DDLG: The Definitive

Guide To Daddy Dom /

Little Girl Relationships
Dainis Graveris • January 28, 2019

So what the hell is DDLG? What Is The

Meaning and Definition of DD/LG?
DD/LG is an acronym for Daddy Dom / Little Girl.
DDLG in it's core is a kinky age-play/role-play between two
consenting adults and is a close cousin to BDSM - Dominant &
Submissive relationships.
DDLG has NOTHING to do with incest, it's a play between
two CONSENTINGADULTS.
Play. Consent. Adults.

DDLG has a lot of different shades from the most hardcore to the
most vanilla.

Daddy Dom takes the role of the caregiver, the one who
dominates and disciplines the little.
Little Girl takes the role of the child-like, sweet girl and regresses
in the age. The age can vary from baby who wears the diapers or
a young teenage girl.
Little Girl is a submissive, she takes a role of silly, bratty girl, who
likes to cuddle, play with toys, follow the rules, break them, be
punished and so on. (though it can also work other way around
with dominatrix).
She gives the control to Daddy and trusts he will do what’s best
for her.

DDLG play doesn’t need to be sexual, but oftentimes it does

create an extra excitement and arousal, which leads to more
passionate sex.
Wink, wink.

The age-play usually has set times for it, and people refer to it as
“Little Space”.
Little space serves as a temporary escape from day-to-day adult
responsibilities, stress and boredom.

Plus, it's fun!

It adds variety and color to relationships!

Little space is romantic, safe & caring place.

The easiest way to enter the Little Space / DDLG play is by

designing specific scenes, wearing special outfits that clearly
indicate the start and the end of the play.

Usually Little is the one with special accessories like she is

ordered to wear an adult diaper, use pacifier, sippy cup, onesie,
cute pyjamas and go around with a teddy-bear.

Some DDLG scene examples could be:

 being bathed & dressed up,
 using a coloring book, having a tea-party with stuffies
 being ordered to go to sleep early and daddy reads a fairy-tale
DDLG can also include disciplinary actions like punishments and
chores.

Sometimes Little’s mood changes quickly and she can be

indecisive, bratty or moody.

Because of that she needs to be taught discipline and be

punished.

Common punishments could be:

 standing in the corner
 holding soap in he mouth for swearing
 being ordered to write 50 times the same line: “I will obey my
Daddy and will be a good little girl."
 spanking, paddling, flogging
Now, when you got the quick definition...

There's a lot more to know. I've created this guide to be the ONLY
RESOURCE you need for DDLG!
What can help is also if you and your partner take this BDSM test to
find out your sexual archetype.
It will help with understanding each others sexual needs.

Jump around using table of contents to your most interesting

sections, or if you really wanna become a DDLG pro overnight,
just put aside 15 minutes to read the whole thing!

Or...if you are in rush, grab this map to serve as a handy cheat-
sheet when you're uncertain how to act (for both Daddy Dom &
Little Girl):

Bonus: Download a free Daddy Dom & Little Girl

characteristics map and discover the qualities of a Good Daddy &
Good Girl.

If you don't know how good daddy dom & little girl roles should
look like, this map will help!

Get The DDLG Role Map

Quick Navigation
So what the hell is DDLG? What Is The Meaning and Definition of DD/LG?
The REAL Introduction To DDLG
Related DDLG Acronyms and Definitions You Should Know:
Why Do We Do That Voodoo — W hy Does DDLG & BDSM Turn Me on?
The Step-by-Step Formula For Playing DDLG:
#1 - DDLG Rules: Communication & Agreement
DDLG Rules & Protocol
Daddy Dom responsibilities
Little Girl Responsibilities
DDLG Punishments, Discipline and Humiliation
#2 - Little Space: How To Enter DDLG Scene Play?
How To Design Your Own Little Space: The Scene Elements
A Massive List of DDLG Little Space Activities:
#3 - DDLG Aftercare & Debrief
The Best DDLG communities & Forums
DDLG Quizzes, BDSM and Sex tests
DDLG Shop: Outfits, Accessories, Lingerie & Diapers
Cute DDLG Outfits, Pajamas & Onesies
DDLG Sexy Lingerie & Cute Underwear
ABDL & DDLG Play Diapers, Pull-ups & Training Pants
DDLG Accessories, Collars, Pacifiers, Stockings
The REAL Introduction To DDLG
I've been there.

You keep hearing about DDLG everywhere, but besides a plain

definition of what DDLG is it's virtually impossible to find step-by-
step guide anywhere!

How do I play DDLG?

What is it really?

Is it a kink?

Is it BDSM?
Is it romantic? Is it sexual?
It's sooooo confusing, isn't it?

Plus, some people get confused it with BDSM taboo stuff or even
incest...

