth Band,
hold their fourth annual sale, for people 21 and education committee, create Jewish memories
Cantor Ellen Tilem, and
joint learning program, older, 8:30 p.m. Rabbi 9:15 p.m. Rabbi for the generations to
Rabbi Steven Sirbu,
“Ha-Laylah Ha-Zeh: Daniel Fridman will Soloveichik is the director come, 10:30 a.m. 40-25
8 p.m. 1666 Windsor
How the Seder Helped discuss the connection of the Zahava and Fair Lawn Ave. (201) 797-
Road. (201) 833-1322 or
Rebuild Jewish Life After between wine and Moshael Straus Center 9321.
www.Emeth.org. Rabbi Amnon Bazak
the Destruction of the Pesach. Cheese and for Torah and Western
Temple,” at Beth Sholom, noshes served. Wine Thought at Yeshiva Shiur on the four sons History of Newark: Helen
Saturday  4 p.m. Group discussions sale order form includes University and the rabbi in Teaneck: The adult Lippman discusses “The
MARCH 17 led by skilled facilitators more than 300 wines. of Congregation Shearith education committee History of Newark from
from both congregations. Free delivery on orders Israel in Manhattan. 641 of Congregation Rinat a Jewish Perspective”
354 Maitland Ave. over $300, credit cards West Englewood Ave. Yisrael presents author at Temple Emeth in
Shabbat in Jersey City: (201) 244-6702 or www.
Congregation B’nai (201) 833-2620 or www. accepted, and free Rabbi Amnon Bazak Teaneck’s B’yachad
cbsteaneck.org. designated drivers will bnaiyeshurun.org. discussing “Keneged breakfast, 11 a.m.
Jacob holds a family
service, 10:30 a.m.-noon, be on call. 70 Sterling Arbah Banim: Between 1666 Windsor Road.
Cabaret night in Place. (201) 833-0515 or Pshat and Drash,” (The Breakfast reservations,
followed by a kiddush,
Wyckoff: Temple Beth Mensclub@jcot.org. Four Sons: Explicating (201) 833-1322 or www.
at Hamilton House.
Rishon holds a cabaret The Simple Meaning emeth.org.
Supported by the
evening, with music, vs. the Homiletical
Schachat and Trotta
wine, cheese, hors Implications) after the 8
families. 255 Brunswick

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Calendar
Service with meditative
Book discussion in Café Europa in Teaneck: Fundraising boutique in
Emerson: Congregation Café Europa, a social Teaneck: Zahal Shalom
and poetic readings
led by Rabbis David In New York
B’nai Israel, in partnership program sponsored hosts its vendor spring Widzer and Beth Kramer-
with the Jewish
Federation of Northern
by Jewish Family &
Children’s Services
boutique at Congregation
Beth Sholom to support
Mazer and student Sunday 
cantor Julie Staple. 221
New Jersey, hosts “A of Northern NJ for Israel’s disabled veterans, Schraalenburgh Road,
MARCH 18
Delicious Exploration of Holocaust survivors, 6-10 p.m. It raises funds Closter. (201) 768-5112.
Israeli Cuisine,” a “One with funding from the to bring 12 disabled Benefit concert: The
Book One Community” Claims Conference, Israeli veterans to Bergen Zamir Choral Foundation,
program, 2 p.m. Recipes meets at Temple Emeth, County this summer. Sunday  founded and directed by
from this year’s book, Jordanna Mallach 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. 354 Maitland Ave. MARCH 25 Matthew Lazar, presents
“Zahav, A World of COURTESY NCJWBCS Kosher lunch and a zahalshalom.org. Vendor HaZamir, the international
Israeli Cooking,” by program with the Israeli information, Tali Blum, Jewish teen choir, in
Women in the military: Mega food drive in
Michael Solomonov Scouts. 1666 Windsor tali@zahalshalom.org concert, for its 25th
Jordanna Mallach, special Paramus: Jewish
and Steven Cook, along Road. Shari Brodsky, anniversary celebration
programs coordinator Federation of Northern
with a variety of Israeli
snacks and sweets, with the New York State
(201) 837-9090, ext. 237,
or sharib@jfcsnnj.org.