On that thought... watch this video to understand:

What is NOT DDLG!?!

Hope that sheds some light finally! (Binkie Princess is the most
popular DDLG channel on Youtube).

...

Anyhoo...

So you want to spice up your relationship and may hope maybe

DDLG will make your love life kinkier, more passionate and bring
you closer together.
Plain, old vanilla sex just doesn't pack the punch it did, doesn't it?

(btw...an easy way to add variety is by trying out new sex

toys together
Well...

You're in the right place!

I've been there.

Before I went into DDLG, learning more about sex and BDSM, my
sexual relationships with my girl was going downturn.

Yes, we had sweetness and cuddliness, but we missed

the passion and varietyin our love life. Until DDLG.
DDLG has 50 shades of it so you can really adjust it to your needs
and create your own shade.

Those shades are also the main reason why it's so so tough to
understand the Daddy Dom, Little Girl play.

Some call it in BDSM context, some play it in entirely romantic

sense.

If you check BDSM books, some authors list over 8 different types
of Daddy Doms.

For the purpose of simplicity, I separate DDLG in 3 shades:

 Vanilla: It’s where you don’t involve any sexuality in the
roleplay, but just stick to the Caregiver and Little relationship.
 Kinky: It’s where you play out Daddy / His Little Princess
fantasy. Daddy takes care of his little princess, but sometimes
Princess is a little brat and then she requires some punishment
which leads to fun erotic foreplay.
 Hardcore (BDSM): Master/Slave play. Master/Mistress take
complete control over the life of his slave, responsibilities and
decisions. It’s the most hardcore power play, that can add
incredible novelty in your life. But the basis are the same - it's
all about polarity - Dominant & Submissive energies.

Related DDLG Acronyms and Definitions

You Should Know:
ABDL — Adult Baby / Diaper Lover
ABDL is a close cousin to DDLG.

It’s super popular, because nothing puts one in a helpless baby

state as an adult diaper.

The dynamic is the same as DDLG, just ABDL play always start
when the diaper is being worn.

It’s like a diaper little space serving as clear beginning and clear
end.

Example: Daddy orders Little to put on her pull-up for the night
and the rest of the evening. This indicates that Daddy is ready to
play and feels like Little needs some care from him.
CGL — Caregiver / Little
CGL means the same as DDLG.

Caregiver is someone who takes a dominant role - daddy dom or

dominatrix (mommy domme).

Little is the one who regresses in age and plays a role of a little
submissive child ( can be male/female).

Little Space is the term used to describe the mindset that Little
enters when she thinks and acts younger than she is. It can
involve both Daddy Dom and Little Girl, but it can also include just
the Little. “Entering the little space” means slipping into the child-
like mindset.
For example, Little can just say, “I’m going to my little space. I’ll
go draw, color the book or organise a tea party with my stuffies.”
If both Daddy Dom and Little play it, then it would involve Daddy
Dom taking care of Little, ordering her to do some chores, but
mostly it’s about taking care of his Little.

The main appeal to DDLG is how usually women have so many

responsibilities during the day, that they need this little space to
escape from the stress and responsibilities. Being a silly, sweet
little girl does this job splendidly.

Daddy Dom — this term is used both in BDSM and DDLG

community. Daddy Dom is someone who takes the dominant role
over the Little girl. Dom both dominates and disciplines the Little.
Discipline includes giving punishments and treats.

Little — little is someone who likes to pretend to be younger than

she is. When Little is in the role/headspace she is at her most
submissive, vulnerable and sometimes bratty mood. The Little
age usually is around 2-8 years old. It’s a fun way for littles to
escape the responsible reality and relieve stress.
BDSM Switch — switch is a term used for person who likes to
switch the roles. He’s sometimes dominant, sometimes
submissive and has fun in both roles. They are like sex
chameleons
As you may have guessed there can be other combinations
though in this article I focus on Daddy Dom as male and Little Girl
- as female:

 MDLB - Mommy Dom / Little Boy (dominatrix...femdom)

 MDLG - Mommy Dom / Little Girl
 DDLB - Daddy Dom / Little Boy

Note: For simplicity reasons in article I'll say Daddy Dom, but it
can also mean Mommy Domme. Same way I'll say Little Girl, but it
can also mean Little Boy.

D&S — Dominance & Submission, dom & sub

You’ll hear these terms the most in BDSM community.

D&S are DS letters from BDSM.

But even more often the dominant is called - DOM for short and
Submissive is called - SUB for short.
Oh, and I should mention also: Top and Bottom, which some
people use.
Top is Dominant.

Bottom is Submissive.
Dominance and Submission may include ageplay, but it’s more
general term to indicate how one person takes Dominant role and
other obeys.

The reason why Dom & Sub play is so popular is because for
passionate love life you MUST have polarity.

You need a clear leader and a clear follower. It’s the basis of
sexuality - most woman are attracted to alpha males and most
men are attracted to submissive women they can care for and
ravage.

Daddy Dom needs a woman he can dominate, the same woman

needs someone with whom she will be able to let go, especially
sexually.

There is all this talk about man/woman equality, but when it

comes to sex life. Equality is boring, polarity is a must for amazing
sex.

And sex is the cornerstone of good relationship. Even if you’re

super sweet and supportive in day-to-day - in the bedroom you
both need polarity..!

Master / Slave — This is not really part of DDLG, but I wanted to

mention it so you get the full picture. This is the most hardcore
roleplay where Master takes completely ownership of his Slave.
They are also called Gorean (slave master) and Kajira (a slave
girl). This is where you have collars, collar ceremony, training,
consensual contract between each other.
It’s also where you involve with bondage, impact play, humiliation,
degradation in the play.
Why Do We Do That Voodoo — Why Does
DDLG & BDSM Turn Me on?
If you’ve enjoyed spanking, punishments and role-plays, you may
wonder and feel guilty that such taboo things turn you on.

First of all, we suffer from years of conditioning, where

Church/Society says that sex is bad and shameful act. Which is
exactly why it’s so appealing.

We like tasting the forbidden fruit.

On other side, we crave variety. If you’ve had sex with the same
partner the same way for years, you’ll eventually get less and less
interested in sexual intercourse.
Prostate milking anyone?
Kinks, BDSM, DDLG are answer to this.
When you introduce new plays, new sensations, new accessories,
new places or even new partners to your sex life - it comes back
to life!

You could also try public sex, tantric sex, vibrating panties in
public...etc.
And I always say that sex toys are the easiest way to add to
variety.
Plus, exploring deeper realms of sexual play increases intimacy
and connection.

For example, pain can bond you like nothing else.

Let’s say you are playing DDLG, you’re a little girl, you did
something that’s bad for you and your Daddy Dom knows it.

He decides to punish you and bends you over the knee.

It’s a painful ritual that drives the message. It will release the
emotions that you have been suppressing - you may cry.

Afterwards when Daddy Dom cuddles you in the aftercare, you’ll

both feel more connected than ever.

Plus, pain and pleasure is a magical combination.

Have you ever experienced runner’s high or felt an incredible
moment of happiness?

While there are many ways to sexual bliss, people practice kink in
order to get that natural high.

Kinks are great to shut of your mind, release shame, and

experience a heightened sense of pleasure.

The DDLG play is so popular because it creates POLARITY.

We need someone to take control and someone to submit. We
need masculine (active) and feminine (receptive) to achieve
sexual balance.

When that balance is not met, passion dies and often people seek
their needs outside of the relationship or they just settle unhappy
with porn… or erotica.

Supporting Little in DDLG play is easy, and as for Daddy Dom -

naturally extra polarity does well for relationships.

I cann’t imagine any girl not appreciating Daddy taking care of

her.

Me and my girl we discovered we played elements of DDLG

naturally before knowing what it was!

For example, Nastja sometimes cries from the shower as a little

kitty — “mau…mau…mau…burrito…” — which means she wants
me to take towel and dry her up
At other time when I brought her a toothbrush to clean her teeth,
she opened her mouth and said — “please…could you do it for
me..?”
And so I did… and it was tons of fun ;D

It's a super sweet and funny play.

Those little things add variety in relationships and are the little
moments that you will come to cherish.

So don't be surprised to find out that you have been playing some
kind of DDLG already!

But now…

If you want, you can take it to the whooooole new level! Just
keep readin'!
Oh and make sure you grab this Quick Start DDLG role map I
made for you:

Bonus: Download a free Daddy Dom & Little Girl

characteristics map and discover the qualities of a Good Daddy &
Good Girl.

If you don't know how good daddy dom & little girl roles should
look like, this map will help!

Get The DDLG Role Map

OK, you’ve had an initial talk - what’s next?

The Step-by-Step Formula For Playing

DDLG:
 #1 - DDLG Rules: Communication & Agreement
 #2 - Little Space: How To Enter DDLG Scene Play?
 #3 - DDLG Aftercare & Debrief
There are the core elements that you should include in your
DDLG play.
Let’s get to each part one by one:
#1 - DDLG Rules: Communication &
Agreement
This is where you negotiate and discuss how you want your play
to look like. Its the most crucial step, let me give you some ideas.

 Define your age-play

 Define rules, rewards, punishment
 Define limits, safe words
 Define the Little Girl role
 Define the Daddy Dom role
 Talk about the scenes, accessories & outfits you would like to
have
Defining How DDLG Will Look In Your Relationships
It’s important to create your own definition for your DDLG play,
that will explain what you’ll do in the Little Space and how The
Little role will look like.