Friday  New Jersey has its at David Geffen Hall in
Lincoln Center, 4 p.m.
community-wide Mega
will be prepared and Division of Veterans MARCH 23 Food Drive at Federation Vivian Lazar is the Kinor
served and Rabbi Debra Affairs, discusses her Be prepared: Tri Boro David award recipient.
own experiences and Hadassah meets at the offices. Drop off items
Orenstein will talk about Shabbat in Wayne: by Friday, March 23 10 Lincoln Center Plaza
her recent six-month the role of women in JCC of Paramus/CBT for The Caring Community in New York City. www.
today’s military at a a program on emergency and pack and sort food
experience living in of Temple Beth Tikvah HaZamirGala25.org.
general meeting of the preparedness by the donations to benefit
Israel. 53 Palisade Ave. holds a Shabbat dinner,
Bergen County section Bergen County Division area food pantries or
(201) 265-2272 or www. 6 p.m. Musical services bag snack packs for kids,
bisrael.com. of the National Council of
Jewish Women at Temple
of Senior Services,
1 p.m. East 304 Midland
follow with singer/
songwriter Jacob
at JFNNJ, 1-3 p.m. 50
Eisenhower Drive. www.
Singles
Emeth in Teaneck, Ave., Paramus. Email
Monday  12:30 p.m. 1666 Windsor Mayermi@aol.com.
Kraus. 950 Preakness
Ave. (973) 595-6565 or
JFNNJ.org/FoodDrive or
Sunday 
(201) 820-3947.
MARCH 19 Road. (201) 385-4847 or templebethtikvahnj.org.
MARCH 18
www.ncjwbcs.org.
Thursday  Shabbat in Closter:
MARCH 22 Temple Beth El offers Seniors meet: Singles
a guest artist spiritual 65+ of the JCC Rockland
Lunch and Learn: Rabbi Shabbat with harpist meets for lunch at
David-Seth Kirshner Barbara Allen and Sutter’s Mill of Suffern,
of Temple Emanu-El flutist Wendy Stern, noon. 214 Route 59,
in Closter offers Torah accompanied by pianist Suffern, N.Y. Individual
study and lunch. Location James Rensink, the shul’s checks. Reservations,
information, Chareen music director, 7:30 p.m. Gene, (845) 356-5525.
Kramer, (201) 750-9997.

Reed Brody
Book talk in Fort Lee: Sports tribute to Alyssa Alhadeff in Waldwick
Pursuing human rights: The sisterhood of JCC of
Reed Brody, counsel Fort Lee/Congregation
and spokesperson for A community night celebrating the life of Alyssa Alhadeff, who
Gesher Shalom meets to
Human Rights Watch discuss Marie Benedict’s
lived in Woodcliff Lake before her family moved to Florida, who
and international “The Other Einstein,” died in the Parkland school shooting, is at Superdome Sports on
crimes prosecutor and Lois Bruno
1 p.m. Refreshments. Sunday, March 18, from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Many local sponsors,
investigator, discusses 1449 Anderson Ave.
“Human Rights and Jewish American individuals, and businesses have contributed to the evening,
(201) 947-1735. composers: The CSI
the Rule of Law” in which will take over the 80,000-square-foot facility. In addition
Scholar Fund of the JCC
the Anisfield School Getting your life in order: of Fort Lee/Congregation to games, there will be a silent auction, arts and crafts, dance,
of Business (ASB 332) Shari Haber, a volunteer Gesher Shalom presents and special activities.