It could be something simple as:

“DDLG is something we play from time to time, where Little takes

a role of bratty 6-year old little girl and Daddy becomes a
caregiver, who gives assignments to Little, and can punish Little if
she misbehaves."
Good introductory questions to ask are (mostly to Littles):
 How would Daddy and Little express romantic affection? Would
you keep it as a caring play, include romance, or you mix it with
sexual?
 How often would you like to play DDLG?
 Do you want to go all in the play or you would just prefer to play
out elements of it like sucking on a pacifier or just wearing age
play clothes?
 Do you want to play DDLG in public, where people might
overhear or see you? Would it be embarrassing?
 Is there some special setting that makes enter Little Space?
 Do you enjoy when something unexpectedly makes you feel
Little? Can it be re-created intentionally?
 When in little space how will you behave yourself?
 As little are you bratty, helpful, moody, shy?
 As a Little do you feel submissive to your Daddy Dom?
 Do you have a Little personality different from your everyday
self? If so, what are the differences? (same for Daddy Dom)
 What clothing you would like to wear in the little space? (special
panties, onesies, diapers)
 Would you be able to do DDLG play without these clothes?
 List 3 characteristics of the ideal Daddy Dom for your Little
 Would you want to use diapering toiletries like baby powder,
baby oil, diaper rash cream..?

DDLG Rules & Protocol

There are so many incredible opportunities for setting up rules

and protocol in DDLG ageplay.

Littles’ lives are often defined by limitations, which are fun to

break and be punished for.

You can set rules for Little Girl only or maybe Daddy Dom needs
to comply with some of them too, up to you.

First of all, decide how you’ll address each other:

Name Ideas for Little Girl: Princess / Bunny / Darling / Cutie /
Kitty / Baby Girl / Angel / Boo / Sweet Love
Name ideas for Daddy Dom: Daddy / Dada / Master / Papi / Sir /
Mr. Bear / Mr. Leather / Lord
Here are some example rules you might wanna borrow:
 Bedtime is 10.00 PM and when Daddy tells it’s time for bed,
you must comply.
 Address Daddy Dom only as Daddy / Mr. Bear etc.
 Eat with cute plastic dishes and utensils.
 Always be well mannered like “Thank you” and “Please”.
 When you Daddy comes home, greet him with a hug, kiss and
a colored picture
 Hold hands with your Daddy when crossing street together.
 Tell Daddy what’s wrong when you feel upset about something.
 When you are with Daddy don’t tie your own shoes or put your
own seatbelt. And him to do it.
 No drinking or smoking.
 No swearing, no talking back to your Daddy
 Only sit in the backseat of the car.
 Only take bubble baths, no showers
 Sleep with Teddy Bear stuffie.
 Suck on your paci whenever using computer or watching TV.
 Wear diapers to bed.
If rules are too hard to remember you can also create a simple
mantra that you refer to when not knowing how to act.
 Create a Simple Mantra Rule
 "Daddy knows best."
 "Sugar & spice & everything nice. That’s what I’m made of."
Daddy Dom can also simply create a one rule that Little Girl must
obey for the day, like “You may only eat veggies and fruits today.”
If you would like to bring this further, you could create a contract
like Christian did in 50 Shades of Grey.

BDSM contracts are popular in that community to agree exactly

how relationships will work.

Another idea you could take from BDSM community is collaring

ceremony. Many DDLG fans like to wear cute collars which indicate
the play and submission to their masters.
You could also sign a Certificate of Adoption to make it
official Kids use it to adopt pets or their stuffies… you can use
this to adopt your little
Daddy Dom responsibilities

Daddy Dom agrees to take care for the Little and commits to treat
Little accordingly — teach, reward, punish and nurture.
Daddy Dom makes his desires and commands clear at all times.
He disciplines the Little Girl only out of the desire to better her, but
never out of anger or frustration.

Things Daddy Dom Could Say During The Play:

 "Because I said so"
 When Little let a curse word slip out or get too smart with him
and he says, "watch your mouth"
 When Daddy tells Little to do something he'll say, " go be a
good girl and..."
 When Little tests Daddy Dom and he gives Little the stern look
and says"daddy doesn't repeat things twice or accept smart
mouths."
 "That wasn't a suggestion."
 "Wanna say that again?
Little Girl Responsibilities

Little Girl agrees to obey the Daddy’s rules to the best of her
ability.

Little Girl will inform the Daddy of all her desires and perceived
needs recognising that Daddy is the better judge of how and if
these should be satisfied.

Little commits to speak respectfully to the Daddy at all times. Little

agrees to maintain her appearance (clothes, style and hair) in the
juvenile manner during the play.