at Ramapo College in at the Bergen County
Mahwah, 1 p.m. Under the High School of Jewish
Lois Bruno & Company Registration includes all facility games and activities. All the
auspices of Ramapo’s performing classics from fees and funds from sponsors and vendors will be donated in Alyssa Alhadeff
Studies and founder of the Jewish American
Gross Center for Great Goodbyes LLC, Alyssa’s memory to the causes that the Alhadeff family is sup-
Holocaust and Genocide Songbook. Refreshments
discusses “Plan Your Last at 12:30 p.m.; concert at 1. porting. The Superdome is at 134 Hopper Ave. in Waldwick. For
Studies and the Law and Life Event,” a light look at
Society and Social Work the heavy topic of death,
1449 Anderson Ave., Fort information, call (201) 444-7660 or go to Superdomesports.com.
programs. 505 Ramapo Lee. (201) 947 1735.
at the Upper Saddle River
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(201) 684-7409. Register, (201) 327-2583 or
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Tuesday  org. The Academies at Gerrard Berman Day fundraiser is set for March 22 at 7 p.m.,
MARCH 20 School offers “Night out at Nordstrom,” an at the store in the Westfield Garden State
Wednesday  evening that includes demonstrations of Plaza. Proceeds benefit the school’s eighth-
Purim and Pesach: Dr. MARCH 21 beauty and intimate apparel, a light sup- grade Israel trip. For information, call (201)
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in Teaneck, 10:30 a.m. non-kosher turkeys and As part of a series The Teaneck Camera Club will hold a photography
950 Queen Anne Road. non-perishable packaged of Jewish heritage
events at Rockland exhibit, “Through Our Eyes,” in the Sandy Bennett Gal-
Register at lamdeinu.org. food (no glass) for its
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Fran Leib Memorial Food
Drive, in the parking lot, author Rabbi Lawrence through March 31.
7:15-9 a.m. Food donated Hajioff discusses his Founded in 1943, the Teaneck Camera Club, which
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Preparing for Passover
Over the next few weeks, the Jewish Standard will offer Passover Local seders open to the public
recipes and lots of ideas for the holiday, which begins this year Check weekly for updates on community seders. Last week included
on the night of Friday, March 30, and ends on Saturday, April 7. Haskell, Wayne, Teaneck, and Paramus.

CLIFTON matzah and wines on Friday, March


The Daughters of Miriam Center/ 30, and Saturday, March 31, at 8
Healthy twists The Gallen Institute in Clifton offers p.m., at 23 Mineral Spring Ave., in
on Passover foods six glatt kosher seders. On Friday,
March 30, and Saturday, March 31,
Passaic. (973) 246-5251 or www.
chabadpc.org.
Food guru/cookbook author Shannon Sarna of the the community is welcome to seders
Nosher blog gives healthy twists on Passover favorites in the Apartment Dining Room at WYCKOFF
both 4:30 and 8 p.m., as well as one Temple Beth Rishon hosts a
for Hadassah’s Every Bite Counts Heart Health Initia- community seder on Saturday, March
in the Marcus Auditorium at 6 p.m.
tive, at the café at the Leon & Toby Cooperman JCC 31, at 5:30 p.m. For information,
For reservations, call (973) 253-5281.
on Sunday, March 18, at 4 p.m. Proceeds support the call (201) 891-4466 or go to www.
Hadassah Medical Organization. The JCC is located at FAIR LAWN bethrishon.org.
760 Northfield Ave. in West Orange. For information, Bris Avrohom in Fair Lawn has an
call (973) 530-3996 or go to Hadassah.org/events/ adult seder, Friday March 30, at JERSEY CITY
7:30 p.m., with full dinner, led in Rabbi Aaron Katz of Congregation
northernNJnosh. Shannon Sarna
Russian by Rabbi Berel and Leah B’nai Jacob in Jersey City hosts a
Zaltzman. On Saturday, March 31, seder on Saturday, March 31, at 6
at 7:45 p.m., there will be a family p.m., at his home. For information,
Passover wine tasting and sale seder led by Rabbi Mendel and
Elke Zaltzman in English, with
call (201) 435-5725 or email
RabbiAaron1@gmail.com.