In regard of treats and screen time, Little gives up all the rights for
her own gratification and passes them up to Daddy Dom.
DDLG Punishments, Discipline and Humiliation

Now we touched the sweet part of DDLG, what about something

kinkier?
Many people who are into age play are into punishment and
humiliation.

Even if these words might sound scary, don't worry. It's not about
actually hurting anyone — it's a play.

The attraction to this kinky side is because they love the feeling of
not being in control (or opposite…love to dominate).

Someone else is calling the shots, and it can be very comforting.

Discipline is how submissive can feel submissive, dominant be

clearly dominant.

Receiving discipline is a great way where she can show her

dominant partner that she trusts and will obey him.

Plus, it can be insanely erotic.

 Good questions to ask Little are:
 Do you enjoy physical discomfort when in Little Space like
spankings, hair-pulling, rough penetration?
 Do you enjoy emotional discomfort like being teased, denied,
scolded or dirty talk?
 Should punishments be non-sexual, sexual or mix of two?
 Would you want to try being punished by other tools like wooden
paddle, belt, flog, whip..?
Safe Word — if you are into punishments, then it’s a very good
idea to establish a safe word. You use safe-word if your partner
goes too far.
One popular safe word is “Mercy”.

But even better is traffic light safe words:

 Green: I’m feeling great, keep going.

 Yellow: I’m on the edge, but keep going
 Red: Stop it.
With these safe words Daddy Dom can ask playfully during rough
punishment — “What color is my Little? Is she doing OK?”.
Little can easily tell how she’s feeling without interrupting the play.

Don’t worry if you don’t get it all right at first.

The first times will be awkward like with everything you do for the
first time.

If you're a bit overwhelmed, I made this quick start DDLG role

map just for you:
 Bonus: Download a free Daddy Dom & Little Girl
characteristics map and discover the qualities of a Good Daddy &
Good Girl.

If you don't know how good daddy dom & little girl roles should
look like, this map will help!

Get The DDLG Role Map

#2 - Little Space: How To Enter DDLG
Scene Play?
Little Space doesn't need to be rigid. It can also just happen
without any scenes, but in this case I'll talk about more deliberate
plays and full-blown DDLG scene plays

There are 3 ways that can help enter into Little Space:
1. Through objects, outfits, accessories (example: when in diaper -
that’s the little space)
2. Through immersive roleplay and specific scenes
3. Through hypnosis or guided meditation
#4 - It happens naturally, there are no set scenes, Little just
naturally enters the Little space and it just happens. This is the
best way, but may not happen initially.

Think of what kind of scenes you would like to experience.

Usually the easiest way to enter the little space is through some
activity - like bathing, doing the chore, watching a cartoon and
then putting on the outfit o a diaper for example.

Other objects could be: blankie, sippy cup, baby key chain toy,
onesies, pacifiers, school uniform.
 But not to worry, at the end of the article there is the whole
section on DDLG accessories and outfits

Few popular scenes for little space are: dressing/undressing and

bath, feeding, doing chores, coloring the book, making tea party
with stuffies.

And here are some Little Space related questions to ask:

 Do you want Daddy Dom to make all decisions for Little when in
Little Space?
 Are there certain places that make you feel like a Little Girl?
 Is there something that might pull you out of Little Space? Like
making decisions? (a good trick for this... answer from Little
space: shuffle your feed, look at your toes and mumble, “I don’t
know.”)
 What are the things you would like to do during the little space?
 Do you have imaginary friends? Are you friends with your
stuffed animals and toys?
 Does your Little self have chores? Homework? If so, do you
have a good attitude about it?
 Do you enjoy using DDLG to motivate you to do boring work
like paying bills and having a reward for it?
How To Design Your Own Little Space: The Scene Elements
DDLG play will work better if you take the time to set the mood.

Make use of all five senses:

1. Sight — get your stuffies out, cover the place with pink
blankets, arrange your toys. Put on cute clothes.
2. Sound — put on some sweet, silly music. Youtube has plenty to
pick from, Disney Medley will def remind you of your childhood!
3. Smell — get candles or room sprays that smell of chocolate,
vanilla, cinnamon buns.. or burn some incense.
4. Touch — diapers, cuddly teddy bear or a baby blanket really
can put you in the little space mood
5. Taste — this is where adult pacifier comes into play… or get a
candy that you associate with childhood.
So what are some activities you might play during your
DDLG play?
I included everything starting from most innocent to kinky and
sexual
A Massive List of DDLG Little Space Activities:

Cook Some Cookies — Create a play around making sweets

and decorate them. I know my ex-girlfriend had a fun Christmas
cookie baking session with her friend every year. I didn’t know at
the time, but that does sound quite a bit like fun little space!
Take a Bubbly Bath — make super bubble bath, get the bubble
blower, floating rubber ducky and you might consider getting a
cute scrub.
If you can top it off with a girly tower, you’re golden!

Pigtail Making & Hairbrushing — this is a great act to do right

after a bath. Brushing the hair is very intimate and feels very
special. If Daddy knows how to make pigtails, even more fun! But
you can always teach him!
Play Battles — this can be super fun for both Daddy Dom and
Little girl. Though be warned, it might put Daddy in little space too
- water guns, nerf funs, plastic swords. Plus, you can always end
up the battle by using a foam sword as a handy spanking tool.
Oh and don’t forget about tickling. If you go for actual wrestling
and intense tickling, don’t forget to negotiate it upfront and keep in
mind the safe word. Me as a Daddy Dom I always get too carried
away in wrestling that I don’t notice I had pushed the limits.
Be Dressed By Daddy Dom— nothing makes Little feel more
helpless and little than being dressed. Having panties or diaper
pulled up, shoes tied is a great trigger for Little space. Plus, Little
can always have fun by untying her shoes and asking Daddy to fix
it. Putting sippy cup on Daddy’s head then is icing on the
cake
Play Board Games — remember, how much you loved playing
them in childhood? Pick something simple with coloful design.
Plus, you can always find a kinky board games or kinkify them
yourself.
Create Something — sew something, make paper crafts or just
draw your Daddy and your family? If you’re not into drawing, just
use a coloring book. Plus, you can always explore fingerpainting,
body paint, sidewalk chalk etc.
Watch Cartoons — it’s probably been years since you last
watched Lion King? What about Cartoon Network? Top it off with
some snacks, pink blankie and Little space is there!
Dressing Up — this is probably the easiest one. Getting a cute
onesie, or sexy sweet outfit will create scenes naturally. If you
both dress-up it will make for immersive roleplay and will be tons
of fun.
Play Outside — If you are adventurous you can go to kids
playground, go to beach for sand castle building or even going to
movies, parks from little space can be tons of fun.
Pet Play — Little Girl becomes a cute little pet or maybe Daddy
becomes a pony. If you wanna take it further, you can even find
saddle for your pony. There is also a whole BDSM furry
community that you can explore if you like this kind of play
Read a Bedtime Story — you don’t necessary need to have a
fairytale book, any fiction book will do well.

Take Little To The Shopping Spree — this could be a reward or

punishment. You can agree on budget upfront and go either for
sweet stuffie shopping, lingerie shopping. It can be punishment
when Daddy goes shopping, but doesn’t get anything for little.
And you will never know for sure which one it will be upfront!
Play with Dolls, Stuffies — it could be a tea ceremony or just
whatever your imagination allows!
Swimming — Swimming allows the aspect of being carried over
water and you always can just play with the ball.
Finally, there is a huge variety of BDSM dark age play activities,
that you can do to push the limits.

Like rope bondage, deepthroating, nipple clamps, cock cages (if the
woman is dominating one) … fisting… etc.
 Daddy Dom: "You're MINE."

But that’s out of the scope of this article…!

If you’re starting out then make sure you at least try some
spanking and bondage with silk tie… and play with it at least a
little bit!

But you should already have more than enough ideas to try DDLG
in your relationships
#3 - DDLG Aftercare & Debrief
Lastly I wanted to discuss aftercare (like you would do after
squirting experience) which is the BDSM term for taking emotional
and physical care over your partner after the scene is completed.
Aftercare’s purpose is to help you and your partner to recover
after an intense BDSM play or sex session.

If your DDLG play is fun or relaxing, you might not see the point in
aftercare, but still I would really recommend you look at DDLG
play as 3 stages: - agreement, little space play, aftercare.

In BDSM you would separate aftercare and debrief, but in DDLG

you can easily blend both.

Aftercare is useful because it helps you both get back into the real
world and a special ritual for ending the play can make the whole
play far more satisfying.

Instead of being upset that the play is over you will be still looking
forward to your aftercare.

Cuddling is a popular way to finish aftercare, but it’s sweet so it

doesn’t really interrupt the DDLG play.

It’s better to do something adult, that eases you back to the real-
life - like have a cup of tea, change to adult clothes and have a
conversation.

Now, time for…

DDLG Debrief
It’s always important to discuss what did you like, didn’t like, what
can be improved about your play so your next time would get
even better and more enjoyable.

Debrief is especially important if you tried something new like

intense punishing so you would know if that’s something that you
both want to go further with.

Debrief is a great time for this because you’re not yet back in your
logical mind space, your mood is elevated and memories fresh.

Just make sure there is a clear conclusion to play - like say, thank
you, hug your partner.

And now, if you’ve done all that — I crown you DDLG

master!
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The Best DDLG Communities & Forums

When I started with DDLG it was a little confusing — there's not
much information about it and I needed to piece information
together the hard way.