The men’s club at the Jewish Center The wine sale order form includes drama, songs, games and fun, and
of Teaneck holds a pre-Pesach wine more than 300 wines, and free delivery dinner. Call (201) 791-7200 or go to GLEN ROCK
JewishFairLawn.org. The Glen Rock Jewish Center hosts
tasting and sale, for people 21 and older, is available on orders over $300. Credit
an interactive community seder led
on Saturday, March 17, at 8:30 p.m. cards will be accepted. The shul is at 70 by Rabbi Jennifer Schlosberg on
TENAFLY
Rabbi Daniel Fridman will discuss the Sterling Place. For more information, Lubavitch on the Palisades hosts Saturday, March 31, at 6 p.m. For
connection between wine and Pesach. call (201) 833-0515 or email Mensclub@ community family seders, led by information, call (201) 652-6624 or
Cheese and noshes will be served. jcot.org. its rabbis, on Friday, March 30, email judi.forer@gmail.com.
and Saturday, March 31, at 8 p.m.
Vegetarian is available. Special rate; MONTEBELLO
no one turned away. 11 Harold St. Congregation Shaarey Israel
Add zest to matzah balls with zahtar (201) 871-1152. offers a community seder led
by Cantor Menachem Bazian on
NPR calls zahtar a spice mix PASSAIC Saturday, March 31, at 8 p.m. 18
with biblical roots and brain Chabad of Passaic-Clifton offers Montebello Road, Montebello, N.Y.
food reputation. Health Ben- inspiring interactive seders with All welcome. (845) 369-0300 or
efits Times says it can fight homemade dinner with handmade shaareyisraelrockland.org.
cancer, ward off respiratory
infection, provide energy,
and enhance mood. Pereg
says it’s delicious — and now
Jewish Home seeks seder volunteers
it’s kosher for Passover. Volunteers are needed to help with to 6 p.m.For information, call Stacey
Zahtar (also spelled za’tar) Passover seders at the Jewish Home Orden, at (201) 518-1175 or email her at
is an aromatic, savory seasoning blend that crumbs are fresh, all-natural, verified non- at Rockleigh on Friday, March 30, sorden@jewishhomefamily.org.
has been a staple of Middle Eastern and Medi- GMO, OU-P, kosher, and dairy-free with no and Saturday, March 31, from 4:30
terranean tables since ancient times. It’s per- additives or preservatives.
fect as a meat rub, blends beautifully with
olive oil for an amazing classic dip, and takes
grilled veggies to a whole new dimension of
Zahtar matzah balls
flavorful earthiness. adapted from the Spruce
Pereg, purveyor of exotic spices and blends (www.thespruce.com)
from around the world, is upping the flavor
2 eggs
and crunch factor this Passover with two 2 tablespoons oil
new products — its zesty new zahtar season- 1/2 cup matzah meal
ing mix and its versatile vegan Matzo Crumbs, 1 teaspoon salt
newly certified kosher for Passover. 1/4 teaspoon Pereg zahtar
Like all Pereg products, zahtar and matzah 1/4 teaspoon baking powder
3 tablespoons water Manischewitz partners with Maxwell House
In time for Passover, the Manischewitz David Sugarman, CEO of the Manisch-
In a medium bowl, whisk together the Company, the largest marketer of kosher ewitz Company. “We take pride in the
eggs and oil. Stir in the matzah meal,
foods in North America, announced a heritage and tradition of our company
salt, zahtar, and baking powder until
well combined, and then stir in the partnership with Maxwell House Coffee to and we feel that working with Maxwell
water. Note that the mixture will be offer consumers a free copy of the Maxwell House Coffee, a brand that shares the
very loose but will thicken as it stands. House Passover Haggadah in select spe- same values and strong tie to the Pass-
Refrigerate for at least 30 minutes. cially marked five-pound boxes of Manisch- over holiday, is the perfect fit. We hope
ewitz matzah. The Maxwell House Pass- that this partnership will help bring
Bring a large pot of water to a boil. over Haggadah, which has been printed families together this season as they cel-
Scoop approximately 1 ounce of the and distributed by Maxwell House Coffee ebrate the Passover holiday.”
batter, gently form a ball, and add to since 1932, is one of the most popular and The Maxwell House Passover Haggadah
the water. Cover, reduce the heat to low, well-known editions of the text. is the most widely used Haggadah in the
and let simmer for 30 minutes. Remove
“Partnering with Maxwell House Cof- United States. www.manischewitz.com.
the cooked matzah balls with a slotted
fee this season is truly an honor,” said SEE MORE PASSOVER ON PAGE 69
spoon or spider strainer and add to soup.

64 JEWISH STANDARD MARCH 16, 2018


Obituaries
Dr. Meyer Becker World War II veteran, he served in the European Theater
Dr. Meyer M. Becker, of Wayne, died March 10. of Operations. He was a longtime member of the Glen Obituaries are prepared with
He was an oral maxilla facial surgeon for 60 years and Rock Jewish Center where he served on the board and information provided by funeral homes. Correcting
a Korean Conflict veteran. ritual committee. errors is the responsibility of the funeral home.
Predeceased by a daughter, Debra, he is survived by He is survived by his wife of 67 years, Edith; children,
his wife Debbie; daughters, Susan Horwitz (Marshall) Steven of Wayne, Sheryl Goldberg (Alan) of Springfield,
and Nancy Marks (Keith); and grandchildren, Rachelle and Myrna Kronenfeld (Ira) of Lincoln Park; sister, Mar-
Martin (Robert) and Joshua Horwitz. ian Wacks of Fair Lawn; and five grandchildren.
Donations can be made to Barnert Temple in Franklin Memorial donations can be sent to the New Jersey
Lakes, or to the Valley Hospice. Arrangements were by Veterans Home, Paramus. Arrangements were by Louis
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Funding
FROM PAGE 42
strict church-state separationists,” Dia-
ment recalled.
Once in office, Obama sweetened the
deal for liberals, inviting them to join a
25-person advisory council (that included
three Jews) that tinkered for two years on
recommendations that would protect the
faith-based office from violating constitu-
tional separations.
Under Trump, the office has been mori-
bund, but Trump has embraced many of
its principles aggressively. Just a month
before the disaster aid bill had passed, he
used his executive powers to remove the
restrictions.
It’s a short leap from security to disas-
ter aid.
For decades, Diament has led the charge
to direct more funding toward religious
institutions. Activists like Diament have
worked doggedly to codify the changes
into permanent law in Congress — and
they have picked their battles well.
In the wake of the 9/11 terrorist attacks, Employees are at work inside the FEMA Command Center in Washington, D.C. SAUL LOEB/AFP/GETTY IMAGES

the Orthodox Union, Agudath Israel of


America, and the Jewish Federations of Ruined books from a 2012 ballot initiative in Florida— a pur-
North America joined in advocating for United Orthodox ple state representative of national trends
nonprofit security grants, which reinforce Synagogues of — that would have removed state restric-
protections for religious organizations. Houston are heaped tions on funding for religious institutions.
The program was launched under Bush in in a parking lot. The It failed 55 to 45 percent. “We have a large
2005. More than 90 percent of the grants congregation lost constituency that has never been comfort-
have gone to Jewish buildings. many of its prayer able with” government funding for houses
“Assistance for security is different than books during Hur- of worship, he said.
assistance for some other things,” Diament ricane Harvey and The AJC’s Stern also said that the issue
said, explaining why the grants encoun- replenished them likely is not dead and buried. He noted
tered little resistance. “It’s become a more through donations. that although the FEMA bill has Demo-
pragmatic conversation than an ideologi- COURTESY OF UNITED cratic lead sponsors, it had trouble attract-
ORTHODOX SYNAGOGUES
cal one.” Sen. Barbara Mikulski (D-Md.), ing Democratic co-sponsors in both
who since has retired, was a key backer of chambers. Meng is the only Democrat
the security grant program. She had a siz- constitutional protections: Money could not sponsoring the House bill, and Sen. Claire
Judge not, lest ye be judged.
able Orthodox Jewish constituency in Bal- go to “church pews and Bibles” but to secu- McCaskill of Missouri was the sole Demo-
timore and the Washington suburbs. lar services provided by a house of worship. The conservative majority on the crat on the Senate version.