Over time I found several incredible communities, where you can

talk to like-minded people, ask questions and find some cool
quotes, outfit ideas..etc.

Once you join these communities you're really feel like you
belong!
First of all, the best communities, the best managed seemed to be
on Reddit.

Overall for any intelligent sexual conversations, Reddit is hands

down the best place to go. (here are more sex discussion
Subreddits).
For example /r/sex has 1.1m subscribers.
But we are here for DDLG communities so let me share my top
#5:

Word of Warning: Just know that most of the SubReddits are

NSFW (but super cute)

#7 - DDLG Memes (25,000 likes)

There are lots of Facebook pages and groups for DDLG, though
FB slowly bans them as they don't support sexual content there.

You can find the cutest pages to funny sexual meme ones. But
overall DDLG quotes and memes is a great source of ideas to do
or things to say in DDLG play

#6 - DDLG Friends Community & Social Network

If you are looking to find littles or Daddy's to play together with
DDLG Friends is a great friendly place to find likeminded
individuals!

Quickly after registering I was easily able to meet some cool

people! Check it out!

#5 — DDLG Confess Subreddit (7.1K members)

This is a place for daddy’s and littles to vent and give advice
about any and all problems.

In my opinion the best community if you're looking for a discussion

and get your questions answered.

#4 — DDLG SubReddit (15.5K members)

An 18+ subreddit dedicated to those in the DD/lg (Daddy
Dom/little girl BDSM dynamic) community.

Caregivers, littles, switches, and anyone curious are welcome

here to share pictures, videos, start discussions and make
friends!

#3 — Age Playing Subreddit (20.8K members)

A subreddit dedicate to age play roleplaying ala DD/LG: Daddy
Dom, Little Girl or Big Brother, Little Sister, etc.

#2 — DDLG Forum (44K members)

This is the biggest non-Reddit related forum about DDLG.

The most active sections are:

 Little Space — a safe space for all littles to communicate and

interact
 Personals — a place to find your perfect someone if you don't
have one
 DDLG discussion — a place to talk about DDlg and related
topics
#1 — Little Space Subreddit (30.6K members)

A place for littles, middles, caregivers, and anyone interested in

CGL, DDLG, or ABDL dynamics and lifestyles.

The biggest DDLG community online (not including BDSM…)

DDLG Quizzes, BDSM and Sex tests

Quizzes and tests are great to learn more about yourself and can
give you pointers that you wouldn't have thought of otherwise.

Here are 3 tests I would recommend.

#1 - Discover Your Sexual Archetype Test
This test will help you learn your natural sexual preferences and
ways you get aroused or turned off.

It's extremely helpful to take together with your partner and

discuss and you''ll discover that your relationships will transform
inside and outside of the bedroom!

#2 - Discover Your Emotional Little Girl's Age

This is a great little DDLG quiz to take for littles to help them
figure out what's their perfect little age.

#3 - What kind of Little Girl are you?

This test on other will help Little to understand which Little role fits
them the most Bratty, sweet, princessy?
DDLG Shop: Outfits, Accessories, Lingerie
& Diapers
Cute DDLG Outfits, Pajamas & Onesies

The easiest way to slip in DDLG play is through cute outfits.

I did my best to filter through the fluff and find the best and highest
recommended onesies and outfits available!

From the absolute cuteness to kinky sexiness, outfits can really

spice up your relationships, I can attest to it! Tried and true.

Dinosaur Onesie Pajamas

Unicorn Cute Onesie
$27.99
Outfit - $34.99

Sexy DDLG Outfit (2-pie

Sexy School Girl Outfit (3-piece set) - $28.99
$14.37
 Dinosaur Onesie Pajamas
Unicorn Cute Onesie
$27.99
Outfit - $34.99

DDLG Cute Onesie Outfit DDLG Pink Princess One

$34.99 $39.99

Cute DDLG Onesie Outf

ABDL Onesie Pajamas Outfit - $30.90
$34.99
 Dinosaur Onesie Pajamas
Unicorn Cute Onesie
$27.99
Outfit - $34.99

Daddy's Little Girl Onesi

DDLG Onesie Pajamas - $25.80
$39.99
 Dinosaur Onesie Pajamas
Unicorn Cute Onesie
$27.99
Outfit - $34.99

ABDL Gamer Adult One

$32.80

DDLG Frilly Onesie - $34.99

DDLG Sexy Lingerie & Cute Underwear

Now, what could be a better surprise to your Daddy then sexy,

kinky underwear that suddenly appears out of nowhere?
Give these as a gift to your Little Girl and she'll be eternally
grateful! Plus, the best thing with lingerie - both Daddy and Little
can really enjoy them!

Sexy DDLG Underwear Panties -

Daddy Sexy Short Top - $4.99 DDLG Cute Lingerie Top - $3.3
$2.98

DDLG Sexy Thong Bunny Tail - DDLG Japanese Style Panties - DDLG Japanese Sexy Outfit -
$14.99 $11.99 $19.99

DDLG Cute Japanese Panties -

Sexy Pink Panties - $7.99 Cute & Sexy Lingerie Set - $18.9
$10.90
 Sexy DDLG Underwear Panties -
Daddy Sexy Short Top - $4.99 DDLG Cute Lingerie Top - $3.3
$2.98

DDLG Lingerie Kitten Set (5- DDLG Japanese Sexy Outfit (3- DDLG Kawaii Japanese Style
piece) - $19.99 piece) - $24.99 Panties - $17.99

ABDL & DDLG Play Diapers, Pull-ups & Training Pants

Why diapers are so popular between DDLG and ABDL players?

Because there is nothing quite humiliating and baby-like than
wearing a diaper.

The polarity is clear. When one is wearing diaper, she's a Little -

no question about it. You can pick between one-time diapers and
reusable pull-ups and training pants..!

Up to you! However if you're starting out, just get a pair of diapers

and if you like to play
 Princess Adult Diapers (2-piece) - Safari Adult Diapers (2-piece) - Baby Elephant Adult Diapers (1
$12.99 $12.99 piece) - $33.24

Pink Nursery Design Adult Diapers Lil-Monster Adult Training Pants Princess Pink Adult Training
(10-piece - $33.24 - $29.99 Pants - $29.99

DDLG Safari Adult Training Pants Adult Inserts for Cloth Diapers (3- Adult Reusable Cloth Diaper -
- $29.99 piece) - $19.99 $25.98

DDLG Accessories, Collars, Pacifiers, Stockings

Now, finally this is the holy grail of misc accessories starting from
cute pacis to kinky furry tail butt plugs!
I told you, you can explore all 3 depths of DDLG play and maybe,
just maybe this could be your introduction to BDSM as well!

This play is super fun and if you give it a chance, you'll never will
need to complain about your sex life and relationships going
stagnant!

DDLG Cute Long Socks (2-pairs) DDLG Black Adult Sized Pacifier - Long Striped Socks / Stockings (
- $16.99 $7.92 pair) - $9.99

Cute DDLG Adult Pacis (2-piece) DDLG Leather Collar (4-pieces) - DDLG Sexy Lady Stockings -
- $24.99 $12.99 $18.55

Intimate DDLG Collar Necklace - Handmade Furry DDLG Heart DDLG Pink Collar Necklace -
$16.99 Collar - $27.99 $12.99
DDLG Cute Long Socks (2-pairs) DDLG Black Adult Sized Pacifier - Long Striped Socks / Stockings (
- $16.99 $7.92 pair) - $9.99

Hand-Made Lock Leather Collar - Daddy Dom DDLG Leather Pink DDLG Pink Collar with Leash
$29.00 Collar - $16.90 $12.92

Baby Puzzle Play Mat With Fence DDLG Adult Bib (2-piece) - Stuffed Teddy Bear (11-inch) -
- $72.99 $12.99 $10,99
DDLG Cute Long Socks (2-pairs) DDLG Black Adult Sized Pacifier - Long Striped Socks / Stockings (
- $16.99 $7.92 pair) - $9.99

Pink Diamond Anal Butt Plug (3-

Furry Tail Butt Plug - $11.99 Pink Leather Hand-Cuffs - $9.9
piece) - $19.99

Adult Coloring Book For Quality Bamboo Spanking Paddle - Daddy Dom & Little Girl
Relaxation - $6.99 $23.96 Keychain - $16.89

Bringing It All Together

Well, that's it folks! Hope this guide skyrocketed your knowledge
in DDLG and you have the necessary tools to try it out!

If you benefited from this article, please share it around!

Oh...and if something is missing or unclear leave a comment
down below! I'll be more than happy to help, assist and support
you!

For further reading check out one of these guides:

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 Take This Scientifically Designed BDSM Kink Test & Discover Your
Dominant Sexual Archetype! (It will help to understand your
partner better).
 Public Sex 101: How To Have Ethical Sex In Public & Not Get
Caught
 Sensual, Romantic Sex: The Secrets To Passionate Love Making
 Rough Sex 101: How To Have Dirty & Passionate Sex That Women
Love
 Tantric Sex 101: What It Is & The Best Tantric Love Techniques
 Sensual Massage 101: How To Give An Erotic, Sexy Massage To Her
 How To Talk Dirty & Sexy To Build Irresistible Sexual Tension
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articles I've published for your convenience.
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Cheerio

See you in DDLG playground somewhere!

- Dainis "Sexual Alpha" Graveris