It looks bad to let houses of worship Supreme Court has persisted since 1971, Jack Moline, a Conservative rabbi who
remain in shambles. It’s not 1952. and it has left its imprint on church-state leads the Interfaith Alliance, a coalition of
“The era when a synagogue is next door Daroff said that much of the Jewish separations. Most recently, last year, faith groups that backs vigorous church-
to a Kmart, where both of them are dam- opposition to church-state partnerships the court ruled 7 to 2 that a church may state separations, said the issues that have
aged by a tornado, and Kmart can have its derived from anxieties about majority receive government funds for secular galvanized separationists in the past would
roof replaced by FEMA emergency funds privilege that long since have subsided. purposes — in that case, repaving a play- continue to engage them. For example,
and a synagogue cannot is anachronistic,” “There was an era when Jews could not ground. Court rulings, Diament noted, houses of worship may come to regret
said William Daroff, now JFNA’s Washing- live in certain neighborhoods, Jewish doc- tend to shape the overall debate by sig- the new policy. “Even though a house of
ton director. ( JFNA’s predecessor, United tors could not practice in certain hospi- naling to partisans what is winnable and worship may think that accepting money
Jewish Communities, also opposed the tals,” he said. “We’ve evolved as a country what is not. He said he did not expect after a flood is an appropriate grant, the
Bush faith-based initiative in 2001.) and we don’t need to be as fearful of gov- a fight on the FEMA law. “To take an government now has a reason to look into
Democrats need religious voters. ernment or of intrusion.” extreme position on that would be at the funding of a house of worship because
Rep. Grace Meng (D-N.Y.), the lead Dem- Abba Cohen, who heads the Washing- odds with Supreme Court’s understand- of federal funds,” he said.
ocratic co-sponsor of the FEMA legislation, ton office of Agudah, the charedi Ortho- ing of the constitution,” he said. Another issue is how the money is used
was brought up as a devout Christian and dox interest group that advocated for for hiring purposes. Would houses of wor-
has a substantial Orthodox constituency in nonprofit security grants and the FEMA It ain’t over til it’s over. ship reject contractors or fire staffers who
her Queens district. Those elements made grants, said hostility toward religion Advocates for church-state separation did not adhere to certain religious beliefs
the legislation a no-brainer, she said. “As is abating. “Society and the courts are acknowledge the gains of those wanting or practices? “Even houses of worship act-
a representative of a diverse and multi- rejecting absolutist policies of the past increased church-state partnerships — but ing with the best of intentions may use the
cultural neighborhood, people needed to that too often evinced a hostility toward they say it may be deceptive, and fleet- money for unconstitutional purposes,”
know their government is there for them religion and religious institutions,” he ing, a side effect of a politically liberal Barkey said.
regardless of their faith,” she said. (Meng’s said in an email. “There is an under- community that is preoccupied battling Diament said he was not letting his
district was hard hit by Superstorm Sandy standing that there is a need for a more so much else associated with the Trump guard down.
in 2012, soon before she assumed office). balanced, more reasoned approach — administration. “In advocacy, you need to be very
“We in the Democratic Party need to do a one that looks to fairness and rejects dis- David Barkey, the Anti-Defamation patient,” he said, contemplating the
better job of reaching out to people in the crimination against religious community League’s religious freedom counsel, said 17-year trajectory from the Bush office to
faith community.” organizations simply because they are popular opposition to eroding church- the FEMA bill. “It can take decades.”
Meng noted that her bill included religious.” state separations persists. He pointed to JTA WIRE SERVICE

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 Passover/Real Estate

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